r/LifeStyleDomsub

My boyfriend and I are new to the dynamic and he has no clue how to “make me” do shit. We got me a day collar and we’re hoping it would add to the dynamic of pulling me around like his pet but it unfortunately proved us that we are really bad at this (it broke.. I did fix it). I just wanna know if there’s any advice from other brats on how to make him uppity and advice for punishments or funishments for us to try. Or just other random things to add to the dynamic such as toys day to day life activities or anything else!! Thanks

Why isn't there flat for sugar mommy lol. Anyways I'm 27f from bangalore looking for a sub come sb(Only F) . We can start virtually and when comfortable meet irl

When mommy and I got the notification that my Lovense toy was on the way, she decided I should be no touch until it arrived. Since we had been edging a lot during the week, mommy told me that if I was good and didn’t touch, I’d earn an orgasm when my toy arrived.

It came on Saturday, and so did I :) we had a few drinks and mommy set up long-distance control to test out my toy. It’s a rabbit style toy so it has an internal g-spot vibration and a clit vibration (lovense osci 3) that can be separately controlled. I’ve used other toys before of course but this thing is already the best I’ve ever used after only 2 sessions and it’s not even close. Even starting really soft and slow, I could tell that we were going to have an intense session. After mommy warmed me up and I was soaked, we started to really push the vibe settings. She would turn the intensity way up and push me right to the edge, then turn it off completely and leave me squirming. When I was really close, she would have me count to 15 and give me a break then count to 10 and give me super intense vibes then back to a 15 second break.

Since mommy and I started being dom/sub, I’ve had so much fun listening to her instructions, but nothingggg compares to giving up control to her. Even though it’s easier to message with mommy when I’m not in charge of touching myself, I was still sending her needy incoherent messages that barely even made sense. So many times I was close, trying to type to let her know I was on the edge and she turned the vibration off before I even pressed send. She’s so in tune with me, I’m so so lucky.

When mommy started to get close, it pushed me over the edge of being so desperate. I was begging her like crazy to please let me cum with her and she told me I wasn’t allowed to talk about coming at all anymore unless it was to warn her I was close. Of course, i immediately broke mommy’s rule and started begging for her to let me cum. Mommy told me I had permission then immediately turned off the toy. She actually let me cum a few minutes later and overstimulated me for a few minutes after I finished because it made her feel good. I was shaking and trying to squirm away from it, typing insane incoherent nonsense asking her to stop.

I showed mommy how much of a mess my pussy was a couple times, and it was embarrassing looking at the pictures before I sent them. I was completely soaked, dripping down onto my bed and all over my thighs. The toy was also soooo wet, so much that I dropped it a couple times because it was so slippery.

Mommy told me she wanted us to cum together again and I was excited and nervous because I was already feeling super sensitive. I let mommy know when I was close and she said I wasn’t close enough, I got to practice holding the edge for her so I could earn an orgasm with her. When mommy finally gave me permission and we came together it was one of the most intense orgasms I’ve ever had. I was begging her to turn the vibration off, especially on my clit, but she told me no and that I needed to take it like a good girl.

I owed mommy another orgasm as punishment and she told me I wasn’t allowed to have the toy off, I needed to give it to her back to back. It was so intense to keep taking it after I came so hard but a deal is a deal and I needed to be a good girl for mommy. I sent mommy a video of me squirming and whining when I came but I accidentally unsent it because I’m still learning how to use the app ( I felt so bad she was so disappointed and I sounded embarrassingly needy in the video). Mommy ended up deciding to save her last orgasm since I took away the video. Don’t worry mommy, I’m still planning on making that up to you, pinky promise 🫶

I slept so good and was still sleepy and achy the next morning. I told mommy I don’t know if I’ve ever felt that satisfied in my life and she said we’re just scratching the surface….

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Mommy and I got busy and didn’t have time to play on Sunday, so we decided it would be a no touch day. I was excited to get back to exploring my toy with her on Monday, and she played with me sooo good. We have a time difference between us, so mommy told me I should take a nap so I wouldn’t be too tired to play. She kept me on a more gentle setting for a longer time since I was sleepy, taking a little bit longer during edges but something about taking our time almost made me needier than quick and intense edges. During that kind of warmup she told me that if I fell asleep with it in she would’ve teased me all night long. I’ve never thought about being interested in sleep play but something about that idea turned me on so much. She also said at one point “don’t you dare cum” and I remember clenching so hard around my toy imagining her being strict with me.

