u/SafeButFun813

I guess this is kind of a loaded question, because some people dedicate their lives to being in porn DESPITE STDs existing. But, I'd imagine a lot of us watch porn because it's just too damn big of a risk to do some of the crazy shit we see people do in porn, so this question is mostly posed at you people.

As for me, I would totally go all-in on doing as much nasty shit porn-wise as possible, preferably with a camera pointed at me as much as possible. I would become known for reliably saying 'yes' to just about any scenario and following through - I would have motivation to get in shape and stay that way (I also wouldn't go overboard because this fixation on overly muscular guys in porn is kinda' weird, and I would not wanna add to that trend).

But, yeah - I actually do go out and try to make my 'porn dreams' into a reality to the best of my ability, and the two things I see that constantly get in the way are the potential for STDs, as well as peoples' conditioning/brainwashing to associate their sexual inclinations with shame.

So, I guess the core of the question is more/less, if the tangible danger of participating in porn was no longer there, would you be brave enough to say 'Fuck what people think about me' and just pursue your fantasies of being part of what you watch so much on your computer screen?

I ask this partly just to see what people have to say in response, but also just to get people thinking about whether they would ACTUALLY put forth the effort to make their fantasies into a reality if the main obstacle preventing you from doing so was removed.

Ya' see, I haven't lived on my own for a very long time (relatively speaking), but a few years ago I started hosting, because I finally could. My biggest concern with all this is STDs, so I pretty much figured out the safest way possible for guys to play together, made it the easiest I possibly could to make it happen (literally all people would have to do is drive out to me), and roughly 97% would still not put in that minuscule amount of effort to make their fantasies come true, even when they were offered a scenario where the most tangible obstacle (STDs) was pretty much removed...

lol

Sooo, I'm interested, with complete honesty, who among you would actually go out there and make your fantasies happen if that obstacle was removed, because I've already observed a metric shitton of people that would not, and it's honestly pretty sad; In my opinion, not pursuing your fantasies when given an opportunity to do so in a safe manner is probably one of the purest forms of self-betrayal there is, butt tit's sooo common, it's pretty disturbing.

Guess the fluoride in our drinking water is working as intended!

XD

But, yep - Still interested in any responses people might have one way or the other. As for me: I'd become the biggest manwhore imaginable. Unfortunately that aint the world we live in, so that won't happen. But I still pursue my fantasies and make them into a reality on a daily basis, even if it takes wayyy too much effort to actually make it work due to the brainwashing that we should have shame for these inclinations/desires being so universal within our society...

Pretty much nobody within the casual sex community here appreciates safe play - Probably a vast majority could not even explain how safe play could even happen because they have so little knowledge or concern of how STDs are spread or what you can do to prevent that.

Great intro, right?

Well, there is no shortage of single porn addicts out there, yet for the life of me I cannot find any locally that don't exhibit 90+ red flags. Beyond that: I can offer a meetup on a silver platter to people and 97% of the time they are not even willing to drive an extremely trivial distance to fulfill their fantasies. I will never understand that mindset, but it is genuinely disturbing how common it is, and to me it seems almost like a self-betrayal if you're not willing to put that little amount of effort into fulfilling your fantasies if/when you are able to do so in a safe manner.

That said, if there are any normal guys out there that read this who are potentially interested in developing a real ongoing FWB situation, feel free to drop me a line. In all honesty: My ideal guy would probably be a guy who's given up on dating, and just focuses on porn and video games all day - That way I can have a reasonable expectation that you can be part of a FWB situation without doing stuff on the side that might introduce new diseases to what we have going.

If you are hypersexual, that is a big plus but not necessary - We're talkin' like you usually cum 2-5 times a day, can 'reload' in about 10-15 minutes, and you don't let 'post-nut clarity' cause you to flee the scene of any encounter you have with a guy the second you blow your load.

I don't really have any physical requirements beyond having a functional cock and not being so overweight that it interferes with your ability to have sex. I, myself, have a bit of a belly, however I am not big to the point where it interferes with my ability to do things. And, really: That standard is more about 'functionality' than it is 'attraction'. I'm also open to quite a large variety of ages, though be over 18, and if you're under 21 I will want to see your ID to confirm you're over 18.

I am much more concerned with your mindset and your ability to respect boundaries. I exclusively stick to just hand stuff (mutual masturbation/handjobs) - So no oral; No anal. There is potentially a path beyond that, but we will discuss that later, and first you have to illustrate that you have the ability to show up to more than one meetup (I'm not a fan of taking risks on one night stands).

I'm not going to list off all the red flags I've become familiar with, but unfortunately I am familiar with a lot thanks to our casual sex community being pretty abysmal. The kind of meetups I host, I designed specifically around what I'd always hoped to find when I was looking for a meetup when I couldn't host - That wasn't very long ago.

But, yes - I can host, and I am located in the Twin Cities area, so if you live way far away from the cities, that sucks, and I sometimes see ads of promising people that live way far away, but it's better to be realistic about things and just admit if you live like an hour away, it probably isn't gonna' work. I am looking for this to develop into an ongoing thing, and I do have an ongoing thing with one other person whom I play 100% safe with, so IT IS POSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE THAT; It is NOT possible if you're part of the 97% of people that will not drive a trivial distance to make that happen.

During my meetups I will supply us with everything we need to have a good time - Essentially it's typically going to consist of taking turns giving each other handjobs to really good porn. I have quite a lot of availability and flexibility in my schedule, so I can likely accommodate busy schedules. I will also ensure that my bathroom has clean soap and towels available and you can take a shower before you leave if you'd like.

