u/BreeBabeUniverse

I’m realistic, I know that it’s somewhat uncommon for people to genuinely want a healthy D/s dynamic and curate a friendship outside of the scene. However, I pride myself on being a genuine, authentic domme, who wants to connect further than just a transaction. And I have, inadvertently, made friends along the way!! I’ve gotten pretty good at weeding out the folks who wouldn’t be a good match for me. So it still strikes a sad little chord with me when people just drop off the face of the earth, ghost, and block out of nowhere.

Things will be going great, I’m getting amazing feedback, I’m actively trying to make things more personable, and the vibes are great! We’re effectively communicating and things feel good. Then, in mid conversation sometimes, with no warning, *poof*

Now, I’m not oblivious to the fact that these men have a whole life outside of their kink. I know some are married, dating, have a career, etc etc etc. Sub-guilt is definitely a thing, as is post nut clarity, subfrenzy and such. I suppose it comes down to basic communication.

Perhaps it boils down to the fact that we really don’t owe each other anything. Perhaps it’s just that I hope to bring out the best in people. Perhaps it’s just that my heart is a little big, and their brains are a little small. Either way, I’m prepared for the new line of subs who actually want FULFILLMENT out of their domme. Something REAL. HEALTHY. EXCITING.

I want to turn you into the best version of yourself that you can be, and I want you to be proud of you who are with me. I know there are people like that out there. I just need to find them.

Trying to remind myself that these moments don’t reflect my worth. Numbers don’t equal success. Getting blocked doesn’t mean I did something wrong. Things change. People change. And it’s best to just go with the flow and continue living my happy little life.