u/infatuatedberry

Hi y’all!

Before we dive a little deeper, I wanted to preface this by saying that I am looking for something long term, monogamous, and genuine. If you do not want all three of these things out of a potential connection, I am not the gal for you. Eventually, our dynamic must end in relocation from either party. I will not do long term online!

Now… a bit more about me. I’m 23 with a master’s degree and just recently moved to Chicago. I just recently underwent a pretty huge career change and now get to travel for a living, so if you’re further away for now, don’t let my location scare you off! Maybe I’ll be in your corner of the globe soon ;) Physically, I am 5’1 and a pretty curvy gal. I do have (nsfw!) photos on my profile for reference!

I am a serial hobby collector, but in my free time you’re most likely to find me with my nose in a book, doing the daily New York Times games, or getting out and shooting film photography. I also love anything artsy craftsy, riding my bike, and listening to music. While I am somebody that says I listen to every genre, I am, admittedly, a huge fan of midwest emo and some pretty killer sad girl indie.

The moment we’ve all been waiting for! 🥁🥁🥁 as previously mentioned, I am only looking for something long term and sustainable. while i’m okay with starting out online, I don’t want to pursue a connection that has no possibility of closing the distance in the near future. Yes, I am looking for a dom, but I’m also looking for a partner and best friend! BDSM does not work for me if I don’t develop a connection with the person outside of sex.

In the bedroom, i am very very very submissive. I do NOT have a dominant bone in my body. I have an end goal of free use/tpe, so hopefully you do too! in terms of kink, I’ve listed a few of my own below. I’m pretty much open to trying anything once, and obviously will share hard limits when the time comes.

You, on the other hand, are calm and gentle, yet strict with a guiding presence. I know it sounds a bit contradictory, but I believe that the right person will be able to deliver the strictness I need in a kind, loving manner. Think of your typical daddy type. For me, my partner is somebody to look up and act as a guiding force. Age wise, preferably you are early 30s - mid 40s, but I’m more than willing to make exceptions on either end if we click.

• ⁠bondage

• ⁠orgasm control

• ⁠drool/spit

• ⁠praise

• ⁠cnc

• ⁠somno

• ⁠impact play

• ⁠semi-public play

• ⁠breeding

• ⁠misogyny play

• ⁠gagging

• ddlg

• ⁠LIGHT pet play

⁠& some more taboo stuff for me! Hopefully this covers everything!

hi y’all! as a fair warning, this might be a tad long, so hopefully you can bare with me. gotta get in as many details as possible! i am looking for something long term, monogamous, and genuine. if you do not want a combination of these three things, i am NOT the gal for you. eventually, our dynamic must end in relocation from either party. i will not do long term online.

before we get into the nitty gritty, i figured i’d share a bit about me. you can call me em for now, and i’m 23, college educated, and currently living in the midwest, though i travel for a living! so who knows? maybe i’ll be in your corner of the globe sometime soon. i am 5’1 and a pretty curvy girl (nsfw pics on profile). while i don’t show them off on here, i am pretty heavily tattooed! if that’s not your thing, move along pls. i’m a serial hobby collector, but in my free time you can most likely catch me reading a book, doing the daily new york times games, or getting out and about doing film photography. i also love movies, riding my bike, writing poetry, and listening to music! while i DO love everything, my favorite genres are, admittedly, midwest emo and some pretty killer sad girl indie.

now, the moment we’ve all been waiting for! 🥁🥁🥁 as previously mentioned, i am only looking for something long term and sustainable. while i’m okay with starting out online, i don’t want to pursue a connection that has no possibility of closing the distance in the near future. yes, i am looking for a dom, but i am also looking for a partner and best friend! bdsm does not work for me if i don’t develop a connection with the person outside of sex.

preferably YOU are calm and gentle, yet strict with a firm hand. while it sounds contradictory at first, i think the right person will be able to deliver the strictness that i need in a kind, loving manner. think of your very typical daddy or mommy type partner. i am very busy and also have adhd, so helping to keep me on track is huge. for me, my partner is somebody to look up to and act as a guiding hand. i am looking for a true provider. age wise, preferably you are early 30s - mid 40s, but i will make exceptions on either end if we really click!

in the bedroom, i am very very very submissive. i do NOT have a dominant bone in my body. i have an end goal of free use/tpe, so hopefully you do too! in terms of kink, i’ve listed a few below! i’m pretty much open to trying anything once, and obviously will share hard limits when the time comes.

• ⁠bondage

• ⁠orgasm control

• ⁠drool/spit

• ⁠praise

• ⁠cnc

• ⁠somno

• ⁠impact play

• ⁠semi-public play

• ⁠breeding

• ⁠misogyny play

• ⁠gagging

• ⁠LIGHT ddlg

• ⁠LIGHT pet play

⁠& some more taboo stuff! hopefully this covers everything! if you have any questions, feel free to ask ✨ can’t wait to hear from y’all soon!

hi y’all! as a fair warning, this might be a tad long, so hopefully you can bare with me. gotta get in as many details as possible! i am looking for something long term, monogamous, and genuine. if you do not want a combination of these three things, i am NOT the gal for you. eventually, our dynamic must end in relocation from either party. i will not do long term online.

before we get into the nitty gritty, i figured i’d share a bit about me. you can call me em for now, and i’m 23, college educated, and currently living in the midwest, though i travel for a living! so who knows? maybe i’ll be in your corner of the globe sometime soon. i am 5’1 and a pretty curvy girl (nsfw pics on profile). while i don’t show them off on here, i am pretty heavily tattooed! if that’s not your thing, move along pls. i’m a serial hobby collector, but in my free time you can most likely catch me reading a book, doing the daily new york times games, or getting out and about doing film photography. i also love movies, riding my bike, writing poetry, and listening to music! while i DO love everything, my favorite genres are, admittedly, midwest emo and some pretty killer sad girl indie.

now, the moment we’ve all been waiting for! 🥁🥁🥁 as previously mentioned, i am only looking for something long term and sustainable. while i’m okay with starting out online, i don’t want to pursue a connection that has no possibility of closing the distance in the near future. yes, i am looking for a dom, but i am also looking for a partner and best friend! bdsm does not work for me if i don’t develop a connection with the person outside of sex.

preferably YOU are calm and gentle, yet strict with a firm hand. while it sounds contradictory at first, i think the right person will be able to deliver the strictness that i need in a kind, loving manner. think of your very typical daddy or mommy type partner. i am very busy and also have adhd, so helping to keep me on track is huge. for me, my partner is somebody to look up to and act as a guiding hand. i am looking for a true provider. age wise, preferably you are early 30s - mid 40s, but i will make exceptions on either end if we really click!

in the bedroom, i am very very very submissive. i do NOT have a dominant bone in my body. i have an end goal of free use/tpe, so hopefully you do too! in terms of kink, i’ve listed a few below! i’m pretty much open to trying anything once, and obviously will share hard limits when the time comes.

• ⁠bondage

• ⁠orgasm control

• ⁠drool/spit

• ⁠praise

• ⁠cnc

• ⁠somno

• ⁠impact play

• ⁠semi-public play

• ⁠breeding

• ⁠misogyny play

• ⁠gagging

• ⁠LIGHT ddlg

• ⁠LIGHT pet play

⁠& some more taboo stuff! hopefully this covers everything! if you have any questions, feel free to ask ✨ can’t wait to hear from y’all soon!