u/HealedPain

This is for myself. Yes, I could search for this, but it seems it’s piecing it together via alot of thread mining. So I have a question for vagina owners who do e-stim and have the Coyote 3.0 with pads and various sized e-stim related insertables.

How and what do I need to set this up so I get on with this self guided kinky e-stim adventure? I want to work some insertables at the same time as pad placement to maximize the ‘fun’. I think I have everythin…just not the necessary knowledge to get set it up and get it going for myself. Thanks in advance! I’m also interested in hearing user experience.

I take my time getting to know someone. I move with firm boundaries and decisiveness. Forming a connection for kink exists in a space where there is slow building chemistry, respect, emotional regulation and humour in a vanilla setting. I’m learning how to live again being present in my body with love. The phase I’m in is intentional and slow with peace; reflecting on what I desire in my life and intimate relationships. 

Slowing down taking time to enjoy and appreciate the various facets of Vancouver. Tasting a coffee sampler flight at House of Funk Coffee. Attending a night of art at the Bill Reid Gallery. Having a beer and going to Science World After Dark. Being present in the beauty of a summers walk in Stanley Park.  

Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Bisexual. Tattooed. 

My Hobbies: collecting fantasy dildos, Uranium glass, eclectic foot wear; taking in live comedy shows and concerts. Expanding my fountain pen collection and beginning calligraphy. 

As a FemDom my skill set is varied and experienced. I lead with open communication, ongoing consent, desire and respect. Firm and gentle while building a dynamic in layers. Pegging and anal play are a must. E-Stim leading to electro-sex is new and a special kink interest. Earning a praise kink walks the edge of erotic and sensual pain. If this isn’t for you; then neither am I. Being vulnerable with one another because it’s been earned and not rushed. My kink is behind closed doors only. I am seeking a man to be my LTR FLR good boy.  

Bonus points if you are into scuba diving or snorkelling. Talk to me about everything and anything related to it. Your gear and the trips you’ve had and the current dive planning. The failures and the wins. This is something I’m very much interested in learning as a hobby. It fascinates me to no end.

You:

•    25 to 55ish (no virgins)

• Bisexual or hetero cis male

•    SUBMISSIVE with real life experience: I won’t train, mentor or help you experiment.

•    Know your limits and aftercare.

•    5 ft 8 in. or taller; describe yourself!

•    know how to eat pussy

•    emotionally available

•    SINGLE! (No ENM, separated or divorced & living together situationships)

•    excellent body/anal hygiene

•    trim or shaved cock (decent size); not into hairy assholes

•    no sexual hangups; confidence in yourself and the bedroom.

•    masculine AF

•    street smart (leftist to liberal leaning)

• separation between work/personal life

•    Live by Vancouver, Canada!

•  No Long Distance!

•    tell me how you fulfil this criteria

•    Don‘t call me Ma’am, Goddess, Miss, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!

•    not interested in men I can’t assfuck!

Are you rough and rugged? Glistening from a win in life? Acing that exam. Closing that deal at work. Ending a grueling day out in the field. Waiting to be told you’ve been a good boy? Bend over for me. 

Masculinity that is healthy and secure within itself knowing why you desire being pegged. Because it’s an essential part of who you are and a place where you belong. This type of confidence draws my gaze. The hunger to share yourself with me. Open and willing.

What makes me wet is a man laid bare before me. Vulnerable and open, lubed and ready as I slide myself into him with my strap-on after hot and consensual foreplay. Feeling him grip my fingers tightly as I stimulate his prostate with his cock in my mouth. Watching as his erection grows harder and weeps continual pre-cum in anticipation of me ass fucking him. I will cum inside you. Is your cock aching while reading this? It made me wet while writing it. 

The gasps of desire as we fuck. You enjoy anal play and have some experience. This isn’t a passing fancy or something to experiment with. You hunger and crave to be ass fucked. Face sitting and my orgasms are the reward. Can you earn it?

Aftercare is a time to be slow and gentle with one another. Cuddling and a check-in is expected. 

I’m turned on by a man that wants his nipples played with from pleasurable to naughty. (Not a deal breaker if you don’t.)

