u/WeekendCityQueen

(Help add to the list)

Punishments:

1. Writing lines.

2. Holding ice cubes.

3. Kneeling on rice.

4. Reciting the ABC's backwards in timeout (only out once done perfectly).

5. Facing the wall.

6. Holding heavy books straight up or out in front of them.

7. Ruler hitting the top of the hands.

8. Spankings (flog/paddle/hand, etc.)

9. Orgasm denial/edging

10. Count a large spoonful of rice and lay them end-to-end (only out once done).

11. No/restricted phone/game/TV time.

12. Paper handcuffs held together with staples/tape (if they tear then all sex stops and the Caregiver finishes themselves off, no pleasure for the Little).

FUNishments:

1. Forced orgasms

2. Spankings (flogging/paddle/hand, etc.)

3. Tickling

4. Squishing (Caregiver lays on top of the Little/tight hugging)

5. Restriction play (rope, belts, hands, etc.) while you have their favorite food/snack and eat it in front of them.

6. Dragging sharp (nails/other) objects or soft (feathers/other) objects across their skin.

7. Play wrestling to overpower.

8. Hickeys in soft places.

9. Make your Little write a list of all the things they love about themselves.

10. Backshots in the mirror, while looking at themselves, have them say positive affirmations about themselves.

Note: These are not for everyone, use at personal caution and expression, always use safe words and safe expressions!

What other Little things can I adultify (help add to the list)?

1. Drinking liquor from a baby bottle/sippy cup.

2. Make penis shaped cookies.

3. Make bedtime stories erotica novels.

4. Shibari tie up your Little before tucking them in for bedtime/movie time (remember to untie after about an hour or so).

5. Nude edible finger painting on each other.

6. Adult coloring books.

7. Eat penis shaped macaroni.

8. Play adult board games

(Things like the penis cookie cutter, penis macaroni, and adult board games can be found at sex shops and online.)

Little comfort care for depression

If your Little is feeling down/depressed here are some things to help them out of their rut:

(Help add to the list)

1. Feed them their bottle/sipping cup as they lay/sit in your lap.

2. In characterized voices play with their stuffed animals on their body/put on a show.

3. Make them their favorite meal/bring them their favorite snack.

4. Get them an electric heated blanket and put it under them to warm them up.

5. Get them a heavy anxiety blanket/toy on put it on them to comfort them.

6. Pleasure them sexual (ONLY for their gratification, NOT yours).

7. Put on their favorite TV show/movie.

8. Cuddle with them and hold them close.

9. Give them affection and attention, compliment them on their achievements in life.

10. Listen to what they have to say (NOT necessarily find them a solution; Many people just want to be seen and heard.)

11. Give them their stuffie to cuddle.

Remember, if none of these work it's ok to let them have their alone time, and just be near them, and check up on them once in a while.

Sometimes when a Little (or anyone) is in a negative mental/emotional head space they say or do things they dont mean, its best to not lash out at them or neglect them, but rather understand them, and do your best to let them know they aren't alone, and you will still be there for them.

If they lash out do NOT punish them in that moment (it may make things worse); Let them get it out and the penushment can come later when they have fully calmed down (maybe even wait a day or two to do the punishment).

I'm trying to get more into foods, snacks, and drinks that would bring out my Little/Baby side.

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The only foods I can think of that Littles usually like is chocolate milk and chicken nuggies.

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I'm especially interested in baby snacks you would find in the baby aisle (preferably something crunchy/soft and fruity).

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Not really interested in smashed straight-up baby food in Gerber jars.

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I'm thinking more pudding, puff snacks, or teething waffers.

I'm trying to get more into foods, snacks, and drinks that would bring out my Little/Baby side.

​

The only foods I can think of that Littles usually like is chocolate milk and chicken nuggies.

​

I'm especially interested in baby snacks you would find in the baby aisle (preferably something crunchy/soft and fruity).

​

Not really interested in smashed straight-up baby food in Gerber jars.

​

I'm thinking more pudding, puff snacks, or teething waffers.

(currently in SA,TX) (experienced Daddies only - No newbies)

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(Hello, Im Natalia, my Little ages are 3-9yrs old, my Big age is 30yrs old. Height 5ft even. White/Latina.)

