r/LifeStyleDomsub

I recently got this sugar daddy. He’s into the whole humiliation, embarrassment, dom/sub thing. (Me-Dom/Him-Sub)

I’m not super new to this but kind of. I just don’t know how to keep it consistent and not repetitive.

I guess i need help on figuring out some things to keep it lively. I’m more into the pain of it as far as being a dom but that’s off the table for him.

Not sure what to even boss him around about.

Like being a dom.. do I just go up to him call him a princess and make him kiss my feet or something lol. I just really need help !

Does anyone use the app subtask?

I am a sub and live in a 24/7 dynamic. I was recently asked to Domme another man. This dynamic will be long distance. Mainly phones and internet. My question is how does one go from subbing one minute to domming the next? What do you do or think of to make the switch over smoother and still making my Dom feel like he is the priority. That I may be leading someone else at the moment bit my devotion is to him.

How do I make sure my sub feels like a priority too?

How do you balance it all and everyone be happy?

I know its alot to do with communication on all fronts and we are doing that for sure!! But im just wondering what else i have to learn about this new dynamic is am entering. Id love to talk to someone who has done this type of thing before. Any and all info is welcome and appreciated!!

Hi everyone,

I 23F am a sub… and around 2 months ago I met my dom 22M. Were slowly working towards a relationship/committed dynamic and it’s so much fun. I love everything about it.

I have been in light-dynamics before but I’m in general still exploring this side of myself. Before I’ve been a bratty switch and often bratted in a way that made the powerplay flip so I was the dominant. But with my new dom I’m strictly sub, and it’s so freeing, I didn’t even realise that it was what I wanted. Okay anyway… I’m usually really stubborn, lots of attitude and backbone. I’ve rarely folded for anything/anyone.

But with my new dom. He can fold me like a fucking paper towel… I still have some attitude, but I cave and give in like never before. I’m (almost) all bark no bite. And even though I love submitting and giving myself to him. A part of me is annoyed at myself for doing it so easily every time. At first I thought it was a fase and that I would “go back to normal” after some sessions.. buuut Im realising that I don’t think I will.. and it scares me..

I’ve put a lot of “pride” in being a brat before but now it feels like I’m not a “real” brat and I’m just not sure what this change means.. can anyone help with some perspectives or maybe share thoughts if you relate in any way?

Thx ✨

Hey quick inquiry, I’m a dom with a few long distance subs and I’m trying to come up with a few creative punishments/rewards for selective behaviors. Is there anybody in a similar position? What have you used. One punishment I’ve used is timeout (no contact with them for x amount of hrs.) that was an effective one, self spanks is another one. But I’m looking for some more. Any ideas. And if you have any rewards I’d line you hear them too.

My owner is my husband sir (now h/s for this story).

H/s had me on denial and only pleasing him for 4 months; I was supposed to have the month of July as cum month, but it was extended till today because I was sick for a couple of weeks and couldn't have play time.

H/s said I can have one last cum tonight before the next round of denial and submission, but I have to write the story of my last cum last week to earn one tonight, so here it goes!

A few days ago it was nearing bedtime and I went to the bathroom, when I came back h/s told me to kneel, face down, butt up, on our bed and have my bottom facing him. He then pulled down my shorts and told me to present my holes for his examination. I was instantly so wet that it was dripping down my pussy and onto my upper thighs. He touched my bottom and my pussy, and gave me noises of approval.

He pulled out my wand and turned it on, then rubbed it lightly on my clit, then lowered it and my body chased the vibrating until he laid it on the bed and I humped it. Our bed is an airbed, so it sinks in areas, depending on where weight is placed. So I kept having to chase it down and it barely touched my clit. I was humping and grinding and then he started spanking me. I got wetter and he was more turned on. After a few minutes of doing this I squirted and orgasmed so hard - some was clear, a lot was that lovely thick, white excretion that turns him on more. My body was shaking and wanting more and more, but my pussy needed a rest.

H/s then mounted me and rode me, while spanking me so hard that we were both losing our minds. After he came, he laid me on my back, sucked on my nipples and made me cum again with the wand, until I was so exhausted and shaking with absolute pleasure and exhaustion.

I am read to have a fun night of being his fuck doll, then dive into denial/submission until he says I can cum again.