u/Icy_Application7677

Would you like to be.

Gf and I have discussed it, but still need to buy a toy

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Not actually divorced, in fact still living with wife - but Id made the decision to divorce and had told her

I hadn't had sex with her (or anyone) in 6 months. I was horny. Bored with jacking off.

I wasn't going to date women yet, really not ready.

20 years earlier Id experimented, giving and receiving blow jobs at adult bookstore glory holes.

I didn't want to do that again. 3 reasons. 1. While Id lucked out and hadnt gotten an std, didn't want to take a chance. 2. I intended to date women at some point. While I felt what happened 20 years ago was my business, if a woman asked me about recent experience Id want to be honest. And some women might dump me for an actual sex act with a guy. 3. I identified as "straight" despite liking dick pics (yeah, I know)

I got on sniffies. First just to exchange dick pics, to jack off together virtually.

But I really wanted to do side by side jerk off in person.

I found a guy, much younger (he was 30 something, an attractive, slim, African American, I was 62 at the time) lived a few miles away. We agreed to meet at a supermarket near my house, in the mens room.

The mens room was quiet, we were the only two there. Only two urinals, so us standing side by side with our dicks out wouldn't look odd if anyone had walked in(no one did)

We each jacked off. We each looked down at the other while doing so. We both came. I liked the look of the white cum on his black cock. It was the first time I'd seen another man's cum (and so far the only time) He looked at mine. We shook hands, and left. Never saw him again.

It was really hot. I jacked off to it myself over the next few months.

Not actually divorced, in fact still living with wife - but Id made the decision to divorce and had told her

I hadn't had sex with her (or anyone) in 6 months. I was horny. Bored with jacking off.

I wasn't going to date women yet, really not ready.

20 years earlier Id experimented, giving and receiving blow jobs at adult bookstore glory holes.

I didn't want to do that again. 3 reasons. 1. While Id lucked out and hadnt gotten an std, didn't want to take a chance. 2. I intended to date women at some point. While I felt what happened 20 years ago was my business, if a woman asked me about recent experience Id want to be honest. And some women might dump me for an actual sex act with a guy. 3. I identified as "straight" despite liking dick pics (yeah, I know)

I got on sniffies. First just to exchange dick pics, to jack off together virtually.

But I really wanted to do side by side jerk off in person.

I found a guy, much younger (he was 30 something, an attractive, slim, African American, I was 62 at the time) lived a few miles away. We agreed to meet at a supermarket near my house, in the mens room.

The mens room was quiet, we were the only two there. Only two urinals, so us standing side by side with our dicks out wouldn't look odd if anyone had walked in(no one did)

We each jacked off. We each looked down at the other while doing so. We both came. I liked the look of the white cum on his black cock. It was the first time I'd seen another man's cum (and so far the only time) He looked at mine. We shook hands, and left. Never saw him again.

It was really hot. I jacked off to it myself over the next few months.

A man goes to a club known for high mileage lapdances. He goes commando.

He gets a dance. He doesn't mention that hes commando (under khaki pants) He has no idea if he'll have an orgasm, as hes never had a lapdance before.

The stripper gives him a high mileage dance, grinding on his penis.

He has an orgasm. He pushes her away as he's suddenly very sensitive. She laughs about it.

Has he violated the dancers rights?

As noted, i had started experimenting with guys during a dead bedroom phase with then wife, in my late 30s. Went to a gay theater, then to gloryholes at adult bookstores. Mostly gave bjs, but was blown twice.

I was 42, id taken steps to on my marriage (they ended up not solving things, but that's another story) but still not much sex.

I went to a straight x rated theater in town. I dont actually recall if it was known for cruising, this was over 20 years ago.

I do know thatci walked in, saw some guys sitting together. In the dark it looked like something was going on.

It was. They had their cocks out, and were stroking each other. I sat down at the end of the group, took out my cock. The guy next to me (if I recall correctly, he looked older) reached over and stroked my cock, so I stroked his.

