The psychology of a worshipper at the good church

Time for something a bit different.

My actual job involves understanding how people work. Motivations, defence mechanisms, the stories they tell themselves. Combine that with years of handling submissives and you end up with a fairly specific set of insights into the women who end up in congregations like this one.

Most of you aren’t just “into degradation.” That’s the surface. Underneath it there’s usually something more precise.

A lot of you get off on the relief. The moment a man takes the decision making away and simply uses you. No more performing competence. No more managing the temperature of the interaction. Just being reduced to a pair of holes and a pair of tits that exist for someone else’s pleasure. That switch from “person who has to hold it together” to “object that gets used” is chemical for a lot of you. It’s not weakness. It’s the specific high of surrender done properly.

There’s also the validation piece, but it’s not the soft kind. You don’t want to be told you’re beautiful and special. You want to be told you’re a filthy little cunt while you’re being stretched and spat on, and you want the man doing it to mean it. The harsher the assessment, the more real it feels. Soft praise often bounces off. Being treated like something disposable can feel like the first honest attention you’ve had in years. In a world where many men beg for female attention, these moments of honesty are rare, which is what makes them feel special.

Then there’s the pride that sits underneath the shame. A lot of you get quietly smug about how far you’re willing to go. How easily you drop to your knees. How wet you get when a man talks about sharing you or using your arse like it’s just another hole he owns. You like being the girl who can take it. The one who doesn’t flinch. That competence in being used is part of the identity.

The ones who last in this headspace usually aren’t the loudest. They’re the ones who’ve stopped needing to prove how submissive they are and simply become useful. They offer the throat without being asked. They take the plug without negotiation. They stay quiet and available instead of filling the silence with performance. The show drops away and what’s left is a woman who understands her function and finds genuine peace in it.

That’s the psychology. Not “I like being called names.” It’s the deeper satisfaction of being correctly categorised, correctly used, and correctly kept in your place.

Some of you felt recognised reading that. Others got wet. Both reactions are valid, as well as being useful data.

Now tell me where I got it right, and anything I missed.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 9 hours ago

The difference between a brat and an annoying cunt

Let’s get something straight because this keeps cropping up and it’s doing my head in.

A proper brat is a fucking art form.

She’s the one who’ll look you dead in the eye, smirk, and say something so perfectly timed and ridiculous that you want to both throttle her and bend her over the nearest surface. She teases. She pushes. She tests. And she does it with wit. There’s a spark to it. A knowing little glint that says “I know exactly what I’m doing and I know you’ll deal with me for it.” She’s playful. She’s funny. She can take the banter as good as she gives it. When she gets put in her place she doesn’t sulk like a toddler who’s had her iPad taken away - she melts, she grins, she comes back for more. That push-pull is the whole fucking point. It’s chemistry. It’s fun. It’s hot.

I’ve had brats who’ve had me properly laughing while I’m deciding how to wreck them. That’s the good stuff. That’s the dynamic working.

Then there’s the other lot.

The ones who discovered the word “brat” on TikTok or Twitter and decided it was a free pass to be a draining, joyless, attention seeking cunt. No wit. No charm. Just constant low level bollocks. Talking over you. Ignoring clear instructions then acting shocked when there are consequences. Picking fights over nothing. Sulking for hours. Testing boundaries not because it’s hot but because they like the drama and the focus it brings them. They call it “being a brat” when what they’re actually doing is being rude, inconsiderate, and fucking exhausting.

There’s a massive difference between playful defiance and just being a pain in the arse.

One is mutual. It’s a game both people are playing. The other is unilateral. It’s someone using kink language as cover for being difficult and then getting offended when you call it out. Real brats still respect the dynamic underneath the teasing. The annoying ones treat the dynamic like an optional extra they can ignore whenever it suits them.

If your idea of “bratting” is just being consistently unpleasant and then hiding behind the label when someone calls you on it, you’re not a brat. You’re just hard work. And most Doms with any sense will eventually decide you’re not worth the energy.

Be funny. Be sharp. Be a little shit in the good way. That’s the good stuff.

Don’t be a cunt and call it a kink.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 3 days ago

45 [M4F] #London #UK Detailed review of Priya, the bratty 20yo Muslim student I met from Reddit with the sweet face and filthy throat - maybe you want a similar experience?

Had some nice feedback on the last few posts but still no new in person meets. Here’s another full write up. This one’s about Priya.

Before I started meeting girls on Reddit I never really looked at Muslim girls that much. Just didn’t think they were likely to be into getting fucked in filthy and degrading ways. Shows what I knew.

Priya, 20, Bangladeshi London student. Sweet innocent face, big dark eyes, the kind of girl who looked like she’d never sworn in her life. In reality she was an absolute throat goat and properly bratty with it.

We met one summer afternoon. I took her for a coffee first. She was all soft voice and polite smiles, playing with her phone, acting the girly girl. Good banter though. She’d give me little digs, raise an eyebrow, act like she was only half interested. Classic brat. By the time we finished the coffee she was already dropping comments about how boring most guys her age were. I told her to stop talking and come back to mine. She just smirked and followed.

Once we got through the door the polite act slipped pretty quick. She was on her knees before I’d even properly locked it. Sucked my cock like a pro. Messy, deep, lots of spit, looking up at me the whole time with those big innocent eyes - her technique was certainly on point. She even let me film the whole thing. Didn’t even hesitate. Just kept going while the phone was pointed at her, occasionally pulling off to make some bratty comment about how I was filming her like a perv, then going straight back down and taking it deeper.

I bent her over the sofa and fucked her from behind. She took it hard, still talking shit between moans, telling me I wasn’t as rough as some of the older men she’d had. That got me going again pretty sharpish. She stayed bent over, looking back at me, and started telling me the filthy stories. Gangbangs, groups of guys, men older than me using her however they wanted. She’d say it all in that soft little voice, then laugh and call me greedy when I got hard again straight away. Proper little brat.

