u/CNC_Addict

The unhealthy side of CNC, from the "aggressor's" POV (Consensual CNC)

There are few things in this world that I've experienced that offer more insight into the underlying and secret desires of both men and women than having a rape kink and participating in CNC. There is an entire underworld of normally repressed emotions on both sides of this kink that get to be fully fleshed out and explored when you have the right partner and the right ground rules. But, and it probably goes without saying, a good number of the people who are into this kink are, in one way or another, broken or traumatized, and I'm no exception. That alone sets the stage for the majority of CNC relationships(situationships?): they will be intense, and very likely short lived.

Short lived and intense aren't necessarily bad, but when you're using this kink to cover up some hole in your heart, it wears on you. I think that's where I'm at now. The frequency, the churn rate, the inevitable hurt emotions when you(I) naturally tend to shape what is a purely sexual relationship into something that fulfills one's deeper needs and desires, trying to fill that hole that is often times the root cause of the kink itself. If you want a lot of intense and fun sex, this is an amazing kink. If you want to settle down in a long term relationship, this is an awful kink to start a relationship with. Which of course puts one in a very tough position, would I even want a relationship if I didn't get the express this kink at all? Maybe. Maybe if I can fill that hole properly I won't feel like I need it anymore.

I think I'm just tired. It's been 4 years since I started into this kink. I went from 3 partners to 19 in that time. My longest lived relationships were partners 1 and 2. I think that speaks for itself.

Thanks for reading.

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u/CNC_Addict — 1 day ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 2 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 2 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 2 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 3 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy's plaything

Very experienced in CNC, but new to the blackmail kink. Safe play and safe words always, but looking to push limits and see how deeply we can dive into this.

Have always been into the physical and psychological power dynamic in CNC, and I'm looking for the natural extension of that. Intense CNC play when we meet, progressing into intense psychological blackmail play over an extended period, both building onto each other.

Again, consensual play only.

Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island

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u/CNC_Addict — 4 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 7 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 7 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 8 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 9 days ago

34 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it. I hope you like collecting bruises.

Have had this type of relationship before and have found the dynamic to be absolutely electric when there is an age gap involved. Let's explore those deep dark fantasies you haven't told anyone about.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria or Vancouver Island only. Please be willing to exchange photos early as to not waste each other's time.

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u/CNC_Addict — 9 days ago

33 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy's plaything

Very experienced in CNC, but new to the blackmail kink. Safe play and safe words always, but looking to push limits and see how deeply we can dive into this.

Have always been into the physical and psychological power dynamic in CNC, and I'm looking for the natural extension of that. Intense CNC play when we meet, progressing into intense psychological blackmail play over an extended period, both building onto each other.

Again, consensual play only.

Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island

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u/CNC_Addict — 12 days ago

33 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 14 days ago

33 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it. I hope you like collecting bruises.

Have had this type of relationship before and have found the dynamic to be absolutely electric when there is an age gap involved. Let's explore those deep dark fantasies you haven't told anyone about.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria or Vancouver Island only. Please be willing to exchange photos early as to not waste each other's time.

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u/CNC_Addict — 14 days ago

33 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 14 days ago

33 [M4F] #Victoria BC Canada - Daddy seeking Princess

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 14 days ago

Very experienced in CNC, but new to the blackmail kink. Safe play and safe words always, but looking to push limits and see how deeply we can dive into this.

Have always been into the physical and psychological power dynamic in CNC, and I'm looking for the natural extension of that. Intense CNC play when we meet, progressing into intense psychological blackmail play over an extended period, both building onto each other.

Again, consensual play only.

Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island

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u/CNC_Addict — 18 days ago

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

reddit.com
u/CNC_Addict — 18 days ago

Very experienced in CNC, but new to the blackmail kink. Safe play and safe words always, but looking to push limits and see how deeply we can dive into this.

Have always been into the physical and psychological power dynamic in CNC, and I'm looking for the natural extension of that. Intense CNC play when we meet, progressing into intense psychological blackmail play over an extended period, both building onto each other.

Again, consensual play only.

Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island

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u/CNC_Addict — 26 days ago

Experienced Daddy seeking submissive princess. You don't have to be experienced yourself, just willing to learn. Daddy is a good teacher.

Very much into praise when you've done well. If you haven't done well, you will know and you will feel it.

Must be into CNC, or willing to explore. Local to Victoria and Vancouver Island only.

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u/CNC_Addict — 26 days ago