u/Soggy399

She was working at a local Cafe as a barista I go to sometimes. She was new worker there, and I thought she was about 21. Through our small talk she said she is turning 20 soon - in August. I wasn't too far off, we had good chemistry and she was cute. After seeing her a couple more times I asked her out.

During the date it was definitely a good time. We had a lot of banter and fun. As I dropped her off at her complex she admitted to me that she was actually 17 and turning 18.

That's a short excerpt of what happened. She lied to me about her age because she thought I wouldn't continue talking to her if I really knew.

Why did she lie. Lying is one thing i hate. **IF** I did continue talking to her, starting off with this bad foot is a bad sign in my book.

Pretty much the title. I am more of a traditional leaning man. I was to a girl a few years younger than me, she said whenever she gets married she will take her husband's last name.

It shocked me in a way, as girls I know that are my age (I'm 28) it's not uncommon for them to keep their name.

Just my thoughts on a girl changing her last name: If she kept her last name, it would feel like we aren't fully committed and not one in the marriage.