She was a girly girl through and through. Cute underwear, painted nails, the works. Let me do pretty much everything I wanted that afternoon. Mouth, cunt, tits, throat, filming, degrading talk, the lot. Only thing she wouldn’t do was anal. She made that clear early and stuck to it, but everything else was fair game. She came a couple of times while I used her, still managing to throw little sarcastic comments in between.

We messed around for hours. She’d suck me hard again, I’d fuck her, she’d tell me another story, rinse and repeat. By the time she left her makeup was ruined, her voice was a bit rough, and she was still giving me attitude on the way out. Messaged me later that night calling me a dirty old man and asking when I was free again. We did something similar the next few weeks, before eventually her Reddit account randomly disappeared and she stopped responding to my WhatsApp messages. Shame. She was fun.

Still looking for the next one. And definitely into the idea of that next person being a Muslim girl, or any of you living a bit of a repressed life who’ve been quietly wanting something a lot filthier. If you’ve got the sweet face and the dirty mind, or if you’ve been dying to be used properly by a man who won’t treat you like you’re made of glass, DM me. Write how you think I’d review you after I’ve met you and used you. Be honest about it. I want the ones who already know they’re filthier than they look.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 5 days ago

Ladies of the Church - tell me about the times when you felt most like a whore

I enjoy making girls feel like a complete whore. As I’ve been thinking about that topic a bit lately, and in the spirit of constantly seeking to improve what I do, I figured this was the place to ask.

When’s the time (or times) you properly felt like a complete whore? Not just a bit slutty or a bit used, but properly, deeply, “I’m someone’s cheap little fucktoy right now” levels of it.

Was it the setting, the words, how many blokes, the way you were treated, or just the headspace you were in? Curious what actually tips it over for you.
No judgement, just genuinely interested in the details if you’re up for sharing.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 13 days ago

45 [M4F] #London #UK Remembering the best sluts I have met via Reddit. This time it’s Isla, the 21yo feminist who became my eager free use mouth and throat

Had some good interest in my previous posts where I reminisced about some of my favourite sluts that I’d met on Reddit, and last week’s more detailed review of Ruby. So here’s the full version of another one that got mentioned a fair bit, and also one of my all time favourites.

Isla, 21. Just graduated from a top university with first class honours. Looked a bit frumpy in normal clothes, the kind of girl you’d walk past without a second glance. Glasses, plain jumpers, hair always tied back, the type who sat at the front of lectures and argued eloquently about equality. Put her in something properly sexy though and it was like one of those Hollywood glow ups where the geeky girl suddenly becomes the hot one. Toned body and the biggest natural tits I’ve ever had my hands on. 34J. They looked ridiculous on her frame in the best possible way, especially when she was on her knees with them hanging heavy and swinging while she worked.

She’d only had two partners before me. Both vanilla student boyfriends who barely knew what they were doing. Isla was feminist on paper. But in practice she was the most eager, filthy little cock worshipper I’ve ever used. I’ve never had a girl who asked to suck my cock as often as she did. She’d message me in the middle of the day saying her mouth felt empty and she needed it. Sometimes she’d turn up at mine already wet just from thinking about it, no knickers, and go straight to her knees the second the door closed. Other times she’d get me off, keep me in her throat afterwards cockwarming until I got hard again, then carry straight on without being told. She’d stay there for ages, eyes closed, just holding me in her mouth like it was the only place she wanted to be. A few times she fell asleep with me still in her mouth.

Favourite memory is face fucking her. Proper CNC style, which she loved and pleased for. I’d grab her hair, push her down and use her throat like a toy. Making her choke and drool all over my cock and down those massive tits until everything was a mess. Slapping her face when I wanted more effort or a different rhythm. Eyes watering, makeup completely ruined, spit strings hanging from her chin, still looking up at me like she didn’t want me to stop. I’d sometimes make her thank me between thrusts. “Thank you for using my throat, Daddy.” She’d say, voice hoarse, then open wider for more. A few times she came just from that, no one touching her cunt, just from being face fucked and called a dirty little throat slut. She’d shake and moan around my cock and keep going. She’d take my cum however I told her. Face, mouth, tits, throat, mixed with her own spit and wiped across her cheeks. Never complained once. A couple of times she asked if she could have seconds before I’d even finished the first load.

She was into being degraded, spat on, spanked hard across those big tits and that arse. Loved it when I used her mouth while I watched porn. I’d sit on the sofa with my cock down her throat and she’d stay in position, adjusting whenever I told her to. Mouth wider. Deeper. Hold it there. Good girl. She melted every time I called her that. For a girl who’d barely explored her sexual side before me she took to being a full time cock sleeve ridiculously fast. One of those proper switches from smart feminist graduate to Daddy’s free use throat slut almost overnight. She’d leave my place with her voice croaking, her face still sticky and her tits marked from my hands, then text me later the same night saying she already wanted to do it again. Sometimes she’d send a photo of herself still messy, asking if I’d use her tomorrow. She was a fun fuck too, but really my memories are all about that mouth and throat of hers.

Things ended when she caught feelings. Started getting jealous and wanting more than just being used. Shame. She was excellent while it lasted. One of the best mouths I’ve ever had the pleasure of destroying. Take note ladies - offering up your mouth for free use goes a long way in making a man happy.

Still looking for the next one. If you’ve been craving an older man to use your mouth properly, especially if you’re the type that looks innocent or proper on the outside but wants to be face fucked, slapped, degraded and treated like a complete whore, DM me. Write how you think I’d remember you after I’ve met you and used you. Make it good. I want the eager ones who already know they need it.

