hihi im just starting my journey!! my question is how do you attempt to make heatless curls cute while in lol, i have perfected the actual technique of it but i cannot for the life of me make it look cute ive tried bonnet and scarf (i use a robe tie and have medium length wavy hair) any recs would be awesome!! ✨💓 ps my husdom doesn’t care at all and still finds me attractive with it but i would feel better if i could figure it out 😭
im sharing this for self awareness before you disagree
when your dom gives you rules about consuming x amount of water or making sure you go to bathroom enough times a day it’s for your own good and i unfortunately learned the hard way.
I really lacked in my water intake and taking bathroom breaks at work and ended up with terrible kidney infection. It was actually the worst experience and was almost hospitalized
so unfortunately the brat in me doesn’t wanna admit it but my dom was right and i will never skimp on those guidelines ever again 🥲
hello friends!! if you have a mismatch of libido what were your ways of coping with it? did you try anything to fix it? context my husdom has become more lower libido energy and mine has just seemed to have sky rocketed basically(got off birth control for the first time in like 15 years) . sometimes it can make me feel a bit undesirable but at the same time i know that he cannot control this nor do i want to force him into anything. would love to know your thoughts on it specifically in marriage! we were not vanilla before but didn’t get into actual bdsm exploration until marriage also because we were long distance so our time together was limited most times , thanks in advance!!
hi all! new to the sub space on reddit, I am looking at all advice or info you have on implementing a d/s or ddlg dynamic specifically within marriage. Any rules, sayings, non negotiables, how to get into the roles after a long day, anything you think would be useful to start building the dynamic sexual and non sexual (I’m a very type A person and have done a ton of research but nothing beats having someone know the situation and being able to relate to the aspects)
For context: I have been with my husband for 5 years and he got out of the military. While he was in, sexually he was dominant but domestically I take care of the finances and a lot of the decisions because he was gone a lot. Now he’s out and I’m overwhelmed with work and have stressed that I feel very masculine in nature and want to connect back to my feminine side also because we are about to starting trying for kids in the next year so my mental and physical health are something I’m trying to prioritize. I want to almost transition that dominant/caretaker role back to him because I love being submissive in my personal private life and because I think structure of the dynamic would really help him due to being in the military. Please let me know anything you got! Nothing is too much :) (also he is very open to this dynamic also after we had a long conversation and just needs help with ideas and we are slowly implementing instead of rushing into it all at once)
P.S a fictional book that really helped me get an understanding of the dynamic is Daddy Commands by Maggie Ryan 🙂↔️💞