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(Preferred: White, Native American, Asian, Latino; 27-55yrs old; Goth/Metal Head/Business Man)

​

(READ MY CLOSING STATEMENTS; So you know what type of messages I will not reply to.)

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ABOUT ME:

​

DDLG is my main kink that encompasses all my other kinks.

​

Even though I'm goth, I do want to get into more girly things: Cute pink and white dresses, frills with lace, sparkly with gemstones, etc. (So even though I don't look like a little girl in my pics, don't be disuaded).

​

My hobbies: Drawing, writing (aspirations to be a young adults horror writer), playing video games (horror, shooter, open world)+card+board games, going to art+history museums, going to comedy+goth clubs, going to the zoo and aquarium, trying new things in general.

​

My interests include: Animals (I have 2 cats - not a fan of dogs), movies (horror, sci-fi, comedy, occult+ritual cinema), occult+spiritual education (right+left hand paths), fashion+makeup, collecting TV+movie merch.

​

Personality: Inexperienced, innocent, shy, sweet, affectionate, playful, clingy, can be a bit bratty; Especially if i think it will be funny, great sense of humor and loves to laugh and make others laugh, is agreeable, is willing come to mutually beneficial compromises, willing to try things a couple of times to be sure I do/don't like it, wants to make Daddy proud, needs reassurance that I'm not doing bad.

​

My love language: Acts of service to my Daddy (such as putting on/taking off their shoes/jacket/belt, making them a snack, fixing them a drink, having their PJ's set out for them when they get home, baking him sweets, etc.), making hand made gifts for Daddy, making drawings for Daddy, buying Daddy gifts, along with receiving gifts.

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Things I like doing as a Little: Drinking from a bottle, wearing onesies, play wrestling, baking treats, playing dress up, catering to Daddy, punishments and FUNishments, playing with my stuffies, drawing+coloring, cuddling.

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My past: Trauma and bad experiences that make me inexperienced in sexual+romantic things; Making me shy and nervous.

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QUALITIES DESIRED IN A DADDY:

​

Things I expect of my Daddy: Punishments+FUNishments, rules+guidelines, teaching+training, firm+fairness, rewards.

​

Personality: A mix of soft dom+authoritative dom, playful, affectionate, attentive, understanding, open+honest, patient, safe+sane+healthy, and STD free.

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RELATIONSHIP:

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I am seeking something long-term, potentially my forever Daddy (I do not want kids).

​

I would feel more comfortable if we started out non-sexual and build our way towards that on a foundation of trust and understanding so that I'm comfortable enough to fully submit knowing I'm safe and valued.

​

I want a Daddy who actually cares about me as a person, gains satisfaction from me being innocent and little, feels like a man when he protects and nurtures me, who isnt out solely for his own sexual benefits, and provides a safe place for me to grow and better myself.

​

I also want to care for my Daddy, comfort him and let him know he is loved, cherished, and appreciated for all he does; I want to be his rock and #1 as much as he is mine.

​

I want to take care of my Daddy, and make sure his needs, emotionally and physically, are fully met and fulfilled; Daddies need support and to be cared for too!

​

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​

SEXUAL+KINKS:

​

I am open to sexual things, but I do NOT want that to be the basis or main driving force behind our relationship, nor do i want the majority of our relationship to be sexually based; I want genuine connection and care.

​

I'm open to discussing kinks and fetishes so that we both know we want the same things and are on the same page, but I do NOT want sexually charged conversations (that can come later).

​

Kinks: Haberdashery (business suits and their accessories - BIGGEST kink), degredation+praise kink, Pet Play, tickle torture, vibrating toys, edging+orgasm control, forced orgasms, vibrating toys, groping+fondling, spankings (hands/leather paddle), public play, DDLG, anal, bimboification+dollification, some pain, watching men masturbate, men's butts.

​

Kinks I'm curious about: CNC (asleep/awake), kidnapping roleplay, breaking and entering home CNC roleplay, men in women's lingerie, primal play, water sports, occult ritual play, food play, fear+intimidation play, bondage, dress up+roleplay (Daddy/daughter, priest/woman, CEO/new girl, occult/sacrifice, demon/woman, home owner/maid, rich elites/poor girl), being shared among Daddy's friends, being the party 'entertainment'.

