u/Old_Appointment_1919

It's been a long time since my last post looking for my good girl, wherever she is. As a result, I've had a long time to think about what I want, and maybe how to better align my desires and expectations with the geographic situation I find myself in.

I had a few dates, but nothing that panned out. Mostly I've found dating apps, kink sites, and reddit pretty useless as an avenue for finding a partner, Scotland is a small population over a very large area, especially when it comes to attraction and aligning kinks... and then hoping for a connection.

I lived in Germany for quite a few years before returning home to Scotland last year. I've just past 40, but I am very much younger in my head and heart. Not so much in maturity, more in terms of lifestyle: I enjoy going out frequently to socialise and I have no dependents, so my disposable income is spent more joyfully on travel and other entertaining trinkets. Wholeheartedly, I am looking for a partner to spend my life with and all that entails.

SFW, I'm a tech professional and I am currently in the proposal process / selection process for a PhD. So, while I'd be willing to negotiate longer distance relationships and potentially relocating again, moving permanently would have to be after I complete my doctorate in a couple of years.

In terms of my vision of my future, I plan to build a small property portfolio and move to Portugal at some point in the next 10 years. I want to be near the ocean and in a pleasant climate for most of the year.

I am open to having kids, but there's a bit of a clock on it. I don't want to be wrangling teenage kids in my 60s. I am also content to not have children if the circumstances aren't right - the DINK lifestyle is quite an attractive prospect as well.

My interests include watching and attending sports events (mainly football, rugby and ice hockey), going to the gym to work on that Dad-bod (strength training / power lifting), film, and music - I attend many gigs, play a few instruments, and plan on releasing another album in the next 18 months. I'm also about to build my first guitar from scratch under the guidance of a luthier.

As a Dom (and more recently a Daddy Dom), I've been in and around the scene and actively developing as a Dom over the last 15 or 16 years.

I am not going to list a series of kinks because those tend to develop and mature in the course of a relationship. At the core of it, it's probably easier to say what I'm not into; blood, gore, playing with shit, incest, bestiality, and illegality. I'm also not keen on breathplay because of the dangers involved in it. I'm also not a huge fan of kink parties or swinging. I want to keep my sex life and private life private.

So... what do I want in a partner?

Absolute devotion that cuts both ways. If my partner is committed to me, then I will be committed to them in equal measure. I don't do things by half, and I would expect consistency in communication and attention.

Someone with whom I can go on adventures, that shares a passion for good food and drink, historical sites, city breaks, and live music.

A partner that is an equal in life but sexually submissive with a high sex drive, and enjoys free use, rough play and intense sessions. I'd love to find someone that actively enjoys spending time openly discussing fantasies and planning these sessions too.

I am looking for my other half, someone to be my primary partner. I currently have a play partner abroad, and we have a long relationship, but she is with her long term nesting partner. I would hope to maintain this connection, but we are both aware that if I meet the right person it could end (she is also encouraging me in my search).

If you'd like to chat, I'd love to hear from you.

It's been a long time since my last post looking for my good girl, wherever she is. As a result, I've had a long time to think about what I want, and maybe how to better align my desires and expectations with the geographic situation I find myself in.

I had a few dates, but nothing that panned out. Mostly I've found dating apps, kink sites, and reddit pretty useless as an avenue for finding a partner, Scotland is a small population over a very large area, especially when it comes to attraction and aligning kinks... and then hoping for a connection.

I lived in Germany for quite a few years before returning home to Scotland last year. I've just past 40, but I am very much younger in my head and heart. Not so much in maturity, more in terms of lifestyle: I enjoy going out frequently to socialise and I have no dependents, so my disposable income is spent more joyfully on travel and other entertaining trinkets. Wholeheartedly, I am looking for a partner to spend my life with and all that entails.

SFW, I'm a tech professional and I am currently in the proposal process / selection process for a PhD. So, while I'd be willing to negotiate longer distance relationships and potentially relocating again, moving permanently would have to be after I complete my doctorate in a couple of years.