Just so it's said: I'm not into kissing guys, I don't want any kind of a romantic attachment to be involved, and frotting (cock-to-cock play) is something that does pose risks, so that won't be part of the play until we pass that hurdle that allows us to do more than hand stuff. I also don't want any cumplay or intentionally cumming on each other, though I'm not gonna' freak out if cum ends up somewhere it wasn't intended just because somebody ends up cumming that wildly. There also is the potential for small group play if I can ever find another reasonable person to become a regular.

I also want to stress that I don't want anybody doing anything they're not comfortable with, so if somethin' aint working, just speak up and we can pump the brakes and switch gears to something else. You're also free to leave at any time for any reason - You don't even really have to give me the reason if you don't want to; Just let me know you wanna' head out and we'll stop what we're doing, you can wash off if you want, then get dressed, and exit stage left with no hard feelings.

If you have drug or alcohol problems, especially if you're going to show up high/drunk, I'm not interested. If you are aware that you have STDs, I'm not interested. If you are not okay with sticking with hand stuff or you think 'if I just randomly start sucking his dick during play he'll just go along with it', I can assure you that I will NOT just 'go along with it' if/when you violate my boundaries; So, if you intend on not respecting my boundaries, I'm not interested.

I am open-minded and kink/fetish friendly, most of the time - I'm open to suggestions and as long as those suggestions don't compromise the safety aspect of play, there's a good chance we could implement some things that are a bit out-of-the-ordinary. On the flipside of that coin, I am perfectly fine with keeping everything vanilla, in fact that's pretty much what I'm used to.

I'm also similarly open-minded about porn, however I'd like to keep it legal, and I draw the line at excessive pain/gore stuff. Other than that, I am very receptive to hearing any fetishes you may have - I doubt there's much you could tell me that would shock me, but I won't necessarily be interested in all fetish stuff. But, again: I'm actually used to just playing vanilla porn during meetups, and there's plenty of extremely hot vids within vanilla stuff.

And, as for me, I am pretty hypersexual myself, so I'm almost always up for blowing more than one load during a session, though that isn't necessary. And, despite the somewhat abrasive nature of how this ad is written (and there is good reason it is written that way), I am a very chill, laid-back individual. I encourage people to think of my meetups as sort of a 'break from reality' where we can enjoy some of the desires we have to hide in our daily lives, then we can go back to said daily lives, and nobody will ever know the kind of wild things we did together.

I also have introduced a few guys to their first 'guy-guy experience', so I do seem to have a knack for making people comfortable for their first experience and putting their mind at ease. And, for what it's worth: I am a decent and respectable person myself.

I also am completely confident I am clean, largely because I do always play safe, but I am also tested yearly for STDs. I was last tested in January, and although I try to get straight into the fun as soon as guys arrive, I will show you my STD test results the first time we meet so you don't have to take my word for it - It will take like 10 seconds, then we can turn on the porn and get to playing with our cocks.

Ideally, I prefer to have people make this a semi-regular thing, with probably a rough goal of meeting like once a month. As I'd mentioned: There is a road to go beyond hand stuff eventually, but I'm also fine with sticking exclusively to hand stuff if you'd like to do that anyways. And, really: Pretty much the main thing you have to do to get invited back is just respect my boundaries and keep things safe.

The good news is that hand stuff can be really hot and play within the bounds of 'safe stuff' can still be absolutely amazing. I also try to make everything about my meetups as easy as possible (except reading this kinda' stuff) - I like to get all the formalities out of the way ahead of time and set expectations and boundaries before the meetup, so if/when it comes time to meet, we can get straight to the fun with minimal smalltalk. Once we both cum, you're also free to head out if you want (and, really: You can head out at anytime), but if you'd like to hang out naked afterwards and just enjoy the porn and maybe talk about past encounters, porn preference, or just about any other sex topic, we can probably do that - If we feel up for it we can try to go for another round of handjobs too.

So, that's kinda' the crash-course on what I'm offering, who I'm hoping to find, and some of the things you can expect from me. Feel free to message me if you're interested, and it'd probably be good if you could tell me a bit about yourself and maybe what you're looking to get outta' this stuff - At the very least, your age, race, and relative location would be good.

I can't guarantee I will get back to everyone, because there are red flags that are dealbreakers right off-the-bat. I will say that if you take the time to write something longer, since you took the time to read this, I will take the time to read what you write as well, even if it is long-winded. So, please take what I said above into consideration, please skip messaging me if you are one of the people I'd mentioned I don't want to hear from, and if you're within the 97% of people that will flake out at the last second, you can also save both of us a lot of time by not messaging me.

Lastly: If I give you a chance, please don't make me regret doing so...

Pretty much nobody within the casual sex community here appreciates safe play - Probably a vast majority could not even explain how safe play could even happen because they have so little knowledge or concern of how STDs are spread or what you can do to prevent that.

Great intro, right?

Well, there is no shortage of single porn addicts out there, yet for the life of me I cannot find any locally that don't exhibit 90+ red flags. Beyond that: I can offer a meetup on a silver platter to people and 97% of the time they are not even willing to drive an extremely trivial distance to fulfill their fantasies. I will never understand that mindset, but it is genuinely disturbing how common it is, and to me it seems almost like a self-betrayal if you're not willing to put that little amount of effort into fulfilling your fantasies if/when you are able to do so in a safe manner.

That said, if there are any normal guys out there that read this who are potentially interested in developing a real ongoing FWB situation, feel free to drop me a line. In all honesty: My ideal guy would probably be a guy who's given up on dating, and just focuses on porn and video games all day - That way I can have a reasonable expectation that you can be part of a FWB situation without doing stuff on the side that might introduce new diseases to what we have going.

