u/GenXnix

Do I do the list thing?
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Me
5’8.
Beard.
Grey hair.
Brown eyes.
180#. Remember when it was the pound sign? Average blueish collar dad “bod.”
Emotionally mature and stable even!
Done this before and…. Let’s be honest, the search sucks.
Yes, I’m a dad. Sometimes a counselor. Sometimes a mentor. Sometimes just another child looking at the world with wonder.
Passions include: Audiobooks, Podcasts, Music, Automotive/mechanical shit, my kids, and fun drives for no reason, and long, long teasing makeouts. (Couple extra ands there. 🤷‍♂️)
Looking for someone that wants to dig a little deeper than the superficial.
Someone that wants to share their passions, emotions, thoughts, and is still interested in growth as a human.
That loves slow intentional foreplay. Both in person and in the mind.
Isn’t afraid of all the feelings but is grounded in where they are.
Isn’t a stick figure, and enjoys a cheeseburger from time to time. (Wait, where’s a good cheeseburger? Shit, I just realized I haven’t been impressed by anything lately).
Someone that both wants to challenge my thoughts, as well as be challenged in theirs.
Uses telegram or signal for voice messages.

What you’ll get? A whole lot of unhinged and random thoughts. A great kisser. Someone that isn’t afraid to take the lead, but isn’t afraid of a strong woman either.

Help me make this my last post here. Even if it’s just to help me edit this garbage.

Do I do the list thing?

Me
5’8.
Beard.
Grey hair.
Brown eyes.
180#. Remember when it was the pound sign? Average blueish collar dad “bod.”
Emotionally mature and stable even!
Done this before and…. Let’s be honest, the search sucks.
Yes, I’m a dad. Sometimes a counselor. Sometimes a mentor. Sometimes just another child looking at the world with wonder.
Passions include: Audiobooks, Podcasts, Music, Automotive/mechanical shit, my kids, and fun drives for no reason, and long, long teasing makeouts. (Couple extra ands there. 🤷‍♂️)
Looking for someone that wants to dig a little deeper than the superficial.
Someone that wants to share their passions, emotions, thoughts, and is still interested in growth as a human.
That loves slow intentional foreplay. Both in person and in the mind.
Isn’t afraid of all the feelings but is grounded in where they are.
Isn’t a stick figure, and enjoys a cheeseburger from time to time. (Wait, where’s a good cheeseburger? Shit, I just realized I haven’t been impressed by anything lately).
Someone that both wants to challenge my thoughts, as well as be challenged in theirs.
Uses telegram or signal for voice messages.

What you’ll get? A whole lot of unhinged and random thoughts. A great kisser. Someone that isn’t afraid to take the lead, but isn’t afraid of a strong woman either.

Help me make this my last post here. Even if it’s just to help me edit this garbage.

Do I do the list thing?

Me
5’8.
Beard.
Grey hair.
Brown eyes.
180#. Remember when it was the pound sign? Average blueish collar dad “bod.”
Emotionally mature and stable even!
Done this before and…. Let’s be honest, the search sucks.
Yes, I’m a dad. Sometimes a counselor. Sometimes a mentor. Sometimes just another child looking at the world with wonder.
Passions include: Audiobooks, Podcasts, Music, Automotive/mechanical shit, my kids, and fun drives for no reason, and long, long teasing makeouts. (Couple extra ands there. 🤷‍♂️)
Looking for someone that wants to dig a little deeper than the superficial.
Someone that wants to share their passions, emotions, thoughts, and is still interested in growth as a human.
That loves slow intentional foreplay. Both in person and in the mind.
Isn’t afraid of all the feelings but is grounded in where they are.
Isn’t a stick figure, and enjoys a cheeseburger from time to time. (Wait, where’s a good cheeseburger? Shit, I just realized I haven’t been impressed by anything lately).
Someone that both wants to challenge my thoughts, as well as be challenged in theirs.
Uses telegram or signal for voice messages.

What you’ll get? A whole lot of unhinged and random thoughts. A great kisser. Someone that isn’t afraid to take the lead, but isn’t afraid of a strong woman either.

Help me make this my last post here. Even if it’s just to help me edit this garbage.

Do I do the list thing?

Me
5’8.
Beard.
Grey hair.
Brown eyes.
180#. Remember when it was the pound sign? Average blueish collar dad “bod.”
Emotionally mature and stable even!
Done this before and…. Let’s be honest, the search sucks.
Yes, I’m a dad. Sometimes a counselor. Sometimes a mentor. Sometimes just another child looking at the world with wonder.
Passions include: Audiobooks, Podcasts, Music, Automotive/mechanical shit, my kids, and fun drives for no reason, and long, long teasing makeouts. (Couple extra ands there. 🤷‍♂️)
Looking for someone that wants to dig a little deeper than the superficial.
Someone that wants to share their passions, emotions, thoughts, and is still interested in growth as a human.
That loves slow intentional foreplay. Both in person and in the mind.
Isn’t afraid of all the feelings but is grounded in where they are.
Isn’t a stick figure, and enjoys a cheeseburger from time to time. (Wait, where’s a good cheeseburger? Shit, I just realized I haven’t been impressed by anything lately).
Someone that both wants to challenge my thoughts, as well as be challenged in theirs.
Uses telegram or signal for voice messages.

What you’ll get? A whole lot of unhinged and random thoughts. A great kisser. Someone that isn’t afraid to take the lead, but isn’t afraid of a strong woman either.

Help me make this my last post here. Even if it’s just to help me edit this garbage.

Me - 5’8”. 180. Beard. Grey hair. Dad next door. Average looks… 6-7 out of 10?
I’m a blue collar guy. With actual emotional intelligence. Sometimes an empathetic person. Always sarcastic. Hey, and I actually enjoy communication in many forms! Be it voice notes (my personal favorite) or lots of text. Yes. I can express a mostly whole thought. Probably won’t make sense but, it’ll be a whole thought.
If we get to the physical parts? I’m one that enjoys taking my absolute sweet ass time figuring you out.

I have a busy life. Between kids, cars, bikes, work I’m always kind of busy. Most of my busy will probably sound boring. BUT it’s not that I can’t make plenty of time for you. It’s kind of why I’m here. I’m looking for you! Schedules and location have a bit to do with time. Overall though overnights are going to be VERY difficult.

Sooo you. Be taller. Shorter. Thicker. Smaller. I’m not going to say I’m not picky. But your body type is less important than your eyes and smile. Yeah. I’m that guy. Look at me. Engage. Be open to saying what’s on your mind regardless of what it is. Give me the awkward intrusive thoughts. Be brutal. Be honest. Be over 30. (Ok maybe 40. I keep forgetting that I’m old now. Covid took like 8 years of reality.)

I keep reading this before posting. Again. To try and give you a picture of me and who I’m looking for. It’s goddamn impossible. Intangibles. The things that click mentally. I’m looking for the click. The buzz. The tingle from a new message, or the absolute excitement from a phone call that lasts longer than normal.

Those things. They matter more than most others.