​

Hard limits: Scat, vomit, nude pics+videos, erotic audio, breeding, couples+unicorn hunting, electricity play, blackmail play, raceplay, master/slave, married men, Poly men, bisexual men, TPE (Total Power Exchange).

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CLOSING:

​

Please dont message me if you're going to put in no effort, going to give short responses, you're going to be a creep/perv, you wait days to respond: Just leave me alone.

​

If you don't derive joy and happiness from actually caring for someone then you need not apply.

​

Will not respond to low-effort 1-10 word messages, sexual messages will get you blocked.

​

Put effort in your message; Tell me about yourself, what you require+wont negotiate on+deal breakers, selfie, experience and years as a Daddy Dom, etc.

(currently in SA,TX) (experienced Daddies only - No newbies)

​

(Hello, Im Natalia, my Little ages are 3-9yrs old, my Big age is 30yrs old. Height 5ft even. White/Latina.)

​

(Preferred: White, Native American, Asian, Latino; 27-55yrs old; Goth/Metal Head/Business Man)

​

(READ MY CLOSING STATEMENTS; So you know what type of messages I will not reply to.)

​

\---------------

​

ABOUT ME:

​

DDLG is my main kink that encompasses all my other kinks.

​

Even though I'm goth, I do want to get into more girly things: Cute pink and white dresses, frills with lace, sparkly with gemstones, etc. (So even though I don't look like a little girl in my pics, don't be disuaded).

​

My hobbies: Drawing, writing (aspirations to be a young adults horror writer), playing video games (horror, shooter, open world)+card+board games, going to art+history museums, going to comedy+goth clubs, going to the zoo and aquarium, trying new things in general.

​

My interests include: Animals (I have 2 cats - not a fan of dogs), movies (horror, sci-fi, comedy, occult+ritual cinema), occult+spiritual education (right+left hand paths), fashion+makeup, collecting TV+movie merch.

​

Personality: Inexperienced, innocent, shy, sweet, affectionate, playful, clingy, can be a bit bratty; Especially if i think it will be funny, great sense of humor and loves to laugh and make others laugh, is agreeable, is willing come to mutually beneficial compromises, willing to try things a couple of times to be sure I do/don't like it, wants to make Daddy proud, needs reassurance that I'm not doing bad.

​

My love language: Acts of service to my Daddy (such as putting on/taking off their shoes/jacket/belt, making them a snack, fixing them a drink, having their PJ's set out for them when they get home, baking him sweets, etc.), making hand made gifts for Daddy, making drawings for Daddy, buying Daddy gifts, along with receiving gifts.

​

Things I like doing as a Little: Drinking from a bottle, wearing onesies, play wrestling, baking treats, playing dress up, catering to Daddy, punishments and FUNishments, playing with my stuffies, drawing+coloring, cuddling.

​

My past: Trauma and bad experiences that make me inexperienced in sexual+romantic things; Making me shy and nervous.

​

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​

QUALITIES DESIRED IN A DADDY:

​

Things I expect of my Daddy: Punishments+FUNishments, rules+guidelines, teaching+training, firm+fairness, rewards.

​

Personality: A mix of soft dom+authoritative dom, playful, affectionate, attentive, understanding, open+honest, patient, safe+sane+healthy, and STD free.

​

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​

RELATIONSHIP:

​

I am seeking something long-term, potentially my forever Daddy (I do not want kids).

​

I would feel more comfortable if we started out non-sexual and build our way towards that on a foundation of trust and understanding so that I'm comfortable enough to fully submit knowing I'm safe and valued.

​

I want a Daddy who actually cares about me as a person, gains satisfaction from me being innocent and little, feels like a man when he protects and nurtures me, who isnt out solely for his own sexual benefits, and provides a safe place for me to grow and better myself.

​

I also want to care for my Daddy, comfort him and let him know he is loved, cherished, and appreciated for all he does; I want to be his rock and #1 as much as he is mine.

​

I want to take care of my Daddy, and make sure his needs, emotionally and physically, are fully met and fulfilled; Daddies need support and to be cared for too!

​

\--------------

​

SEXUAL+KINKS:

​

I am open to sexual things, but I do NOT want that to be the basis or main driving force behind our relationship, nor do i want the majority of our relationship to be sexually based; I want genuine connection and care.

