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60 [M4F] #London — 6'4, fit, and 60. For the woman in her 30s or 40s who wants an older man who actually acts like one.

Let’s be honest: finding a mature man online who is actually well-adjusted, keeps himself in good shape, and understands boundaries can feel impossible. If you are tired of the low-effort messages and want an uncomplicated, high-intensity escape with a genuine respectful...ish gentleman, let’s see if we click.

I am 60, but I don’t look, think, or move like a typical 60-year-old. I take pride in my health and presentation. I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, athletic, and uncut. I offer a commanding, heavy physical presence combined with the emotional stability and intelligence that only comes with life experience.

Whether you’re in your late 20s, 30s, or a sharp, independent 40-year-old, I care far more about a quick wit, mutual attraction, and chemistry than a number on an ID. I love a slow burn—starting with a proper, sophisticated drink, laughing easily, and building that electric mental tension before the bedroom door even opens.

To be completely transparent, I am attached. For a woman with a busy career, her own relationship, or just a life she wants to keep private, this is the perfect setup. My discretion is absolute, my opsec is flawless, and I bring zero drama, zero clinginess, and zero expectations into your world. We enjoy the heat completely when we're together, and we step back into our realities with a secret smile when we're apart.

Behind closed doors, I naturally take charge. I don't do rushed, low-effort encounters. I like to take my time, focus entirely on your response, and provide a raw, passionate escape where you can completely switch your brain off and let Daddy take care of everything.

If you’re ready for a sophisticated, very naughty summer secret with a premium silver fox, let’s talk.

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u/alonthemove — 2 days ago

60 [M4F] #London — Tall, sane, and successful. Looking for a genuinely fun summer secret.

Finding a normal, well-adjusted adult on here sometimes feels like trying to find a parking spot in Soho on a Saturday night. Let’s skip the weirdness and the copy-pasted messages.

I’m a 60-year-old successful, grounded guy living in London. I love my life, I keep myself in good shape, and I am completely sane—meaning no drama, no weird emotional baggage, and absolute respect for boundaries. But with the summer here, I deeply miss the naughty, electric spark of a secret fling. I miss the sharp banter over a quiet drink that turns into something much heavier and more intense once the door is locked.

To be completely upfront, I am attached. This means my discretion is absolute, my opsec is flawless, and I have zero desire to complicate my world or yours. If you have a partner, a husband, or just a very busy life of your own to protect, you are in completely safe hands with me.

For a bit of context, I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, fit, and uncut. I don’t do rushed, low-effort encounters. I’m a big believer in a slow burn, a bit of worldly wit, and a raw, heavy physical connection where I can naturally take the lead and let you completely forget about the outside world for a few hours. We enjoy each other completely when we're together, and we return to our normal lives with a secret smile when we're apart.

If you’re a sharp, funny woman who wants a sophisticated but very naughty escape with an experienced, mature gentleman, let’s see if the chemistry is there. Age is just a number:)

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u/alonthemove — 2 days ago

50 [M4F] #Hammersmith — Tall, sane, and successful. Looking for a genuinely fun summer secret.

Finding a normal, well-adjusted adult on here sometimes feels like trying to find a parking spot in Soho on a Saturday night. Let’s skip the weirdness and the copy-pasted messages.

I’m a 50-year-old successful, grounded guy living in London. I love my life, I keep myself in great shape, and I am completely sane—meaning no drama, no weird emotional baggage, and absolute respect for boundaries. But with the summer here, I deeply miss the naughty, electric spark of a secret fling. I miss the sharp banter over a quiet drink that turns into something much heavier and more intense once the door is locked.

To be completely upfront, I am attached. This means my discretion is absolute, my opsec is flawless, and I have zero desire to complicate my world or yours. If you have a partner, a husband, or just a very busy life of your own to protect, you are in completely safe hands with me.

