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My wife told me early on that her and a friend picked up two black men in a bar and took them back to her friends house.

The story however changed over time and I always felt there was more to it….initially the guy was hung like a horse but this gradually changed to “pretty big” …… and then finally I got the real version

The bit about them picking up two black guys who were over from the US taking kids basketball camps was true, they did take them back to her friends places and they did bring them upstairs to separate bedrooms just like she said.

My wife and her new friend got naked, some foreplay and quickly got down to sex - he had a decent size cock - about 7 or 8 inches and thick. She recalls the sex was good and as she was on all fours getting it from behind she could hear her friend getting it very very hard in the next room.

The story started to get interesting when she says her friend went quiet next door and suddenly the lights in the bedroom went on. She looked up to see her friend standing there and asked how big my wife’s man was. The guy riding my wife was kneeling on the bed, fully erect penis in full view as her friend looked at it and asked if they could swop. My wife agreed, the guy and her friend left and the other guy came in.

She looked in disbelief as the new guy approached the bed with a rock hard cock that had just been inside her friend - and substantially bigger than his colleagues.

At this stage she was lying on her back and without any talking, kissing or foreplay, he lined up and slid straight into her - the difference was noticeable. For the next 40 minutes this guy drilled her in every position, hard unemotional fucking and by the time he was done she was too exhausted to worry about him cumming deep inside her.

For years I thought my wife had only experienced one BBC, the truth is she had two - on the same night.

My wife has been fucking other men for over 3 years - straightforward setup whereby she travels, hooks up and tells me about it when she returns.

Lately I’ve told her I want more involvement- proving to be tricky as she doesn’t feel she would be comfortable with me watching and definitely not comfortable humiliating me.

This weekend we learnt that an ex FWB was travelling over from the US - I pitched the idea of involving him in something and it was received surprisingly well. This guy is the brother in law of her best friend and over 48 hours a deal has been brokered that, next weekend he is going to have sex with my wife. I will not be watching but for the first time will be involved in the build up including drop off and collection.

Whilst there is no first humiliation involved I’m very content that he is very physically different to me -
6 ft 4, well built, older very handsome man with a good size cock. In the past she told me that they fucked 3 or 4 times and that he was a very good lover.

So the build up is on and I’m looking for suggestions that can keep me involved while giving them space to do their thing??

My wife has been fucking other men for over 3 years - straightforward setup whereby she travels, hooks up and tells me about it when she returns.

Lately I’ve told her I want more involvement- proving to be tricky as she doesn’t feel she would be comfortable with me watching and definitely not comfortable humiliating me.

This weekend we learnt that an ex FWB was travelling over from the US - I pitched the idea of involving him in something and it was received surprisingly well. This guy is the brother in law of her best friend and over 48 hours a deal has been brokered that, next weekend he is going to have sex with my wife. I will not be watching but for the first time will be involved in the build up including drop off and collection.

Whilst there is no first humiliation involved I’m very content that he is very physically different to me -
6 ft 4, well built, older very handsome man with a good size cock. In the past she told me that they fucked 3 or 4 times and that he was a very good lover.

So the build up is on and I’m looking for suggestions that can keep me involved while giving them space to do their thing??

My wife has been fucking other men for over 3 years - straightforward setup whereby she travels, hooks up and tells me about it when she returns.

Lately I’ve told her I want more involvement- proving to be tricky as she doesn’t feel she would be comfortable with me watching and definitely not comfortable humiliating me.

This weekend we learnt that an ex FWB was travelling over from the US - I pitched the idea of involving him in something and it was received surprisingly well. This guy is the brother in law of her best friend and over 48 hours a deal has been brokered that, next weekend he is going to have sex with my wife. I will not be watching but for the first time will be involved in the build up including drop off and collection.

Whilst there is no first humiliation involved I’m very content that he is very physically different to me -
6 ft 4, well built, older very handsome man with a good size cock. In the past she told me that they fucked 3 or 4 times and that he was a very good lover.

So the build up is on and I’m looking for suggestions that can keep me involved while giving them space to do their thing??

Out of all the questions I’ve asked about her past this was the best. It took a while to convince her that I could handle the answer and requires complete honesty on her part. I think I originally asked if she could relive one night what would it be?? It took a few tries and some alcohol….

Turns out it was an easy question - the first time she had sex with her ex just before me.

The chemistry was “off the charts”, he gave her her first multi orgasm and he was able to go several rounds in a night.

I’ve met him a few times since she told me. It’s quite humbling.

My wife thinks she had a near 50:50 split of guys she took bare vs those that wore condoms. I once asked how she decided who did and who didn’t.

Very simple answer - it was up to the guy.

My wife has been sleeping with other men for nearly 4 years - I don’t watch or have any involvement other than her telling me about her encounters. The arrangement is our way of addressing issues that I have regarding stamina and works well for us.

Lately I have had a desire to get more involved - I’m thinking a lot about watching her with another man and finding the idea of some humiliation appealing.

I brought my feelings up last night and for the first time I feel we are on different pages. For her, the idea of me being present and bending humiliated are not something she is comfortable at all with. She told me that she respects me too much to bring that dynamic into our lives and I sort of get where she is coming from.

