u/maybeyoursmaybeyours

51 [M4F] #online only: looking for something genuine and real. Looking for a woman who wants that and also wants to explore her dominant/assertive side.

Hello and hope you are well. First, I want to say that I am married but I am not here because I'm simply bored with life and looking for a cheap thrill. I am not here for something that will just come and go. I want meaning and fulfillment and am serious about finding and developing that. In my experience, this may sound good to some people in theory but the reality of achieving and sustaining that requires consistent follow through and genuinely wanting that and many are not up for that or don't truly want that. Reality. Hoping to find someone that is looking for the same as I and as the title highlights, with a power dynamic. You can ask me more about that privately. I really don't require you to be experienced with that side of it either. We can explore that together and it can be fun. What I really require is you to be real and genuine and be communicative and dependable. Obviously, chemistry and attraction is important but it is important to be on the same page with what is valued and needed. In terms of age, anyone younger than me but i generally see the range of 28-40 as ideal.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 7 hours ago

51 [M4F] #online only: looking for something genuine and real. Looking for a woman who also wants to explore her dominant/assertive side.

Hello and hope you are well. I would like to start by saying that I am not here because I'm simply bored with life and looking for a cheap thrill. I am not here for something that will just come and go. I want meaning and fulfillment and am serious about finding and developing that. In my experience, this may sound good to some people in theory but the reality of achieving and sustaining that requires consistent follow through and genuinely wanting that and many are not up for that or don't truly want that. Reality. Hoping to find someone that is looking for the same as I and as the title highlights, with a power dynamic. You can ask me more about that privately. I really don't require you to be experienced with that side of it either. We can explore that together and it can be fun. What I really require is you to be real and genuine and be communicative and dependable. Obviously, chemistry and attraction is important but it is important to be on the same page with what is valued and needed. In terms of age, anyone younger than me but i generally see the range of 28-40 as ideal.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 4 days ago

51 [M4F] #online only but long term: looking for woman that will take charge and be assertive once things feel right.

Hi. I think it would be nice to have someone on my side and to be on their side. Someone that isn't just bored and looking for short term entertainment...someone serious and genuine. I will leave it at that!!! But yes, I do want to pursue having a dominant partner and explore fun things related to that too. I prefer women younger than me but hey, I'm 51 so that should not be too hard! I would like to just chat and see what happens. I'm very open minded and serious about a connection that will be meaningful.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 6 days ago

51 [M4F] #online only but long term: looking for woman that will take charge and be assertive once things feel right.

Hi. I think it would be nice to have someone on my side and to be on their side. Someone that isn't just bored and looking for short term entertainment...someone serious and genuine. I will leave it at that!!! But yes, I do want to pursue having a dominant partner and explore fun things related to that too. I prefer women younger than me but hey, I'm 51 so that should not be too hard! I would like to just chat and see what happens. I'm very open minded and serious about a connection that will be meaningful.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 6 days ago

51 [M4F] #online only but long term: looking for woman that will take charge and be assertive once things feel right.

Hi. I think it would be nice to have someone on my side and to be on their side. Someone that isn't just bored and looking for short term entertainment...someone serious and genuine. I will leave it at that!!! But yes, I do want to pursue having a dominant partner and explore fun things too. I prefer women younger than me but hey, I'm 51 so that should not be too hard! I would like to just chat and see what happens. I'm very open minded.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 7 days ago

51 [M4F] #online only but long term: looking for woman that will take charge and be assertive once things feel right.

Hi. I think it would be nice to have someone on my side and to be on their side. Someone that isn't just bored and looking for short term entertainment...someone serious and genuine. I will leave it at that!!! But yes, I do want to pursue having a dominant partner and explore fun things too. I prefer women younger than me but hey, I'm 51 so that should not be too hard! I would like to just chat and see what happens.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 8 days ago

51 [M4F] #online only but long term: looking for woman that will take charge and be assertive once things feel right.

Hi. I think it would be nice to have someone on my side and to be on their side. Someone that isn't just bored and looking for short term entertainment...someone serious and genuine. I will leave it at that!!! But yes, I do want to pursue having a dominant partner and explore fun things too.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 8 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I suppose people may often want what they give which is true in my case. I am genuine and dependable. So, if you like that kind of thing, well here you go.

I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules for me (things that make you feel fulfilled in the relationship). Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 9 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I suppose people may often want what they give which is true in my case. I am genuine and dependable. So, if you like that kind of thing, well here you go.

I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive towards me. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules for me (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 9 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I suppose people may often want what they give which is true in my case. I am genuine and dependable. So, if you like that kind of thing, well here you go.

I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive towards me. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules for me (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 9 days ago

51[M4F] #online looking, looking, looking for genuine and caring assertive woman. Something that will last!