And if anyone wants the longer version of any of the others, let me know.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 13 days ago

45 [M4F] #London #UK - a detailed review of a Reddit slut I used: Ruby, aged 19. Will you be next?

Had a lot of interest in my last post where I reviewed some of the Reddit sluts I’ve used. Ruby got mentioned more than most of the others. Link if you missed it:

Got a decent number of DMs off the back of it too, but none of them have turned into someone new to review yet. So while I’m waiting, here’s the full length version of Ruby.

Ruby, 19. Met her about two years ago after she replied to one of my ads looking for a young girl to train and use. First message was shy and meek: “Hi Daddy I’ve never done this before but I want to be trained.”

We messaged for a week or two. She was at uni in a nearby city, just finishing year 1 exams and about to break for summer. Sounded like she’d started exploring her slutty side at uni, fucked a few different lads, but the stories were underwhelming. Mostly young inexperienced students the same age as her. You could tell she’d enjoyed being more sexual but those boys weren’t giving her what she actually wanted. She wanted someone who knew what they were doing. More importantly she wanted to be dominated. I love girls that age. Young, eager, and already half shaped by rough porn as their first real sexual experiences.

We swapped photos, talked about what might happen if we met, and she booked a cheap hotel near me for the next weekend. Split the cost. One night where I was in charge and she got to experience the thrill of submitting to an older, more experienced man.

Day of the meet we started in the coffee shop next door to the hotel. She was properly nervous. Took her a good ten minutes before she could string a full sentence together. So I dialled it back. Talked about her first year at uni, summer plans, the disappointing student fucks. Set the trap. Experienced older guy who was happy she’d found her slutty side but wasn’t above teasing her about what those boys had been doing wrong.

Once the coffees were gone the conversation shifted to the hotel. We’d already covered it online but I gave her the clear version she needed. Told her straight: you’re going to be my slut to use today Ruby. You’re going to learn how to take direction, take a spanking, get fucked hard, and thank me for it at the end. She blushed and nodded. Still looked extremely nervous.

I told her we didn’t have to do it. She’d already said she didn’t want reception seeing us check in together. Age gap was obvious and she didn’t look older than she was. So I sent her in alone and told her to text me when she was ready.

I waited longer than expected. Five minutes turned into ten, then twenty. Started thinking she’d changed her mind. Sent a text saying she could back out if she wanted. Got an immediate reply: “Sorry. I haven’t changed my mind. I’m just nervous. Give me 10 more minutes and then come up to room XXX.”

Went up. She opened the door. Ruby was chubbier than the photos had suggested, but cute face, glasses, nose piercing, dyed orange hair. Sort of emo look which I like. The extra weight gave her big gorgeous tits and a big round arse. Hadn’t fucked an actual teenager in years. The age gap and experience gap felt very hot.

She barely spoke. Just nodded when I asked if she was ready to do whatever Daddy told her.

Had her present her still clothed body for inspection. Felt her tits, bent her over the bed for a proper grope and a few spanks on that arse, then made her stand and look me in the eyes while I shoved my fingers in her mouth and made her choke on them. Asked if she wanted to be a nasty little slut. She nodded silently. Loved how compliant she was.

Told her Daddy loves having his cock sucked and asked if she wanted to learn how to do it properly. Another nod. Told her to stay put while I stripped and folded my clothes on the desk. Sat in the chair, swivelled to face her, and gave the first real order: strip down to your underwear and get on your knees. She did it without question.

Made her crawl across the room to me. She knelt in front of the chair waiting. Asked if she wanted Daddy to show her how a good girl sucks cock. Nodded again. Told her mouth wide open. Spit straight into it. She recoiled a bit. Told her she was going to let me do whatever I wanted to her mouth and throat, then told her to show me how she sucked cock.

She was better than expected. Not much experience but enthusiasm goes a long way, and that cute face looked pretty bobbing on my cock. Technique was lacking though. No depth, no rhythm. So I took over. Grabbed her hair and controlled her head, made her gag, eyes watering. Gave her cheek a little slap and told her this is how you suck cock. Taught her the cycle I like: suck, gag, lick the shaft and head, then suck my balls while one of us stroked the shaft. Once she had it down I came all over her face. She looked so happy when I called her a good girl with cum covering her. Collected some on my fingers and fed it to her. She swallowed it without being told.

Instructed her to bend over the bed for the next lesson. She did, face still sticky, that big arse staring back at me. Pushed her head down into the mattress and paddled her arse until it was pink and raw. She took it well, little gasps with no real protest, so I pulled her knickers down and felt how wet she was. Fingers slid straight in with almost no resistance. Had two, then three, then four inside her quickly. Most girls need warming up. Not her. Finger fucked her hard and she came almost straight away, legs shaking. Wiped my soaked fingers on her face and in her mouth. Called her a good girl for being such a nasty little whore.

Main event next. She didn’t just want to get used as a whore, she wanted to be fucked like one. That messy 19 year old face was enough to get me hard again. Told her to put the condom on and spread her cunt nice and wide. She fumbled with it a bit but once it was on I gagged her so the neighbours wouldn’t hear too much and fucked her hard from behind. She took a proper rough fucking, her body crumbling into the bed, making these little muffled noises every time I went deep. Finished by pulling out and spraying the second load across her arse cheeks.

Took the gag out and did the aftercare we’d talked about online. Cuddled her while she quivered. She said nothing. Completely non-verbal. After about half an hour of me basically talking to myself I made my excuses. Handed her the £50 for my half of the hotel as agreed. She was sort of curled up on the bed, still quiet. Let myself out.

Exchanged a few messages afterwards but never met again. One time anonymous thing. She got to experience being properly submissive to an older man. I got to train a teenage slut less than half my age. Fun times.

Still looking for the next one. If you’ve been craving an older man to use you properly, DM me. Same as before: write how you think I’d review you after I’ve met you and used you. All ages and experience levels considered.