​

I'm open to discussing kinks and fetishes so that we both know we want the same things and are on the same page, but I do NOT want sexually charged conversations (that can come later).

​

Kinks: Haberdashery (business suits and their accessories - BIGGEST kink), degredation+praise kink, Pet Play, tickle torture, vibrating toys, edging+orgasm control, forced orgasms, vibrating toys, groping+fondling, spankings (hands/leather paddle), public play, DDLG, anal, bimboification+dollification, some pain, watching men masturbate, men's butts.

​

Kinks I'm curious about: CNC (asleep/awake), kidnapping roleplay, breaking and entering home CNC roleplay, men in women's lingerie, primal play, water sports, occult ritual play, food play, fear+intimidation play, bondage, dress up+roleplay (Daddy/daughter, priest/woman, CEO/new girl, occult/sacrifice, demon/woman, home owner/maid, rich elites/poor girl), being shared among Daddy's friends, being the party 'entertainment'.

​

Hard limits: Scat, vomit, nude pics+videos, erotic audio, breeding, couples+unicorn hunting, electricity play, blackmail play, raceplay, master/slave, married men, Poly men, bisexual men, TPE (Total Power Exchange).

​

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​

CLOSING:

​

Please dont message me if you're going to put in no effort, going to give short responses, you're going to be a creep/perv, you wait days to respond: Just leave me alone.

​

If you don't derive joy and happiness from actually caring for someone then you need not apply.

​

Will not respond to low-effort 1-10 word messages, sexual messages will get you blocked.

​

Put effort in your message; Tell me about yourself, what you require+wont negotiate on+deal breakers, selfie, experience and years as a Daddy Dom, etc.

(currently in SA,TX) (experienced Daddies only - No newbies)

​

(Hello, Im Natalia, my Little ages are 3-9yrs old, my Big age is 30yrs old. Height 5ft even. White/Latina.)

​

(Preferred: White, Native American, Asian, Latino; 27-55yrs old; Goth/Metal Head/Business Man)

​

(READ MY CLOSING STATEMENTS; So you know what type of messages I will not reply to.)

​

\---------------

​

ABOUT ME:

​

DDLG is my main kink that encompasses all my other kinks.

​

Even though I'm goth, I do want to get into more girly things: Cute pink and white dresses, frills with lace, sparkly with gemstones, etc. (So even though I don't look like a little girl in my pics, don't be disuaded).

​

My hobbies: Drawing, writing (aspirations to be a young adults horror writer), playing video games (horror, shooter, open world)+card+board games, going to art+history museums, going to comedy+goth clubs, going to the zoo and aquarium, trying new things in general.

​

My interests include: Animals (I have 2 cats - not a fan of dogs), movies (horror, sci-fi, comedy, occult+ritual cinema), occult+spiritual education (right+left hand paths), fashion+makeup, collecting TV+movie merch.

​

Personality: Inexperienced, innocent, shy, sweet, affectionate, playful, clingy, can be a bit bratty; Especially if i think it will be funny, great sense of humor and loves to laugh and make others laugh, is agreeable, is willing come to mutually beneficial compromises, willing to try things a couple of times to be sure I do/don't like it, wants to make Daddy proud, needs reassurance that I'm not doing bad.

​

My love language: Acts of service to my Daddy (such as putting on/taking off their shoes/jacket/belt, making them a snack, fixing them a drink, having their PJ's set out for them when they get home, baking him sweets, etc.), making hand made gifts for Daddy, making drawings for Daddy, buying Daddy gifts, along with receiving gifts.

​

Things I like doing as a Little: Drinking from a bottle, wearing onesies, play wrestling, baking treats, playing dress up, catering to Daddy, punishments and FUNishments, playing with my stuffies, drawing+coloring, cuddling.

​

My past: Trauma and bad experiences that make me inexperienced in sexual+romantic things; Making me shy and nervous.

​

\----------------

​

QUALITIES DESIRED IN A DADDY:

​

Things I expect of my Daddy: Punishments+FUNishments, rules+guidelines, teaching+training, firm+fairness, rewards.

​

Personality: A mix of soft dom+authoritative dom, playful, affectionate, attentive, understanding, open+honest, patient, safe+sane+healthy, and STD free.