If you are hypersexual, that is a big plus but not necessary - We're talkin' like you usually cum 2-5 times a day, can 'reload' in about 10-15 minutes, and you don't let 'post-nut clarity' cause you to flee the scene of any encounter you have with a guy the second you blow your load.

I don't really have any physical requirements beyond having a functional cock and not being so overweight that it interferes with your ability to have sex. I, myself, have a bit of a belly, however I am not big to the point where it interferes with my ability to do things. And, really: That standard is more about 'functionality' than it is 'attraction'. I'm also open to quite a large variety of ages, though be over 18, and if you're under 21 I will want to see your ID to confirm you're over 18.

I am much more concerned with your mindset and your ability to respect boundaries. I exclusively stick to just hand stuff (mutual masturbation/handjobs) - So no oral; No anal. There is potentially a path beyond that, but we will discuss that later, and first you have to illustrate that you have the ability to show up to more than one meetup (I'm not a fan of taking risks on one night stands).

I'm not going to list off all the red flags I've become familiar with, but unfortunately I am familiar with a lot thanks to our casual sex community being pretty abysmal. The kind of meetups I host, I designed specifically around what I'd always hoped to find when I was looking for a meetup when I couldn't host - That wasn't very long ago.

But, yes - I can host, and I am located in the Twin Cities area, so if you live way far away from the cities, that sucks, and I sometimes see ads of promising people that live way far away, but it's better to be realistic about things and just admit if you live like an hour away, it probably isn't gonna' work. I am looking for this to develop into an ongoing thing, and I do have an ongoing thing with one other person whom I play 100% safe with, so IT IS POSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE THAT; It is NOT possible if you're part of the 97% of people that will not drive a trivial distance to make that happen.

During my meetups I will supply us with everything we need to have a good time - Essentially it's typically going to consist of taking turns giving each other handjobs to really good porn. I have quite a lot of availability and flexibility in my schedule, so I can likely accommodate busy schedules. I will also ensure that my bathroom has clean soap and towels available and you can take a shower before you leave if you'd like.

Just so it's said: I'm not into kissing guys, I don't want any kind of a romantic attachment to be involved, and frotting (cock-to-cock play) is something that does pose risks, so that won't be part of the play until we pass that hurdle that allows us to do more than hand stuff. I also don't want any cumplay or intentionally cumming on each other, though I'm not gonna' freak out if cum ends up somewhere it wasn't intended just because somebody ends up cumming that wildly. There also is the potential for small group play if I can ever find another reasonable person to become a regular.

I also want to stress that I don't want anybody doing anything they're not comfortable with, so if somethin' aint working, just speak up and we can pump the brakes and switch gears to something else. You're also free to leave at any time for any reason - You don't even really have to give me the reason if you don't want to; Just let me know you wanna' head out and we'll stop what we're doing, you can wash off if you want, then get dressed, and exit stage left with no hard feelings.

If you have drug or alcohol problems, especially if you're going to show up high/drunk, I'm not interested. If you are aware that you have STDs, I'm not interested. If you are not okay with sticking with hand stuff or you think 'if I just randomly start sucking his dick during play he'll just go along with it', I can assure you that I will NOT just 'go along with it' if/when you violate my boundaries; So, if you intend on not respecting my boundaries, I'm not interested.

I am open-minded and kink/fetish friendly, most of the time - I'm open to suggestions and as long as those suggestions don't compromise the safety aspect of play, there's a good chance we could implement some things that are a bit out-of-the-ordinary. On the flipside of that coin, I am perfectly fine with keeping everything vanilla, in fact that's pretty much what I'm used to.

I'm also similarly open-minded about porn, however I'd like to keep it legal, and I draw the line at excessive pain/gore stuff. Other than that, I am very receptive to hearing any fetishes you may have - I doubt there's much you could tell me that would shock me, but I won't necessarily be interested in all fetish stuff. But, again: I'm actually used to just playing vanilla porn during meetups, and there's plenty of extremely hot vids within vanilla stuff.

And, as for me, I am pretty hypersexual myself, so I'm almost always up for blowing more than one load during a session, though that isn't necessary. And, despite the somewhat abrasive nature of how this ad is written (and there is good reason it is written that way), I am a very chill, laid-back individual. I encourage people to think of my meetups as sort of a 'break from reality' where we can enjoy some of the desires we have to hide in our daily lives, then we can go back to said daily lives, and nobody will ever know the kind of wild things we did together.

I also have introduced a few guys to their first 'guy-guy experience', so I do seem to have a knack for making people comfortable for their first experience and putting their mind at ease. And, for what it's worth: I am a decent and respectable person myself.

I also am completely confident I am clean, largely because I do always play safe, but I am also tested yearly for STDs. I was last tested in January, and although I try to get straight into the fun as soon as guys arrive, I will show you my STD test results the first time we meet so you don't have to take my word for it - It will take like 10 seconds, then we can turn on the porn and get to playing with our cocks.

Ideally, I prefer to have people make this a semi-regular thing, with probably a rough goal of meeting like once a month. As I'd mentioned: There is a road to go beyond hand stuff eventually, but I'm also fine with sticking exclusively to hand stuff if you'd like to do that anyways. And, really: Pretty much the main thing you have to do to get invited back is just respect my boundaries and keep things safe.

The good news is that hand stuff can be really hot and play within the bounds of 'safe stuff' can still be absolutely amazing. I also try to make everything about my meetups as easy as possible (except reading this kinda' stuff) - I like to get all the formalities out of the way ahead of time and set expectations and boundaries before the meetup, so if/when it comes time to meet, we can get straight to the fun with minimal smalltalk. Once we both cum, you're also free to head out if you want (and, really: You can head out at anytime), but if you'd like to hang out naked afterwards and just enjoy the porn and maybe talk about past encounters, porn preference, or just about any other sex topic, we can probably do that - If we feel up for it we can try to go for another round of handjobs too.

