I met a switch who is one of the most insanely clever, sweet and overall stunning people ever.
On a video call today I showed off for her and I didn’t think I’ve stopped blushing from her reactions.
She makes me wanna be the goodest girl ever 🥰
In case everyone is unaware, a patch update was pushed last night to all Dom(me)s so that now, they adore being called “puppy!”
It’s encouraged to use “Good Boy/Girl,” “good puppy,” and other doggy themed phrases to help them reboot.
Any malfunctions can be chalked up to lack of puppy treats/walkies.
Enjoy 😇
Due to a very wacky and abnormal background (cult stuff), I have discovered post-deconstructing from said background that I very much want to be “corrupted” and do traditionally blasphemous things inside a church with a woman.
Obviously the whole “thou shall not be gay” part didn’t work out too well lol
Obviously I don’t attend a church and even if I did, I don’t love the chance of getting caught via security cameras/someone walking in on us.
For anyone with similar kinks, have you discovered any creative ways to simulate a religious setting minus the actual risk?
I’m 5’8”, curly black hair, wear all black and have tats. Everyone tells me I look scary and that’s on purpose cause then people aren’t as mean to me.
And for the record I’m very tough. But my little and princess side wants to be babied so bad. Like lemme be clingy and whine every time I can’t be touching you. Pleeeeeease
Accidentally made a huge mess and now I just wanna snuggle with a Mommy and my stuffies pretty please
I was just playing with my pussy and decided to try using my hitachi on my clit while I stuffed my pussy (already creamy at this point) with my short but fat dildo.
Accidentally made myself squirt so hard that I soaked through two towels, my quilt, all my sheets and another blanket. And splashed all over my legs
I’m very sleepy now but for some reason wanted to tell everybody
Does anyone know of communities on here that are still sapphic and kinky, but maybe have less of a newbie crowd regarding BDSM?
All love to anyone who’s starting out, I’m just looking for more in-depth discussions as opposed to a lot of the beginner topics I’ve been seeing frequently.
I spend hours reading smut almost every day, all I can think about right now is how much I want to be fucked while I’m forced to read aloud and punished if I stop or misspeak.
I’m just a horny princess how am I expected to survive under these conditions 😭
I just wanted to say thank you to all the caring Dommes in all the various categories.
When I’m scared and want to feel safe, you are what I daydream about. Someone who is safe, attentive, allows me to fully be myself without judgement or anger.
There’s a bajillion different flavors and variations of Dommes, I definitely don’t know them all, but if I could give every single one of you a hug (with consent ofc), I absolutely would. 🖤
It’s 1 a.m. and I’m so brain and feelings tired that I just wanna hide with my stuffies and daydreams about having a Mommy who is nice to me
I went to a kink event tonight that was specifically open to the local community. Hosted at a coffee shop, very chill.
I sat down with another stranger and was chatting when another sub (was wearing a beautiful collar and cuffs) sat down next to me.
Important note: this was not a sapphic event. From how he talked about himself, I assume he is a cis man.
I look at him and say hi, he doesn’t respond or make eye contact with me. It’s not loud in the coffee shop and from what I could tell, he could hear me.
My conversation continues on with the other sub I was speaking with. Another sub sits down with us, we introduce ourselves and keep chatting while he sits next to me silently.
The only way I know how to describe his energy was judgmental. He would roll his eyes, make faces at things I was saying but not engage.
At one point a certain city out of state is brought up that I travel to, for tattoos. I excitedly mention to the other sub who brought it up that I love going there. They ask why, I explain.
The one sitting next me to goes “why do you travel THERE for tattoos 😒” and I explain “well I’m really picky about who touches me and they’re a woman owned shop so I feel safe there.” He rolls his eyes.
This kept going for the whole time I was there. I got to meet other lovely people but honestly I want to cry. This was supposed to be a fun evening where I felt like I could fit in, but now I just feel small and stupid.
I know it’s best to do kink in real life with real people but times like this make me never want to go outside.
Edit: this was an activity-based, 18+, kink event and not a munch. The sub who wasn’t very nice put his gear on after he was inside, he was within the dress code listed for the event.
