u/DastardlyChef

So…I am a grower, and During the day I wear a cobra N+, which is fine. When I get an erection it is definitely an intense ache.

I am searching for a better cage for play time, something a little longer that I can swell into but not fully. I’m just looking for more surface area access while still remaining confined.

I can’t seem to find the one I keep picturing in my head. I’m almost 7” full length so I guess I’m looking for 4-5”?

Thanks in advance!

My wife and I have been exploring kink together for several years, after years of vanilla sex, and me believing the glorious amount filth in my browser history would be revolting to her, we now have a vast collection of toys, that are mostly used on her. Turns out, we are both submissives with some service top energy sprinkled on top.

Until a few days ago, my cage hadn't been mentioned by either of us in over a year I think. Out of the blue the other night, and me being my usual smart ass self, she turned to me and said something to the effect of. You know, you have been really mouthy lately and I want you to go put your cage on.

I can't even tell you how fast I ran up the stairs to pull out my kink3d cage. My long lost friend lol.

She told me she had a list of chores for me, and if I behaved, I would get a treat. Well of course I was extremely helpful all day, and two nights ago, she let me massage her. Full body massage with nice oil. I worshipped her. It was amazing. Straining against my cage with my hands all over her body. In a very natural way, I finally worked my way towards truly worshipping her body with reverent kisses and using my mouth to bring her to climax. I was kneeling at the edge of the bed with her legs wrapped around my shoulders. Sweet, sweet worship that I can only hope she enjoyed half as much as I did.

After she finished on my face once, she told me to get up. She had me fetch her Satisfyer toy, and then instructed me to stand at the foot of the bed. And Watch!!

There I stood, naked and caged, watching her slowly bring herself to another orgasm. She is such a Goddess. I struggle to tell her how much I adore all of these things without going too far and turning her off of it.

Anyway...It was Incredible. And after, I just crawled into bed and we snuggled, I held her and kissed her for about an hour while we watched some garbage TV and eventually fell asleep. It was perfect. I felt useful and needed. I felt peace in pleasuring and taking care of her.

My chores feel more motivated and I am so in love with her. Being caged by her is just....relief??

I have been trying to maintain this level and standard of care. I want to be a better husband and I am a little ashamed to say how much this helps me to stay focused. I don't want this play to end, but right now I am just trying to enjoy it while I am gifted with it. I think part of the problem we have is honestly, the internet. I think when she went to do her own research, She was inundated with sissy and "Non-masculine" porn instead of more concepts like caging your very masculine and capable husband. I just like to be controlled, by her. It is liberating for me. and I try to make sure the feeling is reciprocated.

I want this to last. But I know it won't. While I am very savvy on bdsm Dynamics, I think to her a lot of things are still really over the top and taboo. I haven't asked for my cage in a while...I might have to just ask to keep it on.

But also. LOL. Because she loves to be filled. I know that she has needs that do not mirror my own. And above all, I enjoy pleasing her.

Ugh. Sub-to-Sub struggles.

My wife and I have been exploring kink together for several years, after years of vanilla sex, and me believing the glorious amount filth in my browser history would be revolting to her, we now have a vast collection of toys, that are mostly used on her. Turns out, we are both submissives with some service top energy sprinkled on top.

Until a few days ago, my cage hadn't been mentioned by either of us in over a year I think. Out of the blue the other night, and me being my usual smart ass self, she turned to me and said something to the effect of. You know, you have been really mouthy lately and I want you to go put your cage on.

I can't even tell you how fast I ran up the stairs to pull out my kink3d cage. My long lost friend lol.

She told me she had a list of chores for me, and if I behaved, I would get a treat. Well of course I was extremely helpful all day, and two nights ago, she let me massage her. Full body massage with nice oil. I worshipped her. It was amazing. Straining against my cage with my hands all over her body. In a very natural way, I finally worked my way towards truly worshipping her body with reverent kisses and using my mouth to bring her to climax. I was kneeling at the edge of the bed with her legs wrapped around my shoulders. Sweet, sweet worship that I can only hope she enjoyed half as much as I did.

After she finished on my face once, she told me to get up. She had me fetch her Satisfyer toy, and then instructed me to stand at the foot of the bed. And Watch!!

There I stood, naked and caged, watching her slowly bring herself to another orgasm. She is such a Goddess. I struggle to tell her how much I adore all of these things without going too far and turning her off of it.

Anyway...It was Incredible. And after, I just crawled into bed and we snuggled, I held her and kissed her for about an hour while we watched some garbage TV and eventually fell asleep. It was perfect. I felt useful and needed. I felt peace in pleasuring and taking care of her.

My chores feel more motivated and I am so in love with her. Being caged by her is just....relief??

I have been trying to maintain this level and standard of care. I want to be a better husband and I am a little ashamed to say how much this helps me to stay focused. I don't want this play to end, but right now I am just trying to enjoy it while I am gifted with it. I think part of the problem we have is honestly, the internet. I think when she went to do her own research, She was inundated with sissy and "Non-masculine" porn instead of more concepts like caging your very masculine and capable husband. I just like to be controlled, by her. It is liberating for me. and I try to make sure the feeling is reciprocated.

I want this to last. But I know it won't. While I am very savvy on bdsm Dynamics, I think to her a lot of things are still really over the top and taboo. I haven't asked for my cage in a while...I might have to just ask to keep it on.

But also. LOL. Because she loves to be filled. I know that she has needs that do not mirror my own. And above all, I enjoy pleasing her.

Ugh. Sub-to-Sub struggles.

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Hello! Thank you for checking up on my post. I recently had a pretty bad first time experience interacting with a creator and I am looking for a real person to chat, flirt, and play with.

I am 44, a naturally submissive man, not sissy or fem. You don’t have to be a big scary Dom or role play a part for me. Just be yourself!

Things I like and what I am looking for :

1. A subscription service without pressure to buy PPV combos and endless stream of unlocks that don’t actually give you what is advertised

2. Clear boundaries and set expectations. And Consent.

3. Text Chatting. It can be just that, or more. Maybe a way for us both to explore what we like. It’s ok if you are a new creator or even new to Femdom and you have questions or curiosities. I love to talk about kink. I’ve been in the kink community for a long time and love to share.

4. Edging and Denial instructions. Doesn’t have to be live or cam. As simple as that send me a picture of something you want me to burn into my memory and “brainwash” me with. Make me yern for you.

5. Just be a real person. Come as you are, and so will I. I’m an adult and I expect you to be as well.

6. Payment Method, Preferably OF? It’s the only platform I use right now but open to other recommendations if you have a preference.

I hope to build a friendship with someone real who enjoys chatting with me as much as I do them. Even if it IS a service. It doesn’t have to be so transactional, does it?