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Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

I think my husband has a Dominant kink or a Dominant fetish.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he LITERALLY does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjobs, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc..

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
No need, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (he off the charts big). I literally will end up in the hospital if I do rough sex with him. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. He also said it flat out, his exact words, "he the one with the penis so let him do the f-ucking". It like that just how he ride his high, and remain erection from being dominant and literally does 100% of the work in bed.

He very loving and caring in bed, he not even pull my hair, if my long hair get in the way, he just gently slide my hair to the side and suck on my neck and shoulders and mouth.
He kisses alot during sex, like kiss and thrust at the same time. I don't feel that he fu-ck me, I feel that he 'make love' to me (and I'm not even a fan of that word, it cheesy, lol).

Here the thing, he likes sex out of his desire for me. He will stare and stare at me, and pin me down the bed, one hand pin my wrist down, one hand pin my shoulder down. BUT
But then he process on have Vanilla missionary position PinV sex with me, hell, he even asked me "Does it hurt?" if he thrust a bit harder than normal,
yah. he asked me "Does it hurts?" when all he does is trust and kiss at the same time, lol.

Does this sound like he has a dominant kink? Dominant fetish? Or just a normal man who likes to be dominant in bed?

I asked him alot of times, if he has kinks. He answered the same every time, he has no kinks. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So does he has a Dominant kink? If so the wife me would like to fulfill his kink. He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.

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Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

I think my husband has a Dominant kink or a Dominant fetish.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he LITERALLY does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjobs, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc..

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
No need, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (he off the charts big). I literally will end up in the hospital if I do rough sex with him. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. He also said it flat out, his exact words, "he the one with the penis so let him do the f-ucking". It like that just how he ride his high, and remain erection from being dominant and literally does 100% of the work in bed.

He very loving and caring in bed, he not even pull my hair, if my long hair get in the way, he just gently slide my hair to the side and suck on my neck and shoulders and mouth.
He kisses alot during sex, like kiss and thrust at the same time. I don't feel that he fu-ck me, I feel that he 'make love' to me (and I'm not even a fan of that word, it cheesy, lol).

Here the thing, he likes sex out of his desire for me. He will stare and stare at me, and pin me down the bed, one hand pin my wrist down, one hand pin my shoulder down. BUT
But then he process on have Vanilla missionary position PinV sex with me, hell, he even asked me "Does it hurt?" if he thrust a bit harder than normal,
yah. he asked me "Does it hurts?" when all he does is trust and kiss at the same time, lol.

Does this sound like he has a dominant kink? Dominant fetish? Or just a normal man who likes to be dominant in bed?

I asked him alot of times, if he has kinks. He answered the same every time, he has no kinks. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So does he has a Dominant kink? If so the wife me would like to fulfill his kink. He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.

Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

I think my husband has a Dominant kink or a Dominant fetish.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he LITERALLY does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjobs, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc..

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
No need, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (he off the charts big). I literally will end up in the hospital if I do rough sex with him. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. He also said it flat out, his exact words, "he the one with the penis so let him do the f-ucking". It like that just how he ride his high, and remain erection from being dominant and literally does 100% of the work in bed.

He very loving and caring in bed, he not even pull my hair, if my long hair get in the way, he just gently slide my hair to the side and suck on my neck and shoulders and mouth.
He kisses alot during sex, like kiss and thrust at the same time. I don't feel that he fu-ck me, I feel that he 'make love' to me (and I'm not even a fan of that word, it cheesy, lol).

Here the thing, he likes sex out of his desire for me. He will stare and stare at me, and pin me down the bed, one hand pin my wrist down, one hand pin my shoulder down. BUT
But then he process on have Vanilla missionary position PinV sex with me, hell, he even asked me "Does it hurt?" if he thrust a bit harder than normal,
yah. he asked me "Does it hurts?" when all he does is trust and kiss at the same time, lol.

Does this sound like he has a dominant kink? Dominant fetish? Or just a normal man who likes to be dominant in bed?