(Unsure if this should go under advice or discussion, so going off my best guess)
Next year I’ll be going to Camp Crucible for the first time. The current plan is to attend by myself, since I rarely have a partner (by choice) and love solo traveling.
I have participated in local kink munches/events, and took several educational classes from established local kink experts when I’ve traveled.
However this will be my first time at an isolated/immersive, and multi-day experience.
Besides the obvious kink etiquette (don’t touch other people’s toys, don’t interrupt scenes, etc.) if anyone has advice on how I could avoid any awkward situations that go along with attending a kink camp, I would be very grateful 😅
I was talking with a sub the other day and I had a strong reaction that I wasn’t expecting in response to a scene she described.
Essentially, her Dom tied her to a chair and had several folks from their kink community line up and compliment her one at a time until she got overwhelmed and he called the scene.
She obviously had a safe word but wasn’t allowed to disagree or negatively react to any compliment, slip-ups were documented for later punishment.
After hearing about it I was genuinely anxious and almost sweating after imagining myself in her place. She and I both share personalities where we are more comfortable receiving criticism than praise/criticism feels more genuine.
I’m curious if anyone else has done a scene similar to this, and if so what was your experience?
I accidentally just zoned out for ten minutes thinking about being absolutely railed. Best daydream ever, in my head I got held down and forced to squirt and cream until I was drooling and brainless.
Idk about anyone else but when I’m sleepy like rn I wanna brat by just saying “no” from under the covers. It’s extra comfy
I’m chronically ill and usually I can be grown up and tough but tonight everything hurts and I just wanna cry.
I keep feeling halfway little and halfway big like I’m stuck in the midday and it makes me feel so icky and embarrassed.
I know it will stop hurting eventually but right now it feels like a bajillion years.
Exactly what the title is lol
I felt so anxious this morning I decided to try and cum my brains out.
Started with a suction toy on my clit while I played with my titties, until I got all creamy for my dildo. I was able to take all 6” after slowly fucking it into me inch by inch.
I didn’t realize how good it felt and how hard I was fucking myself until I squirted all over the toy and soaked through the three towels under my ass.
The hitachi finished me off with the dildo still balls deep, gushing again on the towels and now I can’t feel my legs and I’m pretty sure I’ll fall when I try to get up.
CW: religion, politics, cult stuff, degradation
Ok so I was raised in a Christian nationalist homeschool cult and obviously was taught to only be straight.
Well that didn’t exactly work out lol (I’m just saying Zipporah from Prince of Egypt was 🫦)
Obviously I’ve had to work through/am working on stuff/myself but I have a kink fantasy that idk how I feel about.
To paint the picture, I’m the subbiest sub to ever sub and am femme.
I fantasize about being railed (in a church maybe 👀) and forced to repeat things like “I’m a pretty little sinner,” “I take girl dick so good,” you get it.
Basically religious-adjacent degradation.
Will I be brave enough to ever do it? No clue lol but it’s one of my favorite things to daydream about.
CW: medical play, medical trauma
I’ve been in BDSM spaces (physical and digital) for about eight-ish years. Something I appreciate about the community is the way people can use it to heal.
My body is basically constantly trying to self implode and so I spent all of my 20’s working insane hours to stay employed to keep my health insurance, at doctors appointments, having procedures/surgeries and recovering from the latter.
As a result I have a lot of medical trauma and anxiety (I know, shocking).
I’d like to begin exploring medical play (as a sub/receiving) as a way to try and associate the environment/experiences with positive outcomes.
Locally, no one is really into that, so I’m reading and researching solo.
If anyone has experience with medical play, advice or general thoughts I would love to hear them/discuss.
If you don’t want me to reply/blow up your notifications via comments, just lmk 🖤
I feel such an intense need for sub space I can’t describe it. It’s all I can think about.
I need to feel that safety and euphoria so much it makes me wanna cry.
Previously I’d just distract myself and get stoned for the same “flying” feeling, but I’m being responsible and not taking any due to interactions with my meds.
If other subs have advice or experience with this, I’m all ears.