u/asortofdecentperson

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along. \*notabot

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along. *notabot

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I am looking for something maybe more relaxed than many come here for. Definitely will have a time for intensity, but it's not running the show.

I am a switch if anything, I prefer to think of being open to the right experience with the right partner. I'm naturally nurturing so have fallen in to the soft dom roll more often than not and am good with that.

What I am ideally looking for...

\\\\- A close friendship above everything. Daily chats about interests and everyday things. I want to share my universe and peak inside yours.

\\\\- Kink talk! We tell each other fantasies, stories about sexual adventures, exchange ideas and porn recs.

\\\\- Casual play. if we happen to be in the mood we give each other kinky tasks or encourage each other to edge. I am happy to take a Dom or a sub role for playtime. 

Additionally I can optionally offer:

\\\\- Mentoring. With kink or life in general, I have life experience and I'm at your disposal.

About me:

Kink wise I am very open minded, I don't have specific needs but some things I've played with others and enjoyed, Breeding, Assplay, Given or taken direction, I'm very audial driven so voice notes or calls are amazing, being Daddy or having Mommy, Oral fixation, Edging, Watersports and plenty more. Limits are blood, scat and anything illegal.

Outside of kink I am the boss at the office, the go to guy for everything in my life really. This is a great escape for me, it's therapy.  I'm passionate about music, meditation, unique movies and games, getting lost with my camera and appreciating life.

I am in a LTR so you know I'm advance and am happy to discuss any thoughts about that.

Preferences for partner: A great communicator who really wants this, who really wants to be here, who believes they can get to a comfortable enough space to put themselves out there and be vulnerable, I'm seeking more than a passive means to get off.

I hope the right person finds this at the right time.

I am looking for something maybe more relaxed than many come here for. Definitely will have a time for intensity, but it's not running the show.

I am a switch if anything, I prefer to think of being open to the right experience with the right partner. I'm naturally nurturing so have fallen in to the soft dom roll more often than not and am good with that.

What I am ideally looking for...

\\- A close friendship above everything. Daily chats about interests and everyday things. I want to share my universe and peak inside yours.

\\- Kink talk! We tell each other fantasies, stories about sexual adventures, exchange ideas and porn recs.

\\- Casual play. if we happen to be in the mood we give each other kinky tasks or encourage each other to edge. I am happy to take a Dom or a sub role for playtime. 

Additionally I can optionally offer:

\\- Mentoring. With kink or life in general, I have life experience and I'm at your disposal.

About me:

Kink wise I am very open minded, I don't have specific needs but some things I've played with others and enjoyed, Breeding, Assplay, Given or taken direction, I'm very audial driven so voice notes or calls are amazing, being Daddy or having Mommy, Oral fixation, Edging, Watersports and plenty more. Limits are blood, scat and anything illegal.

Outside of kink I am the boss at the office, the go to guy for everything in my life really. This is a great escape for me, it's therapy.  I'm passionate about music, meditation, unique movies and games, getting lost with my camera and appreciating life.

I am in a LTR so you know I'm advance and am happy to discuss any thoughts about that.

Preferences for partner: A great communicator who really wants this, who really wants to be here, who believes they can get to a comfortable enough space to put themselves out there and be vulnerable, I'm seeking more than a passive means to get off.

I hope the right person finds this at the right time.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I am looking for something maybe more relaxed than many come here for. Definitely will have a time for intensity, but it's not running the show.

I am a switch if anything, I prefer to think of being open to the right experience with the right partner. I'm naturally nurturing so have fallen in to the soft dom roll more often than not and am good with that.

What I am ideally looking for...

\- A close friendship above everything. Daily chats about interests and everyday things. I want to share my universe and peak inside yours.

\- Kink talk! We tell each other fantasies, stories about sexual adventures, exchange ideas and porn recs.

\- Casual play. if we happen to be in the mood we give each other kinky tasks or encourage each other to edge. I am happy to take a Dom or a sub role for playtime. 

Additionally I can optionally offer:

\- Mentoring. With kink or life in general, I have life experience and I'm at your disposal.

About me:

Kink wise I am very open minded, I don't have specific needs but some things I've played with others and enjoyed, Breeding, Assplay, Given or taken direction, I'm very audial driven so voice notes or calls are amazing, being Daddy or having Mommy, Oral fixation, Edging, Watersports and plenty more. Limits are blood, scat and anything illegal.

Outside of kink I am the boss at the office, the go to guy for everything in my life really. This is a great escape for me, it's therapy.  I'm passionate about music, meditation, unique movies and games, getting lost with my camera and appreciating life.

I am in a LTR so you know I'm advance and am happy to discuss any thoughts about that.

Preferences for partner: A great communicator who really wants this, who really wants to be here, who believes they can get to a comfortable enough space to put themselves out there and be vulnerable, I'm seeking more than a passive means to get off.

I hope the right person finds this at the right time.

I am looking for something maybe more relaxed than many come here for. Definitely will have a time for intensity, but it's not running the show.

I am a switch if anything, I prefer to think of being open to the right experience with the right partner. I'm naturally nurturing so have fallen in to the soft dom roll more often than not and am good with that.

What I am ideally looking for...

- A close friendship above everything. Daily chats about interests and everyday things. I want to share my universe and peak inside yours.

- Kink talk! We tell each other fantasies, stories about sexual adventures, exchange ideas and porn recs.

