u/pisceangel

This is gonna be a lengthy post, please take the time to read it. I am from and currently live in latin america but I’ll be moving to Italy on autumn, I want a irl relationship so that is why I’m sharing it from the beginning.

With my last relationship, I was able to finally experiment as a domme and there isn’t going back for me. While yeah I can go on a dating app and get tons of matches and maybe mediocre sex, I really don’t want that.

I’m on the gentler side of things. We can talk more about kinks after getting to know each other, but I’m mainly into people who are about my pleasure / servitude towards me first. I like praise, edging, orgasm control, cum play, teasing, and more things, but I don’t want to be seen as a kink dispenser, I just want you to keep in mind I am open to some things but not into really harsh stuff. In relation to this, I won’t respond to people jumping into calling me honorifics like “goddess” or “mistress” you don’t know me, it’s fake and yucky.

Outside of kinks, I’m a very artistic person. I live art in different forms, consuming it (reading, films, concerts, museums) or participating myself (writing, drawing). I love indie and alternative music in general, music is very important in my life. I love tattoos and have many of them and want more. I am a cat person but love all pets and animals alike! I am 1.73cm tall (5’8) and pretty chubby (yes my pfp is me). I’m also pretty pale and have brown curly hair.

Anyways, before this gets too long, I’m gonna be straight with you with what I need:

-I’m not interested in someone not willing to call, video call, and share photos (sfw mostly) with me. I will also share these things with you too it I trust you, so, I don’t expect EVERYTHING upfront but I don’t want someone that keeps it as a top secret thing as if they are doing anything illegal, mutual attraction is paramount to me.

-I’m open to people located elsewhere but it’s very unlikely to people outside of Europe unless you have the possibility to travel often and have things in person.

-Ages 22-32.

-About looks, I don’t have many preferences outside of hating facial and body hair, but even this is not set on stone and depends on the person and how much there is of it lol.

-You don’t need previous experience. All I’m asking for is that you don’t reach out to just to “experiment”. Ideally I want a relationship first and a dynamic second.

*I’m also not interested in polyamorous dynamics or anything non monogamous.

And, that’s it. I am pretty open to anyone that considers we might be compatible. I will only respond to messages that aren’t AI, low effort, or generic. (You don’t need lenghty paragraphs either) but I only am interested in people that is willing to make things work with me, and that shows from the beginning.

Hello! So, this is gonna be a lengthy post, please take the time to read it. I am from and currently live in latin america but I’ll be moving to Italy on autumn, I want a irl relationship so that is why I place it and share with from the beginning.

I have been familiarized with BDSM for a while. With my last relationship, I was able to finally experiment as a domme and there isn’t going back for me. While yeah I can go on a dating app and get tons of matches and maybe mediocre sex, I really don’t want that. I’m also tired of half assed “situationships” because people are too afraid to be upfront about what they want and how they feel for something committed.

I’m on the gentler side of things. We can talk more about kinks after getting to know each other, but I’m mainly into people who are about my pleasure / servitude towards me first. I like praise, edging, orgasm control, body worship, cum play, teasing, and more things, but I don’t want to be seen as a kink dispenser, I just want you to keep in mind I am open to some things but not into really harsh stuff. Also, I won’t respond to people jumping into calling me honorifics like “goddess” or “mistress” you don’t know me or what I like, it’s fake and yucky.

I have to reiterate, I want someone that looks after my pleasure first, someone that also derives pleasure from it. I’ve had other interactions with people where it was clear they wanted to be controlled and such but in a selfish way. I don’t wanna deal with that again.

Outside of kinks, I’m a very artistic person. I love art in different forms, consuming it (reading, films, concerts, museums) or participating myself (writing, drawing). I love indie and alternative music in general, music is very important in my life, I collect vinyls and cds although I have a small collection. I love tattoos and have many of them and want more. I am a cat person but love all pets and animals alike! I am 1.73cm tall (5’8) and pretty chubby. I’m also pretty pale and have brown curly hair so if you’re one of those fetichizing weirdos, no, I’m not gonna look like the latina you have in your head lol

Anyways, before this gets too long, I’m gonna be straight with you with what I need:

-I want a relationship first and a dynamic second.

