u/BolusBarry

Obligatory ​I am not here to change my situation or yours, but I am looking for a discreet and low-pressure way to find that mental spark that sometimes gets lost in the daily grind.

I am 32, a dad, and I spend my days in a corporate role, so I really value having a separate space for genuine conversation and banter. I take a lot of pride in my health and appearance, staying active through a mix of running and lifting weights, and I’m looking for someone who shares that same level of self care and discipline. When I’m not working or training, I love to cook and bake. I’ve spent a lot of time perfecting my craft and can honestly say I make the best pizza you’ve ever had.

Aside from that, I’m a big sports fan and I’m currently challenging myself by learning a second language. I am looking for a real connection with someone who is easy to talk to and enjoys a consistent chat. If you think we’d click, I’d love to hear from you. To make sure you actually read through this, tell me what your favourite pizza topping is so I know you read my post.

I'd love it if you're in the same time zone but I am willing to make it work for the right person!

Obligatory ​I am not here to change my situation or yours, but I am looking for a discreet and low-pressure way to find that mental spark that sometimes gets lost in the daily grind.

I am 32, a dad, and I spend my days in a corporate role, so I really value having a separate space for genuine conversation and banter. I take a lot of pride in my health and appearance, staying active through a mix of running and lifting weights, and I’m looking for someone who shares that same level of self care and discipline. When I’m not working or training, I love to cook and bake. I’ve spent a lot of time perfecting my craft and can honestly say I make the best pizza you’ve ever had.

Aside from that, I’m a big sports fan and I’m currently challenging myself by learning a second language. I am looking for a real connection with someone who is easy to talk to and enjoys a consistent chat. If you think we’d click, I’d love to hear from you. To make sure you actually read through this, tell me what your favourite pizza topping is so I know you read my post.

I'd love it if you're in the same time zone but I am willing to make it work for the right person!

32m and working in the CBD. I’m 6’3 and stay active with plenty of running and lifting. Life is a bit of a juggle with a family and a busy career but I’m looking to meet someone who gets that balance.

​I’m fairly open to how this looks and just want to see if there’s a genuine connection. I value staying fit so I’m looking for a woman who is in a similar headspace.

​Happy to see where things go. If you’re down for something low pressure and a real conversation reach out.

I’m 32, married with kids, and work in a high stress corporate role in the CBD. I’m 6’3”, conventionally attractive, lean, and keep active with regular running and lifting. I'd consider myself funny and relatively sharp. If it matters as well, I am white.

I’m looking for something very specific. I’ve had success with this in the past, but unfortunately life had different plans for us, so I’m back looking for a genuine, long-term connection.

What I’m looking for:

\- A woman, 25–40.

\- Someone who looks after themselves and is fit. Physical chemistry is as important as the emotional chemistry to me.

\- Kids are a plus, but not a requirement.

I’m looking for a slow burn and a real vibe. Someone I can actually connect with while navigating life’s challenges. For the right person, I’m happy to catch up for coffee dates in the city if we're in the same location. I have good availability but I need an understanding from both parties that family and career comes first.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in knowing more about, send me a message.

I’m 32, married with kids, and work in a high stress corporate role in the CBD. I’m 6’3”, conventionally attractive, lean, and keep active with regular running and lifting. I'd consider myself funny and relatively sharp. If it matters as well, I am white.

I’m looking for something very specific. I’ve had success with this in the past, but unfortunately life had different plans for us, so I’m back looking for a genuine, long-term connection.

What I’m looking for:

- A woman, 25–40.

- Someone who looks after themselves and is fit. Physical chemistry is as important as the emotional chemistry to me.

- Kids are a plus, but not a requirement.

I’m looking for a slow burn and a real vibe. Someone I can actually connect with while navigating life’s challenges. For the right person, I’m happy to catch up for coffee dates in the city if we're in the same location. I have good availability but I need an understanding from both parties that family and career comes first.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in knowing more about, send me a message.