Then a theater employee came down the aisle and pointed a flashlight at us (evidently management was not cool with this activity) We all put our cocks away.

I left.

I didnt do anything with a guy again until after I decided on divorce. Both cause i had decided thatvI didn't want to cheat, because Id been lucky about STIs and didn't want to press,my luck, and because i was "straight"

This was almost 30 years ago, in my late 30s. Dead bedroom with wife, Id begun exploring my bicurious side, once in an adult theater where I got a bj, then at adult bookstores where I sucked cock through gloryholes.

Must have been the third or fourth time I went. I got a middle booth, with a gloryhole on each side.

A cock came through each gloryhole. So I sucked one, and reached back to give the other one a handjob.

That was the only time in my life I've had a threesome, pleasuring two people at once.

It was probably my 2nd or 3rd gloryhole visit, in my 30s, during a dead bedroom phase of my marriage.

I was so turned on, I had to jack off. After I came I stopped sucking.

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So, Id experimented, trying to give a hj at a theater, ended up getting a bj instead.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gayconfessions/s/6lKR2WImbc

A short while later (a few weeks, a few months, I forget. Still 30 something) was still in a dead bedroom with then wife, I went to an adult book store with an arcade with gloryholes.

Id learned about sticking your finger through to show interest. At first when someone jacked off in the booth next to me I just watched through the hole. Eventually I got the nerve to put my finger through.

From what I remember that first cock was white, average sized, cut. I licked the head, and sucked (using the techniques my wife used on me) The guy didn't cum and moved on (my guess is that lots of guys doing that want to edge for some time) i really enjoyed the sensation of dick in my mouth, the feel of the skin, etc. The apparent pleasure of the guy (I dont remember if the first guy moaned)

I had somewhere I needed to be, but I left convinced I wanted to do this again.

So, Id experimented, trying to give a hj at a theater, ended up getting a bj instead.

https://www.reddit.com/r/gayconfessions/s/6lKR2WImbc

A short while later (a few weeks, a few months, I forget. Still 30 something) was still in a dead bedroom with then wife, I went to an adult book store with an arcade with gloryholes.

Id learned about sticking your finger through to show interest. At first when someone jacked off in the booth next to me I just watched through the hole. Eventually I got the nerve to put my finger through.

From what I remember that first cock was white, average sized, cut. I licked the head, and sucked (using the techniques my wife used on me) The guy didn't cum and moved on (my guess is that lots of guys doing that want to edge for some time) i really enjoyed the sensation of dick in my mouth, the feel of the skin, etc. The apparent pleasure of the guy (I dont remember if the first guy moaned)

I had somewhere I needed to be, but I left convinced I wanted to do this again.

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I was about 36 or so, in the late 1990s.

Married, in a dead bedroom phase, so really horny. Id been bicurious for a few years.

Id readon the "internet" (new back then) that there was an adult theater in my city where guys fooled around in the back.

So i went. I found a guy a few years older standing around, I unzipped his fly and felt his cock. He stayed soft. I didn't suck him, my entire plan had bern just to rub a cock. My first time playing with a cock other than my own.

Since he seemed uninterested, I turned away. Before I could think about what do another guy, about late 20s, was on his knees unzipping my fly. He took my cock out and sucked. I came pretty fast in his mouth. I zipped up and left, feeling confused.

I was about 36 or so, in the late 1990s.

Married, in a dead bedroom phase, so really horny. Id been bicurious for a few years.

Id readon the "internet" (new back then) that there was an adult theater in my city where guys fooled around in the back.

So i went. I found a guy a few years older standing around, I unzipped his fly and felt his cock. He stayed soft. I didn't suck him, my entire plan had been just to rub a cock. My first time playing with a cock other than my own.

Since he seemed uninterested, I turned away. Before I could think about what do another guy, about late 20s, was on his knees unzipping my fly. He took my cock out and sucked. I came pretty fast in his mouth. I zipped up and left, feeling confused.