u/infatuatedberry

Hi y’all!

Before we dive a little deeper, I wanted to preface this by saying that I am looking for something long term, monogamous, and genuine. If you do not want all three of these things out of a potential connection, I am not the gal for you. Eventually, our dynamic must end in relocation from either party. I will not do long term online!

Now… a bit more about me. I’m 23 with a master’s degree and just recently moved to Chicago. I just recently underwent a pretty huge career change and now get to travel for a living, so if you’re further away for now, don’t let my location scare you off! Maybe I’ll be in your corner of the globe soon ;) Physically, I am 5’1 and a pretty curvy gal. I do have (nsfw!) photos on my profile for reference!

I am a serial hobby collector, but in my free time you’re most likely to find me with my nose in a book, doing the daily New York Times games, or getting out and shooting film photography. I also love anything artsy craftsy, riding my bike, and listening to music. While I am somebody that says I listen to every genre, I am, admittedly, a huge fan of midwest emo and some pretty killer sad girl indie.

The moment we’ve all been waiting for! 🥁🥁🥁 as previously mentioned, I am only looking for something long term and sustainable. while i’m okay with starting out online, I don’t want to pursue a connection that has no possibility of closing the distance in the near future. Yes, I am looking for a dom, but I’m also looking for a partner and best friend! BDSM does not work for me if I don’t develop a connection with the person outside of sex.

In the bedroom, i am very very very submissive. I do NOT have a dominant bone in my body. I have an end goal of free use/tpe, so hopefully you do too! in terms of kink, I’ve listed a few of my own below. I’m pretty much open to trying anything once, and obviously will share hard limits when the time comes.

You, on the other hand, are calm and gentle, yet strict with a guiding presence. I know it sounds a bit contradictory, but I believe that the right person will be able to deliver the strictness I need in a kind, loving manner. Think of your typical daddy type. For me, my partner is somebody to look up and act as a guiding force. Age wise, preferably you are early 30s - mid 40s, but I’m more than willing to make exceptions on either end if we click.

• ⁠bondage

• ⁠orgasm control

• ⁠drool/spit

• ⁠praise

• ⁠cnc

• ⁠somno

• ⁠impact play

• ⁠semi-public play

• ⁠breeding

• ⁠misogyny play

• ⁠gagging

• ddlg

• ⁠LIGHT pet play

⁠& some more taboo stuff for me! Hopefully this covers everything!