Early observations
I dabbled in being caged a few years back and it didn’t work great. Plastic cage was too big so I ultimately could “fuck it” and cum.
Was put in a position where I needed to not cum for days which has always been a challenge for me. I’m incredibly horny and sexual. Having a night without my partner meant free time and I worried I’d put myself in a position to cum. So, not trusting delivery times, I went to a local fetish store for a cage.
I was fitted by the clerk well enough in a metal piece. I instantly realized 2 things 1. It was so heavy I needed a support band/string 2. I loved it.
It had the opposite effect I thought it would. I felt manlier. I’m not exceptionally well endowed and the weight and added bulge was highly erotic. I felt instant calm; all of a sudden I was at peace with my cock and sex drive. It gave me this sense of control because the cage meant cumming was not a priority.
I got home and just watched some caged porn rubbing my nipples. I felt so one with my penis and my senses everywhere else heightened. I wasn’t getting hard and struggling either. I was just there, feeling in control. As someone who is a bit compulsively reliant on pornography, it was quite cathartic to just “turn it off” without cumming.
I want to explore this more. Lighter cages are in my future (the impracticality of metal is just obvious). V curious if others can relate here. Thanks!