u/high-ground_lover

I've read the guides, and I thought I put together a pretty good personals post (please see my profile. I'm happy to attach an example here as well!), but I'm not getting many bites. I've even made multiple revisions but to no avail. So, here I am.
I'm not asking you all for help out of laziness. I would just genuinely appreciate your help in fixing up my posts to attract the right Domme.

Thank you very much for reading this, and I hope to hear your thoughts!

Hello there,

My name is Jake. I'm 21, and I live in Florida, but I spend most of my time (excluding breaks) in South Carolina for school. I am studying economics and political science, and I intend to attend law school after. These interests, of course, influence some of my hobbies such as reading (political philosophy, legal theory, policy, et cetara), but not my other hobbies. Since a very young age, I have always had an interest in photography, and that has expanded into a part time "profession" of sports photography for D1 athletics. I'm also a genuine audiophile--I care about audio quality and have stereo systems at both my home and my place at school that reflect this. I am a bit of an old soul when it comes to music, I mainly listen to stuff that was made before I was born or stuff that was influenced by styles of the time before I was born. I also play classical piano and dabble in guitar and trumpet. Oh, and I absolutely LOVE Star Wars.

Physically

I'm 5'10", 165 lbs., in decent shape--big biceps and strong legs, though, lately, I've been trying to get back in the gym for its various health benefits and also to finally get some abs. I have curly dirty blond hair and sometimes I let it get a bit long (mainly because I just forget to schedule haircuts from time to time; usually I remember to do stuff, though!). I am happy to send pictures upon request!

Personality

I am energetic and sometimes a bit hard to slow down. I have a big heart and will go the extra mile for those I care about. I'm also very forgiving, which can sometimes be a problem, but I also don't give people infinite chances. This really carries over into how I approach a dynamic: I get attached, I invest, and I take the people I care about seriously. I am very much a golden retriever type. I'm very eager to please. I am also funny, but my humor is very conversational. Fair warning: it may take me a little bit to figure out what things make certain different people laugh, so please don't get offended if I say the wrong things at the beginning--I'm just testing to see what works. One more fair warning (where the heck did that term even come from?): even though I am very much a golden retriever type, I can be bratty from time to time. I like to feel like there's someone genuinely in charge, and sometimes I'll test that. If that sounds like work, I'm probably not your guy. If that sounds like fun, I really hope to hear from you.

What I'm Looking For

Honestly, I'm very open. Right now, an online dynamic would be best since I'm at home for the summer, but if you can host, I may be able to make that work. Once I'm back to school after summer, I would be happy to move to something in-person.

What I Bring to the Table

French fries. No, wait, that's what I order for the table... I get attached... quick. I'm loyal, attentive, and I genuinely love to please. Friends would describe me as energetic, funny, intelligent, dependable, and caring.

My Kinks

I am still very much exploring, so this list is not at all inclusive. I also haven't tried all of these things, so I may or may not like some of them. Things I'm genuinely interested in or curious about include femdom (duh), chastity, orgasm control, training, discipline, humiliation, anal play, and feminization. Piss play could also be interesting. I've never been good at coming up with kink lists, and, unfortunately, every time I try to go back to one of the ones I've made online in the past, the website no longer exists.

Hard limits

scat, blood, anything permanent, bestiality, incest, blackmail, anything illegal, extreme extreme CBT

Toys

Chastity cage (still looking for the perfect one), butt plugs, anal beads, Lovense Edge, dildos, panties, expanding plug, pinwheel, cockrings. I am happy to invest in more for the right dynamic.

Dynamic Style

I don't have a rigid preference; I'm interested in finding what works between two specific people rather than insisting on a rigid template.

Thank you for taking the time to read, and I look forward to hearing from you!

Jake

Hello there,

My name is Jake. I'm 21, and I live in Florida, but I spend most of my time (excluding breaks) in South Carolina for school. I am studying economics and political science, and I intend to attend law school after. These interests, of course, influence some of my hobbies such as reading (political philosophy, legal theory, policy, *et cetara*), but not my other hobbies. Since a very young age, I have always had an interest in photography, and that has expanded into a part time "profession" of sports photography for D1 athletics. I'm also a genuine audiophile--I care about audio quality and have stereo systems at both my home and my place at school that reflect this. I am a bit of an old soul when it comes to music, I mainly listen to stuff that was made before I was born or stuff that was influenced by styles of the time before I was born. I also play classical piano and dabble in guitar and trumpet. Oh, and I absolutely LOVE Star Wars.

**Physically**

I'm 5'10", 165 lbs., in decent shape--big biceps and strong legs, though, lately, I've been trying to get back in the gym for its various health benefits and also to finally get some abs. I have curly dirty blond hair and sometimes I let it get a bit long (mainly because I just forget to schedule haircuts from time to time; usually I remember to do stuff, though!). I am happy to send pictures upon request!

