u/SoftEye1375

What is your favorite way to be woken up when your lady is in need of being serviced?? Asking for a friend 😺 😜

'32F,' '34M' Together for 2 years. Recently invested in some toys. He had purchases a couple for us earlier in the relationship but he never really incorporated them . I have finally put my " church trauma, sex is only for reproduction " into a campfire and am trying to live my best life getting sexually fulfilled. Unfortunately, have never had great O success with just my partner. Most recently after he got his I pulled out a toy to help myself since it isn't seem like he was going to reach for one. He held it for a couple mins but then said he didn't know what he was doing, I took over and he held me..all that to finally get to my question.. afterword he commented "yeah I really can compete with that (toy).. I was at a loss for words and also momentarily felt bad. I love him deeply and dont want to hurt his feelings nor emasculate him but what exactly is a good response to this comment??

I thought bringing in toys as helpers would take pressure off of him. Especially since I take longer just to warm up and can't get off with just him in me.Male and female prospective welcomed please. Thanks in advance!

Would love some jelly dildo recommendations, not a fan of rigid ones. Must be "average " size don't want to scare my man away..I'll save my 8" for me time 😂. Next I need recommendations on how to get him to use it on me !!??