And if anyone wants a more in depth version of any of the others from the original post, say so in the comments.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 20 days ago

45 [M4F] #London #UK Read how I used my last few Reddit sluts then tell me how you think I’d review you

I’ve met and used plenty of girls from the apps, in person and Reddit. I like them younger, submissive and properly filthy. I’ve found that Reddit is full of them. So here I am, looking for the next one.

Below are my reviews for a few of the most fun sluts that I’ve met and used from Reddit. Names changed, obviously:

Natalie, 35, high flying British career woman who wanted to be a proper fucktoy before settling down. Athletic body and zero limits. I fucked her arse about an hour after we met in public. She kept coming back for regular use until her biological clock got too loud and she went looking for a nice guy. Still wonder how that vanilla life is treating her.

Priya, 20, Bangladeshi London student. Sweet innocent face but an absolute throat goat. She’d casually tell me about the gangbangs and older men she’d let destroy her then apologise so cutely while drooling all over my cock during messy deepthroat sessions. One of the best cock suckers I’ve had the pleasure of using.

Ruby, nervous 19 year old British student who’d never been properly dominated. She travelled into London just so I could train her. Stripped her, put her on her knees, taught her how to worship cock properly then fucked her senseless from behind. Left her a crumpled satisfied mess in her hotel room.

Isla, 21, feminist intellectual British student. In theory very proper. In practice she’d do anything to please Daddy. Insatiable for sucking cock. Took me deep into depravity with her, bondage, spitting, brutal rough sex, forced orgasms, the works. Some of the most perfect tits I’ve ever played with.

Zara, 20, African student with an insane body who dreamed of starting OnlyFans. I filmed myself using her every way I wanted. Shame about the face but the body was built for sin. Pretty sure all those videos and photos are still just mine to enjoy since her OF never happened.

Aisha, stunning 24 year old British Pakistani girl. Smaller perky tits but an absolute dumptruck arse. She fell hard, started calling me Daddy and would sneak away from her strict religious family whenever she could just to get used.

Sophie, 27, posh nerdy British girl who lived literally around the corner. Cute face, fantastic tits, proper accent. One pub drink was all it took before she was putty in my hands. The very next day she was on her knees in my house calling me Daddy and deepthroating like she’d been training for it. Her arse got the paddle treatment and she melted every time I used her hard and degraded her.

Mia, 30, corporate baddie who was already sending me slutty pics on demand before we even met. When we finally did I treated her like a complete whore and she fucking loved it. Kept crawling back for more.

Lila, 30, South African wife with massive heavy tits that barely stayed contained. Hubby wasn’t giving her the rough degrading treatment she secretly craved so after two painfully vanilla coffee dates she finally surrendered. Once she did absolute cumslut mode activated. She’d show up at my place already plugged, take it in every hole like a champ and I’d send her home to her boring husband with my load still dripping down her face.

Brooke, 29, American tourist in London for one week. Gorgeous body, big perky tits and the prettiest little pussy I’ve seen. Her first message was Daddy my needy little pussy needs attention while I’m in London. She was riding me with a bruised arse shortly after.

Layla, 27, repressed Asian lawyer who’d spent years lurking on subreddits like this. Dry spell ended the second she met me. Became my free use slut before we’d even met in person. Took her anal virginity about ten minutes after our first in person hello. Champion cocksucker. Her feedback after the first session was ‘I wanted you to degrade and use me even harder’. Love that attitude.

So now we turn to you. Send me a DM if you want to be next on the list. In that reply be a good girl and write how you think I would review YOU after we’ve met and I’ve used you, and if you sound fun enough, maybe we’ll see if we can make that review a reality.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 27 days ago

45 [M4F] #London - looking for a girl to degrade

Right, here we go again.

I’m 45, London based, and somehow still hunting for a girl who actually wants to be treated like the filthy little whore she is instead of just roleplaying it in her notes app. Not exactly a glowing endorsement of my dating life, but honesty’s cheaper than therapy.

I like degrading dirty girls. Talking to them like they’re nothing but a set of holes, telling them exactly what they’re for, fucking them hard and messy until they’re a trembling, used up mess.

Name calling, ownership talk, treating them like a cheap cumdump when the mood takes me. That shit gets me going. A lot.

But (and I like to think this is something that sets me apart from some others) I’m not actually a cunt in real life. Safewords work. Limits get respected. Aftercare happens. If you say red, everything stops. I’m after a girl who wants to be degraded and fucked like a whore, not someone who needs therapy because some idiot couldn’t tell the difference between kink and actual abuse.

I’m attractive, fit, greying at the temples (apparently “distinguished”), stubbly beard, can host, and I’d rather this turn into real life meetings than endless online teasing. Online first is fine while we see if the chemistry’s there.

Here’s what I’m after:
• A girl who gets wet at the idea of being called a dirty little fucktoy and used accordingly
• Preferably under 35, local-ish or willing to travel into London
• Bratty, eager, pathetic, or somewhere in between - just be honest about what you actually like
• Someone who can still hold a conversation when she’s not being told what a worthless slut she is

I’m not looking for a 24/7 slave from the jump, and I’m not after someone who just wants a soft dom who occasionally says “good girl.” I want a slut who wants to be degraded, used, and properly fucked like the whore she is, then still able to laugh about it afterwards.

If that sounds like you, message me. Tell me something real - what you like, what you don’t, or just how much of a needy little slut you are. Bonus points if you make me laugh while you’re doing it.

Looking forward to seeing which of you actually wants it.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 28 days ago

45 [M4F] #London - Looking for a degraded little slut to use

Right, here we go again.

