u/SurfinHippy

We’ve used Reddit and met up with a few guys from here in the past and they turned out good. But what we have noticed is that it’s kind of a bit of a mixed bag on here. Sometimes you can get some good responses and other times it’s just nothing at all. Wondered what your guys experience was on here?

Hey guys, wanted to see if anyone would be available tonight to come over and have some drinks and hang out for a bit with us. My wife gets pretty slutty when she’s drunk so if we get her drunk enough she might suck your dick if you play your cards right. We have a private backyard with a pool and tiki bar so bring some drinks and a swim suit. Probably going to get a bunch of responses so please be patient and cool. Don’t be too pushy or I’ll stop messaging. We are laid back and easy going. Can’t guarantee anything will happen if she isn’t feeling it then it might just be a hang out. But if you’re fun and know how to have a good conversation then you have pretty good chances. MUST BE ATTRACTIVE and ready for a good time. We smoke but are not interested in any other drugs besides 420. If you bring some 420 to share then your odds are even better but not required. Must be clean, ddf, around our age preferred. Needs pics with dm, will accept chat for that and include some info about yourself. Not going to respond to short messages cause I already know there will be a bunch of people messaging. Will share pics of us as well if you’re someone we would like to meet.

I’m curious what everyone’s favorite positions to watch the wife and her bull in. I personally
Love seeing my wife in her knees in front of him giving him a nice blowjob. It’s the hottest thing ever for me. I do like watching them fold her up like a pretzel too and fucking her brains out.

My wife and I recently watched the Netflix Documentary “A Toxic Love Story” and if you haven’t seen it you should watch it. The husband in this is into wife sharing and basically forces his wife to get into his kink even though she is not okay with it. A prime example of what not to do to get your wife into this and it can show how emotionally traumatizing it can be if she isn’t into it. Just thought I’d share this here due to all the posts I see about reluctant wives and adamant husbands.

I’m free for the rest of the afternoon to give some head. Dm with pics

So I’m from Florida and married. I’m wanting to find someone to talk with about our days and monotony of married life. I am not looking to end my marriage or anything but I just want someone to talk to on the side that is also married. *notabot

I love nature and anything outdoors. Hiking, fishing, kayaking, camping. I also play video games and watch movies regularly. Trying to get more into reading. Love comedy shows and watching stand up. Looking for around my age or older.

I am happy in my marriage but just need some, diversity I guess. Maybe a little extra. Not trying to jump right into sexting either and would like to start out with just normal conversation and when the mood strikes we can take it from there.

Let’s see what we can get into!

Can host or travel looking for right now. Send pics with dm open to all

This has been my main kink for a long time, years and years. I’ve battled with it back and forth, felt ashamed and embarrassed of it. But now I’ve reached a place where I am on track to making it a reality. I’ve lived in this forum for so long and spend most of my time reading and commenting on posts that it has became an obsession. My wife is now aware of it and open to it. I don’t think it is for everyone but I truly love it. I love the idea of it. The freedom for women to have multiple partners with a willing husband as a foundation. An outlet for the husbands to find joy in their wife’s pleasure even though they themselves aren’t getting it directly.

I’ve combed the psychology of myself to find some sort of answer as to why we like it and why we want it so badly. Yes it’s taboo and that adds excitement. My relationship with cuckolding doesn’t stem from a cheating partner, a lack of cock size or any other insecurity. I am a fully functioning man and am not submissive outside of the bedroom or even in it for that matter. I truly just love this kink. It’s hot as hell to me. There’s something about another man sleeping with my wife that ignites a fire in me.

I’m no longer ashamed of it, in fact I’m proud of it. I’m happy with it and accept that it is what it is want. Now that I am so close to making it my truth I have no plans of slowing down. Full throttle and as hot and heavy as we can go. No boundaries, no limitations, just fun and excitement.

Yesterday I talked to my wife about getting into the swinger lifestyle or just involving another person. She seemed to be open minded about it and thought the idea was hot but she also was saying that she doesn’t know if she could actually do it and the logistics of finding someone.

A step in the right direction for sure but I need to know how to approach it from here. She’s open minded but not quite there yet. I decided to just let it be for now and bring it up again later. But how should I convince her of the benefits of the lifestyle and maybe find the last piece to make her more interested.