For a bit of context, I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, fit, and uncut. I don’t do rushed, low-effort encounters. I’m a big believer in a slow burn, a bit of worldly wit, and a raw, heavy physical connection where I can naturally take the lead and let you completely forget about the outside world for a few hours. We enjoy each other completely when we're together, and we return to our normal lives with a secret smile when we're apart.

If you’re a sharp, funny woman who wants a sophisticated but very naughty escape, let’s see if the chemistry is there.

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u/alonthemove — 3 days ago

50 [M4F] #London — Looking for a genuinely fun, sane summer secret.

Finding a normal, well-adjusted adult on here sometimes feels like trying to find a parking spot in Soho on a Saturday night. Let’s skip the weirdness.

I’m an attached, successful guy living in London. I love my life, I love this city, and I am completely sane—meaning no drama, no weird emotional baggage, and no reckless behavior. But with the summer finally here, I deeply miss the naughty, electric spark of a secret fling. I miss the sharp banter over a quiet drink that turns into something much heavier and more intense once the door is locked.

Discretion is my absolute baseline. If you have a husband, a boyfriend, or a complicated life of your own to protect, I completely get it. I’ve got flawless opsec, I respect boundaries, and I want us both to feel completely safe and relaxed.

For a bit of context, I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, fit, and uncut. I don’t do rushed, low-effort encounters. I’m a big believer in a slow burn, a bit of worldly wit, and a raw, heavy physical connection that completely ruins you for the rest of the week. We enjoy each other completely when we're together, and we return to our normal lives with a secret smile when we're apart.

If you’re a sharp, funny woman who wants a sophisticated but very naughty escape this summer, let’s see if the chemistry is there.

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u/alonthemove — 4 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — Looking for a genuinely fun, sane summer secret.

Finding a normal, well-adjusted adult on here sometimes feels like trying to find a parking spot in Soho on a Saturday night. Let’s skip the weirdness.

I’m an attached, successful guy living in London. I love my life, I love this city, and I am completely sane—meaning no drama, no weird emotional baggage, and no reckless behavior. But with the summer finally here, I deeply miss the naughty, electric spark of a secret fling. I miss the sharp banter over a quiet drink that turns into something much heavier and more intense once the door is locked.

Discretion is my absolute baseline. If you have a husband, a boyfriend, or a complicated life of your own to protect, I completely get it. I’ve got flawless opsec, I respect boundaries, and I want us both to feel completely safe and relaxed.

For a bit of context, I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, fit, and uncut. I don’t do rushed, low-effort encounters. I’m a big believer in a slow burn, a bit of worldly wit, and a raw, heavy physical connection that completely ruins you for the rest of the week. We enjoy each other completely when we're together, and we return to our normal lives with a secret smile when we're apart.

If you’re a sharp, funny woman who wants a sophisticated but very naughty escape this summer, let’s see if the chemistry is there.

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u/alonthemove — 4 days ago

50 [M4F] #London — Looking for a genuinely fun, sane summer secret.

Finding a normal, well-adjusted adult on here sometimes feels like trying to find a parking spot in Soho on a Saturday night. Let’s skip the weirdness.

I’m a successful, respectful...ish guy living in London. I love my life, I love this city, and I am completely sane—meaning no drama, no weird emotional baggage, and no reckless behavior. But with the summer finally here, I deeply miss the naughty, electric spark of a secret fling. I miss the sharp banter over a quiet drink that turns into something much heavier and more intense once the door is locked.

To be completely upfront, I am attached, which means I have zero desire to complicate my life or yours. I’ve got flawless opsec, I respect boundaries, and I want us both to feel completely safe, relaxed, and protected. If you have a husband, a boyfriend, or a busy life of your own, you are in completely safe hands with me.

For a bit of context, I’m a big guy—6'4, 100kg, fit, and uncut. I don’t do rushed, low-effort encounters. I’m a big believer in a slow burn, a bit of worldly wit, and a raw, heavy physical connection that completely ruins you for the rest of the week. We enjoy each other completely when we're together, and we return to our normal lives with a secret smile when we're apart.

