u/Careless_Ferret5000

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So the idea for this post is more or less in the title.

To set the scene, I am an inexperienced guy. I am not tall, I am not hung. I am shy.

Before Reddit I used to believe size doesn't matter but after coming here I know it couldn't be more far from the truth.

Since then I have found myself being attracted to two kinds of women. Confident, smart women who can command me and use me like a toy and women who have high sex drives. The kind who will never be content in a marriage, especially if the guy wasn't hung.

What I now crave is be the toy of a woman who is both of these things. What better way than to be a cuck. To be teased by this woman for my size. For her to edge me and make beg her for release and need her praise.

We can discuss the exact way how it plays out while talking but if you are into this dynamic I would love to talk !

Ideally someone who is comfortable playing in EU mornings or nights.

PS: snoop around my profile to see if you like my body.

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Note: I have added some important details in the midsection of this post. There is no TL;DR since it will only make sense if you read the whole thing.

Greetings ye who reads my words. I am a 30M , inexperienced chap (but not really sad or bothered by it tbh) and I am looking for a for a special person.

I would like to split this by sections. The Vibes(maybe Whyibes lmao), The Hows and The Whens.

The Whibes are as follows:

I am super vulnurable to women who are sweet and playful but can also enjoy tormenting because they love seeing their sub squirm under their control. I suppose thats gentle femdom but honestly not sure. I tend to absolutely melt under such women and while the dynamics can be lowkey toxic to some, its kinda addictive hahah. I think emotionally intelligent women are particularly good at spotting when to be cruel and when to be kind.

But also I hope I can have good conversations with you beyond all the kink stuff. It leads to mututal comfort and that is an important thing for me.

The Hows:

The core of this (hopefully long term chat) is sexual need.

On that note , attraction is important and here is a latest pic of my body:

https://www.reddit.com/u/Careless\\\\\\\_Ferret5000/s/HgluLcqLif

For me, a physical version of your dominance comes from aspects like , you being taller than me (quite easy since I am 5'5 /165cm), you being out of my leauge (of course this does beg the question why you are chatting with me and hopefully that comes from aspects like our mental compatibility and what I offer). This isn't about you being thin or something btw. Plenty of curvy women are super feminine and hot. It also has a mental component btw.

On the sexual side my biggest kink is cock milking. An excellent example:

https://www.reddit.com/r/CockMilking/s/Ei4notw5ie

I think precum is a fantastic physical way to show how much I am turned on by you. I leak a prodigous amount of precum so you will absolutely see it:

https://www.reddit.com/u/Careless\\\\\\\_Ferret5000/s/Ljxq2OS9bs

I cannot emphasize the importance of you being into cum. I would like it to form a core aspect of our sexual interactions.

I would be remiss if I didn't share an example of my cumshot.

https://www.reddit.com/r/RedditorCum/s/loZvBrzx4b

This level of cumshot more or less only comes from great sexual compatibility for me. So as a Domme you might find it fun to coax it out of me.

Finally I should mention my favourite kinks: cock milking, edging, worshipping your body, prostate massages, cucking, small penis humiliation (more like teasing).

The Whens:

Time is the main limitation I feel. We all have busy lives and thus compatibility is important. I would like to play during the folllowing times:

2130-2300 (we can have some leeway here )

1030-1230 (same as above)

These are ideal but life is somewhat unpredictable so it would need some scheduling. Though chatting through the day is something I also enjoy

Thank you so so much for reading all this and hope we can chat soon

Hello there!

So here is the thing. I am curious about hearing about sex stories of couples. Especially those where the women started out as unsatisfied and they um...solved the issue.

Why ? Perhaps because I have no such story of my own ?

In any case, if you wanna vent about your sex life, complain about your husband/bfs/FWB's: oral game, size issues or brag about how you took care of your needs. This is a judgement free zone , feel free to drop a chat !

PS: I hope you won't mind if I end up finding your sluttiness or unfaithfulness hot !

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Hello there!

So here is the thing. I am curious about hearing about sex stories of couples. Especially those where the women started out as unsatisfied and they um...solved the issue.

Why ? Perhaps because I have no such story of my own ?

