How common is it to have sex with your stepdad and what repercussions should I be mentally prepared to face?
My stepdad is a 58 year old bi male who has been a doting and loving father. He has an attractive alpha male persona and is quite modern and liberal.
I’d like to clarify that this is my truth and I’m looking for some honest feedback to navigate the truth. Not here to fictionalise a sexual fetish.
I’m a 24 y/o. My stepdad has a high libido (not sure if it’s due to testosterone or smth else), on the other hand, his wife has become spiritual and has refrained from engaging in such activities. I’ve been in situations where I’ve walked in on him masturbating or just watching porn. I completely understand the detrimental effects of porn and how its consumption can mess things up.
While he is attractive, he is his wife’s spouse and I don’t fetish indulging sexually with him (I don’t see him as a father figure though) - just feels morally corrupt to want him to fuck me. Since the past couple of weeks - our conversations have steered towards sex - he’d often complain about how his wife seems disinterested in getting physical with him and how that’s affecting him - on another instance, he casually spoke if I ever considered getting breasts and even suggested some sizes I should consider (I felt like he was sexualising me), though he even offered to pay for my breast surgeries if I wished to have them - I told him that I’m not very keen on developing breasts and he respects that - he even complimented me stating that I looked beautiful the way I am.
Once, he asked me about my ex and questioned if my ex “kept me happy” and what his size was? (These questions made me really question his intentions and I called him out for being inappropriate). I do think my stepdad is hot and I am not ashamed to admit that I’m potentially considering him to fuck me (I feel like I’m also getting influenced by the fact that porn has normalised this). Just not sure whether I should have sex with him or not?
Hoping to receive genuine feedback because I’m honestly confused and I don’t wanna mess up as well.