So, that's kinda' the crash-course on what I'm offering, who I'm hoping to find, and some of the things you can expect from me. Feel free to message me if you're interested, and it'd probably be good if you could tell me a bit about yourself and maybe what you're looking to get outta' this stuff - At the very least, your age, race, and relative location would be good.

I can't guarantee I will get back to everyone, because there are red flags that are dealbreakers right off-the-bat. I will say that if you take the time to write something longer, since you took the time to read this, I will take the time to read what you write as well, even if it is long-winded. So, please take what I said above into consideration, please skip messaging me if you are one of the people I'd mentioned I don't want to hear from, and if you're within the 97% of people that will flake out at the last second, you can also save both of us a lot of time by not messaging me.

Lastly: If I give you a chance, please don't make me regret doing so...

Pretty much nobody within the casual sex community here appreciates safe play - Probably a vast majority could not even explain how safe play could even happen because they have so little knowledge or concern of how STDs are spread or what you can do to prevent that.

Great intro, right?

Well, there is no shortage of single porn addicts out there, yet for the life of me I cannot find any locally that don't exhibit 90+ red flags. Beyond that: I can offer a meetup on a silver platter to people and 97% of the time they are not even willing to drive an extremely trivial distance to fulfill their fantasies. I will never understand that mindset, but it is genuinely disturbing how common it is, and to me it seems almost like a self-betrayal if you're not willing to put that little amount of effort into fulfilling your fantasies if/when you are able to do so in a safe manner.

That said, if there are any normal guys out there that read this who are potentially interested in developing a real ongoing FWB situation, feel free to drop me a line. In all honesty: My ideal guy would probably be a guy who's given up on dating, and just focuses on porn and video games all day - That way I can have a reasonable expectation that you can be part of a FWB situation without doing stuff on the side that might introduce new diseases to what we have going.

If you are hypersexual, that is a big plus but not necessary - We're talkin' like you usually cum 2-5 times a day, can 'reload' in about 10-15 minutes, and you don't let 'post-nut clarity' cause you to flee the scene of any encounter you have with a guy the second you blow your load.

I don't really have any physical requirements beyond having a functional cock and not being so overweight that it interferes with your ability to have sex. I, myself, have a bit of a belly, however I am not big to the point where it interferes with my ability to do things. And, really: That standard is more about 'functionality' than it is 'attraction'. I'm also open to quite a large variety of ages, though be over 18, and if you're under 21 I will want to see your ID to confirm you're over 18.

I am much more concerned with your mindset and your ability to respect boundaries. I exclusively stick to just hand stuff (mutual masturbation/handjobs) - So no oral; No anal. There is potentially a path beyond that, but we will discuss that later, and first you have to illustrate that you have the ability to show up to more than one meetup (I'm not a fan of taking risks on one night stands).

I'm not going to list off all the red flags I've become familiar with, but unfortunately I am familiar with a lot thanks to our casual sex community being pretty abysmal. The kind of meetups I host, I designed specifically around what I'd always hoped to find when I was looking for a meetup when I couldn't host - That wasn't very long ago.

But, yes - I can host, and I am located in the Twin Cities area, so if you live way far away from the cities, that sucks, and I sometimes see ads of promising people that live way far away, but it's better to be realistic about things and just admit if you live like an hour away, it probably isn't gonna' work. I am looking for this to develop into an ongoing thing, and I do have an ongoing thing with one other person whom I play 100% safe with, so IT IS POSSIBLE TO ACHIEVE THAT; It is NOT possible if you're part of the 97% of people that will not drive a trivial distance to make that happen.

During my meetups I will supply us with everything we need to have a good time - Essentially it's typically going to consist of taking turns giving each other handjobs to really good porn. I have quite a lot of availability and flexibility in my schedule, so I can likely accommodate busy schedules. I will also ensure that my bathroom has clean soap and towels available and you can take a shower before you leave if you'd like.

Just so it's said: I'm not into kissing guys, I don't want any kind of a romantic attachment to be involved, and frotting (cock-to-cock play) is something that does pose risks, so that won't be part of the play until we pass that hurdle that allows us to do more than hand stuff. I also don't want any cumplay or intentionally cumming on each other, though I'm not gonna' freak out if cum ends up somewhere it wasn't intended just because somebody ends up cumming that wildly. There also is the potential for small group play if I can ever find another reasonable person to become a regular.

I also want to stress that I don't want anybody doing anything they're not comfortable with, so if somethin' aint working, just speak up and we can pump the brakes and switch gears to something else. You're also free to leave at any time for any reason - You don't even really have to give me the reason if you don't want to; Just let me know you wanna' head out and we'll stop what we're doing, you can wash off if you want, then get dressed, and exit stage left with no hard feelings.

If you have drug or alcohol problems, especially if you're going to show up high/drunk, I'm not interested. If you are aware that you have STDs, I'm not interested. If you are not okay with sticking with hand stuff or you think 'if I just randomly start sucking his dick during play he'll just go along with it', I can assure you that I will NOT just 'go along with it' if/when you violate my boundaries; So, if you intend on not respecting my boundaries, I'm not interested.

I am open-minded and kink/fetish friendly, most of the time - I'm open to suggestions and as long as those suggestions don't compromise the safety aspect of play, there's a good chance we could implement some things that are a bit out-of-the-ordinary. On the flipside of that coin, I am perfectly fine with keeping everything vanilla, in fact that's pretty much what I'm used to.

