u/Goddess_alma__

I commented on a post where a sub said he was drained of $100 and I said that’s not a drain a drain starts at $500 plus .. she said I was low budget because I didn’t start at $1k

Let me be clear I don’t have to prove anything and I dont post my sends because I don’t like pocket watchers a lot of you bitches have lost the concept of findom and the mean girl energy that perpetuates this space is gross

GO TOUCH GRASS

Listen I know I’m going to get shit from the newbies and entitled subs but if you’re a Dommes sending videos or live verifying before getting a send you need to stop .
Number one a REAL sub knows that age verification sites like loyal fans etc is a legit verification.. and they can look at your page .. how long it’s been up .. how many posts you have .. how consistent you have been etc !!!
number two most of the time these subs are scammers & are going to either steal your videos to make a fake page or to get off on your videos and if it’s live they can screen record or just get off from that .
Also why tf Is it normalized for a sub to call the shots ?! We are calling the shots .. if they want to enter OUR world they need to follow OUR rules or keep it moving .

A sub I had for a little while just told me he’s planning to take his own life and I feel sick .. because I’m an empath
I reached out to him because I was upset he disappeared and he said he disappeared because he doesn’t feel the need to respond to anyone because he doesn’t want to be here anymore then he told me he plans to buy a gun and call it quits ..
this is an incredibly hard thing for me to deal with .. I’ve tried calling him and I can’t reach him ..
that was also a very heavy thing for him to lay on me..
I’m not heartless despite being a Domme and he showed no signs of being this severely mentally ill .
First time I’ve dealt with this in my almost year of findom

UPDATE: I found his Facebook and reached out to his family and friends on a burner account to let them know so they can check on him and if he’s doing this just to manipulate the situation he needs to learn that’s wrong AF .

Tale as old as time I know .. but it’s rude AF and you all need to be held accountable

Especially when I’m giving my genuine time and energy and I’m getting into it too ..

Luckily this doesn’t happen to me often but it strikes a nerve when it does .. especially when there’s no sign of them about to disappear they are really into the session and sending then boom they bust a 🥜 and run away instead of communicating..
I appreciate my long terms who don’t do this but just know if you’re a sub who does this DO BETTER !!!