Full disclosure: I’ve recently dealt with a catfish, so I’m being extra careful with how I verify connections now. Apologies if I seem a bit guarded initially, I'm just trying to be smarter moving forward.

I’m 32, married with kids, and work in a high stress corporate role in the CBD. I’m 6’3”, conventionally attractive, lean, and keep active with regular running and lifting. I'd consider myself funny and relatively sharp. If it matters as well, I am white.

I’m looking for something very specific. I’ve had success with this in the past, but unfortunately life had different plans for us, so I’m back looking for a genuine, long-term connection.

What I’m looking for:

* A woman, 25–40, who also works in the corporate world. Being able to relate and talk about our day is important to me.

* Someone who looks after themselves and is fit. Physical chemistry is as important as the emotional chemistry to me.

* Married is a must. Kids are a plus, but not a requirement.

I’m looking for a slow burn and a real vibe. Someone I can actually connect with while navigating life’s challenges. For the right person, I’m happy to catch up for coffee dates in the city if we're in the same location. I have good availability but I need an understanding from both parties that family and career comes first.

Bonus point if you’re a runner as I'd love to make you a part of my lunch time run, and I know some great routes for running.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in knowing more about, send me a message.

Full disclosure: I’ve recently dealt with a catfish, so I’m being extra careful with how I verify connections now. Apologies if I seem a bit guarded initially, I'm just trying to be smarter moving forward.

I’m 32, married with kids, and work in a high stress corporate role in the CBD. I’m 6’3”, conventionally attractive, lean, and keep active with regular running and lifting. I'd consider myself funny and relatively sharp. If it matters as well, I am white.

I’m looking for something very specific. I’ve had success with this in the past, but unfortunately life had different plans for us, so I’m back looking for a genuine, long-term connection.

What I’m looking for:

* A woman, 25–40, who also works in the corporate world. Being able to relate and talk about our day is important to me.

* Someone who looks after themselves and is fit. Physical chemistry is as important as the emotional chemistry to me.

* Married is a must. Kids are a plus, but not a requirement.

I’m looking for a slow burn and a real vibe. Someone I can actually connect with while navigating life’s challenges. For the right person, I’m happy to catch up for coffee dates in the city if we're in the same location. I have good availability but I need an understanding from both parties that family and career comes first.

Bonus point if you’re a runner as I'd love to make you a part of my lunch time run, and I know some great routes for running.

If this sounds like something you'd be interested in knowing more about, send me a message.

Forgot to put my location in the title. Sydney Australia

I’m 32, married with kids, and work in a corporate role in the CBD. I’m 6’3”, lean, and keep active with lifting and running. If it matters, I’m white and have good hygiene.

I’m looking for something very specific. I’ve had success with this in the past, but the person eventually got cold feet, so I’m back looking for a genuine, long-term connection.

What I’m looking for:

* A woman, 25–40, who also works in the corporate world.

* Someone who looks after themselves and is fit. I’ve been told I’m attractive, and if we’re doing this, we may as well be attracted to each other.

* Married is a must. Kids are a plus, but not a requirement.

I’m looking for a slow burn and a real vibe. Someone I can actually connect with while navigating life’s challenges. For the right person, I’m happy to catch up for coffee dates in the city. I have good availability but I need an understanding from both parties that family and career comes first.

Bonus point if you’re a runner and we can find a way to sneak in a run together.

If this resonates with you, send me a chat.

Forgot to put my location in the title. Sydney Australia

I’m 32, married with kids, and work in a corporate role in the CBD. I’m 6’3”, lean, and keep active with lifting and running. If it matters, I’m white and have good hygiene.

I’m looking for something very specific. I’ve had success with this in the past, but the person eventually got cold feet, so I’m back looking for a genuine, long-term connection.

What I’m looking for:

• A woman, 25–40, who also works in the corporate world.
• Someone who looks after themselves and is fit. I’ve been told I’m attractive, and if we’re doing this, we may as well be attracted to each other.
• Married is a must. Kids are a plus, but not a requirement.