You: 

• 21+(no virgins)
• bisexual or hetero cis-male 
• 5 ft 8 in. or taller 
  • describe yourself in depth; especially what you look like (age, height, ethnicity, body style, etc.)
• know how to fuck and eat pussy
• Not interested in cheaters 
• excellent body & anal hygiene
  • trim or shaved cock (decent size);
  • no hairy assholes
• no sexual hangups; 
  • confident

   

• masculine AF
  • street smart
• No tobacco smokers
• Be in Vancouver, Canada!
• Don‘t call me Ma’am, Miss, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!
• You don’t meet all of the listed criteria? Outside of what’s listed above? Not interested!

Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Tattooed. Bisexual. 

Regular testing and sharing of results is expected as are using barriers such as condoms and dental dams.

I take time getting to know someone. I move with firm boundaries and decisiveness. I will not form a connection for kink unless there is slow building chemistry, respect, emotional regulation and humour in a vanilla setting. I’m learning how to live again being present in my body with love. The phase I’m in is intentional and slow with peace; reflecting on what I desire in my life and intimate relationships. 

Slowing down taking time to enjoy and appreciate the various facets of Vancouver. Tasting a coffee sampler flight at House of Funk Coffee. Attending a night of art at the Bill Reid Gallery. Having a beer and going to Science World After Dark. Being present in the beauty of a summer walk in Stanley Park.  

Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Bisexual. Tattooed. 

My Hobbies: collecting fantasy dildos, Uranium glass, eclectic foot wear; taking in live comedy shows and concerts. Expanding my fountain pen collection and beginning calligraphy. 

As a FemDom my skill set is varied and experienced. I lead with open communication, ongoing consent, desire and respect. Firm and gentle while building a dynamic in layers. Pegging and anal play are a must. E-Stim leading to electro-sex is new and a special kink interest. Earning a praise kink walks the edge of erotic and sensual pain. If this isn’t for you; then neither am I. Being vulnerable with one another because it’s been earned and not rushed. My kink is behind closed doors only. I am seeking a man to be my LTR FLR good boy.  I won’t tolerate BS. 

You:

•    25 to 55ish (no virgins)

• Bisexual or hetero cis male

•    SUBMISSIVE with real life experience: I won’t train, mentor or help you experiment.

•    Know your limits and aftercare.

•    5 ft 8 in. or taller; describe yourself!

•    know how to eat pussy

•    emotionally available

•    SINGLE! (No ENM, separated or divorced & living together situationships)

•    excellent body/anal hygiene

•    trim or shaved cock (decent size); not into hairy assholes

•    no sexual hangups; confidence in yourself and the bedroom.

•    masculine AF

•    street smart (leftist to liberal leaning)

• separation between work/personal life

•    Live by Vancouver, Canada!

•  No Long Distance!

•    tell me how you fulfil this criteria

•    Don‘t call me Ma’am, Goddess, Miss, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!

•    not interested in men I can’t assfuck!

• Not a pillow princess

Bisexual men that are secure, confident, and experienced in their bisexuality turn me on. You aren’t closeted. I have no tolerance for biphobia.

Don’t meet ALL of my criteria? Suggest we meet ASAP? Treat me like a fetish dispenser? Not interested! My boundaries are firm. I won’t engage in an unmitigated kink frenzy!

No effort? No interest! I desire to fuck a cis-man (bi/het) in the ass. I have a wide array of fantasy dildos; sized small to extra large. Naked and vulnerable before me. Let’s unfold in lust together.

You’re submissive, craving to be pegged and are experienced in anal play. Fucking yourself in the ass wishing it was a dominant woman cumming inside you. My skill set as a femdom is varied and experienced. I lead with open communication, ongoing consent, desire and respect.

I’m a E-Stim newbie. I’ve been acquiring all the e-stim toys. Especially for use on a man’s more intimate area. Can we have electro-sex together? We will cum together.

I’ll be wearing my njoy Pure Plug as I’m giving it to you while you’re bent over. Does your cock ache while reading this. Have you been a good boy?

Don’t meet my criteria? Suggest we meet ASAP? Treat me like a fetish dispenser? Not interested ! My boundaries are firm.