If you’re a sharp, funny woman who wants a sophisticated but very naughty escape this summer, let’s see if the chemistry is there.

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u/alonthemove — 4 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — A mature, commanding presence for a high-intensity, ongoing, naughty FWB.

I’m fit, worldly now back in London and I’ve reached a stage in life where I know exactly who I am and what I want. I naturally gravitate toward younger women who are tired of boys their own age and want a mature, capable man who knows how to step up and take the lead. I’m completely over low-effort, rushed text exchanges; I want to find one sharp, sassy, intelligent woman for a regular, long-term escape. Age is just a number!

I am attached myself, so flawless discretion and absolute privacy are a given on my end and mandatory on yours. I completely understand if you have a boyfriend, partner, or your own situation to protect—this is a mutually safe, zero-pressure zone where we keep our private lives entirely separate from our secret time together.

Whether you’re a student looking for a thrilling distraction or a young professional exhausted by the daily grind, I offer a space where you can completely switch your brain off. At 6'4 and 100kg, my physical presence naturally takes over behind closed doors. I am a massive believer in a slow burn—taking my time, letting the anticipation build, and focusing entirely on your response.

I am uncut, and I love the raw, skin-on-skin trust that comes with a forbidden connection. It’s heavy, it’s deep, and it’s a high-intensity physical reality that will stay on your mind long after we leave the room.

No drama, no expectations, just total consistency when our schedules align.

If you’re ready for a big, mature man who knows exactly how to handle things, send a dm.

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u/alonthemove — 6 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — 6'4, 100kg. A dominant, protective man to handle you.

I am 6'4, 100kg, in good shape, and I know exactly how to hold a room. I’m not looking for a revolving door of casual meets or low-effort hookups. I am looking for exactly one sharp, younger woman in London for a regular, long-term private escape.

Let's be completely honest: we both know this is naughty. The massive age difference, the absolute secrecy, and the forbidden nature of it are exactly what makes the tension so intense. Whether you’re a university student looking for the ultimate hidden distraction from your studies, or a woman in her mid-20s - 30s completely exhausted by the corporate grind and looking to surrender control after hours—I want to build a real, ongoing chemistry with you.

I am attached myself, so absolute discretion and flawless opsec are guaranteed on my end and mandatory on yours. I have zero interest in complicating your life or mine. I completely understand if you have a boyfriend, a girlfriend, or a partner of your own—this is a mutually protected space, and I respect your boundaries as much as my own. This is about creating a private, unspoken world where we can both completely switch our brains off for a few hours.

Behind closed doors, my physical presence takes over. I don’t do rushed encounters. I believe in a slow burn—taking my time, pinning you down, and letting you feel every ounce of my 100kg weight pressing into you. I’m uncut and I play bare, because that raw, skin-on-skin trust is non-negotiable for an ongoing arrangement. Expect the sound of hard, deep thrusting and absolute dominance until you are completely spent.

No drama, no pressure, and total consistency. When we are apart, we live our lives. When we are together, the rest of the world stops.

If you are ready to find your regular escape, send a message.

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u/alonthemove — 10 days ago

50 [M4FM/F] London — Tall, Naughty, Hung & Uncut, attached. Looking to be a reliable, dominant third for a couple or wife.

I’m 6'4, 100kg, fit, and living in London. I’m attached myself, so I completely understand how critical absolute discretion and flawless opsec are. I have zero desire to complicate your life or mine.

I’m looking to connect with a local couple or a married woman who wants a heavy, dominant presence. I’m completely over the flaky, low-effort side of this scene. For me, we need to have a proper conversation and a genuine mental click first—the tension beforehand has to match the heat behind closed doors.

When it comes to play, I take total control. I’m a big believer in a slow burn—taking my time, pinning her down, and making her work for it. I am heavy, 6'4, and uncut, and I want her to feel every bit of that weight. I prefer playing bare because that raw, skin-on-skin trust and the sound of hard, deep thrusting is exactly what builds the intensity in the room, whether you're watching from the corner or listening from the next room.