After about an hour of edging and quiiite a lot of begging, mommy told me that she would make a deal with me. She said I could cum twice tonight and then give up my chance for more orgasms until next weekend if I really needed it that bad. I also owe her 4 edging sessions of at least 15 minutes in between now and then. Even though I was sleepy and edged out of my mind, I still think mommy offered me a fair deal. I said yes because I needed it so bad in that moment and mommy teased me for another minute before sending me over the edge for her.

Shes so cute, she told me she wanted to try and ruin me instead of let me cum but she felt bad so she made me feel good. I’m so lucky thank you mommy 🫶 I was beyond messy and satisfied after that so mommy and I agreed I only needed one, not two.

Mommy asked me to send her a video of me squatting down to put my toy back in, and I was embarrassed by it. After I sent the vid, mommy needed to step away so I made a bad choice to start playing around with some of the games on the Lovense app. I didn’t have mommy’s permission to be playing with myself so she was upset with me when she got back and found out I had been being selfish while she was gone. She let me dwell on the fact that I was going to be punished today (Tuesday) but made me wait and guess about what it might be. I also let slip today that I was smoking weed last night which I accidentally didn’t tell her. Between my two bad choices, I’ve been anxious and the tiniest bit excited all day to see what mommy has in store for me.

It’s now Tuesday afternoon and I’ve had my toy in the whole time I’m writing this getting teased by one of mommy’s patterns. I’m feeling helpless knowing that I’m not allowed to cum until the weekend and I’ll be out of town Friday and Saturday so it will probably be Sunday before I’m there again. I hope mommy knows how sorry I am for disappointing her and how much I am ready to make it up to her.

Edit: I just was about to finish the pattern mommy shared with me but my toy fucking died 3 minutes from the end. I’m so frustrated but mommy really loved it.

Everything here was fully consensual and mutually agreed upon.

One afternoon, my obedient slut Anshra (29F from UP) informed me she was going shopping wearing a simple kurti and jeans. Before leaving, I gave the obedient little whore a small task: keep both nipples slipped out inside her bra while outside and mentally note how long they stayed that way naturally.

And like the good slut she is, she followed the task perfectly.

Later, while reporting back to me, she shyly admitted they stayed out for more than 30 minutes before finally slipping back in after she had to brake suddenly when someone overtook her scooter on the road.

When I asked her what she actually felt during all this, she confessed the strongest feeling wasn’t excitement.

It was humiliation.

She told me she kept feeling her face getting hot every time they became hard while she was outside, trying to act normal while secretly feeling hyper-aware underneath her clothes like a nervous little cunt trying not to panic.

But things escalated after she reached the mall.

I instructed her to go to the bra and panty section of the mall, enter a changing room, try five different sets, keep the door unlocked, and send me selfies while changing.

The moment she heard “keep the door unlocked,” she already started feeling nervous and fearful because she knew anyone could accidentally walk in at any moment.

Still, my obedient slut followed every instruction.

And then came the moment that completely shattered her confidence.

While removing a red bra and reaching for a black one, standing there in only her panties, one girl suddenly opened the changing room door while two others nearby also saw her for a brief second.

The moment the door opened, my whore instantly turned around in panic, trying to cover herself while the girl immediately shut the door again.

According to her, her heartbeat went crazy after that.

She later admitted the humiliation and fear hit her hard in that moment because she knew the whole thing happened only because she purposely kept the door unlocked for me.

And the embarrassment got even worse later when she noticed those same girls again near the billing counter.

The embarrassed little slut immediately lowered her head, avoided eye contact completely, rushed out of the store, got onto her scooter, and went straight home without buying anything.

Back home, while giving me her full report, I asked her:

“Why couldn’t my little whore even look them in the eyes?”

She went completely quiet after that before softly admitting she felt too embarrassed and exposed to even face them again.

As punishment, I made her continue the report in murgi (squat) position before later giving her a small endurance task involving nipple pinching with her two finger very hard while recording a voice note acknowledging her obedience for the day. I gave her what to say loud.

Later that night, she admitted the soreness stayed with her even while making dinner, although eventually she forgot about it and continued normally.

By the end of the night, my obedient slut received her reward for completing every task despite the fear, humiliation, embarrassment, and mental pressure.

If you have suggestion, encouraging, humiliating or degrading words to her. Comment down, she is reading them.