Using Premature Ejaculation Delay Sprays

Hi all, I have pretty extreme issue with premature ejaculation that have put any form of penetrative sex out of the question. Not only that, but I’ve had issues in the past with even handjobs or blowjobs not lasting or being enjoyable due to PE. Even simply making out and feeling pressure on my penis has made me cum.

I’ve done some research and have discovered that over-the-counter delay sprays have led to positive results in helping men last longer in bed. I am really interested in trying this remedy but don’t have a partner to experiment with. Is this something I could ask a provider that I can use during a session?

For context: the spray would be applied prior to sex and can of course have a condom placed on after it is applied. The spray would never come into contact with the provider if used. From what I’ve read it also doesn’t last extremely long (not trying to just have sex for 4 hours straight and never cum). I mainly want to use it for a CBJ that would actually last longer than 20 seconds. It generally helps intimacy last about 5-15 minutes longer.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 5 days ago

Communication over text/email

I know that communicating details for a booking over text or email are done so with a lot of caution or general avoidance of specific details. However, how much is too much?

In my specific case with a provider I would like to book with, I want to express my desire to primarily use toys on her (due to some issues that make me prefer to avoid PIV) and have a general “Netflix and chill” session while we order some take out.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 6 days ago

How do you handle shy/introverted clients?

I’m really considering booking a provider and would love to spend some social time out on a date with some more intimate time in the room. I’ve noticed that usually is best with a 4 hour session.

However, I’m really not the best conversationalist and am a little worried that I might bore the individual I’m considering booking with. She seems really smart, talkative, and social in her ad, just not sure if I can keep up to par with her. Even when I’m out with friends, I’m not the most talkative. I do best in groups of 3 or more, and usually end up chiming in or reacting to the conversation, rather than be the main one talking. Since there would be a lot of 1-on-1, I fear there might be a lot of awkward silence. I’m a better listener than yapper honestly.

Has anyone specifically dealt with a client that might not talk too much? Anything you did to try and make sure there were no awkward silences or run out of things to talk about?

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 6 days ago

25 [M4M] #Indianapolis JOBud

Looking for a bud to watch porn, compare dicks, help each other stroke, use toys, frot, and cum together. Maybe some oral.

I’m 25, fit, white, 5’11, 180 lbs, 6” uncut

Looking for someone preferably between 25-35 and also fit.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 9 days ago

LAX Jacks

I moved to the area fairly recently and while doing some researching about some popular local areas, I stumbled upon LAX Jacks and spent some time on their website. I have never been to a masturbation club but it seems like it’d be a great time! The scene seems pretty great, erotic/dark lighting, plenty of nice couches and rest areas, and great rules/code of conduct. The normal jacks events are of course my main interest, but their occasional “lax sucks” events seem like something I’d want to try as well.

I would love to check it out sometime. I was curious if anyone has gone lately and what your experience was like. What was the demographic like? I’m mid-20s and pretty fit, and honestly looking for the same or people similar to me.

Also, if anyone would be interested in going with me, feel free to DM and we can chat a bit!

About me: mid-20s, bi-curious, white, 5’11, 6”, uncut

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 10 days ago

Bi-curious guy ready to try my first dick

I’m 26 and have had a lot of bi-curious thoughts lately and found myself getting hard to reading similar stories of jerk off buddies and gay experiences. I have constant urges now to try my first dick. Right now, I just want to touch and feel a hard cock that isn’t my own and then eventually have my mouth around one and make it cum on me.

I am also wanting to have another guy give me a blowjob and try things such as frotting and using toys on each other. My biggest kink is cum and I’d love nothing more than to frot each other until we cum all over each other.

Don’t really know a way to make this become a reality, so it may have to just stay a fantasy for now unfortunately.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 10 days ago

I love being watched

I recently found out I’m into voyeurism and love being watched. Just knowing that someone is watching me stroke and shoot my cum all over the place is so hot.

It’s gotten to the point where I hate to cum just by myself, with no one there to witness it.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 11 days ago

Question about privacy

I’m on the search for my first session with a bud but have a question that I’ve been getting more and more curious about.

As far as meeting up at hotels (or really anywhere for that matter) are any of you skeptical about being recorded without you knowing? And then having that recording be posted or used as blackmail? More so, a device being setup by the person you are meeting.