**Personality**

I am energetic and sometimes a bit hard to slow down. I have a big heart and will go the extra mile for those I care about. I'm also very forgiving, which can sometimes be a problem, but I also don't give people infinite chances. This really carries over into how I approach a dynamic: I get attached, I invest, and I take the people I care about seriously. I am very much a golden retriever type. I'm very eager to please. I am also funny, but my humor is very conversational. Fair warning: it may take me a little bit to figure out what things make certain different people laugh, so please don't get offended if I say the wrong things at the beginning--I'm just testing to see what works. One more fair warning (where the heck did that term even come from?): even though I am very much a golden retriever type, I can be bratty from time to time. I like to feel like there's someone genuinely in charge, and sometimes I'll test that. If that sounds like work, I'm probably not your guy. If that sounds like fun, I really hope to hear from you.

**What I'm Looking For**

Honestly, I'm very open. Right now, an online dynamic would be best since I'm at home for the summer, but if you can host, I may be able to make that work. Once I'm back to school after summer, I would be happy to move to something in-person.

**What I Bring to the Table**

French fries. No, wait, that's what I order for the table... I get attached... quick. I'm loyal, attentive, and I genuinely love to please. Friends would describe me as energetic, funny, intelligent, dependable, and caring.

**My Kinks**

I am still very much exploring, so this list is not at all inclusive. I also haven't tried all of these things, so I may or may not like some of them. Things I'm genuinely interested in or curious about include femdom (duh), chastity, orgasm control, training, discipline, humiliation, anal play, and feminization. Piss play could also be interesting. I've never been good at coming up with kink lists, and, unfortunately, every time I try to go back to one of the ones I've made online in the past, the website no longer exists.

**Hard limits**

scat, blood, anything permanent, bestiality, incest, blackmail, anything illegal, extreme extreme CBT

**Toys**

Chastity cage (still looking for the perfect one), butt plugs, anal beads, Lovense Edge, dildos, panties, expanding plug, pinwheel, cockrings. I am happy to invest in more for the right dynamic.

**Dynamic Style**

I don't have a rigid preference; I'm interested in finding what works between two specific people rather than insisting on a rigid template.

Thank you for taking the time to read, and I look forward to hearing from you!

Jake

Hello there,

My name is Jake. I'm 21, and I live in Florida, but I spend most of my time (excluding breaks) in South Carolina for school. I am studying economics and political science, and I intend to attend law school after. These interests, of course, influence some of my hobbies such as reading (political philosophy, legal theory, policy, et cetara), but not my other hobbies. Since a very young age, I have always had an interest in photography, and that has expanded into a part time "profession" of sports photography for D1 athletics. I'm also a genuine audiophile--I care about audio quality and have stereo systems at both my home and my place at school that reflect this. I am a bit of an old soul when it comes to music, I mainly listen to stuff that was made before I was born or stuff that was influenced by styles of the time before I was born. I also play classical piano and dabble in guitar and trumpet. Oh, and I absolutely LOVE Star Wars.

Physically

I'm 5'10", 165 lbs., in decent shape--big biceps and strong legs, though, lately, I've been trying to get back in the gym for its various health benefits and also to finally get some abs. I have curly dirty blond hair and sometimes I let it get a bit long (mainly because I just forget to schedule haircuts from time to time; usually I remember to do stuff, though!). I am happy to send pictures upon request!

Personality

I am energetic and sometimes a bit hard to slow down. I have a big heart and will go the extra mile for those I care about. I'm also very forgiving, which can sometimes be a problem, but I also don't give people infinite chances. This really carries over into how I approach a dynamic: I get attached, I invest, and I take the people I care about seriously. I am very much a golden retriever type. I'm very eager to please. I am also funny, but my humor is very conversational. Fair warning: it may take me a little bit to figure out what things make certain different people laugh, so please don't get offended if I say the wrong things at the beginning--I'm just testing to see what works. One more fair warning (where the heck did that term even come from?): even though I am very much a golden retriever type, I can be bratty from time to time. I like to feel like there's someone genuinely in charge, and sometimes I'll test that. If that sounds like work, I'm probably not your guy. If that sounds like fun, I really hope to hear from you.

What I'm Looking For

Honestly, I'm very open. Right now, an online dynamic would be best since I'm at home for the summer, but if you can host, I may be able to make that work. Once I'm back to school after summer, I would be happy to move to something in-person.

What I Bring to the Table

French fries. No, wait, that's what I order for the table... I get attached... quick. I'm loyal, attentive, and I genuinely love to please. Friends would describe me as energetic, funny, intelligent, dependable, and caring.

