u/another-personing

I’ve thought of like a speed dating event where we can have little cards where we put our info out and see who we match with 😅 it’d be such a small sample of people I’m sure we could match up somehow. Any interest in that? I’ve very passively thought about it but I have poor luck dating on apps and it would be so amazing to meet someone who’s all mixy like me! Not sure if there are enough post op (or maybe soon to be post op, that could open up options) single people here to make such an event but I thought I’d gauge interest.

I’m trying to make a decision about my last surgery whether to remove my labia and wanted to see if anyone is willing to send pictures. You can delete after of course and they’ll not leave dms. I just am trying to get a wider array of how things look. My vagina is less “opened” even after scrotoplasty and it’s hard to tell wha t I’ll look like since it seems things do spread more from what I’ve seen.

My questions are:

Did any atrophy, dryness, or urinary issues increase?
Is the vagina mostly hidden?
Did you notice the shape of the entrance change?

I’m considering getting rid of mine. The labia can be nice in a sexual sense but they give me dysphoria. I don’t know if I’ll ever be dysphoria free having kept my vagina for sexual purposes but I wonder if I could make it better. My surgeon did a wonderful job and it looks beautiful but I don’t know if it is good for me.

Hello. How are we getting over it fellow small penis havers? I did intentionally go with the method I knew would be smaller (Rff) because I knew the extra large size alt would’ve ended up giving me (alt.) as well as other reasons. I’m still self conscious though. I try to remember that some women enjoy smaller sizes, size isn’t everything, etc etc. I just hateee that I keep feeling self conscious about it. If only I could just make my whole body size up a bit. My small size is proportionate to my small body. Just sucks.

I understand it here, we are in a medical space on this sub. I welcome questions when I post here and I give advice when I can give it. It’s just really aggravating when someone creates a porn sub for us post op people and half the comments are asking surgical questions that have been answered a thousand times over. I get that you want to know everyone’s surgeon, how their “results” came out, if they can feel it, whatever your curiosity is. It probably comes from a place of wanting to control your own outcomes and find the right fit. This sub is the place for that, the beginner questions thread is for that, the people specifically saying they’re there to answer questions are for that. Post op people trying to just be sexual and post their dick online ARE NOT FOR THAT. I did not consent to being medicalized for the rest of my life when I got this surgery. I can expect it from cis people, I don’t accept it but I expect it. Where I don’t expect it from is my ow community members who should know better. It feels akin to being asked what’s in my pants sometimes. I know it’s not really the same thing but the feeling that the incessant questions produce is definitely a similar one.

Mostly curious to know if anyone got answers on why it happened and if anyone did anything that helped it? It used to be in extreme nerve pain but it only hurts a bit now outside of randomly fluctuations

Are you still able to wear loose underwear or no underwear after implants comfortably? I usually walk around my house in my boxers that are basically shorts and will wear those only under my clothes.

Hello. When you get aroused where do you experience the feeling? I still don’t really get it in my penis even though my penis is very sensitive. It’s usually the “undercarriage” area. I haven’t had a vnectomy and I wonder if that makes any difference. It makes me feel dysphoric though.

I can’t stop posting, talking with people , etc and I’m just exhausted. I get so drained of energy but I still keep going.