No drama, no weird expectations, and total respect for your boundaries and rules. Just a clean, high-intensity escape when it works for us.

If you’re a genuine couple or a wife looking for a big, capable guy who knows exactly how to take over a room, send a message and let's see if the chemistry is there.

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u/alonthemove — 11 days ago
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50 [M4F] London — Tall, Hung & Naughty = Built for a slow burn and absolute escapism.

Let’s be honest: most modern dating and casual setups feel incredibly rushed and low-effort. If you are a younger woman who is tired of guys who don't know how to take control or slow things down, let’s change the pace.

I am 6'4, 100kg, fit, and back in London. Because of my size and personality, I naturally take the lead, but my entire focus behind closed doors is on your pleasure and your response. I don't do rushed, transactional meets. I am a massive believer in a slow burn—building intense mental tension beforehand, taking my time, and giving completely.

I am uncut and I exclusively prefer playing bare; for me, that raw, skin-on-skin contact is where real chemistry happens. It requires a deep level of mutual trust, which is why I prioritize a genuine, intelligent "click" before anything physical even happens.

I am attached, so absolute privacy and a zero-drama, zero-pressure dynamic are non-negotiable. This is strictly about creating a high-intensity, completely private bubble where the rest of the world doesn't exist for a few hours.

If you want to be completely handled by a big guy who knows exactly what he’s doing, send a message with your age and what a perfect escape looks like to you.

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u/alonthemove — 11 days ago

50 [M4F] London — Tall, Hung & Naughty = Built for a slow burn and absolute escapism.

Let’s be honest: most modern dating and casual setups feel incredibly rushed and low-effort. If you are a younger woman who is tired of guys who don't know how to take control or slow things down, let’s change the pace.

I am 6'4, 100kg, fit, and back in London. Because of my size and personality, I naturally take the lead, but my entire focus behind closed doors is on your pleasure and your response. I don't do rushed, transactional meets. I am a massive believer in a slow burn—building intense mental tension beforehand, taking my time, and giving completely.

I am uncut and I exclusively prefer playing bare; for me, that raw, skin-on-skin contact is where real chemistry happens. It requires a deep level of mutual trust, which is why I prioritize a genuine, intelligent "click" before anything physical even happens.

I am attached, so absolute privacy and a zero-drama, zero-pressure dynamic are non-negotiable. This is strictly about creating a high-intensity, completely private bubble where the rest of the world doesn't exist for a few hours.

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u/alonthemove — 11 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — 6'4, 100kg. Uncut, attached, looking for a high-intensity secret

I’m 6'4, fit, and back in town. I’m attached, so discretion is a given on my end and a requirement on yours.

I’m looking for a regular, private escape with a likeminded woman. I’m completely over low-effort hookups where people just go through the motions. For me, the physical side is only worth it if the chemistry and the tension are there beforehand.

In the bedroom, I take the lead but I am entirely focused on your pleasure. I like a slow burn—taking my time, giving, and letting the anticipation build. I’m uncut and I prefer playing bare because that raw, skin-on-skin trust is the best part of a secret connection.

No drama, no pressure, and no expectations outside of our time together.

If you’re looking for a big guy who knows exactly what he’s doing, drop me a message with your age, location, and what you’re looking for. 

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u/alonthemove — 13 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — 6'4, 100kg. Uncut, attached, looking for a high-intensity secret.

I’m 6'4, fit, and back in town. I’m attached, so discretion is a given on my end and a requirement on yours.

I’m looking for a regular, private escape with a likeminded woman. I’m completely over low-effort hookups where people just go through the motions. For me, the physical side is only worth it if the chemistry and the tension are there beforehand.

In the bedroom, I take the lead but I am entirely focused on your pleasure. I like a slow burn—taking my time, giving, and letting the anticipation build. I’m uncut and I prefer playing bare because that raw, skin-on-skin trust is the best part of a secret connection.