I asked him alot of times, if he has kinks. He answered the same every time, he has no kinks. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So does he has a Dominant kink? If so the wife me would like to fulfill his kink. He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.

Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

I think my husband has a Dominant kink or a Dominant fetish.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he LITERALLY does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjobs, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc..

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
No need, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (he off the charts big). I literally will end up in the hospital if I do rough sex with him. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. He also said it flat out, his exact words, "he the one with the penis so let him do the f-ucking". It like that just how he ride his high, and remain erection from being dominant and literally does 100% of the work in bed.

He very loving and caring in bed, he not even pull my hair, if my long hair get in the way, he just gently slide my hair to the side and suck on my neck and shoulders and mouth.
He kisses alot during sex, like kiss and thrust at the same time. I don't feel that he fu-ck me, I feel that he 'make love' to me (and I'm not even a fan of that word, it cheesy, lol).

Here the thing, he likes sex out of his desire for me. He will stare and stare at me, and pin me down the bed, one hand pin my wrist down, one hand pin my shoulder down. BUT
But then he process on have Vanilla missionary position PinV sex with me, hell, he even asked me "Does it hurt?" if he thrust a bit harder than normal,
yah. he asked me "Does it hurts?" when all he does is trust and kiss at the same time, lol.

Does this sound like he has a dominant kink? Dominant fetish? Or just a normal man who likes to be dominant in bed?

I asked him alot of times, if he has kinks. He answered the same every time, he has no kinks. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So does he has a Dominant kink? If so the wife me would like to fulfill his kink. He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.

I'm guessing it normal?

In my 14 years marriage, my husband just so attached to and adore the scent of my vagina, he thinks it smell sweet (while I don't think so). But he literally said he wants to 'taste' me, and he always go down on me everytime before penetration. He just like to have his face in my vagina, lol.

It not just that, he literally smell my vaginal discharge on my dirty underwear, he thinks it smell sweet.
Even when I'm on my period and my menstrual blood on there mix with my vaginal discharge, he still smell it. And still say it smell sweet.
And he handwash my dirty underwear and bra, as he the one that does laundry in our marriage. He is a doting husband.

No, I absolutely don't think my vagina smell sweet, I just think my husband emotionally attached to me so he finds it sweet.

And I am not complaining, he is my husband whom inside me, and I carried his baby and gave birth, why would I mind his face in my vagina. I just giggles everytime.

Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

I was wondering if my husband is a Dom, and that we in a Dom/Sub dynamic, maybe you can help answer me this.
But I think we just a Vanilla couple where my husband dotes on me and makes me he Pillow Princess, and we not Dom/Sub dynamic.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he literally does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjob, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc.. Sex with him is nothing like what portrait in porn or in BDSM movies.

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
Let me tell you, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (alot bigger than average) I literally will end up in the hospital if I do those rough sex with his size. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. And he said he wants to make love to me (he not even use the word fu-ck). He not a vulgar person like me.
And the most dirty thing he said to me in bed is He wants to be inside me. No dirty sex talk.

He very gentle, he never spank me in bed. Heck he not even pull my hair in bed, and I have long layered hair to my waist, and he just gently slide my hair to the side to kiss my neck and shoulders.

Yes, he likes to be dominant in bed, as in do 100% of the work in bed, and he always cums in missionary position where he on top of me.

After long time marriage, he still asked me Does it hurts? during sex. He still worry if it hurts me, even when all he does is missionary position, thrust and kiss at the same time, and asked me if it hurts.

Surely this is not a BDSM man right? Because he nothing like porn. This is traditional sex that a man and woman does for thousands of years. So we can get rid of the word Dom on him right? Because I am struggling to understand how this is a Dom here.

We been through this talk throughout our marriage, he said he is not a Dom. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So are we dealing with a Dom here? He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.

Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

I was wondering if my husband is a Dom, and that we in a Dom/Sub dynamic, maybe you can help answer me this.
But I think we just a Vanilla couple where my husband dotes on me and makes me he Pillow Princess, and we not Dom/Sub dynamic.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he literally does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjob, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc.. Sex with him is nothing like what portrait in porn or in BDSM movies.