-I’m not interested in someone not willing to call, video call, and share photos (sfw mostly) with me. I am someone with a very distinctive look and I will also share these things with you too it I trust you, so, I don’t expect EVERYTHING upfront but I don’t want someone that keeps it as a top secret thing as if they are doing anything illegal, mutual attraction is paramount to me.

-I’m open to people located elsewhere but within Europe is gonna be easier since I’ll be moving there.

-Ages 22-34. No, I don’t make exceptions, it’s already a wide range.

-About looks, I don’t have many preferences outside of hating facial and body hair, but even this is not set on stone and depends on the person and how much there is of it lol

And, that’s it. I am pretty open to anyone that considers we might be compatible. I will only respond to messages that aren’t AI, low effort, or generic. (You don’t need lenghty paragraphs either) but I only am interested in people that is willing to put in effort like I am, and that shows from the beginning.

Hello! So, this is gonna be a lengthy post, please take the time to read it. I am from and currently live in latin america but I’ll be moving to europe on autumn, I want a irl relationship so that is why I place it and share with from the beginning.

I have been familiarized with BDSM for a while. With my last relationship, I was able to finally experiment as a domme and there isn’t going back for me. While yeah I can go on a dating app and get tons of matches and maybe mediocre sex, I really don’t want that. I’m also tired of half assed “situationships” because people are too afraid to be upfront about what they want and how they feel. Now, that’s not to say that I wanna settle down with the first person that comes around. I only wanna entertain and follow through things with someone who I may actually be compatible with, otherwise, I’m perfectly fine staying single. And trust me that I can tell and get immediately thrown off when someone tries to mold themselves into what I want.

I’m on the gentler side of things. We can talk more about kinks after getting to know each other, but I’m mainly into people who are about my pleasure / servitude towards me first. I like praise, edging, orgasm control, cum play, teasing, and more things, but I don’t want to be seen as a kink dispenser, I just want you to keep in mind I am open to some things but not into really harsh stuff. Specially not ageplay (if I get one more message calling me mommy I’ll lose it) and while we are at it, I won’t respond to people jumping into calling me honorifics like “goddess” or “mistress” it’s fake and yucky.

Outside of kinks, I’m a very artistic person. I live art in different forms, consuming it (reading, films, concerts, museums) or participating myself (writing, drawing). I love indie and alternative music in general, music is very important in my life. I love tattoos and have many of them and want more. I am a cat person but love all pets and animals alike! I am 1.73cm tall (5’8) and pretty chubby. I’m also pretty pale and have brown curly hair so if you’re one of those fetichizing weirdos, no, I’m not gonna look like the latina you have in your head lol

Anyways, before this gets too long, I’m gonna be straight with you with what I need:

-I’m not interested in someone not willing to call, video call, and share photos (sfw mostly) with me. I am someone with a very distinctive look and I will also share these things with you too it I trust you, so, I don’t expect EVERYTHING upfront but I don’t want someone that keeps it as a top secret thing as if they are doing anything illegal, mutual attraction is paramount to me.

-I’m open to people located elsewhere but within Europe is gonna be easier to handle later on.

-Not interested in non monogamy at all.

-Ages 22-34. No, I don’t make exceptions, it’s already a good range.

-About looks, I don’t have many preferences outside of hating facial and body hair, but even this is not set on stone and depends on the person and how much there is of it lol

And, that’s it. I am pretty open to anyone that considers we might be compatible. I will only respond to messages that aren’t AI, low effort, or generic. (You don’t need lenghty paragraphs either) but I only am interested in people that is willing to make things work with me, and that shows from the beginning.

Hey! I hope you’re having a great day. This is kind of a longer post, so pleeeeeeaseeeee make sure to read it all before reaching out, I posted before and many incompatible people did. I truly try to read and at least answer thoughtful messages even if not a match.

I have to mention that I live in latin america. I would be willing to try to make things work in person but I understand it could be difficult, and on top of it, I might move to Europe at the end of the year, so if you travel a lot it would be a huge plus. I want a long term relationship, I’m not interested in someone that just wants to play anonymously online. But that doesn’t mean I’ll be in a relationship with anyone just cause either.