I'm also similarly open-minded about porn, however I'd like to keep it legal, and I draw the line at excessive pain/gore stuff. Other than that, I am very receptive to hearing any fetishes you may have - I doubt there's much you could tell me that would shock me, but I won't necessarily be interested in all fetish stuff. But, again: I'm actually used to just playing vanilla porn during meetups, and there's plenty of extremely hot vids within vanilla stuff.

And, as for me, I am pretty hypersexual myself, so I'm almost always up for blowing more than one load during a session, though that isn't necessary. And, despite the somewhat abrasive nature of how this ad is written (and there is good reason it is written that way), I am a very chill, laid-back individual. I encourage people to think of my meetups as sort of a 'break from reality' where we can enjoy some of the desires we have to hide in our daily lives, then we can go back to said daily lives, and nobody will ever know the kind of wild things we did together.

I also have introduced a few guys to their first 'guy-guy experience', so I do seem to have a knack for making people comfortable for their first experience and putting their mind at ease. And, for what it's worth: I am a decent and respectable person myself.

I also am completely confident I am clean, largely because I do always play safe, but I am also tested yearly for STDs. I was last tested in January, and although I try to get straight into the fun as soon as guys arrive, I will show you my STD test results the first time we meet so you don't have to take my word for it - It will take like 10 seconds, then we can turn on the porn and get to playing with our cocks.

Ideally, I prefer to have people make this a semi-regular thing, with probably a rough goal of meeting like once a month. As I'd mentioned: There is a road to go beyond hand stuff eventually, but I'm also fine with sticking exclusively to hand stuff if you'd like to do that anyways. And, really: Pretty much the main thing you have to do to get invited back is just respect my boundaries and keep things safe.

The good news is that hand stuff can be really hot and play within the bounds of 'safe stuff' can still be absolutely amazing. I also try to make everything about my meetups as easy as possible (except reading this kinda' stuff) - I like to get all the formalities out of the way ahead of time and set expectations and boundaries before the meetup, so if/when it comes time to meet, we can get straight to the fun with minimal smalltalk. Once we both cum, you're also free to head out if you want (and, really: You can head out at anytime), but if you'd like to hang out naked afterwards and just enjoy the porn and maybe talk about past encounters, porn preference, or just about any other sex topic, we can probably do that - If we feel up for it we can try to go for another round of handjobs too.

So, that's kinda' the crash-course on what I'm offering, who I'm hoping to find, and some of the things you can expect from me. Feel free to message me if you're interested, and it'd probably be good if you could tell me a bit about yourself and maybe what you're looking to get outta' this stuff - At the very least, your age, race, and relative location would be good.

I can't guarantee I will get back to everyone, because there are red flags that are dealbreakers right off-the-bat. I will say that if you take the time to write something longer, since you took the time to read this, I will take the time to read what you write as well, even if it is long-winded. So, please take what I said above into consideration, please skip messaging me if you are one of the people I'd mentioned I don't want to hear from, and if you're within the 97% of people that will flake out at the last second, you can also save both of us a lot of time by not messaging me.

Lastly: If I give you a chance, please don't make me regret doing so...

Do we wanna' speculate what came first: The chicken or the egg?

I saw it suggested that hypersexuality often is a coping mechanism for massive amounts of stress, but because sexual gratification only lasts so long, and there's often a 'cooldown phase' (AKA 'reloading' for guys), it's not necessarily a reliable coping mechanism.

I don't know that I buy that entirely, though (or at least I don't think that's the complete story). I wonder if the anxiety stems from the inability to satiate the desires. Like, on some level hypersexuality is kinda' awesome, butt tit's also extremely exhausting when you get off and you got a good like 20ish minutes before the urge to get off again pulls you back in.

And one thing I notice when I cum is just complete relaxation for a very short period - Just like, a momentary reprieve from obsessing over sex and all that. It's just so fleeting that it's gone almost immediately.

I wonder if that's kind of the core of the anxiety: That you can never relax because you absolutely constantly have this urge/need to be trying to work towards your next orgasm so you can have 5 minutes of peace before the whole cycle starts again.

I also saw mention of stuff like the potential for STDs and all that feeding into the anxiety, but I play safe, so that has nothing to do with it for me, but I can see how that could be a huge factor for those who just say 'fuck it' and fully embrace their hypersexuality.

Lastly: I think one of the main sources of anxiety for me (and the reason why no outlet is enough to satiate this need) is just how fucking impossible it is to find someone else with a sex drive that matches my own. It's like, I can't even relate to 95% of guys because the concept that you would just be tapped out for an entire day after cumming once is just so foreign to me, I can barely even fathom it.

But, it must be nice to be able to cum and just be done with that for awhile, so although I recognize how awesome hypersexuality kinda' is, the frustration that nobody fucking exists that could match your sexdrive makes it a complete fucking curse, 'cuz as people are finishing, you haven't even gotten started, and that just sucks sooo much...

But, just some things I've had on my mind regarding this...

lol - The sleeping problems are kind of a bitch too as I oftentimes wake up with a boner hours before I want to, butt tit's hard to know what's linked to what; I just notice that a lot of nights when I should be heading to bed, the draw of browsing porn is just too much, so, blaugh - A LOT of problems stem from hypersexuality, and that sucks, because it SHOULD be a great thing...

Y'know: I've always liked the 'gooner mindset', and I'm a complete porn addict myself. The part I never really understood, though, was the fixation on orgasm denial and endless edging.

Now, I'll start out by saying that there's probably a somewhat good reason why I never got into edging and all that: I have such a high sex drive/libido that once I cum, if I really want to keep going, I can be back at it in like 10-15 minutes - I know that makes me somewhat exceptional since most guys are tapped out for hours, if not a full day if/when they cum once.

