u/melancholystarbright

I'm looking for a friend with benefits/sub who is open to incorporating bdsm in the bedroom. I'm fairly experienced and have explored bdsm on and off for a number of years so if you're new to it I'm happy to take things slow and guide you. I'd love to actually take time to get to know each other and chill (hikes, shows, dinners, etc). I recently finished grad school and I'm not planning on staying in Vancouver indefinitely so this thing would come with an expiration date and I'm not really looking for anything super serious. That said, I'm not poly or otherwise into juggling multiple partners and I do value a good emotional connection. I'm caucasian with green eyes and not awful to look at (promise). Very discreet and I am able to host. I tend to be most attracted to someone who is fit. Kinks include bondage (rope, handcuffs, etc), spanking, cnc, instructing my sub what to wear, orgasm control and more. If any of this sounds intriguing shoot me a message with a short introduction.

I'm looking for a friend with benefits/sub who is open to incorporating bdsm in the bedroom. I'm fairly experienced and have explored bdsm on and off for a number of years so if you're new to it I'm happy to take things slow and guide you. I'd love to actually take time to get to know each other and chill (hikes, shows, dinners, etc). I recently finished grad school and I'm not planning on staying in Vancouver indefinitely so this thing would come with an expiration date and I'm not really looking for anything super serious. That said, I'm not poly or otherwise into juggling multiple partners and I do value a good emotional connection. I'm caucasian with green eyes and not awful to look at (promise). I am able to host and I tend to be most attracted to someone who is fit. Kinks include bondage (rope, handcuffs, etc), spanking, cnc, instructing my sub what to wear, orgasm control and more. If any of this sounds intriguing shoot me a message with a short introduction.

I'm looking for a friend with benefits/sub who is open to incorporating bdsm in the bedroom. I'm fairly experienced and have explored bdsm on and off for a number of years so if you're new to it I'm happy to take things slow and guide you. I'd love to actually take time to get to know each other and chill (hikes, shows, dinners, etc). I recently finished grad school and I'm not planning on staying in Vancouver indefinitely so this thing would come with an expiration date and I'm not really looking for anything super serious. That said, I'm not poly or otherwise into juggling multiple partners and I do value a good emotional connection. I'm caucasian with green eyes and not awful to look at (promise). Very discreet and I am able to host. I tend to be most attracted to someone who is fit. Kinks include bondage (rope, handcuffs, etc), spanking, cnc, instructing my sub what to wear, orgasm control and more. If any of this sounds intriguing shoot me a message with a short introduction.

I'm in a relationship and looking for a discreet chat partner who's also attached or married. I'm not looking for anything super serious right away honestly, more so just looking for someone laid back who I can chill and vibe well with to get my mind off life matters. I'm a fan of voice chats and don't mind the occasional Facetime either. Physically I've been told I'm pretty cute, I'm mixed race but look more white, I have nice eyes, and am often mistaken for being Greek or Italian.

My job and personal life keep me busy but when I have time to myself I love being in the outdoors. The PNW is one of the most beautiful regions in the world imo and I feel very lucky to live here. I love photography, literature, true crime podcasts, horror movies, and I'm a big music buff and will forever be a fan of The Cure, The Smiths and The Smashing Pumpkins.

I value someone who is is easy going, kind, empathetic and conventionally attractive. Ideally you are an animal & nature lover and health conscious (except for those days where we'll drink copious amounts of wine and trauma dump to each other).

I'm in a relationship and looking for a discreet chat partner who's also attached or married. I'm not looking for anything super serious right away honestly, more so just looking for someone laid back who I can chill and vibe well with to get my mind off life matters. I'm a fan of voice chats and don't mind the occasional Facetime either. Physically I've been told I'm pretty cute, I'm mixed race but look more white, I have nice eyes, and am often mistaken for being Greek or Italian.

My job and personal life keep me busy but when I have time to myself I love being in the outdoors. The PNW is one of the most beautiful regions in the world imo and I feel very lucky to live here. I love photography, literature, true crime podcasts, horror movies, and I'm a big music buff and will forever be a fan of The Cure, The Smiths and The Smashing Pumpkins.

I value someone who is is easy going, kind, empathetic and conventionally attractive. Ideally you are an animal & nature lover and health conscious (except for those days where we'll drink copious amounts of wine and trauma dump to each other).