Doesn't remember?

We've been married for 25 years. Whenever I ask her about her past she just just says she can't remember. What are the odds of this being true? I sure remember my previous fucks before her.

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u/joecanter19799 — 6 hours ago

Pumping for girth newbie

Fairly new to pumping. When I first got my pump I was consistent for the first month or so but since then it's been harder to get back into it.

I'm not interested in gaining anymore length as my wife can't really handle much more but I'm definitely wanting some more girth.

I'm currently working with a 2 inch tube. I can fill it girth wise for about half of the length of my shaft but I can't seem to get it to fill any further up. Is this just something that I need to keep working with or should I get a bigger tube?

Any girth specific tips would be appreciated. Thanks

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u/joecanter19799 — 1 day ago

Loss of attraction

For a bit of context, I'm 46 and my wife's 51. We've been married for 22 years.

I seem to go through stages where I'm just not attracted to her and sex is the last thing I want to do with her. But then at other times I go absolutely crazy for her and we'll have sex multiple times a week. I literally won't be able to keep my hands off her.

I'm not sure what's wrong with me but shes starting to notice and assume I don't find her attractive anymore.

This only seems to have started in the last couple of years.

Has anyone gone through something like this and is there anyway to improve the situation? At the moment I'm trying to act like I still want her all the time even though I don't.

Thanks.

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u/joecanter19799 — 12 days ago

Looking for married guys in similar situation

47 married to 51. I haven't shared her yet but it's definitely a goal. She's aware but its a slow process and not sure she'll ever agree but we seem to be making progress sometimes.

Would love to chat to guys in similar situation either in here or telegram.

Thanks

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u/joecanter19799 — 20 days ago
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Wife starting to show signs

Long story. My wife knows I want her to sleep with other guys. We've roleplayed it in the past but I think I pushed too hard and she backed off.

Recently the topic came up again during some play time. She asked me why I like it and I said it was all about seeing her being pleasured, which she was ok with.

Then later she mentioned that she likes the idea of guys flirting with her and being attracted to her. She doesn't have much confidence in her appearance and she mentioned multiple guys being attracted to her would be a turn on but she wouldn't sleep with them.

Then later she showed me a picture of a dress that she is thinking of buying that is low cut so it shows off her cleavage. She said it would be for when she goes out. She was quick to say she doesn't want everyone starring and that it was more for me to look at

What I'm wondering is if anyone has been in a similar situation and how they encouraged the situation? Also any advice given it's a delicate situation and that I've pushed too hard in the past with a huge set back because of it.

Thanks.

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u/joecanter19799 — 21 days ago

Wand vs bullet vibe

My wife needs a vibrator to cum. We've amused a cheap bullet vibe but it's finally wearing out.

I brought her a wevibe tango but she finds its too pinpoint. She can also find the right "spot" is difficult to find and struggles sometimes to keep it there long enough for her to cum.

I'm looking into buying her a wand thinking it may work better for her and help her get there quicker.

Just wondering if anyone has used both or if they have a favourite etc?

Thanks.

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u/joecanter19799 — 1 month ago