I’m 45, London based, and somehow still hunting for a girl who actually wants to be treated like the filthy little whore she is instead of just roleplaying it in her notes app. Not exactly a glowing endorsement of my dating life, but honesty’s cheaper than therapy.

I like degrading dirty girls. Talking to them like they’re nothing but a set of holes, telling them exactly what they’re for, fucking them hard and messy until they’re a trembling, used up mess.

Name calling, ownership talk, treating them like a cheap cumdump when the mood takes me. That shit gets me going. A lot.

But (and I like to think this is something that sets me apart from some others) I’m not actually a cunt in real life. Safewords work. Limits get respected. Aftercare happens. If you say red, everything stops. I’m after a girl who wants to be degraded and fucked like a whore, not someone who needs therapy because some idiot couldn’t tell the difference between kink and actual abuse.

I’m attractive, fit, greying at the temples (apparently “distinguished”), stubbly beard, can host, and I’d rather this turn into real life meetings than endless online teasing. Online first is fine while we see if the chemistry’s there.

Here’s what I’m after:
• A girl who gets wet at the idea of being called a dirty little fucktoy and used accordingly
• Preferably under 35, local-ish or willing to travel into London
• Bratty, eager, pathetic, or somewhere in between - just be honest about what you actually like
• Someone who can still hold a conversation when she’s not being told what a worthless slut she is

I’m not looking for a 24/7 slave from the jump, and I’m not after someone who just wants a soft dom who occasionally says “good girl.” I want a slut who wants to be degraded, used, and properly fucked like the whore she is, then still able to laugh about it afterwards.

If that sounds like you, message me. Tell me something real - what you like, what you don’t, or just how much of a needy little slut you are. Bonus points if you make me laugh while you’re doing it.

Looking forward to seeing which of you actually wants it.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 29 days ago

45 [M4F] #London - Looking for a girl who gets the joke (and still wants to be fucked like a whore)

Alright, cards on the table.

I’m 45, live in London, and somehow still single enough to be posting here. Not proud of it, but here we are. I’ve got a proper job, a house that doesn’t smell of regret (most days), and enough life experience to know the difference between a kink and actually being a prick. Important distinction, that.

I’m into the whole misogyny thing as play. The talking down, the ownership language, the “know your place” stuff, the light degradation, the feeling that you’re there to serve and please. It does it for me. A lot. But I’m not one of those blokes who actually thinks women are inferior or that feminism ruined everything. I just like the dynamic when it’s consensual, negotiated, and someone is genuinely getting off on it. Safewords exist for a reason. Limits are non-negotiable. Aftercare is not optional. If you say stop, it stops. Full stop. I’m not interested in real world harm or anyone who confuses this with actual hatred.

I’m pretty fit and attractive for my age, dark hair going a bit grey at the sides which I’m told is “distinguished” rather than “old”. Can host. Prefer someone local-ish so this doesn’t stay pure fantasy forever, but I’m open to online first if the chemistry’s there.

What I’m after:

- Someone who finds the idea of being owned/used/spoken to like that hot rather than just edgy for the sake of it
- Preferably under 35 (flexibility exists if the attitude’s right)
- Bratty or soft and eager both work, just be honest about which
- Can hold a conversation that isn’t just “yes sir” on loop
- Actually wants to meet at some point rather than live in DMs forever

I’m funny-ish, a bit self deprecating, not a walking red pill podcast, and I can switch the intensity up or down depending on what you need. Not looking for 24/7 total power exchange from day one, but I’m also not looking for someone who just wants a polite boyfriend who sometimes calls her a good girl.

If any of that lands, drop me a message. Tell me something real about yourself rather than just “hi.” Bonus points if you make me laugh.

And yes, I know how this sub works. I’m not expecting miracles. Just hoping there’s a girl out there who likes the game as much as I do and isn’t terrified of a man who can still say “green, yellow, red” without needing a script.

Cheers.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 1 month ago

Young, inexperienced cunts are the ones worth ruining properly

I’m a middle aged man who’s spent years quietly destroying younger, less experienced girls. Not the hardened whores who already know the script. The fresh ones. The ones still half convinced they’re “good girls.” The ones whose cunts have only ever been treated gently.

They’re the ones who break the sweetest.
There’s something particularly satisfying about taking a girl in her early twenties who’s only ever had polite, respectful sex and slowly teaching her what her body is actually for. Watching the confusion on her face the first time you slap her cunt hard enough to make her eyes water… then push two fingers inside and find her dripping. The way she tries to protest while her hips keep pushing back against your hand. The soft, shocked little sounds she makes when you finally force your cock into her throat and hold her there until spit runs down her chin and her eyes go glassy.

I don’t rush them. I never have. The best ones need time. You start with small degradations - making her edge while she calls herself a dirty little slut, making her edge again while she admits she wants to be used like one. Then you escalate. You make her taste her own cunt off your fingers. You make her thank you for the privilege of choking on your cock. You make her beg to be fucked in the arse while she’s still crying from the last orgasm you forced out of her.

Eventually the resistance dies. The shame stops fighting and starts feeding the arousal instead. That’s when the real fun begins. When the clever, polite girl who used to cross her legs and look away from dirty talk is the same girl who’s now on her knees with her tongue out, waiting to be spat on, desperate for you to call her a worthless little fuckhole because it’s the only thing that makes her cunt throb anymore.

I’ve had more of them than I can remember. Bright, well spoken British girls who thought they were too smart for this. They all end up the same: dripping, obedient, and quietly addicted to being treated like the filthy little cunts they always were underneath.

A proper king doesn’t just use a young girl.

He rewires her.

And once you’ve done it properly, she never really comes back the same.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 1 month ago

Middle aged British King remembers the filthiest Reddit sluts I’ve fucked and used… How do you want me to remember you?