In terms of my vision of my future, I plan to build a small property portfolio and move to Portugal at some point in the next 10 years. I want to be near the ocean and in a pleasant climate for most of the year.

I am open to having kids, but there's a bit of a clock on it. I don't want to be wrangling teenage kids in my 60s. I am also content to not have children if the circumstances aren't right - the DINK lifestyle is quite an attractive prospect as well.

My interests include watching and attending sports events (mainly football, rugby and ice hockey), going to the gym to work on that Dad-bod (strength training / power lifting), film, and music - I attend many gigs, play a few instruments, and plan on releasing another album in the next 18 months. I'm also about to build my first guitar from scratch under the guidance of a luthier.

As a Dom (and more recently a Daddy Dom), I've been in and around the scene and actively developing as a Dom over the last 15 or 16 years.

I am not going to list a series of kinks because those tend to develop and mature in the course of a relationship. At the core of it, it's probably easier to say what I'm not into; blood, gore, playing with shit, incest, bestiality, and illegality. I'm also not keen on breathplay because of the dangers involved in it. I'm also not a huge fan of kink parties or swinging. I want to keep my sex life and private life private.

So... what do I want in a partner?

Absolute devotion that cuts both ways. If my partner is committed to me, then I will be committed to them in equal measure. I don't do things by half, and I would expect consistency in communication and attention.

Someone with whom I can go on adventures, that shares a passion for good food and drink, historical sites, city breaks, and live music.

A partner that is an equal in life but sexually submissive with a high sex drive, and enjoys free use, rough play and intense sessions. I'd love to find someone that actively enjoys spending time openly discussing fantasies and planning these sessions too.

I am looking for my other half, someone to be my primary partner. I currently have a play partner abroad, and we have a long relationship, but she is with her long term nesting partner. I would hope to maintain this connection, but we are both aware that if I meet the right person it could end (she is also encouraging me in my search).

If you'd like to chat, I'd love to hear from you.

It's been a long time since my last post looking for my good girl, wherever she is. As a result, I've had a long time to think about what I want, and maybe how to better align my desires and expectations with the geographic situation I find myself in.

I had a few dates, but nothing that panned out. Mostly I've found dating apps, kink sites, and reddit pretty useless as an avenue for finding a partner, Scotland is a small population over a very large area, especially when it comes to attraction and aligning kinks... and then hoping for a connection.

I lived in Germany for quite a few years before returning home to Scotland last year. I've just past 40, but I am very much younger in my head and heart. Not so much in maturity, more in terms of lifestyle: I enjoy going out frequently to socialise and I have no dependents, so my disposable income is spent more joyfully on travel and other entertaining trinkets. Wholeheartedly, I am looking for a partner to spend my life with and all that entails.

SFW, I'm a tech professional and I am currently in the proposal process / selection process for a PhD. So, while I'd be willing to negotiate longer distance relationships and potentially relocating again, moving permanently would have to be after I complete my doctorate in a couple of years.

In terms of my vision of my future, I plan to build a small property portfolio and move to Portugal at some point in the next 10 years. I want to be near the ocean and in a pleasant climate for most of the year.

I am open to having kids, but there's a bit of a clock on it. I don't want to be wrangling teenage kids in my 60s. I am also content to not have children if the circumstances aren't right - the DINK lifestyle is quite an attractive prospect as well.

My interests include watching and attending sports events (mainly football, rugby and ice hockey), going to the gym to work on that Dad-bod (strength training / power lifting), film, and music - I attend many gigs, play a few instruments, and plan on releasing another album in the next 18 months. I'm also about to build my first guitar from scratch under the guidance of a luthier.

As a Dom (and more recently a Daddy Dom), I've been in and around the scene and actively developing as a Dom over the last 15 or 16 years.