​

\--------------

​

RELATIONSHIP:

​

I am seeking something long-term, potentially my forever Daddy (I do not want kids).

​

I would feel more comfortable if we started out non-sexual and build our way towards that on a foundation of trust and understanding so that I'm comfortable enough to fully submit knowing I'm safe and valued.

​

I want a Daddy who actually cares about me as a person, gains satisfaction from me being innocent and little, feels like a man when he protects and nurtures me, who isnt out solely for his own sexual benefits, and provides a safe place for me to grow and better myself.

​

I also want to care for my Daddy, comfort him and let him know he is loved, cherished, and appreciated for all he does; I want to be his rock and #1 as much as he is mine.

​

I want to take care of my Daddy, and make sure his needs, emotionally and physically, are fully met and fulfilled; Daddies need support and to be cared for too!

​

\--------------

​

SEXUAL+KINKS:

​

I am open to sexual things, but I do NOT want that to be the basis or main driving force behind our relationship, nor do i want the majority of our relationship to be sexually based; I want genuine connection and care.

​

I'm open to discussing kinks and fetishes so that we both know we want the same things and are on the same page, but I do NOT want sexually charged conversations (that can come later).

​

Kinks: Haberdashery (business suits and their accessories - BIGGEST kink), degredation+praise kink, Pet Play, tickle torture, vibrating toys, edging+orgasm control, forced orgasms, vibrating toys, groping+fondling, spankings (hands/leather paddle), public play, DDLG, anal, bimboification+dollification, some pain, watching men masturbate, men's butts.

​

Kinks I'm curious about: CNC (asleep/awake), kidnapping roleplay, breaking and entering home CNC roleplay, men in women's lingerie, primal play, water sports, occult ritual play, food play, fear+intimidation play, bondage, dress up+roleplay (Daddy/daughter, priest/woman, CEO/new girl, occult/sacrifice, demon/woman, home owner/maid, rich elites/poor girl), being shared among Daddy's friends, being the party 'entertainment'.

​

Hard limits: Scat, vomit, nude pics+videos, erotic audio, breeding, couples+unicorn hunting, electricity play, blackmail play, raceplay, master/slave, married men, Poly men, bisexual men, TPE (Total Power Exchange).

​

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​

CLOSING:

​

Please dont message me if you're going to put in no effort, going to give short responses, you're going to be a creep/perv, you wait days to respond: Just leave me alone.

​

If you don't derive joy and happiness from actually caring for someone then you need not apply.

​

Will not respond to low-effort 1-10 word messages, sexual messages will get you blocked.

​

Put effort in your message; Tell me about yourself, what you require+wont negotiate on+deal breakers, selfie, experience and years as a Daddy Dom, etc.

(currently in SA,TX) (experienced Daddies only - No newbies)

​

(Hello, Im Natalia, my Little ages are 3-9yrs old, my Big age is 30yrs old. Height 5ft even. White/Latina.)

​

(Preferred: White, Native American, Asian, Latino; 27-55yrs old; Goth/Metal Head/Business Man)

​

(READ MY CLOSING STATEMENTS; So you know what type of messages I will not reply to.)

​

\---------------

​

ABOUT ME:

​

DDLG is my main kink that encompasses all my other kinks.

​

Even though I'm goth, I do want to get into more girly things: Cute pink and white dresses, frills with lace, sparkly with gemstones, etc. (So even though I don't look like a little girl in my pics, don't be disuaded).

​

My hobbies: Drawing, writing (aspirations to be a young adults horror writer), playing video games (horror, shooter, open world)+card+board games, going to art+history museums, going to comedy+goth clubs, going to the zoo and aquarium, trying new things in general.

​

My interests include: Animals (I have 2 cats - not a fan of dogs), movies (horror, sci-fi, comedy, occult+ritual cinema), occult+spiritual education (right+left hand paths), fashion+makeup, collecting TV+movie merch.

​

Personality: Inexperienced, innocent, shy, sweet, affectionate, playful, clingy, can be a bit bratty; Especially if i think it will be funny, great sense of humor and loves to laugh and make others laugh, is agreeable, is willing come to mutually beneficial compromises, willing to try things a couple of times to be sure I do/don't like it, wants to make Daddy proud, needs reassurance that I'm not doing bad.

