u/GoddessAbby15

Hello everyone. With recent news of some very important icons passing I’ve been reflecting on a lot of things. The first of which being that life is too short. The second of which being that hiding who I am for the sake of others is the exact opposite of what these people would’ve wanted me to do.

I know this will open the door for a lot of questions, and I have a lot of rebranding to attend to, but while I’m in the middle of it, here goes:

In my life off of the Internet I identify as a trans man. As in, female to male. I go by the name Jay, and I use he/him pronouns.

For some reason I always felt that findom wouldn’t accept me, but I’ve come to make friends in the community with people who do. And they encourage me to be myself.

That is all,

Prince Jay signing off.

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Making a debt at the end!

There’s a new website called Debtkeeper for findom and it seems cool so far, but I’m really more curious how the sub’s end looks, because from the domme side I don’t know if I’m just not navigating it right but it seems like I almost can’t see anything? Anybody have any experience with it yet?

It’s a simple game… with simple rules. We come up with two truths and one lie and take a shot guessing at which is which. We get to know each other, we get to laugh and maybe discover we have a lot in common.

No one ever suffered from a game, right? 🩵

I keep being told my X seems fake? How do I fix that? I’m not even sure what about it seems fake?

Edit: I haven’t paid for a blue check mark because I’m not doing that lol

Gamers I’m getting worried… it’s been getting no better. And neither has the horny. 🫪

Hello findom community. I’ve found I’m much better in a chat box than I am talking to myself in a post. That being said, I want to discuss and see if anyone has any ideas to a problem we’re all experiencing:

Findom has become SLOP!!

I miss the poise, I miss the intelligence, I miss the exclusivity and when it didn’t feel like a shopping mall. I know my account and my online presence in findom hasn’t been long, but I’ve been a part of this kink for around 3 years? And was in touch with the online community but it was never a place I wanted to explore. But the moment I finally decided to join I noticed a shift that only continued the longer I’ve been around.

Instead of the elegance of domination and the protocol led areas, there’s bots and scammers and people who don’t know the first thing about domination.

But the only solution coming to my mind is being gatekeepers. I don’t like that as a solution, though. I want this community to still be welcoming. My other idea is leading by example, but I just help but feel like it won’t be taken as heartily as I’d like.

Any ideas? Anyone?

I still haven’t found a bitch with enough of his dignity gone and a fat enough wallet for the nasty, long, humiliation session I want.

Does anyone know if there are specific spaces I can look for or advertise towards more extreme play like this?

Reddit was boring the shit out of me, but I’m back bitches!