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How’s everyone doing?

Any wetting progress?

Landmarks?

Difficulties?

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So in addition to LOVING being a diaper dependent bedwetter I’ve found there are so many health benefits!

1. I’m happy! This is the biggest one. I grew up traumatized by my experiences as a bed wetter. Some of my happiest moments of my childhood were when I was not chastised for wetting the bed.In finally stopped wetting when I was 12.

As an ABDL I had similarly struggled with shame and unhealthy cycles and denial.

When I started training to bed wet and making myself diaper dependent I unknowingly was healing a lot of my unresolved shame and baggage. Embracing a diaper and wetting the bed, and then celebrating it was like a light switch being flipped.

I’m great at this!! I’m a good bedwetter! I’m great at keeping myself diapered. I feel so proud of my connection to myself. And I’m proud to have started the bedwetter club, so now everyone can share and work toward their goals. This sub grows everyday and all I can think of is how happy all my little bedwetter friends are out there!

When your fantasy becomes your routine, there are other aspects of your ideal life that start coming true too. When your mind accepts that any dream can become a reality and you have the power to make yourself happy, even in your sleep, you unlock a very powerful version of yourself.

2. I’m healthy! Not only am I happier and more grounded as a fully realized bedwetter: but I’m hydrated!!

I’m drinking more water than ever. I’ve had less headaches, better skin, healthier bowel movements, and I feel better! Especially in the morning. I like to drink alcohol and even when I’ve overdone it a hangover is very rare and mild.

In the morning instead of going straight to coffee I often finish my nighttime adult baby bottle next to my bed. Starting the morning with even more fluid, wetting several times, and giving my body a jump start of hydration (which has many substantial health benefits).

3. Diaper dependency means staying in diapers. This is a part of my first point in some ways but I’m happier in diapers… but without the need, it’s easier to stop. When something makes you happy, your life is better. I work better now. I’m a better partner to my wife. I’m a better person! And that’s a result of allowing myself my diapers.

But out of shame I would stop. I’d run out of diapers and feel guilty about buying more and so I’d stop. Or I’d try and save what I had so I’d wear less. Or I’d just be lazy! I’d have a nighttime routine and then one day I’d just be too exhausted to put one on. All of which lead to me not being as happy. No diaper meant no ABDL time.

Now that I have trained myself to wet in my sleep I CANNOT stop. I NEED diapers before bed. I’m a bedwetting diaper wearer and if I don’t put one on I’m risking wet sheets, wet pjs, an upset wife; and an embarrassing, hassle of a situation. It’s no longer an option.

It’s like going to the gym except now you just can’t afford not to go. You’d be in the best shape of your life! And that’s where in at now. I’m turning my brain into a shameless efficient engine built to resolve my issues and concentrate on prioritizing my happiness, whether it’s convenient or not. And to me: that’s healthy.

3. I’ve made a mental shift towards prioritizing my needs. For someone like me, who in the past would put themselves last, this is a big one. Now I’m doing just that even it’s hard work.

Prioritizing yourself IS NOT CONVENIENT. That’s a lesson I’ve learned and it’s taken me too long to learn that. Diapers are such a wonderful symbol of it. I’m better off and happier in my soggy diapers than not. Does that mean it’s easy? No! Is it cheap? No! Is it something I have to plan around? All the time! But it’s worth it!

In fact; as much as I’m a big baby… making these adjustments has been one of the most mature, adult decisions I’ve ever made. It’s what’s best for me.

Stay healthy bedwetter club! Stay diapered! Pad up! Drink up! And if you’re still training: stick with it!

Hey bedwetters!

I’m on my third vacation since I fully commit to being a bedwetter, and my first since I started this sub.

I definitely had to pack extra luggage to cart along all the diapering supplies! 10 BeddyByes and 10 overnight boosters! I also brought a diaper cover and a cloth diaper but I’ve been trying to take the advice of some experienced wetters here and not compress the disposable. I’m just leak conscious!

Anyway! 9 day trip. Will check back in.

What do your diapered vacations look like? How are we preparing for bedwetting at hotels?

I’m traveling soon.

I usually have a cloth diaper on top of my ABDL diapers and a diaper wrap over it… but I’m learning it’s overkill.

