u/TumbleweedTrousers

45 [M4F] #Kentucky - Stuck dad looking for stuck mom!

I'm a hell of a catch for someone in a similar situation. You know, dead bedroom, zero affection, coexisting for the most part. I'm kind of stuck for the time being and an open marriage isn't on the table so here I am. It would be great to meet someone we can give one another feels.

I'm looking for fun, passion, desire, excitement and companionship. The bar is pretty low so step right up and say hi!

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 2 days ago

45 [M4F] #Louisville #Indy #Cincy - Something not just casual and superficial?

Happy rainy Tuesday night everyone. I'm a dad in a subpar marriage and stuck for the time being. My needs haven't been met for many years and I'm ready for that to change. That being said, connection is important.

I'd love to meet a woman in an equally stuck relationship who has some capacity for connection and consistency.

I hope everyone has a great rest of the week! ~

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 4 days ago

45 [M4F] #Kentucky #Indiana #Ohio - Make our weekend more interesting?? Sub wanted!!

I'm your not so run of the mill dad of two in a cohabitation marriage currently. There is no real emotional attachment at this point beyond being the mother of my usually absolutely phenomenal kids. According to the attorney, divorcing at this time is extremely prohibitive for me.

The bedroom has been dead for years and I've broached the subject of an open marriage but that wasn't received well. I'm tired of not having my needs met so I'm hoping there is a woman in the same boat with some emotional availability and somewhat close.

I've been told I'm not ugly, generally well liked, very playful, kind, and thoughtful. The goal is to meet at some point and have at least somewhat of a semi-regular get-together. Near daily talks and video chats etc is ideal when able.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 7 days ago

45 [M4F] #Kentucky #Indiana #Ohio - Make our weekend more interesting??

I'm your not so run of the mill dad of two in a cohabitation marriage currently. There is no real emotional attachment at this point beyond being the mother of my usually absolutely phenomenal kids. According to the attorney, divorcing at this time is extremely prohibitive for me.

The bedroom has been dead for years and I've broached the subject of an open marriage but that wasn't received well. I'm tired of not having my needs met so I'm hoping there is a woman in the same boat with some emotional availability and somewhat close.

I've been told I'm not ugly, generally well liked, very playful, kind, and thoughtful. The goal is to meet at some point and have at least somewhat of a semi-regular get-together. Near daily talks and video chats etc is ideal when able.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 7 days ago

45 [M4F] #KY #IN - Make out weekends more interesting??

I'm your not so run of the mill dad of two in a cohabitation marriage currently. There is no real emotional attachment at this point beyond being the mother of my usually absolutely phenomenal kids. According to the attorney, divorcing at this time is extremely prohibitive for me.

The bedroom has been dead for years and I've broached the subject of an open marriage but that wasn't received well. I'm tired of not having my needs met so I'm hoping there is a woman in the same boat with some emotional availability.

I've been told I'm not ugly, generally well liked, very playful, kind, and thoughtful. The goal is to meet at some point and have at least somewhat of a semi-regular get-together. Near daily talks and video chats etc is ideal when able.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 8 days ago

45 [M4F] #KY #IN - Tired of nightly TV nights alone yet not actually alone

I'm your average dad of two in a cohabitation marriage currently. There is no real emotional attachment at this point beyond being the mother of my usually absolutely phenomenal kids. According to the attorney, divorcing at this time is extremely prohibitive for me.

The bedroom has been dead for years and I've broached the subject of an open marriage but that wasn't received well. I'm tired of not having my needs met so I'm hoping there is a woman in the same boat with some emotional availability.

I've been told I'm not ugly, generally well liked, very playful, kind, and thoughtful. The goal is to meet at some point and have at least somewhat of a semi-regular get-together. Near daily talks and video chats etc is ideal when able. ~

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 10 days ago

45 [M4F] #KY #IN #OH - Anyone else tired of being married and yet lonely and unfulfilled??

Longtime married dad who has tried to go about things the right way, but the ball just isn't bouncing in my favor right now. After speaking to an attorney recently, it's become clear I'm pretty much screwed regarding divorce for the time being. She's not onboard with an open marriage, so...well here I am.

I'm looking for a woman in a similar boat with emotional availability and ability to be consistent and open. I fully understand these are near impossible qualities to look for on here, but why the hell not?

I love smart, sassy, witty, kind, considerate, playful, emotionally intelligent and intelligent.

Ready to be less lonely together??

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 13 days ago

45 [M4F] #KY #IN #OH - Anyone else tired of being married and yet more lonely and unfulfilled than when single?

Longtime married dad who has tried to go about things the right way, but the ball just isn't bouncing in my favor right now. After speaking to an attorney recently, it's become clear I'm pretty much screwed regarding divorce for the time being. She's not onboard with an open marriage, so...well here I am.

I'm looking for a woman in a similar boat with emotional availability and ability to be consistent and open. I fully understand these are near impossible qualities to look for on here, but why the hell not?

I love smart, sassy, witty, kind, considerate, playful, emotionally intelligent and intelligent.

Ready to be less lonely together??

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 14 days ago

What's up? I'm a dad, working full-time, currently living in the Louisville, Kentucky area. After many years of marriage, I've found that the emotional connection and sexual chemistry have largely faded. I'm now seeking someone who understands these challenges and is looking for a long-term relationship of sorts.

I thrive on open communication, sarcasm, playfulness, consistency, affection and teamwork. Ironically, my current situation offers none of these things... Well I guess technically having a dead bedroom is a form of consistency? Lol

Sound good? I'm not a gross ogre so if this sounds great, please say hi.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 17 days ago

What's up? It's almost 4 AM here in the ET. I'm up as usual. I've been in an unfulfilling relationship for quite a few years and I'm looking for someone to get to know in a similar situation, ideally. I find it easier when someone understands what it's like.

I'm a dad, work, help around the house, have multiple hobbies and interests, but what I don't have is a wife who gives a shit. Hopefully this is going to change in the near future, but not tomorrow.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 20 days ago

After some conversations with a coworker, I decided to take the plunge and try Reddit out. I’ve been in a dead‑bedroom marriage for many years now, and it’s time I start prioritizing my own needs for a change. I suggested an open marriage, but that was immediately rejected. Since divorcing isn’t an option for the time being, I’d love to connect with someone in a similar situation who understands the emotional and physical disconnect that can happen in long‑term relationships.

I work, stay involved with my kids, and more than pull my weight at home. I’m not bad to look at either. I’m college‑educated, multifaceted, and have a playful, sarcastic sense of humor. Don’t be scared to say hi.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 25 days ago

Happy Sunday! I hope everyone is having a phenomenal weekend. It is beautiful in my neck of the woods and I've had some outdoor time and quality time with the kids.

I have been in a dead bedroom marriage for quite a few years now, but this is my first real attempt at finding a discreet partner. Someone at work suggested Reddit to me. According to my attorney, my situation is pretty bleak for the time being so I'm looking for fulfillment elsewhere. I work full-time, heavily involved with my kids, have multiple hobbies, but I would love someone to speak with on a nearly daily basis and really grow a connection with. In a perfect world, you would be located within a couple hours of Louisville Kentucky, but not an absolute deterrent.

A little about me, I am educated, work full-time, no my way around the kitchen, decent to look at, not obese, have all my teeth, and quite honestly a lot to offer someone special. No judgments for those who love. One night stands and casual hooking up, but that is not my forte.

I'm wondering if what I'm looking for is even possible, but if this hits home and resonates, drop me a hello and let's get to know one another.

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u/TumbleweedTrousers — 27 days ago