u/Regular-welsh-man

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55M from South Wales. Married for a long time, but feeling increasingly alone and disconnected in life.

Over the last couple of years I’ve thrown myself into improving myself physically and mentally. Back in the gym consistently, focusing on health, rebuilding confidence, and trying to become a better version of myself. From the outside things probably look fine. Inside, not so much.

I think somewhere along the way I lost connection with people, friendships, and maybe even myself a little.

Not really sure what I’m looking for here. Maybe conversation. Maybe friendship. Maybe just proof that it’s not too late to rebuild a life that feels meaningful and connected again.

I’m into fitness, tech, product management, music, films, and good honest conversation. Prefer depth over small talk.

If anyone else has found themselves feeling a bit lost in midlife and managed to turn things around, I’d genuinely like to hear from you.

55M from South Wales. Married for a long time, but feeling increasingly alone and disconnected in life.

Over the last couple of years I’ve thrown myself into improving myself physically and mentally. Back in the gym consistently, focusing on health, rebuilding confidence, and trying to become a better version of myself. From the outside things probably look fine. Inside, not so much.

I think somewhere along the way I lost connection with people, friendships, and maybe even myself a little.

Not really sure what I’m looking for here. Maybe conversation. Maybe friendship. Maybe just proof that it’s not too late to rebuild a life that feels meaningful and connected again.

I’m into fitness, tech, product management, music, films, and good honest conversation. Prefer depth over small talk.

55M from South Wales. Married for a long time, but feeling increasingly alone and disconnected in life.

Over the last couple of years I’ve thrown myself into improving myself physically and mentally. Back in the gym consistently, focusing on health, rebuilding confidence, and trying to become a better version of myself. From the outside things probably look fine. Inside, not so much.

I think somewhere along the way I lost connection with people, friendships, and maybe even myself a little.

Not really sure what I’m looking for here. Maybe conversation. Maybe friendship. Maybe just proof that it’s not too late to rebuild a life that feels meaningful and connected again.

I’m into fitness, tech, product management, music, films, and good honest conversation. Prefer depth over small talk.

If anyone else has found themselves feeling a bit lost in midlife and managed to turn things around, I’d genuinely like to hear from you.

55M from South Wales. Married for a long time, but feeling increasingly alone and disconnected in life.

Over the last couple of years I’ve thrown myself into improving myself physically and mentally. Back in the gym consistently, focusing on health, rebuilding confidence, and trying to become a better version of myself. From the outside things probably look fine. Inside, not so much.

I think somewhere along the way I lost connection with people, friendships, and maybe even myself a little.

Not really sure what I’m looking for here. Maybe conversation. Maybe friendship. Maybe just proof that it’s not too late to rebuild a life that feels meaningful and connected again.

I’m into fitness, tech, product management, music, films, and good honest conversation. Prefer depth over small talk.

If anyone else has found themselves feeling a bit lost in midlife and managed to turn things around, I’d genuinely like to hear from you.

We’ve been married 25 years and for 20 of them our sex life has been good.

Since going through menopause, sex had dropped significantly to the point now where it’s been 13 months and counting since any intimacy.

We are UK based and my wife has tried many different HRT combinations some worked for to a degree but caused complications with vistibula migraines, long story short, she felt she needed to stop the hrt.

As a guy with a high libido I have found this so challenging. But also the lack of non sexual intimacy like cuddling or stroking my back.

I love my wife but miss that spark and being desired and have never felt so alone in my marriage.

It fillse with great sadness to think at 55 that’s it and will never have sex again.

In Manchester all next week 11-14 May looking for discreet fun.

I’m in a dead bedroom situation, not had sex in over a year.

I’m 5’9” tall, 73kg regular gym goer.