u/PerceptionOwn7098

I’ve been seeing a lot of discouraging and depressing posts lately, so I just wanted to take a moment to remind everyone how strong you are for continuing to show up despite everything you’ve had to deal with😊. Working with clients is not always easy, and dealing with very slow months, inconsistent buyers, difficult interactions, or simply feeling like nothing is moving forward can become incredibly frustrating. I know how easy it is to question yourself when things aren’t going the way you hoped, especially with how expensive everything has become and how difficult the current economy + demographics have made things for independent providers.

Please don’t feel like a slow period means you’re failing or that you need to give up immediately. Sometimes you have to step back, rest, change your approach, or simply give yourself time before trying again. Your worth and your ability are not determined by how much you make in one week or how many clients you have in one month. 🤍
I’m genuinely wishing everyone here better months, kinder clients, more opportunities, and a little more peace.

is anyone else dealing with clients paying the deposit and then getting cold feet or suddenly being unable to make it when it’s time to meet? i’ve been dealing with this for the entire month now 💔 my deposit is around $100, they’ll pay it with no issue, and then when it’s time to meet i suddenly get hit with excuse after excuse about why they can’t come. it’s honestly starting to make me feel some type of way because i’m getting so much traction and inquiries, but somehow none of it is turning into actual money. it hasn’t slowed down at all, so there’s no way every single one of these guys is just getting cold feet. as far as i know, i’m not on any review sites, i’m not a catfish, and there isn’t anything obvious that should be scaring people off. i genuinely don’t know what i’m doing wrong or how to fix this :(

a lot of these potential clients tell me they’ve heard i’m the best, so it’s honestly starting to make me wonder if maybe something is being said about me that i’m not aware of? or if there’s some secret client group or review page where people are talking about me. sorry, i know i sound crazy as hell thinking like this, but i genuinely don’t know what else could be causing it because the interest is clearly there, yet people keep backing out at the last minute😭😭😭

How did you guys gain the courage to audition? The past few days as soon as I make it to the door my nerves just get SO bad and I immediately always walk out 😭😭 I’m 20f slim thick afro latina and like my biggest fear has been climbing on that pole and literally face planting in front of everyone while in a one piece. Everyone tells me to take a shot but i’m underage and i just don’t have alcohol on standby does anyone have any other helpful tips on what they’ve done to make auditioning go smoother?

btw- any other tips for auditioning is very much appreciated! i’ve been doing SW for a while now so I know the basics but getting into stripping feels like a whole new world😵‍💫😵‍💫

Idk if i’m the only one who has this problem but does anyone else deal with weird clients who try to make it constantly known that you aren’t their usual preference but they still want to me meet with you???🥴 I usually NEVER meet with these guys because they love to keep comparing me to the women they prefer as if it’s supposed to make me feel insecure or something when in reality it’s just very annoying! like why not just go and book her if clearly i’m not your cup of tea it makes absolutely no sense to me.

Like I’m a slim thick afro latina who loves being flashy, and having crazy style sex and wild dates because i’m young i like to entertain the more wild approach most guys like it especially older guys because it makes them feel young🤷‍♀️ I do not care if you usually prefer a skinny, blonde, who does vanilla work and basic dinner dates absolutely no hate to her but why not just book her in the first place instead of annoying me? I really wish i knew why they do this😩