Looking for some advice…

I (45m) am interested in my wife and I trying pegging. I’ve alluded to it before, but she’s not really picked up on just how interested I am. I have several questions…

  1. How do I bring it up in a way that she will likely be receptive to and not immediately think the worst?

  2. How would we go about deciding on a dildo or strapon? (Size, material, more like a penis, less like a penis, etc)

  3. If the conversation is a no go, is there any way for me to attempt/enjoy solo pegging? Is that even a thing?

  4. Anything else I should know or consider?

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u/ResidentGrand13 — 4 days ago

It’s Monday morning here, and I’m just starting the workweek…. What are you doing today?

Is it Monday morning or some other time where you’re at? And what do you have planned, or happening, where you are?

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u/ResidentGrand13 — 4 days ago

Masturbation in a committed relationship or marriage?

I’m curious what people in committed relationships or marriage think about the role masturbation plays in their sex life. Do you, and/or your SO, masturbate separately from one another? Do you each know when the other does so? Does it affect your sex life positively, negatively, or not at all?

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u/ResidentGrand13 — 5 days ago

Why are people more likely to share here on Reddit than irl with friends?

I’ve often wondered this… if we have good/close friends in life, why do many of us still find it easier to share our secrets online with strangers here on Reddit that to share them with close, trusted friends?

For me, it’s knowing that if I share with a close friend, there is the possibility they look at me differently, or there’s the possibility that they might let the secret slip, whether intentionally or unintentionally.

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u/ResidentGrand13 — 5 days ago

Ladies: Have you, or would you, ever share nudes or sexy pics for the love of the game?

I’m curious how many women would share nude or sexy (lingerie, panties, bikini, etc) pics just to share them? Would you take reasonable or unreasonable requests for pics?

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u/ResidentGrand13 — 6 days ago