My wife and I recently took a break from the lifestyle for about 2 months. During that time we didn’t really think about the LS or anything to do with it. Earlier last week my wife expressed interest in having a meet up and invited over our bull for the weekend. So he came over and I just wasn’t feeling it like I normally do and just didn’t really have the desire. I felt like I was just kind of going with the motions and I was finding it difficult to stay hard during the session. I ended up just kind of sitting back and letting them have fun and watched until they were done. For the first time in a while I was actually questioning why I ever liked this kink and how much into it I really am at this point. Some parts of the session were even hard for me to watch,
Mainly when she was giving him head, I actually had a strong feeling of regret and remorse, or guilt even. I told my wife about it afterwards and she said she wasn’t happy about having to give up the LS if I wanted to but she would understand if I wasn’t into it anymore. So I’m glad she’s supportive but I also don’t want to make her stop just because I’ve lost interest if she still has the desires. I just wanted to get my thoughts out I’m not sure what advice I’m really looking for but just feeling kind of like I have lost interest.

I’m patiently waiting at home for my wife to get back from work. She said as soon as she gets here she’s going to give me some of her fresh pussy lemonade.

This week my wife has pissed in our coffee water reservoir and made my morning coffee with it. So I drink her pee all morning at work and no one has any idea. It adds a nice flavor to it and it’s so hot knowing that I’m drinking her pee all morning.

Over the weekend on Saturday my wife and I got into a pretty bad argument in the morning over something that wasn’t too serious but we got really mad at eachother. My wife angrily decided to call over her bull to blow off some frustration and decided she was going to do it right in front of me to make me more angry. As soon as he got there she told him to go sit on the couch where I was watching tv and immediately started giving him a sloppy blowjob. I was pissed off still but I pretty quickly forgot why I was even mad as I was watching them. She was being even more slutty and submissive to him than usual. She told him to “fuck the hell out of me. Don’t hold back.” And boy did he. He fucked her harder than I’ve seen him do before and she was moaning so loud and screaming. It was so hot and the fact that she was doing it spitefully was even hotter. I was quite jealous during the whole thing but also very turned on. We typically don’t have meet ups with the bulls when we are at odds or arguing but this time was purposeful on her part. The rest of the day was good and we forgot about our argument and the bull stayed over the rest of the day and hung out with us. There’s always something new around the corner. If we ended every argument like that I wouldn’t complain.

Are you a tired woman who spends a lot of time on your feet? Well let me massage away your troubles for absolutely nothing. Send me a message and we can talk more!

Want to give someone head M or F I’m open to all. Maybe more if the mood is right. HMU if interested.

When you guys are searching for a bull what traits and characteristics do you look for beyond just physical attraction. Personality traits, demeanor, etc. what are some instant disqualification characteristics?

We like to look for guys that are accepting and respectful of both of us until the bedroom stuff happens. We look for someone who we could see ourselves hanging out with outside of the bedroom as well. Good well rounded guys that are in it for the lifestyle not just the quick sex. Chiseled bodies and big cocks are a plus but they have to be someone I’d still hang out with if they weren’t fucking my wife. Someone I could go play a round of golf with and have a few beers and then watch him fuck my wife after.

Hung bull, clean and dds looking for couple for some fun. Let’s chat and see if the vibe is there.

So we are discreet, and try to avoid situations like these. We don’t want our coworkers, friends or family knowing we are in the lifestyle at all unless we want them to. Our profiles on feeld are censored and we don’t show our faces until after we match with the person and feel comfortable enough to do so. So my wife matched with a good friend of mine earlier this week.

She told me right away and I told her to chat with him on there and tell him the deal, I was okay with seeing where it would go. They have been chatting and I’ve read through their chats and there is a lot of flirting and sexual tension going on but not a direct plan to meet up or anything. He’s told her that he’s always found her attractive and admitted if he had the opportunity he would like to hook up.

I figured he would’ve tried to talk to me about it by now considering he’s been in daily conversation with my wife and she has told him that I know they matched and are talking. But he hasn’t made any attempt to talk to me which bothers me quite a bit. It kind of feels like he is avoiding the conversation or waiting for me to reach out to him first. I have restrained from doing that just because I wanted to see how he’d handle it, and if he was going to be mature enough to handle a situation like this.

I don’t really feel like I should be the one who makes first contact but it’s driving me crazy that I’m still not involved in the conversation between them. Coming here to vent somewhat and also see if there could be any decent advice on the situation.