u/infatuatedberry

hi y’all! as a fair warning, this might be a tad long, so hopefully you can bare with me. gotta get in as many details as possible! i am looking for something long term, monogamous, and genuine. if you do not want a combination of these three things, i am NOT the gal for you.

before we get into the nitty gritty, i figured i’d share a bit about me. you can call me em for now. i am 23 and college educated. i’m 5’1 and a pretty curvy girl (nsfw pics on profile). while i don’t show them off on here, i am pretty heavily tattooed! if that’s not your thing, move along pls. i’m a serial hobby collector, but in my free time you can most likely catch me reading a book, doing the daily new york times games, or getting out and about doing film photography. i also love movies, riding my bike, writing poetry, and listening to music! while i DO love everything, my favorite genres are, admittedly, midwest emo and some pretty killer sad girl indie.

now, the moment we’ve all been waiting for! as previously mentioned, i am only looking for something long term and sustainable. yes, i am looking for a dom, but i am also looking for a partner and best friend! bdsm does not work for me if i don’t develop a connection with the person outside of sex.

preferably YOU are calm and gentle, yet strict with a firm hand. while it sounds contradictory at first, i think the right person will be able to deliver the strictness that i need in a kind, loving manner. think of your very typical daddy type partner. i am very busy and also have adhd, so helping to keep me on track is huge. for me, my partner is somebody to look up to and act as a guiding hand. i am looking for a true provider. age wise, preferably you are mid 20s - early 40s, but i will make exceptions on either end if we really click!

in the bedroom, i am very very very submissive. i do NOT have a dominant bone in my body. i have an end goal of free use/tpe, so hopefully you do too! in terms of kink, feel free to ask! i’m pretty much open to trying anything once, and obviously will share hard limits when the time comes.

hopefully this covers everything! if you have any questions, feel free to ask. can’t wait to hear from y’all soon!