No drama, no pressure, and no expectations outside of our time together.

If you’re looking for a big guy who knows exactly what he’s doing, drop me a message with your age, location, and what you’re looking for. 

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u/alonthemove — 13 days ago
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50 [M4F] #Cardiff — 6'4, 100kg. Uncut, attached, looking for a high-intensity summer secret.

I’m 6'4, fit, and back in town for the summer. I’m attached, so absolute discretion is a given on my end, but I’m looking for a regular, high-intensity escape with a naughty woman who actually wants to click first.

I am completely over the low-effort hookups where people just show up, go through the motions, and leave. For me, the physical side is only actually good if the conversation and the tension are there beforehand.

When it comes to the bedroom, I tend to take the lead but I'm entirely focused on your pleasure. I’m a big believer in a slow burn—giving, receiving, and taking my time—and I prefer playing bare because that raw, skin-on-skin trust is the best part of a secret connection.

No drama, no pressure, and no weird expectations. Just a high-intensity, physical escape when we both need it.

If you’re looking for a big guy who knows exactly what he’s doing and actually listens, drop me a line with what you’ve been missing.

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u/alonthemove — 16 days ago
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50 [M4FM] #London — 6'4, 100kg. Grounded, attached Bull looking for a genuine, ongoing connection.

I’m 6'4, 100kg, in good shape, and living in London. I’m attached myself, so I completely understand the absolute need for discretion, zero drama, and respecting boundaries.

I’m looking for a local couple or a wife who wants a reliable, dominant third. I’m completely over the low-effort, transactional side of the scene. For me to enjoy this, the mental click and the actual conversation beforehand matter just as much as the physical side. I want to ensure we all actually get along and share the same tension.

In the bedroom, I take total control but I’m entirely focused on a generous, thorough slow burn. I’m uncut, play bare with trust, and prefer a raw, high-intensity connection where boundaries are explicitly respected.

No scripts, no weird expectations, and no pressure. Just a reliable, high-intensity escape when it works for us.

If you’re a real couple or a wife looking for a big, genuine guy who knows what he’s doing and actually listens, send a message and let's see if the chemistry is there.

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u/alonthemove — 17 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — 6'4, 100kg. Looking for a high-intensity summer fling.

Summer in London is always better with a bit of mischief. I’m 6'4, fit, well-traveled, and back in town for the season. I’m looking for a younger, adventurous woman who wants to turn the next few months into a proper summer fling—a mutual escape from the daily grind where we can completely lose ourselves.

I’m completely over low-effort connections where people just go through the motions. For me, a real summer fling needs that genuine mental "click" and shared tension first. The chemistry out of the bedroom has to match the heat behind a closed door.

When we play, I like to take the lead but I’m far from selfish. I’m a big believer in a slow burn and being generous with my time—letting the anticipation build properly before taking total control. I’m uncut and prefer playing bare; there’s a certain magic in that raw, skin-on-skin trust when the rest of the city thinks we’re just strangers passing in the crowd.

I’m attached, so absolute discretion and a zero-pressure, drama-free dynamic are non-negotiable. No expectations, no heavy scripts, just a high-intensity secret to keep us warm.

If you’re looking for a big guy who knows exactly what he’s doing to heat up your summer, drop me a message with what you’ve been missing.

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u/alonthemove — 18 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London — Tall & Naughty - Looking for a genuine spark and a proper escape.

London is a city of millions, but finding a real mental "click" is surprisingly rare. I’m 6'4, fit, well-traveled, and back in town. I usually gravitate toward younger women who have an adventurous streak—someone who appreciates a man with real presence and life experience, but has zero interest in the usual older-man clichés.

I have no interest in low-effort connections where people just go through the motions. For me, the physical side is only worth it if the conversation and the tension are there first.

In the bedroom, I tend to take the lead but I’m far from selfish. I’m a big believer in a slow burn and taking my time—letting the anticipation build before taking total control. I’m uncut, well equipped and adventurous.