Has anyone else found themselves in this position? I’m not going to be forcing her into something she doesn’t like but I’d also maybe like to find some middle ground/ move things forward a little.

My wife has been sleeping with other men for nearly 4 years - I don’t watch or have any involvement other than her telling me about her encounters. The arrangement is our way of addressing issues that I have regarding stamina and works well for us.

Lately I have had a desire to get more involved - I’m thinking a lot about watching her with another man and finding the idea of some humiliation appealing.

I brought my feelings up last night and for the first time I feel we are on different pages. For her, the idea of me being present and bending humiliated are not something she is comfortable at all with. She told me that she respects me too much to bring that dynamic into our lives and I sort of get where she is coming from.

Has anyone else found themselves in this position? I’m not going to be forcing her into something she doesn’t like but I’d also maybe like to find some middle ground/ move things forward a little.

My wife and her then boyfriend went to a bar together back when they were in uni.

He hung with some friends while she ended going upstairs to the disco with some girls from her class slightly pissed at him for ignoring her all night.

In the disco she got with a guy that she’d seen around and quite fancied- good looking footballer in one of the university teams.

Kissing in a dark corner quickly became more with him feeling her tits and ass and her rubbing his erect cock over his trousers.

She says realised where things were headed and told him that she lived around the corner. They went outside separately and met up again out of sight. On the short walk to her apartment thing heated up again, they stopped to kiss when there was no one on the street, her hand down his boxers pulling him off and his hand up her short skirt fingering her until they heard people approaching.

Once inside her building they kissed again, this time she unzipped him and took his cock out and quickly getting on her knees. He pulled her up and sat her on the stairs, she instinctively spread her legs, pulled up her skirt and pushed her underwear to the side. He quickly buried his head between her legs and soon decided to remove her knickers before diving back in.

She knew she was never going to come and without any talk of contraception she told him to put it in. For a couple of minutes he rode her on the stairs before asking where he should come and was told anywhere except inside, he pulled out and blew a load over skimpy top and slightly getting her neck.

It didn’t last long, she was both relieved and disappointed. She wanted more but it was uncomfortable and knew it was a matter of time before someone saw them.

She went to her apartment to get cleaned, wiping the cum of her top and neck before going back to the disco- about 45 minutes since she left it. Once inside her boyfriend quickly found her and the rest of the night was as normal.

She took her boyfriend back to her place that night, smiling to herself as she walked up the stairs she been fucked on earlier. To this day her boyfriend never knew that he was the second guy inside her that night and never noticed the crispy remains of another guys cum on her top.

We live in a smallish town that we both grew up and worked in when we were younger. My wife had a reputation for being easy and dozens of guys in the area have had her.

I should be embarrassed but I love knowing that’s what they think of her when they see her around.

We’d talked briefly about my wife getting with other men, or rather I had suggested it and she had showed little in the way of interest. She’d never said no but it was difficult to see it happening given her levels of enthusiasm.

That changed when we attended a friends wedding in the south of France. Among the guests was a guy that she had history with, infact he was the guy that split us up in our early days with her telling me there was someone else she fancied. He was the guy who fucked her on their first date, told her he didn’t use condoms and the guy who left her needing a morning after pill. He was also the guy who ghosted her after that and subsequently gave me a second chance.

I felt a slight twinge in my stomach when I noticed them talking that first evening and an even bigger twinge later that night when she told me that he said he would be up for no stings attached sex if she was. When I asked her thoughts she answered “probably not”. It didn’t stop her talking to him some more later that night at the bar though.

The next morning we got ready for the wedding, I watched as she laid out her dress that she agonised over for hours before buying and watched in disbelief as she put on her underwear.

She had packed a pair of big pull in shorts / knickers that gave her the “right shape” in her dress, but that plan seemed to have changed as I watched her put on a small lacy thong and a matching bra.

And that was the moment that i knew my wife was going to fuck another man.

I kept a close eye on them all evening, noticed him slipping off and her shortly afterwards. I watched from a distance as they started kissing and got I quietly closer just in time to see him turn her around and lift her dress up. I watched as he took out his cock, moved the white thong to the side and slip inside her. It seems he hadn’t changed his stance on the use of condoms, he hammered her hard for a few minutes before unloading inside her. They quickly got themselves together and left before I made my way back to the party.

That night in bed she rejected my advances, nervously telling me “something happened tonight”. I think she knew that I knew- we cuddled and went to sleep.

The next morning we didn’t talk much about it- I asked if it was good and she said yes. I asked if we could have sex and she said no. We didn’t fuck again on that trip although she did spend a few hours with her old friend.

I’ve never watched her with a man since and they never got together again after that trip but it did ignite her interest in being with other men. I see him every now and again, he probably thinks I’d hit him if I knew but the truth is I’d like to buy him a beer - he helped start a dynamic that has shaped our relationship.

We’d talked briefly about my wife getting with other men, or rather I had suggested it and she had showed little in the way of interest. She’d never said no but it was difficult to see it happening given her levels of enthusiasm.