You:

• 25 to 55ish (no virgins)
• SUBMISSIVE with real life experience): I won’t train, mentor or help you experiment
• 5 ft 8 in. or taller; describe yourself!
• know how to eat pussy
• emotionally available
• SINGLE! (No ENM, separated or divorced & living together situationships)
• excellent body/anal hygiene
• trim or shaved cock (decent size); not into hairy assholes
• no sexual hangups; confidence in yourself and the bedroom.
• masculine AF
• street smart
• Live by Vancouver, Canada!
• tell me how you fulfil this criteria
• Don‘t call me Ma’am, Goddess, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!
• not interested in men I can’t assfuck

You hold power and control in your daily life. Corporate cuck. The higher up the corporate structure or white collar you are the better. I also have a soft spot for working blue collar men and those in athletics. If you can’t fuck my mind; then you won’t be fucking me. No interest in a pillow princess.

Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Bisexual. Tattooed.

Safer sex practices and sexual health testing are non-negotiable. This includes the use of condoms, dental dams and nitrile gloves.

Bisexual men that are secure, confident, and experienced in their bisexuality turn me on. You aren’t closeted**.** I have no tolerance for biphobia.

The thought of pegging a man turns me on. Sensual and slow. We share in a consensual desire. You enjoy being pegged and like anal play. 

Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Tattooed. Bisexual. 

You: No effort? No interest!

• 25 to 55ish (no virgins)
• bisexual or hetero cis-male 
• 5 ft 8 in. or taller 
  • describe yourself
• know how to fuck and eat pussy
• Not interested in cheaters 
• excellent body & anal hygiene
  • trim or shaved cock (decent size);
  • no hairy assholes
• no sexual hangups; 
  • confident

   

• masculine AF
  • street smart
• No tobacco smokers
• Live by Vancouver, Canada!
  • No long distance!
• Don‘t call me Ma’am, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!
• Bisexual men: you are secure, confident and experienced in your bisexuality. You aren’t closeted/Down Low or bicurious about sex with a cis-woman.
• Outside of what’s listed above? Not interested!

Optional: you enjoy or are curious about receiving nipple play.  

Safer sex practices and sexual health testing are non-negotiable. This includes the use of condoms and dental dams. 

No effort? No interest! My cunt is hungry to fuck a cis-man (bi/het) in the ass. I have a wide array of fantasy dildos (Bad Dragon, Primal Hardware, Phreak); sized small to obscenely extra large. I’m looking for a submissive ass slut. The more ass hungry, the better. Naked and vulnerable before me. Let’s unfold in lust together.

You’re submissive, love being pegged and experienced in anal play; both solo and with others and use anal toy’s regularly. Fucking yourself in the ass wishing it was a dominant woman cumming inside you. My skill set as a femdom is varied and experienced.

I’m a E-Stim newbie. I’ve been acquiring all the e-stim toys. Especially for use on a man’s more intimate area. All of its practically over flowing and needed a special case of its own to hold everything. Can we have electro-sex together?

We will cum together as I’m pegging you. I want to learn how to give a man multiple orgasms. I’ll be wearing my njoy Pure Plug as I’m giving it to you while you’re bent over. Does your cock ache while reading this. Have you been a good boy?

Don’t meet my criteria? Suggest we meet ASAP? Treat me like a PornHub FemDom fantasy or a fetish dispenser? Im not interested!

You:

• 25 to 55ish (no virgins)
• SUBMISSIVE with real life experience): I won’t train, mentor or help you experiment
• 5 ft 8 in. or taller; describe yourself!
• know how to eat pussy
• emotionally available
• SINGLE! (No ENM, separated or divorced & living together situationships)
• excellent body/anal hygiene
• trim or shaved cock (decent size); not into hairy assholes
• no sexual hangups; confidence in yourself and the bedroom.
• masculine AF
• street smart
• Live by Vancouver, Canada!
• tell me how you fulfil this criteria
• Don‘t call me Ma’am, Mistress, Mommy, babe or any other such name!
• not interested in men I can’t assfuck

You hold power and control in your daily life. Corporate cuck. The higher up the corporate structure or white collar you are the better. I also have a soft spot for working blue collar men and those in athletics. If you can’t fuck my mind; then you won’t be fucking me. No interest in a pillow princess.

Me: BBW mom bod, 43, 5 ft. 6 in, white. Short brown hair. Bisexual. Tattooed.

Safer sex practices and sexual health testing are non-negotiable. This includes the use of condoms, dental dams and nitrile gloves.

Bisexual men that are secure, confident, and experienced in their bisexuality turn me on. You aren’t closeted or on the Down Low. I have no tolerance for biphobia.