I’m looking for a slow burn and a real vibe. Someone I can actually connect with while navigating life’s challenges. For the right person, I’m happy to catch up for coffee dates in the city. I have good availability but I need an understanding from both parties that family and career comes first.

Bonus point if you’re a runner and we can find a way to sneak in a run together.

If this resonates with you, send me a chat.

I’m a 32 yr old married dad in Sydney, navigating the corporate world and looking for a genuine escape from the daily routine.

​I’m 6'3" and keep myself in pretty good shape. I'm either usually training for distance running or staying active on the bike. Because I put in the work to take care of myself, I’m looking for a woman who does the same. I value someone who takes pride in her appearance and appreciates a partner who does the same. I'm not expecting IG influencers, just someone who is cute.

​I’m not looking to rush into anything. I’m a huge fan of the slow burn. I want a connection where we actually take the time to build tension and chemistry through a solid banter. I value a dry sense of humor, intelligence, and someone who knows how to keep things interesting.

​If you’re looking for a grounded, high-tension connection that builds naturally over time, let’s see if we click. 🐨 I'm keen to take the lead on a slow build, but I'm definitely open to meeting up once the chemistry is right.

I’m a 32 yr old married dad in Sydney, navigating the corporate world and looking for a genuine escape from the daily routine.

​I’m 6'3" and keep myself in pretty good shape. I'm either usually training for distance running or staying active on the bike. Because I put in the work to take care of myself, I’m looking for a woman who does the same. I value someone who takes pride in her appearance and appreciates a partner who does the same. I'm not expecting IG influencers, just someone who is cute.

​I’m not looking to rush into anything. I’m a huge fan of the slow burn. I want a connection where we actually take the time to build tension and chemistry through a solid banter. I value a dry sense of humor, intelligence, and someone who knows how to keep things interesting.

​If you’re looking for a grounded, high-tension connection that builds naturally over time, let’s see if we click. 🐨 I'm keen to take the lead on a slow build, but I'm definitely open to meeting up once the chemistry is right.

I'm a 32 year-old married dad in Sydney, currently navigating the corporate grind and looking for a connection outside the usual domestic and office routine.

I’m 6'3" and keep pretty active, usually found training for a random running event or out on my dad bike. If you must know, yes I am white and take my hygiene seriously.

I'm interested in having a consistent, interesting person to talk to. I value a dry sense of humor and someone who can actually hold their own in a back-and-forth.

Looking for something casual and grounded that builds naturally over time. If you’re in a similar situation and want a mental break from the everyday, reach out and let’s see if we click. 🐨 I'm up for meeting up for the right person but I prefer a slow burn and won't jump into anything too quickly.

I’m a 32 year-old married dad in Sydney, currently navigating the corporate grind and looking for a connection outside the usual domestic and office routine.

I’m 6'3" and keep pretty active, usually found training for a random running event or out on my dad bike. If you must know, yes I am white and take my hygiene seriously.

I'm interested in having a consistent, interesting person to talk to. I value a dry sense of humor and someone who can actually hold their own in a back-and-forth.

Looking for something casual and grounded that builds naturally over time. If you’re in a similar situation and want a mental break from the everyday, reach out and let’s see if we click. 🐨

I’m 32, based in Aus, and currently navigating the usual mix of a corporate career and life as a married dad.

It’s a full plate, but I still make time for personal goals, like recently ticking off a half marathon and getting out on my dad bike whenever I can. Life is good but I miss the interesting conversation that exists outside the office and the domestic routine.

I’m looking for something casual and genuine—a slow-burn connection that doesn't feel forced or rushed. I value a dry sense of humor and someone who can hold their own in a back-and-forth about pretty much anything. If you’re interested in a grounded chat that builds over time and offers a bit of a mental break from the everyday, reach out and let's see if we click.

Please be local-ish to me 🐨