​

My love language: Acts of service to my Daddy (such as putting on/taking off their shoes/jacket/belt, making them a snack, fixing them a drink, having their PJ's set out for them when they get home, baking him sweets, etc.), making hand made gifts for Daddy, making drawings for Daddy, buying Daddy gifts, along with receiving gifts.

​

Things I like doing as a Little: Drinking from a bottle, wearing onesies, play wrestling, baking treats, playing dress up, catering to Daddy, punishments and FUNishments, playing with my stuffies, drawing+coloring, cuddling.

​

My past: Trauma and bad experiences that make me inexperienced in sexual+romantic things; Making me shy and nervous.

​

\----------------

​

QUALITIES DESIRED IN A DADDY:

​

Things I expect of my Daddy: Punishments+FUNishments, rules+guidelines, teaching+training, firm+fairness, rewards.

​

Personality: A mix of soft dom+authoritative dom, playful, affectionate, attentive, understanding, open+honest, patient, safe+sane+healthy, and STD free.

​

\--------------

​

RELATIONSHIP:

​

I am seeking something long-term, potentially my forever Daddy (I do not want kids).

​

I would feel more comfortable if we started out non-sexual and build our way towards that on a foundation of trust and understanding so that I'm comfortable enough to fully submit knowing I'm safe and valued.

​

I want a Daddy who actually cares about me as a person, gains satisfaction from me being innocent and little, feels like a man when he protects and nurtures me, who isnt out solely for his own sexual benefits, and provides a safe place for me to grow and better myself.

​

I also want to care for my Daddy, comfort him and let him know he is loved, cherished, and appreciated for all he does; I want to be his rock and #1 as much as he is mine.

​

I want to take care of my Daddy, and make sure his needs, emotionally and physically, are fully met and fulfilled; Daddies need support and to be cared for too!

​

\--------------

​

SEXUAL+KINKS:

​

I am open to sexual things, but I do NOT want that to be the basis or main driving force behind our relationship, nor do i want the majority of our relationship to be sexually based; I want genuine connection and care.

​

I'm open to discussing kinks and fetishes so that we both know we want the same things and are on the same page, but I do NOT want sexually charged conversations (that can come later).

​

Kinks: Haberdashery (business suits and their accessories - BIGGEST kink), degredation+praise kink, Pet Play, tickle torture, vibrating toys, edging+orgasm control, forced orgasms, vibrating toys, groping+fondling, spankings (hands/leather paddle), public play, DDLG, anal, bimboification+dollification, some pain, watching men masturbate, men's butts.

​

Kinks I'm curious about: CNC (asleep/awake), kidnapping roleplay, breaking and entering home CNC roleplay, men in women's lingerie, primal play, water sports, occult ritual play, food play, fear+intimidation play, bondage, dress up+roleplay (Daddy/daughter, priest/woman, CEO/new girl, occult/sacrifice, demon/woman, home owner/maid, rich elites/poor girl), being shared among Daddy's friends, being the party 'entertainment'.

​

Hard limits: Scat, vomit, nude pics+videos, erotic audio, breeding, couples+unicorn hunting, electricity play, blackmail play, raceplay, master/slave, married men, Poly men, bisexual men, TPE (Total Power Exchange).

​

\--------------

​

CLOSING:

​

Please dont message me if you're going to put in no effort, going to give short responses, you're going to be a creep/perv, you wait days to respond: Just leave me alone.

​

If you don't derive joy and happiness from actually caring for someone then you need not apply.

​

Will not respond to low-effort 1-10 word messages, sexual messages will get you blocked.

​

Put effort in your message; Tell me about yourself, what you require+wont negotiate on+deal breakers, selfie, experience and years as a Daddy Dom, etc.

I want to buy a charm bag so I can glue the charms onto my pacifier, but idk if there's an actual name for baby/Little charms to make it easier to look for them.

When i search charm bags I'm usually directed to bracelet charm bundles; The ones I keep finding have those metal circle hooks at the top so you can put them on a bracelet, I want just the charm, no hooks.

I want ones that have cutesy baby/Little stuff like bears, rattles, wings, hearts, stars, fruits, kitten paw prints, etc.

If you know anyone selling any Little/baby-ish charm bags online let me know please!;