u/PerceptionOwn7098

Why do some of you as clients harass companions who LITERALLY state they aren’t going to see you if you do not verify yourself????

I find it so annoying to sit up here and think a provider will want to meet with you when they don’t KNOW how you look?? I literally state in my Ad without verification I’m not seeing anyone. All I ask for is a regular selfie + your ID (all personal info can be blacked out except the name and DOB) these same men will still try to constantly harass me to see them when i don’t even know what they look like and then try to act like i’m the one who’s missing out? If you don’t want to do something as small as verify who’s to say you’re even gonna pay??

Like babes I don’t even know if you’re legal age? I don’t even know who I would be meeting with if I did accept you without any verification I just do not understand this way of thinking and it always annoys me because you wouldn’t meet with a provider without knowing how she looks so why should she meet with you without knowing how YOU look.

Before anyone says anything about being discreet pls stfu it’s always clients who don’t have to worry about discretion at all who are very overboard with it i don’t care about anyone else’s personal life enough to ruin my reputation as a provider

I am like sooooooo tired of the conversation claiming that any provider that doesn’t like see Black men for clientele are racist, trashy, or can’t handle the D(ew?).

As a Black provider myself, I literally choose not to see Black men.
They are incredibly draining and annoying. I only ever had two Black male clients (25 and the other 60) both of whom resulted in literally horrible traumatic experiences . You start noticing the exact same behavior in every single one, no matter what even when just screening them. It doesn't matter how nice you are to these men; if anything, they see niceness as an opportunity to take advantage of you. Like many other providers have said, they love to haggle, they love going over their time, and they just do too much overall, to the point where it completely ruins the vibe of a session.

Don’t even get me started on how they treat black providers compared to other providers of different races these weirdos will contact me doing all kinds of cussing, talking way too vulgar, trying to lower my value just because they think i’m gonna give them a discount for also being black, and my favorite one trying to compare me to the white providers in the area like it’s supposed to make me jealous?…. If anything I WANT you to contact that provider and be her problem pleaseeee.

Like everyone KNOWS there’s good and bad in men of all races but when it becomes prevalent that ONLY bad is occurring it’s hard to try keeping that same mindset.
I’ve had clients of all races! i’ve literally never had any issues out of my hispanic or asian clients which are are my fav for that reason they’re the only ones that actually pay GOOD without being annoying about it.

I see so many of these guys writing sob stories in these sex work subreddits about how it’s unfair that they don’t get seen as much compared to other guys like accountability needs to BE held. like if you have had a good experience with black men as a provider good for you but lets not act like they don’t get seen for a reason i’ll never judge a provider for not seeing black men idc.