- Casual play. if we happen to be in the mood we give each other kinky tasks or encourage each other to edge. I am happy to take a Dom or a sub role for playtime. 

Additionally I can optionally offer:

- Mentoring. With kink or life in general, I have life experience and I'm at your disposal.

About me:

Kink wise I am very open minded, I don't have specific needs but some things I've played with others and enjoyed, Breeding, Assplay, Given or taken direction, I'm very audial driven so voice notes or calls are amazing, being Daddy or having Mommy, Oral fixation, Edging, Watersports and plenty more. Limits are blood, scat and anything illegal.

Outside of kink I am the boss at the office, the go to guy for everything in my life really. This is a great escape for me, it's therapy.  I'm passionate about music, meditation, unique movies and games, getting lost with my camera and appreciating life.

I am in a LTR so you know I'm advance and am happy to discuss any thoughts about that.

Preferences for partner: A great communicator who really wants this, who really wants to be here, who believes they can get to a comfortable enough space to put themselves out there and be vulnerable, I'm seeking more than a passive means to get off.

I hope the right person finds this at the right time.

​

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along. ~~~

I've had many great communication partners over many years and I do not treat this as a passive means to get off. You are not disposable and will not be treated as such.

An open and honest conversation, I'm not interested in dragging a conversation kicking and screaming through the mud to learn something about you, be part of the conversation, if you're shy, use this to get out of your comfort zone a bit, it will build confidence and bring joy in the end, I assure you.

I'm passionate about many things, and I want to share them with you. I want to know what you're passionate about and I want you to share it with me. Despite the references to it, I want the vanilla to the very spicy, not all sex all the time.

I am a sincerely open and accepting Kink enthusiast, I prioritize comfort and a safe place to explore yourself, I make a point of attention that you'll never have to wonder if something is ok or if I'll make you feel weird about it. I want you to want to be here, let's dig in.

I'd say I'm a Switch if anything, always keeping an open mind. Have probably fallen into the "Daddy" role more naturally as I'm a naturally nurturing person. I am very audial driven, if we decide the vibe is there you'll likely hear my voice and you'll likely like it, hopefully that's reciprocated if you feel comfortable doing so.

I do not and will not ask for photos/videos etc, I am not entitled to them and won't pretend to be. I will be ecstatic if you decide without pressure that I'm worth sharing yourself with, but it will not be assumed. Your comfort is my biggest priority.

I’m open to all 18+ ages, shapes and people, all I ask is that you come wanting real conversation, don’t make me carry it alone.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I want to see you, understand who you are and where you are coming from being here. This is not a means to get off. To be very clear

 I’m looking for a long-term relationship. Nothing less.

 As serious and straight as that comes off, I am seeking a fun partner, loves to laugh and be goofy, an over sharer, craves attention because I love to give it, likes to send and receive voice notes, pictures throughout the day of anything and everything. Invite each other into the others world.

 I’m not shy, I don’t keep walls up, if I have to pretend to be anything I’m not, we’re not the right fit. My partner is going to understand me better than anyone in my current personal life. Therapeutic understanding and growing together.

 I am passionate about music, have been to emo, indie, punk, folk, metal shows in the last year. Listen to plenty of hip hop too. Love to explore and find new sounds. Love wandering with my camera and capturing the world around me. Weird indie movies and occasional games. I love art no matter the medium.

 I am not going to ask you for a picture, ever, I’m hoping to earn your trust and you like being a part of this enough that you want to share yourself, but the time for that is up to you. I am a firm believer you get out of this what you put in, and I put a lot in.

 West Coast Night Owls suit me best, it’s nice to have legitimate alone time for us. But I am very available at work and throughout the day and weekends plenty too. This is not a 9 to 5 activity for me. I have time to invest into you.

 Finally, I’m demisexual above all else, I need to feel needed in this to be worthwhile. Far more concerned about your effort and emotional availability then if you’re HWP, if you feel the same, I think we’d get along.

I've had many great communication partners over many years and I do not treat this as a passive means to get off. You are not disposable and will not be treated as such.

An open and honest conversation, I'm not interested in dragging a conversation kicking and screaming through the mud to learn something about you, be part of the conversation, if you're shy, use this to get out of your comfort zone a bit, it will build confidence and bring joy in the end, I assure you.

I'm passionate about many things, and I want to share them with you. I want to know what you're passionate about and I want you to share it with me. Despite the references to it, I want the vanilla to the very spicy, not all sex all the time.

I am a sincerely open and accepting Kink enthusiast, I prioritize comfort and a safe place to explore yourself, I make a point of attention that you'll never have to wonder if something is ok or if I'll make you feel weird about it. I want you to want to be here, let's dig in.

I'd say I'm a Switch if anything, always keeping an open mind. Have probably fallen into the "Daddy" role more naturally as I'm a naturally nurturing person. I am very audial driven, if we decide the vibe is there you'll likely hear my voice and you'll likely like it, hopefully that's reciprocated if you feel comfortable doing so.

I do not and will not ask for photos/videos etc, I am not entitled to them and won't pretend to be. I will be ecstatic if you decide without pressure that I'm worth sharing yourself with, but it will not be assumed. Your comfort is my biggest priority.

I’m open to all 18+ ages, shapes and people, all I ask is that you come wanting real conversation, don’t make me carry it alone.