My Kinks

I am still very much exploring, so this list is not at all inclusive. I also haven't tried all of these things, so I may or may not like some of them. Things I'm genuinely interested in or curious about include femdom (duh), chastity, orgasm control, training, discipline, humiliation, anal play, and feminization. Piss play could also be interesting. I've never been good at coming up with kink lists, and, unfortunately, every time I try to go back to one of the ones I've made online in the past, the website no longer exists.

Hard limits

scat, blood, anything permanent, bestiality, incest, blackmail, anything illegal, extreme extreme CBT

Toys

Chastity cage (still looking for the perfect one), butt plugs, anal beads, Lovense Edge, dildos, panties, expanding plug, pinwheel, cockrings. I am happy to invest in more for the right dynamic.

Dynamic Style

I don't have a rigid preference; I'm interested in finding what works between two specific people rather than insisting on a rigid template.

Thank you for taking the time to read, and I look forward to hearing from you!

Jake

Hello there,

My name is Jake. I'm 21, and I live in Florida, but I spend most of my time (excluding breaks) in South Carolina for school. I am studying economics and political science, and I intend to attend law school after. These interests, of course, influence some of my hobbies such as reading (political philosophy, legal theory, and the occasional political policy read), but not my other hobbies/passions. Since a very young age, I have always had an interest in photography, and that has expanded into a part time "profession" of sports photography for D1 athletics. I'm also a genuine audiophile--I care about audio quality and have stereo systems at both my home and my place at school that reflect this. I am a bit of an old soul when it comes to music, I mainly listen to stuff that was made before I was born or stuff that was influenced by styles of the time before I was born. I also play classical piano and dabble in guitar and trumpet. Oh, and I absolutely LOVE Star Wars.

**Physically**

I'm 5'10", 165 lbs., in decent shape--big biceps and strong legs, though, lately, I've been trying to get back in the gym for its various health benefits and also to finally get some abs. I have curly dirty blond hair and sometimes I let it get a bit long (mainly because I just forget to schedule haircuts from time to time; usually I remember to do stuff, though!). I am happy to send pictures upon request!

**Personality**

I am energetic and sometimes a bit hard to slow down. I have a big heart and will go the extra mile for those I care about. I'm also very forgiving, which can sometimes be a problem, but I also don't give people infinite chances. This really carries over into how I approach a dynamic: I get attached, I invest, and I take the people I care about seriously. I am very much a golden retriever type. I'm very eager to please. I am also funny, but my humor is very conversational. Fair warning: it may take me a little bit to figure out what things make certain different people laugh, so please don't get offended if I say the wrong things at the beginning--I'm just testing to see what works. One more fair warning (where the heck did that term even come from?): even though I am very much a golden retriever type, I can be bratty from time to time. I like to feel like there's someone genuinely in charge, and sometimes I'll test that. If that sounds like work, I'm probably not your guy. If that sounds like fun, I really hope to hear from you.

**What I'm Looking For**

Honestly, I'm very open. Right now, an online dynamic would be best since I'm at home for the summer, but if you can host, I may be able to make that work. Once I'm back to school after summer, I would be happy to move to something in-person.

**What I Bring to the Table**

French fries. No, wait, that's what I order for the table... I get attached... quick. I'm loyal, attentive, and I genuinely love to please. Friends would describe me as energetic, funny, intelligent, dependable, and caring.

**My Kinks**

I am still very much exploring, so this list is not at all inclusive. I also haven't tried all of these things, so I may or may not like some of them. Things I'm genuinely interested in or curious about include femdom (duh), chastity, orgasm control, training, discipline, humiliation, anal play, and feminization. Piss play could also be interesting. I've never been good at coming up with kink lists, and, unfortunately, every time I try to go back to one of the ones I've made online in the past, the website no longer exists.

**Hard limits**

scat, blood, anything permanent, bestiality, incest, blackmail, anything illegal, extreme extreme CBT

**Toys**

Chastity cage (still looking for the perfect one), butt plugs, anal beads, Lovense Edge, dildos, panties, expanding plug, pinwheel, cockrings. I am happy to invest in more for the right dynamic.

**Dynamic Style**

I don't have a rigid preference; I'm interested in finding what works between two specific people rather than insisting on a rigid template.

**Getting in Touch**

If any of this sounds interesting, please send me a message on Reddit. I'm happy to share Snapchat, Telegram, or Discord once we've had a chance to actually talk. Not looking to rush anything.

I hope that message wasn't too long. This is my first time actually posting instead of just responding to personals. Also, I'm sorry for the new account. I had a privacy concern on my previous one and decided it was safer to start fresh.

Thank you for taking the time to read, and I look forward to hearing from you!

Jake