u/Recent-Day3062

Once in my 20s I went to a halloweeen party with a woman on I wanted to date. She helped me pick a costume which included very thin, tight spandex leggings.

At the party I noticed I caught her looking down. Tbh, the outfit was very revealing. When we drove back to the city I suggested she come over to my place first, we ended up with me massaging her, and then sex. She told me later she was dying to see it the whole night.

I’ve had this happen a very few times afterwards. However, you don’t get many chances to wear spandex on a. Date!

Anyone else?

I’ve noticed here and on other subs that it seems like curves, pains, and other “sex” stuff is sort of not a medical issue. It is. No matter how weird or enbarrrssing this is what urologists do all day

Most urologists have good bedside manner. And they examine and treat over 1000 penises a year. They almost all have good bedside manner since it’s important to make men feel comfortable with all sorts of problems.

This will surprise many of you, but not only issues of getting hard, but even issues when hard is something they investigate daily. If they need to see how your blood flows, or feel for scar tissue inside, they give you a shot of a drug called Trimix that gets you super hard without your doing anything. While this seems awkward, most urologists have done this thousands of times in their career. Nothing is too embarrassing.

They are also not judgmental. They treat men. If you come in and say you’re worried after sex with a sex worker they just say “hmmm..let’s see”

So if you have penis questions, just see a urologist. Nothing in your sex life is going to shock them.

To me, going commando is terrible. Because of my size everything just flops around and causes chafing and desensitizing keratinization.

Yet so often here guys will tout going commando for comfort. I’ve tried, but I personally find pretty tight pouch briefs are perfect after trying lots of underwear. My best friend and I have done threesomes so we know exactly what we both have. We’ve talked about this and are both baffled.

Is this some “Big swinging dick” psychological thing?

Fun place to ask.

Suppose you had a friend who was a serious photographer or filmmaker, and they wanted a couple to have sex for their work. They’d either replace your face or not show it.

Would all of you do it ?

I have a FWB in another town and I was driving to see her the next two nights. She has arranged a few FMF 3sums for us with I think 2 of her friends. We've never done an MFMF foursome.

She has a very good female friend who is coming to visit her as well arriving tomorrow. The three of us were going to go at it anyway. But my FWB just called and said her friend's boyfriend is with her, and both women wanted to do a hard swap 4sum - they asked him and he said he really was into trying it, and they floated it past me last. Apparently they were worried how I would react, but man were they off. Of course I said yes. I'm dying to try this.

But this is new to me. Actually, if I understood (her friend was on the phone), none of them have done this before, so we'll all be first timers.

First off, any general advice? I assume we hang out and chat 20 minutes, then just pile into a bed together. And I assume we set aside 3-4 hours for recovery and additional rounds.

What I'm most curious about is managing contact all around. Is it likely the imagine pairs of us in different beds go at it as MF couples, swapping and taking turns? Or do we just have a cuddle puddle naked to start and massage each other and just let it play out, and it's truly a foursome? Or something in between?

I guess my big question is how should you talk about these questions - how to raise it and what to raise. What are the questions? I just want no one to become surprised or uncomfortable during it.

FYI I am not gay or bi, and she told me he isn't either. However, in MFM 3sums I am totally comfortable with male contact while the three bodies roll around and slide against each other. That's what I'd prefer tomorrow, so there is no anxiety on boundaries since there are few.

That and any other advice would be great.

https://www.xvideos.com/video.ukuhuvf372c/aphroditie_anal_left_2

I’m not in charge, but I do try to answer lots of questions here - about “is this ok?” With pics.

We all know that good, clear, detailed cock pics are one of the hardest photos to take. Too often subtle colors and shades get lost in a pic.

So if you want to ask with a pic, it’s really helpful if you don’t just ask “is this OK”, but explain what we are looking for. Also, if you have any suspicions, those are helpful.

So here’s a post I can help a lot on: “are these red patches on my shaft behind the head normal or not? I have not had a sex partner and have been masturbTing a lot recently and maybe that’s part of the problem “. That’s just much easier to help you with than “is this normal?” And one pic of the whole cock.

Some things are easy to spot like pearly penile papules. But those are normal, though you may know it. But if you have them and don’t give guidance, I’m always asking “did you mean those bumps on the ridge?” Or, I’m looking and seeing those as normal and hunting for something else

I’m asking here because I’m flexible, but only done anal with women a fair number of times, but not like gay guys experience, or very gay leaning bi guys.

It’s never happened with a woman, but doesn’t happen if you do enough anal?

It seems in the last six months it is less “tall hung 34 straight let’s compare” to pics and just “upvote if I’m bigger than you”?

Don't know where else to ask this.

What percent of men can (or can't) get hard in front of others, be it another guy or an orgy?

Found an online of a tantra session, but rules say (I think) I can't post it. They have about 7 couples getting a lesson, and It's not clear what they told the couples to expect , nor the experience of the guys. But they all get hard in the group in front of each other with a camera crew.

Can most men perform like this, few, or somewhere in between - if you have knowledge?

It used to be on my joined list but is gone. However, I can’t even find it on search.

Usually you get it on search and it says banned.

Any ideas?

I'm straight but totally not afraid of MM contact like this during a threesome. Most MFM is guys either staying apart, doing DP in a "manly" aggressive way, or the guys start kissing or having sex. I like when guys are not freaked out - it's a threesome, after all. Here is one small clip.

https://www.reddit.com/r/heteroflexible/comments/1t3nnmp/they_take_turns_using_me/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

It used to be photoshop but that can take some work to make other rhings, like hands, fit.

In the past 3-4 months I am seeing lots of absurd ones where it def looks like a little AI was put to work.