23 [F4M] [F4TF] #Online #Europe Domme looking for long term sub and genuine connection
I'm looking to start getting to know someone online and then once comfortable meeting irl, so you don't have to be in Europe as long as you're willing to travel
I'm a 23 yr old woman and I had an immigrant with an international upbringing so let's just go with that and skip all the small talk around that lol. I'm a huge bookworm (mainly fantasy, romantasy, horror, and gothic lit), crocheting (will 100% crochet you gifts), and watching movies and tv shows. I have a big personality and am more on the extroverted side, and I love cracking jokes and doing bits with people who have similar humor to me. I'm a more passionate/fiery kind of person, I can be fairly blunt at times, and am more on the emotional side. I'm a leftist and believe very strongly in my morals and values. I talk a lot about wanting someone who will be kind, patient, and support me as I sometimes struggle with my mental health, but I obviously would offer the same and want the dynamic to be equally fulfilling. I will be kind to you if you're kind to me.
What I'm looking for: Someone between the ages of around 21-24 (will of course need proof before getting into anything sexual), and preferably someone who is a native English speaker like me who also lives in Europe since I just don't want any language barriers. Someone who I can have a long term, MONOGAMOUS dynamic with who also looks for personal connection and chemistry as well as the freaky stuff BUT I'm not looking to rush things. Since I'm more on the emotional side I am NOT looking for anyone who is emotionally unavailable or apathetic. It would also be nice to be with someone who's more clingy as I'm a bit clingy lol. I want a sub who is kind, who's a good communicator, and who can support me and stick by me, and who is also obedient and doesn't mind someone who's more bossy and if things are a bit imbalanced since I like having a say and being respected, though obviously boundaries are allowed. I just want a cute guy to obsess over me low-key and whose main priority is to make me happy and make me feel satisfied. But of course someone who genuinely gets to know me and tries to connect with me. I like a decent amount of attention and texting every day. I'm definitely wanting to travel to meet someone in the long term but I'm tired but being ghosted so please only respond if you actually want to see a dynamic through and form a nice and wholesome connection. I enjoy vcing so when I find the right person there'll be a lot of that! And texting of course
My type/preference: I've lived in Europe most of my life lol so I usually go for people with fair skin, someone who's average weight is completely fine but I also don't mind someone who's on the skinnier side. Any hair or eye color is fine although I don't really like buzz cuts or anything on the super short side. I also really prefer someone with not a lot of facial, back, chest, or stomach hair. Genuinely everywhere else is fine though. I prefer someone at least a bit taller than me (I'm 5'6 so preferably someone 5'8 and above). Someone who has a stupid sense of humor like me and like I said someone who is a native English speaker like me. It's just been much better for chemistry and banter in my experience. Otherwise I'm open to all amabs! Alternatively, I also love femboys and twinks so if fall into that category pls shoot me a message as well
A bit about how I look: Like I said I'm 5'6, I'm average weight but a bit on the skinnier side, I have long dark brown hair, dark eyes, and olive skin. I'm more alternative where I mainly wear darker clothes and I have a couple of facial piercings.
What I'm NOT looking for: Someone who messages me immediately calling me mommy or mistress saying like heyyyy I can be your slave. That's weird and disrespectful and I will immediately block anyone who is being creepy like that. Low effort messages that are like 5 words long. Someone who is far right or just doesn't have any opinions and doesn't stand with the LGBTQ, the trans, or POC community or someone who is just indifferent. I hate bigotry and I want someone who feels the same. I do not separate art from the artist. I'm not looking for anything short term or purely sexual, and I don't enjoy normal things like my voice or my body being randomly sexualized. So generally anyone who's a creep or a dickhead can pls leave me alone. Also I don't like people with no personality who don't know how to be anything but formal
My kinks: worship, nipple play, boob play, hair pulling, getting eaten out, people moaning and whimpering, free-use, food play, outdoors, dressing up and roleplay, denial, joi, edging, light slapping, light spit play, light biting, curious about pet play, curious about sex outside and probably many more lol. I can be equally gentle and teasing and rough
My limits: feet, age play, race play, mommy dom/mdlg, sounding, sweat, sounding, cbt, piss, scat, armpits, cuckolding, blood or anything intense and I'll mention anything else I've forgotten if it comes up in our conversation
So! You've reached the end! I know it was a lot but I think all of it is important and I truly appreciate if you took the time to get to know me a bit and read this entire post. I'm really just trying to find the right person for me and someone I can really hit it off with. I'm looking for affection and attention as much as I am a kinky dynamic so yeah. Please just message with the best intentions, don't be a creep, respect my preferences and I hope to meet my future sub/friend soon!