u/pleasantcompany99

Hi!

You know that feeling when someone remembers the random thing you mentioned two weeks ago? Or texts you something stupid and funny at 2pm just because it made them think of you? When you feel like you again—not a mom, not a roommate, not an afterthought?

That’s what I’m here for.

I’m 35, married, 5’9” athletic build, clean-cut and genuinely approachable. Not intimidating—the kind of guy your friends would call “cute and actually listens.” High libido when it gets there, but I’m not rushing past the part that matters most: making you feel wanted before anything else.

I get the neglect thing. The marriage that’s not bad, just… empty. Polite. Flat. You stopped being seen and slowly stopped expecting to be. That hits different when you finally name it.

Looking for someone in a similar spot. Start with real connection—daily texts, banter, inside jokes, feeling like someone’s favorite person again—and let the physical follow naturally if the chemistry is there. No pressure, no rushing, no drama.

Discreet, emotionally intelligent, flexible schedule (mostly weekdays free).

If this resonates, please dm!

Hi!

You know that feeling when someone remembers the random thing you mentioned two weeks ago? Or texts you something stupid and funny at 2pm just because it made them think of you? When you feel like you again—not a mom, not a roommate, not an afterthought?

That’s what I’m here for.

I’m 35, married, 5’9” athletic build, clean-cut and genuinely approachable. Not intimidating—the kind of guy your friends would call “cute and actually listens.” High libido when it gets there, but I’m not rushing past the part that matters most: making you feel wanted before anything else.

I get the neglect thing. The marriage that’s not bad, just… empty. Polite. Flat. You stopped being seen and slowly stopped expecting to be. That hits different when you finally name it.

Looking for someone in a similar spot. Start with real connection—daily texts, banter, inside jokes, feeling like someone’s favorite person again—and let the physical follow naturally if the chemistry is there. No pressure, no rushing, no drama.

Discreet, emotionally intelligent, flexible schedule (mostly weekdays free).

If this resonates, please dm!

Hi!

I’m 5'8", 162 lb, cute, gym-built, dimples, well-spoken working guy who looks harmless in public. Experienced, confident Dominant (rope, impact, protocol, your pleasure focused,endless edging and orgasm control are my favorites), zero complications, bulletproof discretion.

Can host in the city or travel; can make full weekdays free, long nights and multi-hour scenes no problem

What I bring:

Calm, controlled energy that makes you feel instantly safe and owned. Excellent aftercare—cuddles, snacks, debrief, whatever you need. Stamina for hours (yes, 6–9 hr marathon scenes are normal for me). Creative, sadistic when earned, always attentive to limits and your pleasure

What I want:

One submissive woman who craves structure, surrender, and being truly seen. Real connection first—conversation, chemistry, trust—then total power exchange. Regular meets + daily contact (check-ins, exchanges)

If you’ve been aching to kneel for someone who listens as well as he leads, tell me your limits, your fantasies, and what “being owned” means to you. Serious replies only. Recent face/body pic gets mine immediately. Bay Area locals first.

 Hi!

You know that feeling when someone remembers the random thing you mentioned two weeks ago? Or texts you something stupid and funny at 2pm just because it made them think of you? When you feel like you again—not a mom, not a roommate, not an afterthought?

That’s what I’m here for.

I’m 35, married, 5’9” athletic build, clean-cut and genuinely approachable. Not intimidating—the kind of guy your friends would call “cute and actually listens.” High libido when it gets there, but I’m not rushing past the part that matters most: making you feel wanted before anything else.

I get the neglect thing. The marriage that’s not bad, just… empty. Polite. Flat. You stopped being seen and slowly stopped expecting to be. That hits different when you finally name it.

Looking for someone in a similar spot. Start with real connection—daily texts, banter, inside jokes, feeling like someone’s favorite person again—and let the physical follow naturally if the chemistry is there. No pressure, no rushing, no drama.

Discreet, emotionally intelligent, flexible schedule (mostly weekdays free).

If this resonates, please dm!

 Hi!

Are you craving attention, flirty texts, deep talks, laughter, and feeling truly wanted again? Come talk to me, be free and let me show you the best times!

I'm 35M, 5'9", 160 lbs, athletic/gym-fit, cute & approachable (warm smile, great hygiene). Not after random hookups—seeking one woman in the same boat for emotional intimacy first: daily chats, inside jokes, making each other feel like someone's favorite.

I know the ache of a sexless/empty marriage. What I miss most is mattering to someone—and making her feel the same. If we click, the physical side follows naturally 😏.

No games, no drama. Flexible schedule (weekdays especially).

If you're tired of feeling invisible and want a man who listens, teases playfully, and reminds you how irresistible you are… reach out!

 

Hi!

This is not a random hookup post. Looking for the person I can’t stop wanting to text—who laughs at my dumb memes, remembers what I said, and feels chosen every single day.

I’m 35, athletic, cute with dimples, emotionally present married guy from the bay area. And when it gets there? I have the kind of stamina that’ll make you forget what being neglected ever felt like.

I know your marriage isn’t bad. It’s just… gone quiet. You stopped being seen and eventually stopped expecting to be. That’s exactly the void I want to fill — in every way.

Discreet, drama-free, mostly weekdays free.

Reply with one thing you miss most + one weird fact about you.

I’ll go first if you ask.

I’m 5'8", 162 lb, cute, gym-built, dimples, well-spoken working guy who looks harmless in public. Experienced, confident Dominant (rope, impact, protocol, your pleasure focused,endless edging and orgasm control are my favorites), zero complications, bulletproof discretion.

Can host in the city or travel; can make full weekdays free, long nights and multi-hour scenes no problem

What I bring:

Calm, controlled energy that makes you feel instantly safe and owned. Excellent aftercare—cuddles, snacks, debrief, whatever you need. Stamina for hours (yes, 6–9 hr marathon scenes are normal for me). Creative, sadistic when earned, always attentive to limits and your pleasure

What I want:

One submissive woman who craves structure, surrender, and being truly seen. Real connection first—conversation, chemistry, trust—then total power exchange. Regular meets + daily contact (check-ins, exchanges)

If you’ve been aching to kneel for someone who listens as well as he leads, tell me your limits, your fantasies, and what “being owned” means to you. Serious replies only. Recent face/body pic gets mine immediately. Bay Area locals first.

I’m 5'8", 162 lb, cute, gym-built, dimples, well-spoken working guy who looks harmless in public. Experienced, confident Dominant (rope, impact, protocol, your pleasure focused,endless edging and orgasm control are my favorites), zero complications, bulletproof discretion.

Can host in the city or travel; can make full weekdays free, long nights and multi-hour scenes no problem

What I bring:

Calm, controlled energy that makes you feel instantly safe and owned. Excellent aftercare—cuddles, snacks, debrief, whatever you need. Stamina for hours (yes, 6–9 hr marathon scenes are normal for me). Creative, sadistic when earned, always attentive to limits and your pleasure

What I want:

One submissive woman who craves structure, surrender, and being truly seen. Real connection first—conversation, chemistry, trust—then total power exchange. Regular meets + daily contact (check-ins, exchanges)

If you’ve been aching to kneel for someone who listens as well as he leads, tell me your limits, your fantasies, and what “being owned” means to you. Serious replies only. Recent face/body pic gets mine immediately. Bay Area locals first.