u/SonOfABeach415

When we started dating, it was as you expect. When we moved in together, our mirrored closet doors were fun to use. I am much more the adventurous type, long time user of our California nude beaches where the people are just more friendly. She would go and sometimes go topless, but not that much. Indoors however, it was great.

We had a child and that's when things started to change. Over a period of time it became more about her. Her touching me became less and less. Her initiating became less and less. It got to the point where it was all about her and all she wanted to straight intercourse. I have always been a fan of foreplay, mostly for my partner. It's a big turn on for me to make a woman orgasm by going down her, fingering her. Whatever it takes. I have not problem. But in our case, she didn't want any of that. She would only want to to use my fingers on her clit, and then straight fuck her. There was no fun anymore.

Once our daughter moved out, she started sleeping inner daughters room. And that's when it all came to a stop.

Most of her resistance is simply physical. She'll push a hand away. She has a variety of claims why she doesn't want sex. I see her as only "meat". I'm not nice to her. I resist the claims because I will tell her how great she looks. And at times she will question why I am being so nice to her, where in my opinion, nothing has changed.

I cleaned her sheets and found her toy under the covers. But that was only then time. It hasn't been there since.

So now is the part where you are going to stop believing my story. This has been going on for 25 years.

It's true. And I have been a good boy the whole time. I masturbate every day, sometimes twice. Everything once works just fine. If my body could, I'd masturbate even more since my mind is always in full gear.

She has decided, for both of us, to be celibate. I didn't have a say. Divorce at this point is complicated for reasons I won't go into here. But if that was a worthy option, I would have done it long ago. I have tried to be loyal hoping things would change. That's how it got this long. I get a kiss and a hug at bedtime. It's like dating in high school again. You are only going to get so much.

But now my attitude about loyalty is different.

When we started dating, it was as you expect. When we moved in together, our mirrored closet doors were fun to use. I am much more the adventurous type, long time user of our California nude beaches where the people are just more friendly. She would go and sometimes go topless, but not that much. Indoors however, it was great.

We had a child and that's when things started to change. Over a period of time it became more about her. Her touching me became less and less. Her initiating became less and less. It got to the point where it was all about her and all she wanted to straight intercourse. I have always been a fan of foreplay, mostly for my partner. It's a big turn on for me to make a woman orgasm by going down her, fingering her. Whatever it takes. I have not problem. But in our case, she didn't want any of that. She would only want to to use my fingers on her clit, and then straight fuck her. There was no fun anymore.

Once our daughter moved out, she started sleeping inner daughters room. And that's when it all came to a stop.

Most of her resistance is simply physical. She'll push a hand away. She has a variety of claims why she doesn't want sex. I see her as only "meat". I'm not nice to her. I resist the claims because I will tell her how great she looks. And at times she will question why I am being so nice to her, where in my opinion, nothing has changed.

I cleaned her sheets and found her toy under the covers. But that was only then time. It hasn't been there since.

So now is the part where you are going to stop believing my story. This has been going on for 25 years.

It's true. And I have been a good boy the whole time. I masturbate every day, sometimes twice. Everything once works just fine. If my body could, I'd masturbate even more since my mind is always in full gear.

She has decided, for both of us, to be celibate. I didn't have a say. Divorce at this point is complicated for reasons I won't go into here. But if that was a worthy option, I would have done it long ago. I have tried to be loyal hoping things would change. That's how it got this long. I get a kiss and a hug at bedtime. It's like dating in high school again. You are only going to get so much.

But now my attitude about loyalty is different.

I’m not interested in complicating your life or mine. But I’d like to fill the hole in life that we both have.

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