I love all types of arts and crafts, live music, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values sharing interests/hobbies with my partners and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone who says they’re into “sports, going to the gym, videogames” nothing wrong with liking any of this! I also like videogames someyimes. But if these are your SOLE interests we just? wouldn’t have much to talk about? hahahah

Some of the nsfw things I’m into are praise, begging, cum play, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. We also don’t have to share all kinks but if you are looking for a complete sadist and such, that’s not me. I am flexible in trying some things not included in what I’m into though. Hard limits are ageplay, permanent bodily harm, scat, and etc.

I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, or messaging me honorifics “goddess, mommy, mistress” when they don’t even know what I like. Or claiming they wanna worship me and blah blah blah when they haven’t even spoken to me. I’m also not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

I am 173cm / 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, with brown curly hair and dorky glasses lol. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual and to know that upfront.

About what I’m looking for: I don’t have any set specific things for me to find them attractive physically in someone necessarily, I’ve found plenty of different people attractive. And I do tend to lean people with an alt sense of style but this isn’t mandatory. And I mean, I might be a bit biased towards twinks (but like NO, you don’t have to be tiny /skinny / whatever. I do hate facial hair and too much hairy-ness tho).

Personality wise I value people putting effort in their own personal lives outside of their relationship (without leaving it to the side either). I am very yappy and don’t mind shy or quiet people, or yappers alike as long as I can tell you’re really interested. I’m not expecting multiple paragraph messages but I will not respond to: “hello m27, how are you” type of intros.

Anyone aged 22-36 is welcome to message me. Please send me a short bit about yourself! And I hope that if you read this whole thing and we aren’t a match, that you do find someone who is 💞

I live in a suuuuuuper misogynistic latin american country. I’m bisexual and dating women is hard and most men here are ultra right, conservative, religious which goes against who I am fundamentally.

Also with this comes the expectation of women taking the submissive role in every sense of the word, including sexually and romantically even with no set BDSM dynamic.

I am very sure of my place as a domme, I only had one experience in a relationship with someone (they were a foreigner and visited me) and it was an amazing experience that solidifed my preference for the lifestyle.

I’ve been single for almost a year and I’ve tried posting in a couple of subreddits to find someone, I’m not into harsh stuff, I’m not requesting anything out of this world, I don’t have any set standards except not being toooooo far from my age. All I ask for is people seeing if we would be really compatible before messaging me. To not call me mommy and assume things I don’t like prior to talking. To please send me a short intro and not just “27m here 6’2 how are you”.

And guess what ALL the responses I’ve gotten have been? Additional mention of copied and pasted intros that clearly had more to do with another post or directly contradict what I asked for, which I really think isn’t so crazy.

I’m just done, I crave a relationship far beyond just a dynamic, I genuinely have been told and feel like I am a good partner but I’m just gonna stay single.

Hey! I hope you’re having a great day. This is kind of a longer post, so pleeeeeeaseeeee make sure to read it all before reaching out, I posted before and many obviously incompatible people did.

I have to mention that I live in latin america. I would be willing to try to make things work in person but I understand it could be difficult, and on top of it, I might move to Europe at the end of the year, so if you travel a lot it would be a huge plus. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual.

I love all types of arts and crafts, live music, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values sharing interests/hobbies with my partners and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone who says they’re into “sports, going to the gym, videogames” nothing wrong with liking any of this! We just? wouldn’t have much to talk about? hahahah

Some of the nsfw things I’m into are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. We also don’t have to share all kinks but if you are looking for a complete sadist and such, that’s not me. I am flexible in trying some things not included in what I’m into though. Hard limits are ageplay, permanent bodily harm, scat, and etc.

I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. Or claiming they wanna worship me and blah blah blah when they haven’t even spoken to me. I’m also not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

I am 173cm / 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, with brown curly hair and dorky glasses lol. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual and to know that upfront.

About what I’m looking for: I don’t have any set specific things for me to find them attractive physically in someone necessarily, I’ve found plenty of different people attractive. And I do tend to lean people with an alt sense of style but this isn’t mandatory. And I mean, I might be a bit biased towards twinks (but like NO, you don’t have to be tiny /skinny / whatever. I do hate facial hair and too much hairy-ness tho).

