u/Pretty_Fuel_5075

I’ve been really tired of giving out free content on social media and my friend recommended i start an onlyfans. I’m getting surgery soon and would love to be able to profit on that while i’m recovering, I want to put my membership at $50/month but I don’t want to do all that overly sexual stuff. I want to post never before seen pics of me, ofc i’m in lingerie etc but I don’t want to post full nudes or play with dildos. Another thing i’d love to do on Onlyfans is dom content, foot fetish, joi etc. Do you guys think i’ll be successful with my idea even though my subscription is on the higher side?

I finally got my surgery date, Sept 22nd! I’m so excited!! What would you recommend for pre/post surgery care? I’m waiting for my 2nd consultation since I do possibly want to ask about cosmetic add-ons as I want my boobs as perky as they can be & upper pole fullness

Would you guys allow references instead of deposits? I got an inquiry asking about it, I’m still ensure if I’m comfortable allowing that since I do host from my own place. I normally don’t make exceptions but this client had a pretty good intro apart from the fact that he doesn’t do deposits. Maybe I could raise my rates since I’m taking a higher risk or do a 2 location system instead of giving full address right away?

My whale client is coming back to my city and he wants me to invite a friend but I’m so nervous inviting someone because easily I can make $10K a night + gifts and I don’t want that money to be cut in half. Of course I want to make him happy and fulfill his desires but at the same time I want all his money to myself since he is my only whale client and he comes once a year. What would you do in this situation? Is it bad if I tell him my friend can only stay an hour and tell her he only booked an hour? I’m so conflicted, I’ve never felt this “possessive” over a client.

Edit: Just wanted to add that I don’t have a duo partner to begin with but me and this specific friend have thought about doing duo if they aren’t interactive and low maintenance clients. I normally work alone and prefer so

I’ve had big boobs all my life and I hate them but this job has made me love them, my back hurts too much so im getting a breast reduction. I’m currently at 30G UK, I can’t decide what size to go down too, if I want implants or not etc. My biggest thing is I don’t want saggy boobs ever again in my life and I love cleavage. I still want to be able to give clients a boob job, honestly it’s one of the quickest ways to make someone cum and I can just lay there lol. Whether you’re natural or have implants what do you think I should pick as a bra size? Should I do all the procedures all at once (breast reduction, lift & implant/internal mesh bra) or should I wait until my breast reduction heals to see if I want implants?

Asking for outfit requests while on tour is diabolical. I wonder what the thought process is behind this? Do some people really think we travel with our whole entire lingerie collection/ bring every outfit we’ve ever posted on Twitter.

I want to tour more often (Canada & internationally) my biggest thing is to maximize profit. In the past I felt I had to tour for like a week to make more money like $10k but from what I see on other people’s touring schedule most providers tour for 2-4 days. Ever since I started hosting from my condo, I’ve been feeling so lazy when it comes to touring. But I do think touring can widen my client list. I feel like I rather take home $2000 at home then $2500 after hotels,gas, flights etc

On average how do you make on tour & what’s your hourly rate? Do you go to a city without any prebookings just to test the waters? Do you find touring essential in your business? And for my Canadian girlies which cities are your favourite to tour?

I accidentally overcharged a client by $100. The client booked a service for $1,000 plus a $200 add-on. He had already sent a $100 deposit, so the remaining balance should have been $1,100.

But when I was looking at my rates and calculating the balance I was looking at my outcall rates so I mistakenly calculated the service as $1,100 instead of $1,000, then added the $200 add-on and subtracted the deposit. I told him he owed $1,200.

When he arrived, he gave me $1,100 and said he thought that was the correct amount. I insisted it was $1,200, so he gave me the extra $100. I feel like this client could be a good regular, should I tell him I made a mistake and refund him? I feel so bad, this isn’t something that normally happens 😭

I bumped my ad twice today on Leolist and only got 1 text, which is crazy. Yes I did have one booking today, yes I got other inquiries (timewasters) from Tryst but I am starting to think Leolist is a huge waste of money. I used to get a good client from there at least once a week but now my phone is extra dead when I post on there.

I just don’t understand how in a city of 3million people, the site can be this dead. It’s starting to warm up, the world cup is here, this makes no sense. Am I doing something wrong? To bump an ad it cost $10, so if I were to bump it all day long & add all those features I’m looking at around $100 per day. With Tryst I pay around $260/month and it actually brings me clients. If only Leolist could bring me clients so I feel like I’m actually getting more visibility.

This my first year being based here and I know it’s a competitive city but I can’t lower rates because I need clients that actually pay deposits and won’t be on bullshit. Also when I had my rates lower I actually got booked less, I looked tgbt. I offer a range variety of services, I have a clean incall & my clients always leave happy , I have a few regulars. It just seems like at times there’s no clients in the city which is weird because you’d think there’d be money to make here 24/7.

For clients that tend to book high end escorts & longer dates would you rather someone have a list of the services they offer or not?

Personally in the past, I’ve found it distasteful and I even had clients they found it distasteful too. But I’ve seen girls have their services on their website and the more I think of it makes sense to have it on there, instead of answering the same question multiple times a day.

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In cities where there’s alot of competition what do you do to standout? Since I got into this industry as a stripper, I got a few tattoos which makes me standout but I am slowly starting to think I should dye my hair. I know some girls highlight their ethnicity or maybe old careers/jobs they use to have but I try my best to be as discreet as possible. I am also considering hiding my tats from my pics but I do not want to look “Plain Jane”. I could be overthinking