That changed when we attended a friends wedding in the south of France. Among the guests was a guy that she had history with, infact he was the guy that split us up in our early days with her telling me there was someone else she fancied. He was the guy who fucked her on their first date, told her he didn’t use condoms and the guy who left her needing a morning after pill. He was also the guy who ghosted her after that and subsequently gave me a second chance.

I felt a slight twinge in my stomach when I noticed them talking that first evening and an even bigger twinge later that night when she told me that he said he would be up for no stings attached sex if she was. When I asked her thoughts she answered “probably not”. It didn’t stop her talking to him some more later that night at the bar though.

The next morning we got ready for the wedding, I watched as she laid out her dress that she agonised over for hours before buying and watched in disbelief as she put on her underwear.

She had packed a pair of big pull in shorts / knickers that gave her the “right shape” in her dress, but that plan seemed to have changed as I watched her put on a small lacy thong and a matching bra.

And that was the moment that i knew my wife was going to fuck another man.

I kept a close eye on them all evening, noticed him slipping off and her shortly afterwards. I watched from a distance as they started kissing and got I quietly closer just in time to see him turn her around and lift her dress up. I watched as he took out his cock, moved the white thong to the side and slip inside her. It seems he hadn’t changed his stance on the use of condoms, he hammered her hard for a few minutes before unloading inside her. They quickly got themselves together and left before I made my way back to the party.

That night in bed she rejected my advances, nervously telling me “something happened tonight”. I think she knew that I knew- we cuddled and went to sleep.

The next morning we didn’t talk much about it- I asked if it was good and she said yes. I asked if we could have sex and she said no. We didn’t fuck again on that trip although she did spend a few hours with her old friend.

I’ve never watched her with a man since and they never got together again after that trip but it did ignite her interest in being with other men. I see him every now and again, he probably thinks I’d hit him if I knew but the truth is I’d like to buy him a beer - he helped start a dynamic that has shaped our relationship.

Anyone else got small things that make a story really good?

I love it when the Mrs describes wearing a halter neck top or dress that gave a guy easy access to her tits.

I’ve never told her - so when she mentions it I know she’s not saying it just to please me.

It’s the little things !!

Our relationship got off to a shaky start and we split briefly before getting back together and within about a month we ended up going to a nice hotel for a night. I got the impression that she was trying extra hard to make things work and was happy when I saw her outfit for dinner, a short low cut dress that, back then would have been considered very risqué.

During dinner she told me she had a present for me when we got back to the room and we ended up skipping after dinner drinks. When we got to the room she told me to sit on the chair, put on some music and pushed my feet apart.

For the next 15 minutes she grinded and teased me with a striptease, gradually removing the dress, a push up bra and a matching tiny thong. Early in the routine I tried to touch her but was told no and it ended with her taking my jeans down and giving me an all too brief blowjob before swallowing my load.

Lying beside her afterwards I asked what my present was for and started a conversation that gave me my first taste of hotpast. She told me it was a thank you for taking her back and then told me I did well .

When I asked what she ment she told that one guy she did that for came in his boxer shorts but followed that with “but then again he got the x rated version”

I felt my cock k getting hard and had to ask…. apparently she’d done this for 5 or 6 guys before me and while there was always a no hands rule the first few were allowed lick and kiss her.

Hard as a rock I asked where they kissed her and learnt the first few guys got to lick her tits, eat her out and taste her asshole. It was when a guy was eating her ass that he came, they were on the bed and she says she was facing away from him and noticed a damp spot in his underwear and him slowing down on her ass. She asked if he came and he apologised - says she learnt a lot from that.

Part of me wishes I had gotten the x rated version that night but part of me is so turned on that there’s a coupe of guys out there who have seen my girl up close and personal under the lights of a hotel room, who’ve tasted her and hopefully still think of the present she gave them.

Occasionally in the past my wife has thrown snippets of her past into an argument to either make me jealous or humiliate me. She soon realised it didn’t work!!

This happen to anyone else?

My wife has started working alongside a student nurse whose she’s spending a lot of time with.

Last night she commented how different young people were nowadays, her new colleagues had had a steady boyfriend, goes hiking, plays football and doesn’t really drink that much.

I suspected / hoped I knew what her answer would be when I asked what she was into at that age….

I’d much rather have had a girl who preferred to have sex than go walking lol.

Does anyone enjoy looking at old pictures from your wife’s past??

My wife has some old pictures that, while they appear mostly innocent, are perfect for some self pleasure when you know the back story.

They include…

A picture of her dancing in a bar, short dress and no bra, and an older guy in the background who she fu led later that night.

a picture of her and a friend in a hotel reception area before they went out. Later they picked up two guys in a bar and got fucked beside each others n sun lounger in n the beach.

A picture of her lying in bed, naked under the covers and taken after she’d had next morning sex with a guy who she says was her best one night stand.

A series of pictures taken on her 21st birthday with a male stripper. They include pics of her and the stripper passionately kissing and her putting her hand down his underwear.

A few pics of her in bed with random boys, some of whom names she doesn’t know. Her housemates took them thinking they were being funny!!

Knowing what happened before or after each picture turns it from fairly innocent to x rated every time.