u/pisceangel

Trust me, I’m not even referring to people using you as a kink dispenser and initiating conversations with their supposed inch measurements (even when you explicitly detail that you’re not after something purely sexual). I think we know that and it’s pretty clear.

Moreso what I’m referring to, is people that send me a seemingly normal message or so I think at the beginning of our conversation. Multiple people have messaged me saying “is this a bot” and I’m like, no? I’m not selling anything in my profile, I’m writing a personal and specific post, and what am I supposed to respond? “Hahah no I am not see how real I am!! A bot would never say this!!” Ugh.

And also, I understand not re typing your whole description about yourself, such about your appearance and location and such. But so many people have sent me intros mentioning specific things I never stated in my post. And then I ask them and they say oh I just copied and pasted it from somewhere else. I put effort into making a detailed post and I genuinely answered to most people that seemed nice / normal, to even say sorry I don’t think we might be compatible. I don’t expect multiple paragraph long messages at the beginning but god, at least, make me think you read my post? Don’t even get me started on the obvious chatgpt ones, some have used the language barrier (not having a great English skill) and I’m like first, English is my second language, second, how are we supposed to properly communicate later on?

So many start rambling about wanting to admire me and worship me and blah blah and we haven’t even spoken, you don’t even know how I look like. It’s so fake and yucky.

I know this might be a redundant rant but I would rather only get 1-2 meaningful messages over a flood of them where even the seemingly normal ones literally don’t take the time to read my post, or to consider the very normal and easy things I mention in it. I know so many people, so many subs, specifically male subs are looking for a connection but man this throws me off to keep looking for someone. It doesn’t feel the majority of people are actually looking for a connection and I’d prefer them putting their desire for a made up fantasy to be employed elsewhere and not towards someone who is clearly looking for one.

Hey! I hope you’re having a lovely afternoon/evening or morning where you are. This is kind of a longer post so please read the whole thing before reaching out and seriously consider if we are actually are a match or not.

I live in latin america. I am willing to make the relationship be in person but this can prove to be difficult, and on top of it, I miiiiight move to Europe at the end of the year. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual.

I love all types of arts and crafts, concerts, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values different artistic endeavors in my life and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone just into “sports, going to the gym, videogames” nothing wrong with this! We just? wouldn’t have much to talk about? hahahah

Talking about the sexual aspect of things, (which we can discuss further after knowing each other for a bit) some are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. I’m also not I’m not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

I am 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, brown curly hair. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same since you know, attraction is important for this type of thing. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual and to know that sooner than later.

About what I’m looking for: I don’t have any set specific things for me to find them attractive physically. I’ve found plenty of different people attractive. And I do tend to lean people with an alt sense of style but this isn’t mandatory. And I mean, I might be a bit biased towards twinks. Personality wise I value people putting effort in their own personal lives outside of their relationship (without leaving it to the side either). I am very yappy and don’t mind shy or quiet people, or yappers alike as long as I can tell you’re really interested.

Anyone aged 22-34 is welcome to message me as long as this is up. Please send me a short bit about yourself! And I hope that if you read this whole thing and we aren’t a match, that you do find someone who is 💞

Hey! I hope you’re having a lovely evening. I have posted in subreddits similar to this before and I’m someone sure of myself and what I’m looking for. So make sure you read the whole thing before reaching out, I put effort into this post and I’m only interested in someone that cared enough to read it and seriously consider if we are actually a match or not. I understand a lot of people are looking for connections but me personally I would rather spend a decade alone than pretending that me and someone who clearly shouldn’t be together would be forcing things to try to.

I also wanna preface this by stating that I’m in latin america (so kinda far from most people here unfortunately. Willing to move this in person but this can prove to be difficult, and on top of it, I miiiiight move to Europe at the end of the year). So I understand connections might be shorter term, I’m open to different things with different people. I would prefer a long term relationship but I’m not opposed to having a shorter term thing, as long as it’s still not purely sexual / still meaningful connection.

And nowwwww, in relation to things outside kink, I love all types of arts and crafts, concerts, cats, board games, oceanic animals, reading, tattoos, indie music, and more. I don’t need to talk to someone that shares the same exact interests in me, but I am someone that values different artistic endeavors in my life and it would be hard for me to really relate to someone just into “sports, cars, videogames”.

Talking about kinks, (which we can discuss further after knowing each other for a bit) some are praise, edging, orgasm control, and body worship. I am not into degrading and humillation, I much prefer someone that is mostly eager to please. I want someone that matches getting to know me with their excitement, I don’t like people jumping into assuming stuff I’m into, like calling me “mommy” when I don’t even like that. I don’t want something purely sexual. I’m also not I’m not interested in non monogamous dynamics.

About how I look, I am 5’8 tall, pale, pretty tattooed, pretty chubby, brown curly hair. Happy to share sfw pics and I want you to do the same since you know, attraction is important for this type of thing. I understand not sharing everything upfront with a stranger but I wanna know attraction is mutual.

Anyone aged 22-34 is welcome to message me as long as this is up, and add a :3 to your message to make sure you read all of it.

I am very chatty and would prefer to talk through audios or a call but I’m okay with texting at a bit at first to get each other’s vibe. I don’t wanna force things, I wanna let them flow and see what happens. I value effort and genuine connections.