I’ve met eager cunts pretty much every way possible - dating apps, kinky events, bars, you name it. But for a man like me who craves young, shameless, no limits submissive sluts, Reddit has been an absolute goldmine. The best part? So many of you filthy girls are right here in the UK, especially London, just waiting to be properly used.

Here are some of my favourite memories of the Reddit sluts I’ve turned into eager little cum dumps (names changed, obviously):

Lila, a 30 year old South African wife with massive, heavy tits that barely stayed contained. Hubby wasn’t giving her the rough, degrading treatment she secretly craved, so after two painfully vanilla coffee dates she finally surrendered. Once she did? Absolute cumslut mode activated. She’d show up at my place already plugged, take it in every hole like a champ, and I’d send her home to her boring husband with my load still dripping down her face.

Sophie, a 27 year old posh, nerdy British girl who lived literally around the corner. Cute face, fantastic tits, proper accent. One pub drink was all it took before she was putty in my hands. The very next day she was on her knees in my house calling me Daddy and deepthroating like she’d been training for it. Her arse got the paddle treatment and she melted every time I used her hard and degraded her.

Priya, a 20 year old Bangladeshi London student. Sweet innocent face, absolute throat goat. She’d casually tell me about the gangbangs and older men she’d let destroy her, then apologise so cutely while drooling all over my cock during messy deepthroat sessions. One of the best cock suckers I’ve ever had the pleasure of using.

Natalie, a 35 year old high flying British career woman who wanted to be a proper submissive fucktoy before settling down. Athletic body, zero limits. I fucked her arse barely an hour after we first met in public. She kept coming back for regular use until her biological clock got too loud and she went off to find a “nice guy.” Still wonder how that vanilla life is treating her…

Ruby, a nervous 19 year old British student who’d never been properly dominated. She travelled into London just so I could train her. Stripped her, put her on her knees, taught her how to worship cock properly, then fucked her senseless from behind. Left her a crumpled, satisfied mess in her hotel room.

Isla, a 21 year old feminist intellectual British student. In theory very proper. In practice? She’d do anything to please Daddy. Insatiable for sucking cock, took me deep into depravity with her - bondage, spitting, brutal rough sex, forced orgasms, the works. Some of the most perfect tits I’ve ever played with.

Mia, a 30 year old corporate baddie who was sending me slutty pics on demand before we even met. When we finally did, I treated her like a complete whore and she fucking loved it. Kept crawling back for more.

Zara, a 20 year old African student with an insane body who dreamed of starting OnlyFans. I filmed myself using her every way I wanted. Shame about the face, but the body was built for sin. Pretty sure all those videos and photos are still just mine to enjoy since her OF never happened.

Aisha, a stunning 24 year-old British Pakistani girl. Smaller perky tits but an absolute dumptruck arse. She fell hard, started calling me Daddy, and would sneak away from her strict religious family whenever she could just to get used.

Brooke, a 29 year old American tourist in London for one week. Gorgeous body, big perky tits, and the prettiest little pussy I’ve seen. Her first message? “Daddy, my needy little pussy needs attention while I’m in London.” She was riding me with a bruised arse shortly after.

Layla, a 27 year old repressed lawyer who’d spent years lurking on subreddits like this. Dry spell ended the second she met me. Became my free use slut before we’d even met in person. Took her anal virginity about ten minutes after our first hello. Champion cocksucker. Her review after the first session? “I wanted you to degrade and use me even harder.” Good girl.

So tell me, cunts of Reddit (especially you filthy London/UK girls reading this right now)… how would you want me to remember you?

Would you be the eager little slut who shows up plugged and dripping? The posh girl who calls me Daddy while I ruin her holes? The secret submissive who finally gets the rough, degrading treatment she’s been craving?

Drop a comment or slide into my DMs and introduce yourself. Tell me what kind of memory you want to become.

Your move, sluts. 👑

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 1 month ago
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45 [M4F] #London - Looking for a younger girl who wants to be my personal free use toy

If you’re the sort of filthy minded girl who just swiped past a load of dull “looking for my soulmate” posts and thought “nah, I need something that’ll actually make me throb,” then stick around. For a middle aged man, I think I’m doing alright… salt and pepper stubble, dad bod that’s surprisingly strong from carrying my own ego around, and the sort of smirk that says I know exactly what I’d do with you if you were here right now.

I’m 45, properly British (dry humour, endless piss taking, apologising even when I’m about to ruin you), and I’ve got my shit together enough that I can host at my place without it feeling like a crime scene. What I’m after is simple and delightfully depraved: a younger girl who gets wet at the idea of being my free use fucktoy.

You know the vibe - I come home, you’re mine. Cooking, watching telly, in the shower, middle of the night, whenever the mood strikes. I want to be able to bend you over, use your mouth, finger you under the table, or just slide into you while you’re trying to finish your coffee. No performance, no big production, just casual ownership of your body because it turns us both on. You’ll be spoiled rotten in every other way (cuddles, banter, proper aftercare, snacks, the lot), but sexually? You’re my eager little toy.

I’m confident without being a wanker about it - I know how to read the room (or the body), I’m generous with orgasms, and I give the kind of praise that makes good girls melt and brats even brattier. Heavy on the free use, light degradation mixed with filthy praise, manhandling, and whatever else makes your knickers damp. I’ve got a filthy mouth and a very active imagination, and I love hearing exactly what makes you clench.

If that sounds like the sort of arrangement that gets you stupidly horny, drop me a message. Tell me your age, location and what you like about the arrangement I’ve suggested. No prior experience required, as I’ll happily work with eager newbies.

Come on then, darling. Make my inbox interesting. 

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago

45 [M4F] #London - Looking for a younger girl who wants to be my personal free use toy

If you’re the sort of filthy minded girl who just swiped past a load of dull “looking for my soulmate” posts and thought “nah, I need something that’ll actually make me throb,” then stick around. For a middle aged man, I think I’m doing alright… salt and pepper stubble, dad bod that’s surprisingly strong from carrying my own ego around, and the sort of smirk that says I know exactly what I’d do with you if you were here right now.