So, for me, the ideal way to get off has always been just goin' straight for the finish line, then I'd be good-to-go for the finish line again fairly quickly if I did wanna' experience it more than once - For me, the highlight has always been that loss of control when you can't hold back and your body takes over and you unload uncontrollably, and I was able to achieve that several times a day if I wanted.

But, I do get together with other guys when I can - Almost always it's to take turns jerking each other to porn since that's not only extremely hot, butt tit's also a very safe way to play STD-wise as long as you're washing hands when someone cums and using store-bought lube instead of spit/saliva as lube. Either way, I do that pretty much any chance I get, though the chances are VERY FEW and FAR BETWEEN thanks to a majority of you guys not wanting to put in the minimal amount of effort to meet with others even when given the opportunity to do so on a silver platter.

But I digress, and I don't think that should become the focus of this...

I had a meetup recently that I hosted for someone I'd met with quite a few times previously, so we both were pretty familiar with how things go when we do meetup (on a sidenote: Having a regular jerkbud is fucking amazing which makes peoples' reluctance to meet in-person even more baffling). I could tell that I was more horny than usual by a pretty large margin, so even though we usually just went for the finish line as fast as possible, because getting jerked fast and hard is ALSO a pretty amazing experience since the energy builds very fast and the loads are oftentimes very high-energy and explosive due to the relentless pace of things.

... But, yeah - This time I asked him to take things a bit slower to see how it goes. I did this partially 'cuz I could tell I would cum extremely fast if we went 'the usual pace', but also because I kinda' felt like it might be something special if we did make it a bit more drawn out. I was also aware that I did have times in my past where I would just pump out a ton of precum during play, though it had never been something I've really fixated on much - I've just had guys in the past briefly point out how crazy it was when they did notice it.

So, when he arrived I always have everything prepared and good porn already goin', so we had professional sluts shaking their tits and asses on both the TV and my laptop - We pretty much strip the second the door closes and sit next to each other on my couch, 'cuz I've found that the quicker the cocks come out, with minimal smalltalk, the more comfortable everyone is with getting into things and just letting the desires/dirty feelings drive the experience.

I'd already told him that I was more horny than usual, so the cat was already outta' the bag in that regard, and my cock had a nice splotch of precum already smeared onto it from being in my pants (I gotta' answer the door clothed at least, so that just is wot it is). It did not take long for both of us to take notice that my cock kept leaking precum, to like a ridiculous degree - Throughout the play it was just an endless flow, and it was sooo fucking hot.

We were both totally into it too, and he'd rub it into my cockhead and sometimes just let it pump out naturally on its own 'til it went all the way down my shaft to my pelvis - It was also incredibly thick, so he took his finger away up into the air to see how long of strings of precum he could make without it breaking, and it was insane how long some of them got before they broke; We're talking he had his arm completely in the air over his head and there was still a strand going from my cock below.

During the play my legs were also shaking uncontrollably during small portions of it here-and-there - He was teasing my cock and not really giving me enough to work with to reach an orgasm, which was kinda' perfect.

Normally I'm only moderately verbal, but I do get pretty verbal as I get close to peaking - In this instance, I was close to peaking pretty much the entire time, so I was very verbal. The whole thing was me being amazed by the situation and just talking about how fucking perverted it was that he was helping me pump out an endless supply of precum for us both to enjoy and how much I loved it.

As the session went on, I got more deliberate about trying to flex my cock in ways where I'd pump out more precum - Towards the end there were a few times where I pumped out a sizeable amount all at once as almost a 'precum mini-orgasm', and it was incredible; The sensations from my cock endlessly pumping the shit out was just amazing as well. I was so into it, everything kind of went away and I just lived in that moment just doing my best to show how fucking nasty I was by pumping out more and more precum for him to play with.

Although I had very little sense of time during it, judging by when he arrived and when he headed home, I'm guessing he was probably helping me pump out precum for around an hour. He didn't even really give me any solid way of finishing, so he didn't decide to suddenly start jerking me to finish me off, but I knew I wanted to get there eventually and the hotness of the situation and the slutty dialogue I was engaging in made me eventually start trending towards peaking, but I really had to work for it.

I'd imagine he could tell that I was getting close as my breathing was changing and I wasn't talking as much when I really started getting close and feeling the pressure build up. I closed my eyes a few minutes before I finished and just stayed that way to focus on the feeling - I'm sure I was still endlessly pumping out precum, but I was no longer watching to tell.

Normally I announce when I'm cumming, but I had to focus so much and it was so intense that I just let it happen - I kept my eyes closed the whole time, so I don't even know when I started unloading or how big the load was, though I did hear the frantic reaction and encouragement to unload from the guy who was jerking me when I finally started pumping out my cum.

I was SUPER fucking shakey and overwhelmed after I finally sprayed my jizz everywhere. It seems like the guy I was with played with the cummy mess longer than usual, and I was fine with that, 'cuz I was still sorta' in sensory overload from how crazy the whole experience was. I kinda' mentioned how my legs were probably gonna' be dead later that day (and they were) from them shaking uncontrollably through various points during the play.

Normally at this point we'd go wash off before we switched gears and I returned the favor by jerking him, but he was so turned on by the whole ordeal that he took the hand that he'd jerked me with and wiped my precum and cum all over his cock. I'd shown him STD test results from back in January that showed I was clean, and he was aware of how safe I play, so he had become more comfortable with experimenting in those sort of ways. As far as I was concerned, I wasn't going to pressure him into anything like that, and I'd let him make his own decision, but it didn't change the level of risk on my end at all, so I was completely fine with it - It was actually very hot.

So, we transitioned from my wild experience and orgasm immediately to me jerking him off without any interruption, which was also very hot. Although I would definitely play with him in the same manner if I thought it would work, his cock seems to need pretty consistent and rapid stimulation in order to build to an orgasm, and I am very good at working his cock in that manner.