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Hi. I hope you are doing well. I see there are a sea of ads here and this sort of thing is kind of niche. I am not sure what to expect but it seems worth a try. Certainly much that can be gained!  I am a business person and have creative hobbies. I am structured, consistent and somewhat intelligent. I am in a bad marriage and looking for connection, not just exploring kinks. Given I am married, being discreet is important. I need meaning and substance. I am not that familiar with this sort of thing either and I definitely am not naturally submissive in any way but I can be and I am willing learn to be for the right person. I had one experience and it was very suiting to me and with the right person I know it can be very good. It has to be the right person where there is a connection. I believe that it all starts with building emotional trust and I hope we can develop deep affection. That brings security and fulfillment. To have someone that acts out of care and wants to give me rules and gets fulfillment from my obedience is what I really hope for. I have a creative and gentle, vulnerable side that I want someone to tap into and appreciate it and see the real me. I want to see the real you. I dont know of any other way.

In terms of kinks, I like to explore things and am very open to what you want. I want to feel owned and controlled in a caring way. It starts with that. To help me feel dominated, rules and firm language when needed are good. Some forms of feminization will also help me feel owned. I also would like to explore chastity, edging, denial, remote butt plug too. I want to be molded and shaped and nurtured. Nothing extreme I don't think, but not sure. I am very sexually motivated and maybe it is a weakness or barrier. Hopefully you can use that to your advantage and help me achieve my best self and hopefully I can do things that will result in the same.

I do like women younger than me and physical attraction is important too. I do not jump into calling people by titles or get into exploring anything dynamic related until we know each other. I do prefer for you to lead the conversation, especially at first. I find small talk difficult and it is best for you to lead. I would like to chat first and go at a regular pace and see how it develops. I do value intelligence but a caring and affectionate woman overrides any need for that too. Connection can come in different ways and I am open to that.

Thank you for reading all of this and if you feel that this interests you, I would like to chat more and see where it goes.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 10 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 10 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 11 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 11 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Taking the connection seriously is really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 11 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Connection and affection are really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. This is new to me. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 12 days ago

51 [M4F] #online - looking for woman under 40. Someone curious about being in control and exploring their assertive side with longevity in mind

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Getting to know each other comes first. Connection and affection are really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. This is new to me. There are some fun things we can explore and it can be meaningful.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 12 days ago

Hi. I hope you are doing well. I see there are a sea of ads here and this sort of thing is kind of niche. I am not sure what to expect but it seems worth a try. Certainly much that can be gained!  I am a business person and have creative hobbies. I am structured, consistent and somewhat intelligent. I am in a bad marriage and looking for connection, not just exploring kinks. Given I am married, being discreet is important. I need meaning and substance. I am not that familiar with this sort of thing either and I definitely am not naturally submissive in any way but I can be and I am willing learn to be for the right person. I had one experience and it was very suiting to me and with the right person I know it can be very good. It has to be the right person where there is a connection. I believe that it all starts with building emotional trust and I hope we can develop deep affection. That brings security and fulfillment. To have someone that acts out of care and wants to give me rules and gets fulfillment from my obedience is what I really hope for. I have a creative and gentle, vulnerable side that I want someone to tap into and appreciate it and see the real me. I want to see the real you. I dont know of any other way.

In terms of kinks, I like to explore things and am very open to what you want. I want to feel owned and controlled in a caring way. It starts with that. To help me feel dominated, rules and firm language when needed are good. Some forms of feminization will also help me feel owned. I also would like to explore chastity, edging, denial, remote butt plug too. I want to be molded and shaped and nurtured. Nothing extreme I don't think, but not sure. I am very sexually motivated and maybe it is a weakness or barrier. Hopefully you can use that to your advantage and help me achieve my best self and hopefully I can do things that will result in the same.

I do like women younger than me and physical attraction is important too. I do not jump into calling people by titles or get into exploring anything dynamic related until we know each other. I do prefer for you to lead the conversation, especially at first. I find small talk difficult and it is best for you to lead. I would like to chat first and go at a regular pace and see how it develops. I do value intelligence but a caring and affectionate woman overrides any need for that too. Connection can come in different ways and I am open to that.

Thank you for reading all of this and if you feel that this interests you, I would like to chat more and see where it goes.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 17 days ago

Greetings. I am married and want a connection and dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules (things that make you feel fulfilled in relationship). I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Connection and consistency and affection are really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. This is new to me. There are some fun things we can explore.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 17 days ago

Greetings. I am married and want a dynamic with someone dependable and genuine. I think it will be fun and fulfilling to explore things with someone that wants to be assertive. I like someone to be controlling and to establish rules. I want to explore kinks related to this and be normal with each other too. Honestly, I'm a tough nut to crack, so to speak but I think this kind of arrangement may help me. Connection and consistency are really important to me. Just online and no rush for things. There are some fun things we can explore.

Thanks for reading.

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u/maybeyoursmaybeyours — 19 days ago