I just don’t want to leak.

But now that I’m getting used to my bedwetting I don’t think I need all of that.

I might keep doing it at home because I like the bulk. But for a trip it’s a lot!

I’m thinking just my potty training dropout BeddyByes… and some Rearz overnight boosters! And I’ll sleep on my little pad…That’s all. I already sleep in my back…

9 days so I’m packing a whole pack.

What do you do?

Would love to hear your techniques for no leaks

Who woke up wet?

I definitely thought I was dry today … then I got to the back of my diaper! Soaked.

Waking up soggy is becoming unremarkable to me…. Which is remarkable.

So did you wake up 🌧️ or 🌞?

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It’s almost time for bed!

Here’s my ritual:

I usually try to pee after dinner and then start drinking more water.

I used to just hold it but I like to drink a lot of water before bed and I can’t if I’m too full. I don’t like when my bladder feels achey.

It feels counterintuitive but I try and pee an hour before bed and then just stay very hydrated.

Maybe a cocktail.
Always a can or two of seltzer.
A small glass of water sometimes.

Always a full 450 ml baby bottle.
And a second one in case I’m still thirsty, depending on how much I drank earlier.

I put on my ABDL diaper with an overnight booster. That gets wrapped in a rearz omutsu v2 cloth diaper. Then a waterproof cover.

Finally I put on a onesie (usually all white). Strap in a binky. Add a clip. Put on some short fuzzy pastel ruffle socks. And then I snuggle my stuffies.

I sleep with my legs on top of a pillow on my back. And my butt on a changing pad.

Every night.

I wake up soggy most mornings.

Sometimes I remember when I go.
Not always.

🥰

Anyone have a similar routine?

Morning!!

I woke up dry…

Just kidding! Totally soaked but I thought I was.

I really can’t tell in the morning and thought I hadn’t gone.

Stuck my hand down there… Soaked.

How could I have been so wrong?

Slept through the night. Truly had no clue.

My favorite.

What about you?

Who woke up wet 🌧️
Who woke up dry 🌞
Let me know in the comments cuties!

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Woke up soaked!

Zero memory. 10/10 wetting 😊

I think it’s because my wife got back from a trip. I don’t sleep well without her and having her back made me sleep like a baby… literally.

In any case: SOGGY!

What about all of you?

You name a subject. Everyone comments below with their favorite in that subjects

Post your status!

Woke up soaked.
What a feeling!

I kind of like it more when I wake up and I’m already going… but my goal was to wet when I sleep. So mission accomplished?

I also fell asleep on the couch and woke up a bit worried. I can’t just nap anywhere!!

What have I done? Jk

I love it. I think it’s cute and I’m happy that I’ve managed to make this a routine.

Were you always a messer?

Or did you evolve into it?

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So I started consciously training myself to wet the bed a few months ago and now it’s happening more often than not.

I’ve posted about it a bit and got a lot of messages asking how I did it.

Along the way, I ended up connecting with a few people here.

Some were already deep into it. Others were just curious.

At one point, joking around, I called one of our chats “Bedwetter Club.”

Now we check in almost every day.

Where we’re at. What’s working. What’s not.

And honestly… having someone to encourage you makes a huge difference.

For me, this has been weirdly transformative.

Accepting it. Leaning into it. Not treating it like something that’s weird to want? It’s helped me a lot with my ABDL acceptance and not feeling the urge to purge diapers and my ABDL side.

I also keep seeing posts here every week from people asking how to get started.

So I figured… why not make it real?

I just launched r/bedwetterclub

It’s a space for people who want to wet the bed and are leaning into it.

We’re building something around:

encouragement and support

routines and methods

gear setups and protection

celebrating progress (yeah… that kind)

It’s ABDL-friendly, inclusive, and focused on keeping things positive and respectful.

If that sounds like your lane, come join us.

We’re cozy.

We’re hydrated.

We’re diapered.

We go to bed happy.

And we wake up wet.

Quick note:

This isn’t meant to replace or compete with this sub at all.

This is just one very specific, niche topic.

Focused on overnight wetting, routines, and building a small, supportive community around that.

I’ve gotten a lot out of this space and respect it a lot.

If this kind of post isn’t allowed, I’m happy to take it down.