Personality wise I value people putting effort in their own personal lives outside of their relationship (without leaving it to the side either). I am very yappy and don’t mind shy or quiet people, or yappers alike as long as I can tell you’re really interested. I’m not expecting multiple paragraph messages but I will not respond to: “hello m27, how are you” type of intros.

Anyone aged 22-36 is welcome to message me. Please send me a short bit about yourself! And I hope that if you read this whole thing and we aren’t a match, that you do find someone who is 💞

Hey! I hope you’re having a great day. This is kind of a longer post, so pleeeeeeaseeeee make sure to read it all before reaching out, I posted before and many obviously incompatible people did.

I have to mention that I live in latin america. I would be willing to try to make things work in person but I understand it could be difficult, and on top of it, I might move to Europe at the end of the year, so if you travel a lot it would be a huge plus. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual.

I love all types of arts and crafts, live music, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values sharing interests/hobbies with my partners and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone who says they’re into “sports, going to the gym, videogames” nothing wrong with liking any of this! We just? wouldn’t have much to talk about? hahahah

Some of the nsfw things I’m into are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. We also don’t have to share all kinks but if you are looking for a complete sadist and such, that’s not me. I am flexible in trying some things not included in what I’m into though. Hard limits are ageplay, permanent bodily harm, scat, and etc.

I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. Or claiming they wanna worship me and blah blah blah when they haven’t even spoken to me. I’m also not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

I am 173cm / 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, with brown curly hair and dorky glasses lol. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual and to know that upfront.

About what I’m looking for: I don’t have any set specific things for me to find them attractive physically in someone necessarily, I’ve found plenty of different people attractive. And I do tend to lean people with an alt sense of style but this isn’t mandatory. And I mean, I might be a bit biased towards twinks (but like NO, you don’t have to be tiny /skinny / whatever. I do hate facial hair and too much hairy-ness tho).

Personality wise I value people putting effort in their own personal lives outside of their relationship (without leaving it to the side either). I am very yappy and don’t mind shy or quiet people, or yappers alike as long as I can tell you’re really interested. I’m not expecting multiple paragraph messages but I will not respond to: “hello m27, how are you” type of intros.

Anyone aged 22-36 is welcome to message me. Please send me a short bit about yourself! And I hope that if you read this whole thing and we aren’t a match, that you do find someone who is 💞

Hey! I hope you’re having a great day if you’re reading this. This is kind of a longer post, so make sure to read it all before reaching out.

To start things off, I have to mention that I live in latin america. I would be willing to try to make things work in person but I understand it could be difficult, and on top of it, I might move to Europe at the end of the year, so if you travel a lot it would be a huge plus. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual.

I love all types of arts and crafts, live music, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values sharing interests/hobbies with my partners and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone who says they’re into “sports, going to the gym, videogames” nothing wrong with liking any of this! We just? wouldn’t have much to talk about? hahahah

Some of the nsfw things I’m into are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. We also don’t have to share all kinks but if you are looking for a complete sadist and such, that’s not me. I am flexible in trying some things not included in what I’m into though. Hard limits are ageplay, permanent bodily harm, scat, and etc.

I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. Or claiming they wanna worship me and blah blah blah when they haven’t even spoken to me. I’m also not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

I am 173cm / 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, with brown curly hair and dorky glasses lol. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual and to know that sooner than later.

About what I’m looking for: I don’t have any set specific things for me to find them attractive physically in someone necessarily, I’ve found plenty of different people attractive. And I do tend to lean people with an alt sense of style but this isn’t mandatory. And I mean, I might be a bit biased towards twinks (but like NO, you don’t have to be tiny. I do hate facial hair and too much hairy-ness).

Personality wise I value people putting effort in their own personal lives outside of their relationship (without leaving it to the side either). I am very yappy and don’t mind shy or quiet people, or yappers alike as long as I can tell you’re really interested.

Anyone aged 22-34 is welcome to message me as long as this is up. Please send me a short bit about yourself! And I hope that if you read this whole thing and we aren’t a match, that you do find someone who is 💞

Trust me, I’m not even referring to people using you as a kink dispenser and initiating conversations with their supposed inch measurements (even when you explicitly detail that you’re not after something purely sexual). I think we know that and it’s pretty clear.