I’m 45, properly British (dry humour, endless piss taking, apologising even when I’m about to ruin you), and I’ve got my shit together enough that I can host at my place without it feeling like a crime scene. What I’m after is simple and delightfully depraved: a younger girl who gets wet at the idea of being my free use fucktoy.

You know the vibe - I come home, you’re mine. Cooking, watching telly, in the shower, middle of the night, whenever the mood strikes. I want to be able to bend you over, use your mouth, finger you under the table, or just slide into you while you’re trying to finish your coffee. No performance, no big production, just casual ownership of your body because it turns us both on. You’ll be spoiled rotten in every other way (cuddles, banter, proper aftercare, snacks, the lot), but sexually? You’re my eager little toy.

I’m confident without being a wanker about it - I know how to read the room (or the body), I’m generous with orgasms, and I give the kind of praise that makes good girls melt and brats even brattier. Heavy on the free use, light degradation mixed with filthy praise, manhandling, and whatever else makes your knickers damp. I’ve got a filthy mouth and a very active imagination, and I love hearing exactly what makes you clench.

If that sounds like the sort of arrangement that gets you stupidly horny, drop me a message. Tell me your age, location and what you like about the arrangement I’ve suggested. No prior experience required, as I’ll happily work with eager newbies.

Come on then, darling. Make my inbox interesting. 

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago

45 [M4F] Looking for my new favourite walking, talking stress toy: Featuring creative degradation from me

Hey there, you beautiful little disaster,

I’m in one of those moods where I just want to scoop you up like a dazed fox I found raiding the wheelie bin, throw you in the boot of my car (metaphorically… for now), and use you whenever the fuck I feel like it. Grocery run? You’re coming. Bored at 2am? You’re getting a voice note telling you exactly how pathetic you look waiting for my attention. Just finished a long day and need to ruin something cute? Congratulations, that’s your new job description.

I’m based in London (UK) but happy to start online while we figure out if you’re actually as fun to break as you sound in your messages. The second you prove yourself, though? Expect to be summoned like a cheap Uber with worse ratings.

What you should know: I’m not your average “shut up slut” guy. That’s cute for beginners. I get creative. I will roast your entire personality while making you thank me for it. I’ll come up with new and inventive ways to remind you what a desperate, drooling mess you are. Expect tasks that are equal parts hilarious and humiliating, voice notes that will make you hide your phone in shame on the bus, and degradation so specific and personal you’ll be equal parts mortified and soaked.

So if you’re a self aware little degenerate who wants to feel properly used instead of just talked dirty to, slide into my DMs with your age, a pic to follow soon after (face + body preferred, I’m not running a charity), and I want you to tell me the most pathetic thing you’ve done for attention recently.

Don’t be boring. I delete boring instantly.

Let’s make your friends worry about you in the best possible way.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago

45 [M4F] #London Dom seeking a cheeky young fucktoy to ruin during this bloody heatwave

Alright you lot, this bloody heatwave has got the whole city sweaty, sticky and properly wound up, hasn’t it? I’m sat here, shirt off, my fan losing its battle with the elements, and my mind’s gone full on filthy. So I figured I might as well put it out there to Reddit.

I’m a 45 year old bloke, educated, decently attractive, and I’m packing a nice thick girthy cock that I know exactly how to use. I’ve got a proper dominant streak and I’m after a young, eager submissive fucktoy who wants to be used. And I mean used. Whenever I fancy, however I fancy. Your mouth, your cunt, your arse, your tits - all of it on my schedule. I want someone who gets wet at the thought of being told to drop to their knees the second I walk through the door, or bent over the kitchen counter while dinner’s still cooking.

But before you start touching yourself to that image, let’s be clear: I’m not just some random dodgy bloke off the internet. I’m safe, reliable, experienced, and I take consent and communication seriously. STI tested, respect limits, aftercare is non-negotiable, the whole responsible Dom package. You’ll always have a way to stop things and I’ll actually listen. I’m not here to mess up your life, just your knickers.

If you’re 18-30ish, slim to curvy, submissive by nature, and the idea of being my personal warm wet toy makes you throb, drop me a message. Tell me a bit about you, what you’re into (and what you’re not), and maybe send a pic if you’re feeling brave. Extra credit if you’ve got a filthy sense of humour and can handle a bit of banter as well as a bit of rough.

This heat’s only going to get worse, so we might as well make the most of it. So if this post grabbed your attention, let’s turn up the temperature together. Come say hi.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago

It’s Fathers Day! What are you grateful little cunts doing to worship your Daddy today?

It’s Father’s Day, and this Daddy and King is feeling generous. While you lot are probably still recovering from whatever mischief you got up to last night, I want to hear from all the submissive little cunts, good girls, cheeky brats and devoted Daddy worshippers out there.

What are you doing (or planning) today to properly thank and spoil the man who owns you? How are you showing your gratitude to the firm hand that keeps you in line?

I’d especially like to hear about the filthy things you are doing to show devotion. Maybe you are…

  • Dressing up like the perfect little fucktoy. Or staying naked like a good girl should?
  • On your knees serving him breakfast, sucking him off whilst he sips his morning coffee, or offering up all your holes as his special Father’s Day treat?
  • Writing a filthy little confession about how you hope Daddy will sort you out today?
  • Extra worship: cleaning the house, massaging his tired feet, begging to be used, degraded, bred, or put in your place like the eager little slut you are?
  • Or maybe you’ll be inviting your friends over so that he has access to lots of eager fuckholes?