In any case, if you wanna vent about your sex life, complain about your husband/bfs/FWB's: oral game, size issues or brag about how you took care of your needs. This is a judgement free zone , feel free to drop a chat !

PS: I hope you won't mind if I end up finding your sluttiness or unfaithfulness hot !

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So the idea for this post is more or less in the title.

To set the scene, I am an inexperienced guy. I am not tall, I am not hung. I am shy.

Before Reddit I used to believe size doesn't matter but after coming here I know it couldn't be more far from the truth.

Since then I have found myself being attracted to two kinds of women. Confident, smart women who can command me and use me like a toy and women who have high sex drives. The kind who will never be content in a marriage, especially if the guy wasn't hung.

What I now crave is be the toy of a woman who is both of these things. What better way than to be a cuck. To be teased by this woman for my size. For her to edge me and make beg her for release and need her praise.

We can discuss the exact way how it plays out while talking but if you are into this dynamic I would love to talk !

Ideally someone who is comfortable playing in EU mornings or nights.

PS: snoop around my profile to see if you like my body.

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I think there is this particular kind of mean girl. She is hot, she sleeps around, she is smart. She likes breaking societal expectations.

These are always interesting women. They often have a great read of emotions or are very emotionally intelligent.

I should...stay away from some women. It's only natural I think? But due a certain experience (involving RuneScape of all things!) I um ...kinda want to experience it again? Well at least in a very certain way

Its a Pavlovian reaction so I can't help it. I have been told what I like is toxic behaviour but I can't help but like it !

I feel like you ,the reader, should also get a chance to judge if it's "toxic" to like a :

smart, emotionally intelligent and emotionally sadistic, controlling/dominant, high sex drive and low respect for monogamy and is an unabashed size...preferer?

Especially as a man who has :

no experience (never even kissed), emotionally masochistic, not gifted down there.

So what do you think ? is this a bad idea ? should I continue looking for someone like this ? Are YOU someone like this ?

I hope we can have a fun chat!

So the idea for this post is more or less in the title.

To set the scene, I am an inexperienced guy. I am not tall, I am not hung. I am shy.

Before Reddit I used to believe size doesn't matter but after coming here I know it couldn't be more far from the truth.

Since then I have found myself being attracted to two kinds of women. Confident, smart women who can command me and use me like a toy and women who have high sex drives. The kind who will never be content in a marriage, especially if the guy wasn't hung.

What I now crave is be the toy of a woman who is both of these things. What better way than to be a cuck. To be teased by this woman for my size. For her to edge me and make me beg her for release and need her praise.

I will add that this is a kink thing so I would also like if we can have out of kink chats as well.

We can discuss the exact way how it plays out while talking but if you are into this dynamic I would love to talk !

Ideally someone who is comfortable playing in EU mornings or nights.

PS: snoop around my profile to see if you like my body.

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Warning: This post is written by a certified ADHD person, apologies for the rambles

Social media's first crime , in my opinion, was removing nuance from any discussion. Complex ideas / unclear or even normal things just aren't as exciting as fringe case things i.e: extremely amazing or particularly scary or bad .

As for our side of Reddit , I want to flip the conversation on something I have made posts on before and of course a million other men. Dick Sizes

Before your roll your eyes (pun intended ? Idk ). My question is hopefully a bit different. I am interested in both sides of the coin. The fantasy and the reality.

I suppose my example would be from the other side. I have always felt I need 2 compatibilities with a woman to date her. Personality (intellectual+ emotional + character ig) and sexual. She doesn't have to be stereotypically hot , just hot to me because I think spark has to exist and that needs some basic attraction.

Realistically there are a lot of women who meet this category and any true desire is hard to predict. I have never had celebrity crushes for that reason. They look nice but who knows about the rest. Now a lot of this is moot because I have no irl experience lmao but hopefully the vibe got across?

Back to the post. Reddit loves dick sizes, sizequeens and cucking. But outside of what do you feel ? What's your grey zone, unclear ,vibe based answer. Where does the fantasy and reality lie? Is there even a difference?

Feel free to reach out if you just wanna rant about nuance and social media too.

Have a good one!