Moreso what I’m referring to, is people that send me a seemingly normal message or so I think at the beginning of our conversation. Multiple people have messaged me saying “is this a bot” and I’m like, no? I’m not selling anything in my profile, I’m writing a personal and specific post, and what am I supposed to respond? “Hahah no I am not see how real I am!! A bot would never say this!!” Ugh.

And also, I understand not re typing your whole description about yourself, such about your appearance and location and such. But so many people have sent me intros mentioning specific things I never stated in my post. And then I ask them and they say oh I just copied and pasted it from somewhere else. I put effort into making a detailed post and I genuinely answered to most people that seemed nice / normal, to even say sorry I don’t think we might be compatible. I don’t expect multiple paragraph long messages at the beginning but god, at least, make me think you read my post? Don’t even get me started on the obvious chatgpt ones, some have used the language barrier (not having a great English skill) and I’m like first, English is my second language, second, how are we supposed to properly communicate later on?

So many start rambling about wanting to admire me and worship me and blah blah and we haven’t even spoken, you don’t even know how I look like. It’s so fake and yucky.

I know this might be a redundant rant but I would rather only get 1-2 meaningful messages over a flood of them where even the seemingly normal ones literally don’t take the time to read my post, or to consider the very normal and easy things I mention in it. I know so many people, so many subs, specifically male subs are looking for a connection but man this throws me off to keep looking for someone. It doesn’t feel the majority of people are actually looking for a connection and I’d prefer them putting their desire for a made up fantasy to be employed elsewhere and not towards someone who is clearly looking for one.

Hey! I hope you’re having a lovely afternoon/evening or morning where you are. This is kind of a longer post so please read the whole thing before reaching out and seriously consider if we are actually are a match or not.

I live in latin america. I am willing to make the relationship be in person but this can prove to be difficult, and on top of it, I miiiiight move to Europe at the end of the year. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual.

I love all types of arts and crafts, concerts, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values different artistic endeavors in my life and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone just into “sports, going to the gym, videogames” nothing wrong with this! We just? wouldn’t have much to talk about? hahahah

Talking about the sexual aspect of things, (which we can discuss further after knowing each other for a bit) some are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. I’m also not I’m not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

I am 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, brown curly hair. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same since you know, attraction is important for this type of thing. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual and to know that sooner than later.

About what I’m looking for: I don’t have any set specific things for me to find them attractive physically. I’ve found plenty of different people attractive. And I do tend to lean people with an alt sense of style but this isn’t mandatory. And I mean, I might be a bit biased towards twinks. Personality wise I value people putting effort in their own personal lives outside of their relationship (without leaving it to the side either). I am very yappy and don’t mind shy or quiet people, or yappers alike as long as I can tell you’re really interested.

Anyone aged 22-34 is welcome to message me as long as this is up. Please send me a short bit about yourself! And I hope that if you read this whole thing and we aren’t a match, that you do find someone who is 💞

Hey! I hope you’re having a lovely evening. I have posted in subreddits similar to this before and I’m someone sure of myself and what I’m looking for. So make sure you read the whole thing before reaching out, I put effort into this post and I’m only interested in someone that cared enough to read it and seriously consider if we are actually a match or not. I understand a lot of people are looking for connections but me personally I would rather spend a decade alone than pretending that me and someone who clearly shouldn’t be together would be forcing things to try to.

I also wanna preface this by stating that I’m in latin america (so kinda far from most people here unfortunately. Willing to move this in person but this can prove to be difficult, and on top of it, I miiiiight move to Europe at the end of the year). So I understand connections might be shorter term, I’m open to different things with different people. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual / still meaningful connection.

And nowwwww, in relation to things outside kink, I love all types of arts and crafts, concerts, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values different artistic endeavors in my life and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone just into “sports, cars, videogames”.

Talking about kinks, (which we can discuss further after knowing each other for a bit) some are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. I don’t want something purely sexual. I’m also not I’m not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

About how I look, I am 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, brown curly hair. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same since you know, attraction is important for this type of thing. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual.

Anyone aged 22-34 is welcome to message me as long as this is up, and add a :3 to your message to make sure you read all of it.

I am very chatty and would prefer to talk through audios or a call but I’m okay with texting at a bit at first to get each other’s vibe. I don’t wanna force things, I wanna let them flow and see what happens. I value effort and genuine connections.