I just feel like in today’s day and age, it could be common and you never really know someone’s true intentions.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 11 days ago

25 [M4M] #California Looking for buds to watch porn and JO together

Trying to find some JOBuds and get a long term thing going. Would love to watch porn while we both stroke until we cum. I’m down for some helping hands or using toys on each other and maybe frotting later down the road if we have a good connection. Can’t host right now, but could always split a hotel or travel to you.

Me: 5’11 | 5.5” | Fit Body | Uncut | White

I’m really fit and go to the gym a lot, primarily looking for someone close in age and build.

DM me if interested!

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 11 days ago

Premature Ejaculation Sexting Session

Item Or Service Requested: 5-10 minute sexting session with pics and vids. Playfully tease me that I can’t resist cumming so fast for you and your body.

Seller Details: No preferences

Budget: $30 but can be flexible, let me know

Payment Method: Throne

Additional Details: Sexting done on Telegram. Would love to be called “good boy” and other cute/sweet pet names.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 11 days ago

Dildo BJ Custom

Item Or Service Requested: Passionate, sloppy, slow blowjob custom video. Looking for comforting words and being called names like “sweetheart, good boy”. At the end, tell me to cum in your mouth and on your face. Basically, helping me relax after a long, stressful week.

Seller Details: I’m more of a tits than ass guy, so would love to see your boobs in the video

Budget: $50

Payment Method: Throne

Additional Details: Preferably a POV style and a white dildo

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 12 days ago

Admire My Body/Cock on Cam

Looking to have a 5 minute cam session where we both strip nude and you admire and lust over my body and cock. Basically a worship dick rate, but live. Obsessing, admiring, and wanting me for my body while you show off yours and dirty talk until I cum.

$50

Throne and Telegram

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 1 month ago

Custom Photos or Striptease

Looking for creators that I can purchase custom photos from on a regular basis. Some specific poses, but nothing too crazy. Would also love if you have lingerie, heels, stockings, and hot outfits/roleplays (basically like naughty cop, teacher, cheerleader, etc).

Also looking to buy striptease videos where you strip til nude with music in the background.

Budget: Preferably $30-35 for a set of 5 photos but can be flexible. Then $10/min for the striptease video.

Throne/Telegram

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 1 month ago

Dildo or Pillow Ride

Looking for custom or premade riding videos, either with a dildo or on a pillow. If using a dildo, preferably a clear or white one while wearing heels on the floor. If a pillow, just riding and grinding on it while on your bed.

Throne and Telegram

$15-50 depending on if a premade or custom

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 1 month ago

Masturbate to Porn

I’d love to get a 10 minute video of you stripping and masturbating to porn. Just you on your bed enjoying a nice masturbation session.

$100 on Throne and can use Telegram

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 2 months ago

Portrait Filmed Videos

Looking for premade videos that are filmed in portrait mode. Preferably anything with dildo/pillow riding, boob bouncing and worship, cum begging and countdown, or pussy play. Prefer fit girls but anyone is welcome.

Budget is around $15-30 but can be flexible.

Throne for payment and either Telegram or Dropbox link to receive the video.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 2 months ago

Relaxing, nude video calls

I feel alone at times and don’t interact with people as much, especially in terms of intimacy. Looking to basically chill and have fun with someone on cam, just enjoy each other’s presence for 5-10 minutes once or twice a week. Just looking for casual nudity, mutual strip, and maybe some mutual masturbation as our relationship goes longer.

Not looking for anything fancy or over the top, things like propping your phone up on your dresser and stripping before grabbing it and laying on your bed. Or stepping out of the shower and showing off in the mirror.

I can use throne for payment and telegram to call.

My budget is around $8 per minute but can be flexible. Long term situation preferred.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 2 months ago

MILF

  1. Looking to have a video heavy sexting session with a MILF, be called names like good boy, sweetheart, and baby. Would love to call you mommy.

  2. Preferably 30+, big tits, and shows face.

  3. OF, free or paid is fine

  4. $50

  5. Would prefer to do this longterm and have regular sessions to build a connection

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 2 months ago

Haven’t cum in 3 weeks

Every time I start to masturbate, I stop shortly after. Not sure why, but I just feel so guilty while doing it and ashamed of myself. I also get pretty bad post nut clarity, so that might be a reason why I don’t let myself cum since I am trying to avoid that feeling of shame and disgust after an orgasm.

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 2 months ago

Dildo Ride and Pussy Fingering

Looking to buy custom or premade videos of you riding a dildo and upclose pussy fingering/spreading. Shaved and able to squirt is a plus.

Budget: $100

Throne and Telegram

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u/New-Chapter-3601 — 2 months ago