So, I jerked him fast and relentlessly as I could tell he was slowly building to where I was making him lose control - I reminded him a couple times throughout the jerking how nasty it was that his cock was coated in my cum. When we finally got to the point where I pushed him over the edge, he was laying back and I had his cock pointed kinda' towards me, and he shot off a pretty massive load with probably 3 good ropes of jizz, one of which hit me in the stomach leaving a nice-sized cum splatter.

I took a minute to play with his sensitive cock after that and point out how hot it was that he got me while he was unloading, and eventually we got up and went to wash off. We did sit for a couple minutes afterwards and watched a bit of porn naked together - Usually I'm pretty talkative during that time, 'cuz I love the conversations you can have with people in those scenarios since you can talk about things that you can't talk about during your everyday life without a filter. But, I think I was still experiencing a bit of the sensory overload from the craziness of being on edge for so long and just pumping out endless precum like a nasty little perv - I was in a bit of a daze. He headed out pretty quick after all that as we had spent quite a lot of time focusing on my cock and the precum stream.

So, uh, suffice to say: I think I have a newfound appreciation for gooning and that gives me a lot of insight into how it could become something you're obsessed with, and how you'd have a major preference for playing that way. I have managed to do edging solo on rare occasions, butt tit was always almost more of a chore than anything to not push myself over the edge and just let myself cum. So, this meetup was kind of my first experience where I was able to do that without having to keep that teasing up myself. I mean, when I get close to peaking, I find it hard to focus on just about anything, which is probably why it took a buddies teasing to allow me to experience that fully for the first time.

But, yep - If I could do that on my own, I would probably be addicted to it too. So, although I can't exactly say 'It has awoken my inner goon' simply because I still don't think I could manage to do that sorta' thing solo, it did give me some amazing insight into why you guys enjoy it so much and how someone could become completely obsessed with doing that sorta' thing endlessly throughout the day, 'cuz it was fucking amazing.

Anywho, that's my story I suppose. If you have any thoughts or similar stories, I'd be interested in hearing them. I'd also encourage any of you that have fantasies about gooning with others to take the opportunity to do so if/when you're presented with a scenario that you can do so in a safe manner - It's kind of a shame (almost a self-betrayal) when someone has these fantasies but they're too afraid/lazy to put in a very small amount of effort to make them happen. 'Cuz the experience that I described is likely within your reach, it's just a matter of making it happen.

Comments and DMs are welcome if you care to share your thots, and hopefully yee peoples enjoyed reading about my goon-adjacent experience!

Y'know: I've always liked the 'gooner mindset', and I'm a complete porn addict myself. The part I never really understood, though, was the fixation on orgasm denial and endless edging.

Now, I'll start out by saying that there's probably a somewhat good reason why I never got into edging and all that: I have such a high sex drive/libido that once I cum, if I really want to keep going, I can be back at it in like 10-15 minutes - I know that makes me somewhat exceptional since most guys are tapped out for hours, if not a full day if/when they cum once.

So, for me, the ideal way to get off has always been just goin' straight for the finish line, then I'd be good-to-go for the finish line again fairly quickly if I did wanna' experience it more than once - For me, the highlight has always been that loss of control when you can't hold back and your body takes over and you unload uncontrollably, and I was able to achieve that several times a day if I wanted.

But, I do get together with other guys when I can - Almost always it's to take turns jerking each other to porn since that's not only extremely hot, butt tit's also a very safe way to play STD-wise as long as you're washing hands when someone cums and using store-bought lube instead of spit/saliva as lube. Either way, I do that pretty much any chance I get, though the chances are VERY FEW and FAR BETWEEN thanks to a majority of you guys not wanting to put in the minimal amount of effort to meet with others even when given the opportunity to do so on a silver platter.

But I digress, and I don't think that should become the focus of this...

I had a meetup recently that I hosted for someone I'd met with quite a few times previously, so we both were pretty familiar with how things go when we do meetup (on a sidenote: Having a regular jerkbud is fucking amazing which makes peoples' reluctance to meet in-person even more baffling). I could tell that I was more horny than usual by a pretty large margin, so even though we usually just went for the finish line as fast as possible, because getting jerked fast and hard is ALSO a pretty amazing experience since the energy builds very fast and the loads are oftentimes very high-energy and explosive due to the relentless pace of things.

... But, yeah - This time I asked him to take things a bit slower to see how it goes. I did this partially 'cuz I could tell I would cum extremely fast if we went 'the usual pace', but also because I kinda' felt like it might be something special if we did make it a bit more drawn out. I was also aware that I did have times in my past where I would just pump out a ton of precum during play, though it had never been something I've really fixated on much - I've just had guys in the past briefly point out how crazy it was when they did notice it.

So, when he arrived I always have everything prepared and good porn already goin', so we had professional sluts shaking their tits and asses on both the TV and my laptop - We pretty much strip the second the door closes and sit next to each other on my couch, 'cuz I've found that the quicker the cocks come out, with minimal smalltalk, the more comfortable everyone is with getting into things and just letting the desires/dirty feelings drive the experience.

I'd already told him that I was more horny than usual, so the cat was already outta' the bag in that regard, and my cock had a nice splotch of precum already smeared onto it from being in my pants (I gotta' answer the door clothed at least, so that just is wot it is). It did not take long for both of us to take notice that my cock kept leaking precum, to like a ridiculous degree - Throughout the play it was just an endless flow, and it was sooo fucking hot.

We were both totally into it too, and he'd rub it into my cockhead and sometimes just let it pump out naturally on its own 'til it went all the way down my shaft to my pelvis - It was also incredibly thick, so he took his finger away up into the air to see how long of strings of precum he could make without it breaking, and it was insane how long some of them got before they broke; We're talking he had his arm completely in the air over his head and there was still a strand going from my cock below.