I’m attached, so absolute discretion and a zero-pressure, drama-free dynamic are essential. I’m not looking for a script or a transactional arrangement. Just a consistent, high-intensity escape with a woman I actually click with.

If you’re looking for a big guy who knows what he’s doing and actually listens, let's chat.

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u/alonthemove — 26 days ago
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50 [M4F] #London – Worldly, fit, & kinky gentleman seeking a connection with a like-minded FWB

I am a 50-year-old gentleman, 195cm tall and fit at 103kg. After spending many years living in Los Angeles, I have recently returned to London and am looking to find an ongoing, naughty, FWB; someone who appreciates the dynamic of a mature partner.

I pride myself on being confident, discreet, and well-travelled. I have lived a full life, and I enjoy the company of someone who is equally interested in engaging conversation, sharing stories, and experiencing life’s finer moments—whether that’s a drink in a quiet bar or exploring a new level of intimacy. I am a firm believer that connection is an art form; I value the "slow burn," the importance of foreplay, and the raw beauty of in-the-moment intimacy. Your pleasure is, quite simply, my pleasure.

I am seeking a FWB who is intelligent, sexually confident, and ready for a consistent connection. I am a very open-minded and kinky individual; if you have fantasies you’ve been wanting to explore in a safe, private, and respectful environment, I am the partner who will make that happen without judgment.

My standards:

  • Discretion: I value privacy and expect the same from you.
  • Health: I am super clean and regularly tested, and I expect the same level of responsibility from my partner.
  • Communication: I am direct, honest, and low-pressure. I’m looking for chemistry, not a pen-pal situation.

If you are based in London and find the idea of a mature, attentive, and kinky gentleman appealing, I would love to hear from you. Please send me a message with a bit about your vibe, what you’re looking for, or even a fantasy you’ve been thinking about. Let’s have a chat and see if we have that essential spark.

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u/alonthemove — 1 month ago

50 [M4F] #London — 6'4 / 100kg. Uncut, attached, looking for a proper spark.

I’m 6'4, fit, and recently back in town. I’m attached, so discretion is a given, but I’m looking for a regular escape with a younger woman who actually wants to get along first.

I’m completely over the low-effort hookups where people just show up and go through the motions. For me, the physical side is only actually good if the conversation and the tension are there beforehand.

When it comes to the bedroom, I take the lead but I’m not selfish. I like a slow burn, I’m generous with my time, and I prefer playing bare because the skin-on-skin trust is the best part of a secret connection.

No drama, no pressure, and no weird expectations. Just a high-intensity escape when we both need it.

If you’re looking for a big guy who knows what he’s doing and actually listens, drop me a message with what you’re after.

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u/alonthemove — 1 month ago

50 [M4F] #Fulham – 195cm, fit, kinky & discreet. Seeking ongoing FWB.

I’m a 50-year-old professional, 195cm/103kg, fit and active. I’ve recently returned to London and am looking to establish a consistent, ongoing FWB arrangement with a woman who knows what she wants.

I’m not looking for a pen pal or a long interview process—I’m looking for chemistry, mutual pleasure, and a high-quality, discreet connection.

What I bring to the table:

  • Confidence & Experience: I’m a mature partner who knows how to handle himself. I’m attentive, unhurried, and genuinely focused on my partner's satisfaction.
  • Kinky & Open-Minded: I have a healthy appetite for exploration. If you have fantasies you’ve been wanting to try in a safe, private, and judgment-free environment, I’m the partner to help you make them happen.
  • Standards: I’m super clean, regularly tested, and completely discreet. I expect the same level of responsibility from you.

Who I’m looking for: A woman who is sexually confident, intelligent, and looking for a regular escape. I value direct communication, mutual respect, and a lack of unnecessary drama.

Next steps: Don't send a generic "hi." Tell me a little about your vibe, what you’re looking for, or a fantasy you’ve been wanting to share. Let's see if we click.

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u/alonthemove — 1 month ago