Now be good little cunts and reply with exactly how you’re going to make the day special for your Daddy King. And if you make it especially depraved and eager, you might just get the attention you clearly crave…

Daddies/Kings - tell us what you expect the young cunts in your life to do for you today.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago

45yo English King seeking pocket sluts for live World Cup entertainment. Your cunt serves the football results, as well as my whims

Listen up, you desperate little football cunts. The World Cup is already underway and I’m a 45 year old English Dom who’s turning every match into my personal remote controlled slutty entertainment.

England just fucked Croatia 4-2 last night and I’m still buzzing. I want a few eager pocket sluts on standby who’ll message me with your home nation (or the team you’re actually supporting, you filthy little traitor). Once you’re mine, your holes belong to me for the rest of the tournament. I’ll use you however I want based on how your country performs. Limits discussed, obedience mandatory.

Here’s how I’ll play with you pathetic match-day toys:

  • England wins big (like last night’s 4-2 thrashing of Croatia): I might have you drop everything and celebrate properly. Edge yourself for every goal we scored, then beg to cum while chanting “It’s coming home”. Maybe I'll even have you use a dildo in England's colours
  • Your team wins or shines: Good girl… for now. I might reward you by letting you cum while moaning about how proud you are. You’ll just have to thank my English cock for allowing it.
  • Your team draws like the boring fucks Spain (0-0 vs Cape Verde): Expect long, frustrating edging sessions with no release. You’ll write lines like “My pathetic country can’t even score” while your cunt throbs uselessly.
  • Your team gets humiliated: Zero mercy. I’ll have you spanked, plugged, or denied while you repeat how weak your nation is compared to England.
  • Rivalry special: If you’re supporting a big rival and they suffer, you’ll send me proof of how wet it makes you. Nothing hotter than turning a proud German, Portuguese, or Argentine slut into a dripping mess celebrating English dominance.
  • Your team knocks England out: Let's face it, it could happen. If it does, I’ll use you in the most degrading way I can think of, and that feels relevant to what has actually happened.

I’m creative, mean when it’s funny, and very generous with sluts who know their place beneath a proper English King. Whether you’re bratty and need breaking or already dripping at the thought of being used, I want to hear from you.

Message me with:

  • Your country (or who you support)
  • Your age
  • Why you deserve my attention during this World Cup. Do try and make this bit filthy

The tournament is heating up and my cock is ready for fresh entertainment. Don’t keep me waiting, cunts.

Up the Three Lions, and down on your knees.

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago

45 [M4F] #London - Charming devil seeks pathetic young cumslut to laugh at, degrade and utterly ruin

Good evening, you delightfully disgusting young things.

If you’re an 18-35 year old pathetic little slut scrolling with your cunt already throbbing because the idea of an older, experienced London guy mocking you, breaking you, and turning you into a giggling, brainless dripping mess gets you stupidly wet… congratulations, you might well have found your new owner. I’m 45, fit, witty when I want to be, and the owner of a genuinely nice thick cock that’s rearranged plenty of younger insides and left them leaking, ruined and pathetically grateful.

I’m the perfect blend of charming meets cruel bastard. I’ll have you laughing at yourself while you’re on your knees like a worthless set of holes, then spit in your mouth and remind you exactly how pathetic you are. Think ‘witty gentleman who’ll buy you a drink… then treat you like the disposable fuckmeat the rest of the time’.

London based girls get massive priority because I actually want to meet up and destroy eager young sluts in real life - this might be hotel rooms, risky public spots around the city, or wherever I feel like using you. If you’re elsewhere in the UK, you’re still welcome. And if you’re overseas? Then you really will have to be hilariously desperate , creative, and obedient as fuck to keep my attention, because this cock wants real warm holes to wreck, not just pixels.

Here’s what being mine actually looks like, you pretty little degenerate cumrag:

  • Constant sweet but brutal degradation, being called ‘Daddy’s worthless young whore’, ‘brainless three holed fuckbag’, ‘it’, or ‘pathetic cumslut’ while I laugh at how soaked you get
  • Daily tasks that are equal parts funny and humiliating. You might be writing ‘I’m a worthless slut’ all over your tits and thighs, wearing a plug on the tune while trying (and failing) to act normal, sending voice notes of you moaning how grateful you are to be treated like shit
  • Rough, nasty fun: choking, slapping, spitting, free use, CNC, filming you getting destroyed so you can rewatch how ridiculous and broken you look when your eyes roll back
  • Heavy orgasm control. Expect plenty of denial because edging pathetic girls is comedy gold, with rare mercy orgasms only if you entertain me by being extra stupid and desperate
  • All the exposure, breeding talk and depraved shit that makes self-respecting girls run away, but desperate young sluts drip

I’m genuine and experienced, so you’ll actually enjoy being corrupted and laughed at… right up until you’re a happy drooling wreck thanking me for destroying what little dignity you had left.

First message rules (miss any, and you’ll probably get ignored):

  1. Your age + location (London = instant interest, UK = very strong interest)
  2. Tell me in filthy, honest, preferably funny detail why a younger girl like you is such a pathetic degraded slut and gets so desperately wet at the thought of being owned and ruined by an older London man with a thick cock
  3. Your hard limits. Be clear, I’m not a fucking mind reader.

Local girls who prove themselves get real throat fucking, insides properly rearranged, and the full charm + cruelty experience. Long distance try hard who go full degenerate with tasks and videos might earn real attention too.

So… how many of you cute, curious, dripping, self loathing young sluts are actually pathetic enough to message me? Don’t overthink it. Worst case I just laugh at you while I break you.

Ready to giggle, blush, drip, and get absolutely wrecked by someone who knows exactly how to handle pathetic little cumsluts? Prove it, gorgeous. I'll be waiting with a smirk. 

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u/Mums_Gone_To_Iceland — 2 months ago