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
Let me tell you, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (alot bigger than average) I literally will end up in the hospital if I do those rough sex with his size. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. And he said he wants to make love to me (he not even use the word fu-ck). He not a vulgar person like me.
And the most dirty thing he said to me in bed is He wants to be inside me. No dirty sex talk.

He very gentle, he never spank me in bed. Heck he not even pull my hair in bed, and I have long layered hair to my waist, and he just gently slide my hair to the side to kiss my neck and shoulders.

Yes, he likes to be dominant in bed, as in do 100% of the work in bed, and he always cums in missionary position where he on top of me.

After long time marriage, he still asked me Does it hurts? during sex. He still worry if it hurts me, even when all he does is missionary position, thrust and kiss at the same time, and asked me if it hurts.

Surely this is not a BDSM man right? Because he nothing like porn. This is traditional sex that a man and woman does for thousands of years. So we can get rid of the word Dom on him right? Because I am struggling to understand how this is a Dom here.

We been through this talk throughout our marriage, he said he is not a Dom. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So are we dealing with a Dom here? He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.

Sorry, English is my third language, Reddit is international with people from different countries and cultures.

Long term married 14 years (together 16 years), I have a question to ask, because I was still a virgin when married my husband, he taught me everything about sex.

If you familiar (or not familiar) with Dom/Sub dynamic in BDSM maybe you can help answer me this.
But I think we just a Vanilla couple where my husband dotes on me and makes me he Pillow Princess, and we not Dom/Sub BDSM.

So in bed (and I'm married to him 14 years), he very dominant, he literally does 100% of the work in bed. Basically he makes me the Pillow Princess.
........
I'm not complaining, because everytime sex with him is I got multiple vaginal orgasms I throbbed over and over to the point I not know where I'm at anymore.
The vaginal orgasms get so intense that I have to beg him to stop because I can't take it anymore.

But he very gentle in bed, and very traditional and Vanilla, nothing like in porn you see or BDSM. No blowjob, no anal, no choking, no tied up, no chains, no spanking, no sex dungeons, no threesome, no sex toys, no anything porn sex acts, etc.. Sex with him is nothing like what portrait in porn or in BDSM movies.

OK, before you tell me that if I have not try those stuff, then how do I know I not like it?
Let me tell you, I don't need to try those rough sex stuff because he is VERY big (alot bigger than average) I literally will end up in the hospital if I do those rough sex with his size. Yes. I have to mention his size to get my point across, that is not do-able for me.

Anyhoo, he actually very blunt, he said he not wants my mouth, he wants my vagina. And he said he wants to make love to me (he not even use the word fu-ck). He not a vulgar person like me.
And the most dirty thing he said to me in bed is He wants to be inside me. No dirty sex talk.

He very gentle, he never spank me in bed. Heck he not even pull my hair in bed, and I have long layered hair to my waist, and he just gently slide my hair to the side to kiss my neck and shoulders.

Yes, he likes to be dominant in bed, as in do 100% of the work in bed, and he always cums in missionary position where he on top of me.

After long time marriage, he still asked me Does it hurts? during sex. He still worry if it hurts me, even when all he does is missionary position, thrust and kiss at the same time, and asked me if it hurts.

Surely this is not a BDSM man right? Because he nothing like porn. This is traditional sex that a man and woman does for thousands of years. So we can get rid of the word Dom on him right? Because I am struggling to understand how this is a Dom here.

We been through this talk throughout our marriage, he said he is not a Dom. He said he is just a normal man that wants to makes love to his wife.

And I have asked him many times, that I love him and I want to please him too, so if anything he wants me to improve in sex, or wants me to do then tell me. He said he is very happy with our sex life, and he said I'm silly, and he said he just wants to make love to me.

And I'm also very happy in sex with him, without him I wouldn't know what multiple vaginal orgasms is, so thank you to him. He does go down on me before penetration, but how do I say it, I prefer his penis more.

So are we dealing with a Dom here? He is indeed a doting husband, and he very accommodating to me, in bed and outside of bed.