I am not going to list a series of kinks because those tend to develop and mature in the course of a relationship. At the core of it, it's probably easier to say what I'm not into; blood, gore, playing with shit, incest, bestiality, and illegality. I'm also not keen on breathplay because of the dangers involved in it. I'm also not a huge fan of kink parties or swinging. I want to keep my sex life and private life private.

So... what do I want in a partner?

Absolute devotion that cuts both ways. If my partner is committed to me, then I will be committed to them in equal measure. I don't do things by half, and I would expect consistency in communication and attention.

Someone with whom I can go on adventures, that shares a passion for good food and drink, historical sites, city breaks, and live music.

A partner that is an equal in life but sexually submissive with a high sex drive, and enjoys free use, rough play and intense sessions. I'd love to find someone that actively enjoys spending time openly discussing fantasies and planning these sessions too.

I am looking for my other half, someone to be my primary partner. I currently have a play partner abroad, and we have a long relationship, but she is with her long term nesting partner. I would hope to maintain this connection, but we are both aware that if I meet the right person it could end (she is also encouraging me in my search).

If you'd like to chat, I'd love to hear from you.

It's been a long time since my last post looking for my good girl, wherever she is. As a result, I've had a long time to think about what I want, and maybe how to better align my desires and expectations with the geographic situation I find myself in.

I had a few dates, but nothing that panned out. Mostly I've found dating apps, kink sites, and reddit pretty useless as an avenue for finding a partner, Scotland is a small population over a very large area, especially when it comes to attraction and aligning kinks... and then hoping for a connection.

I lived in Germany for quite a few years before returning home to Scotland last year. I've just past 40, but I am very much younger in my head and heart. Not so much in maturity, more in terms of lifestyle: I enjoy going out frequently to socialise and I have no dependents, so my disposable income is spent more joyfully on travel and other entertaining trinkets. Wholeheartedly, I am looking for a partner to spend my life with and all that entails.

SFW, I'm a tech professional and I am currently in the proposal process / selection process for a PhD. So, while I'd be willing to negotiate longer distance relationships and potentially relocating again, moving permanently would have to be after I complete my doctorate in a couple of years.

In terms of my vision of my future, I plan to build a small property portfolio and move to Portugal at some point in the next 10 years. I want to be near the ocean and in a pleasant climate for most of the year.

I am open to having kids, but there's a bit of a clock on it. I don't want to be wrangling teenage kids in my 60s. I am also content to not have children if the circumstances aren't right - the DINK lifestyle is quite an attractive prospect as well.

My interests include watching and attending sports events (mainly football, rugby and ice hockey), going to the gym to work on that Dad-bod (strength training / power lifting), film, and music - I attend many gigs, play a few instruments, and plan on releasing another album in the next 18 months. I'm also about to build my first guitar from scratch under the guidance of a luthier.

As a Dom (and more recently a Daddy Dom), I've been in and around the scene and actively developing as a Dom over the last 15 or 16 years.

I am not going to list a series of kinks because those tend to develop and mature in the course of a relationship. At the core of it, it's probably easier to say what I'm not into; blood, gore, playing with shit, incest, bestiality, and illegality. I'm also not keen on breathplay because of the dangers involved in it. I'm also not a huge fan of kink parties or swinging. I want to keep my sex life and private life private.

So... what do I want in a partner?

Absolute devotion that cuts both ways. If my partner is committed to me, then I will be committed to them in equal measure. I don't do things by half, and I would expect consistency in communication and attention.

Someone with whom I can go on adventures, that shares a passion for good food and drink, historical sites, city breaks, and live music.

A partner that is an equal in life but sexually submissive with a high sex drive, and enjoys free use, rough play and intense sessions. I'd love to find someone that actively enjoys spending time openly discussing fantasies and planning these sessions too.

I am looking for my other half, someone to be my primary partner. I currently have a play partner abroad, and we have a long relationship, but she is with her long term nesting partner. I would hope to maintain this connection, but we are both aware that if I meet the right person it could end (she is also encouraging me in my search).

If you'd like to chat, I'd love to hear from you.