During the play my legs were also shaking uncontrollably during small portions of it here-and-there - He was teasing my cock and not really giving me enough to work with to reach an orgasm, which was kinda' perfect.

Normally I'm only moderately verbal, but I do get pretty verbal as I get close to peaking - In this instance, I was close to peaking pretty much the entire time, so I was very verbal. The whole thing was me being amazed by the situation and just talking about how fucking perverted it was that he was helping me pump out an endless supply of precum for us both to enjoy and how much I loved it.

As the session went on, I got more deliberate about trying to flex my cock in ways where I'd pump out more precum - Towards the end there were a few times where I pumped out a sizeable amount all at once as almost a 'precum mini-orgasm', and it was incredible; The sensations from my cock endlessly pumping the shit out was just amazing as well. I was so into it, everything kind of went away and I just lived in that moment just doing my best to show how fucking nasty I was by pumping out more and more precum for him to play with.

Although I had very little sense of time during it, judging by when he arrived and when he headed home, I'm guessing he was probably helping me pump out precum for around an hour. He didn't even really give me any solid way of finishing, so he didn't decide to suddenly start jerking me to finish me off, but I knew I wanted to get there eventually and the hotness of the situation and the slutty dialogue I was engaging in made me eventually start trending towards peaking, but I really had to work for it.

I'd imagine he could tell that I was getting close as my breathing was changing and I wasn't talking as much when I really started getting close and feeling the pressure build up. I closed my eyes a few minutes before I finished and just stayed that way to focus on the feeling - I'm sure I was still endlessly pumping out precum, but I was no longer watching to tell.

Normally I announce when I'm cumming, but I had to focus so much and it was so intense that I just let it happen - I kept my eyes closed the whole time, so I don't even know when I started unloading or how big the load was, though I did hear the frantic reaction and encouragement to unload from the guy who was jerking me when I finally started pumping out my cum.

I was SUPER fucking shakey and overwhelmed after I finally sprayed my jizz everywhere. It seems like the guy I was with played with the cummy mess longer than usual, and I was fine with that, 'cuz I was still sorta' in sensory overload from how crazy the whole experience was. I kinda' mentioned how my legs were probably gonna' be dead later that day (and they were) from them shaking uncontrollably through various points during the play.

Normally at this point we'd go wash off before we switched gears and I returned the favor by jerking him, but he was so turned on by the whole ordeal that he took the hand that he'd jerked me with and wiped my precum and cum all over his cock. I'd shown him STD test results from back in January that showed I was clean, and he was aware of how safe I play, so he had become more comfortable with experimenting in those sort of ways. As far as I was concerned, I wasn't going to pressure him into anything like that, and I'd let him make his own decision, but it didn't change the level of risk on my end at all, so I was completely fine with it - It was actually very hot.

So, we transitioned from my wild experience and orgasm immediately to me jerking him off without any interruption, which was also very hot. Although I would definitely play with him in the same manner if I thought it would work, his cock seems to need pretty consistent and rapid stimulation in order to build to an orgasm, and I am very good at working his cock in that manner.

So, I jerked him fast and relentlessly as I could tell he was slowly building to where I was making him lose control - I reminded him a couple times throughout the jerking how nasty it was that his cock was coated in my cum. When we finally got to the point where I pushed him over the edge, he was laying back and I had his cock pointed kinda' towards me, and he shot off a pretty massive load with probably 3 good ropes of jizz, one of which hit me in the stomach leaving a nice-sized cum splatter.

I took a minute to play with his sensitive cock after that and point out how hot it was that he got me while he was unloading, and eventually we got up and went to wash off. We did sit for a couple minutes afterwards and watched a bit of porn naked together - Usually I'm pretty talkative during that time, 'cuz I love the conversations you can have with people in those scenarios since you can talk about things that you can't talk about during your everyday life without a filter. But, I think I was still experiencing a bit of the sensory overload from the craziness of being on edge for so long and just pumping out endless precum like a nasty little perv - I was in a bit of a daze. He headed out pretty quick after all that as we had spent quite a lot of time focusing on my cock and the precum stream.

So, uh, suffice to say: I think I have a newfound appreciation for gooning and that gives me a lot of insight into how it could become something you're obsessed with, and how you'd have a major preference for playing that way. I have managed to do edging solo on rare occasions, butt tit was always almost more of a chore than anything to not push myself over the edge and just let myself cum. So, this meetup was kind of my first experience where I was able to do that without having to keep that teasing up myself. I mean, when I get close to peaking, I find it hard to focus on just about anything, which is probably why it took a buddies teasing to allow me to experience that fully for the first time.

But, yep - If I could do that on my own, I would probably be addicted to it too. So, although I can't exactly say 'It has awoken my inner goon' simply because I still don't think I could manage to do that sorta' thing solo, it did give me some amazing insight into why you guys enjoy it so much and how someone could become completely obsessed with doing that sorta' thing endlessly throughout the day, 'cuz it was fucking amazing.

Anywho, that's my story I suppose. If you have any thoughts or similar stories, I'd be interested in hearing them. I'd also encourage any of you that have fantasies about gooning with others to take the opportunity to do so if/when you're presented with a scenario that you can do so in a safe manner - It's kind of a shame (almost a self-betrayal) when someone has these fantasies but they're too afraid/lazy to put in a very small amount of effort to make them happen. 'Cuz the experience that I described is likely within your reach, it's just a matter of making it happen.

Comments and DMs are welcome if you care to share your thots, and hopefully yee peoples enjoyed reading about my goon-adjacent experience!