u/49demha

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago
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32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #SE - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago
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32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Have a free room tonight, regular of mine had an emergency

I know this might feel a lil rushed, so I want to stress that I don't intend to create any pressure, and you're free to bail out until the last minute., but let's have a video call and/or a coffee meet, and see if we can capitalise on an opportunity that might otherwise be wasted. My other fwb might get mad at me posting this 😄

About me: 32 year old, 5’11, West African, born & bred in South East London. I am a mildly dom-leaning switch, and I have plenty exciting kinks I can teach you about.

Open to various dynamics, including ones that don't include penetration, I love answering questions, so feel free to ask me anything, about me, my kinks or maybe even the most deranged question you can conjure lol. Ideal situation is something regular, but also open to a one off. If the chemistry is right, I might even be open to something more serious.

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u/49demha — 2 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Black Gentleman. Seeking regular, discreet fwb, who can take a lil ‘disrespect’ in the sheets; be my personal slut 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool.

Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks, including:
- Roleplay
- Risky “just out of sight”
- Breeding / Creampie
- Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing
- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
- CNC (particularly Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
- Race play
- Religion Play (I.e. mild Blasphemy)
- Light BDSM (wild switch, tame or be tamed)

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏

What the ladies say: "big hands”, “stronger than I thought”, "nice lips", "skilled tongue" 😈, so if you like what you hear and you’re in/near London, looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message

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u/49demha — 10 days ago
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32 [M4F] #London, UK - Black Gentleman. Seeking regular, discreet fwb, who can take a lil ‘disrespect’ in the sheets; be my personal slut 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool.

Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks, including:
- Roleplay
- Risky “just out of sight”
- Breeding / Creampie
- Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing
- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
- CNC (particularly Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
- Race play
- Religion Play (I.e. mild Blasphemy)
- Light BDSM (wild switch, tame or be tamed)

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏

What the ladies say: "big hands”, “stronger than I thought”, "nice lips", "skilled tongue" 😈, so if you like what you hear and you’re in/near London, looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message.

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u/49demha — 10 days ago

32 [M4F] #London, UK - Black Muslim Brother. Seeking regular, discreet fwb, who can take a lil ‘disrespect’ in the sheets; become my personal hijabi slut 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool. For the hijabi sisters, I respect your privacy/modesty, so I’m flexible about options for the vibe check. Twice divorced, so well acquainted with the whole marriage search processes.

Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks, including:
- Roleplay
- Risky “just out of sight”
- Breeding / Creampie
- Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing (e.g. Abaya, Jilbaab)
- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
- CNC (particularly Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
- Race play
- Religion Play (I.e. mild Blasphemy)
- Light BDSM (wild switch, tame or be tamed)

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏

What the ladies say: "big hands”, “stronger than I thought”, "nice lips", "skilled tongue" 😈, so if you like what you hear and you’re in/near London, looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message. Open to all ladies, but Desi & Maghreb sisters to the front of the queue.

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u/49demha — 10 days ago

32 [M4F] #SE - Black Gentleman. Seeking regular, discreet fwb, who can take a lil ‘disrespect’ in the sheets; be my personal cum dump 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool.

Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks, including:
- Roleplay
- Risky “just out of sight”
- Breeding / Creampie
- Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing
- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
- CNC (particularly Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
- Race play
- Religion Play (I.e. mild Blasphemy)
- Light BDSM (wild switch, tame or be tamed)

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏

What the ladies say: "big hands”, “stronger than I thought”, "nice lips", "skilled tongue" 😈, so if you like what you hear and you’re in/near London, looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message.

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u/49demha — 10 days ago

32 [M4F] #SE - Black Gentleman. Seeking regular, discreet fwb, who can take a lil ‘disrespect’ in the sheets. Be my personal slut

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool.

Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks, including:
- Roleplay
- Risky “just out of sight”
- Breeding / Creampie
- Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing
- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
- CNC (particularly Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
- Race play
- Religion Play (I.e. mild Blasphemy)
- Light BDSM (wild switch, tame or be tamed)

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏

What the ladies say: "big hands”, “stronger than I thought”, "nice lips", "skilled tongue" 😈, so if you like what you hear and you’re in/near London, looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message.

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u/49demha — 10 days ago

I’m a lil conflicted about my mum

My mum and I have always had a strained relationship. Major personality clash, plus I don’t find her particularly attractive. I’m a black man and the ladies I generally find attractive tend to be from a few specific regions which happen to generally not include black people. I wonder if it’s even worth me trying to pursue my mum. She lives alone, split with my dad when I was 2, and as I’ve grown older, I’ve been able to improve my relationship with her more recently, but she still feels distant enough from me that she doesn’t want me to live at her house (yes the clashes were that bad). I’m 32 & she’s 52.

See I really like the kink of incest, I think I shared a brief intro of a story where I had sex with my younger sister. Both raised in a single mother home, I’m the only man in their lives, and I feel like maybe I’d provide some sort of fulfilment or feeling of masculine love for them in this way. Like I’m very turned on by incest porn, whether real or passing.

On the flip side, I have this silly (maybe stupid) fantasy that maybe, if we had sex, it might help to start to mend things between us. So what do you think guys, should I pursue things with my mum? She’s had some lodgers leave recently, and she’s asking me to come over to change the locks for her. She lives alone now.

Edit: Sometimes I think about the fact that she might let me creampie her, being that she’s passed menopause. Then again, if she doesn’t feel safe with me, she might find the whole idea crazy, are there any mothers here who might relate?

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u/49demha — 10 days ago

32 year old, 5’11, West African, Muslim, BBC, DILF, South East Londoner. I'm trying to be on deen, but Nikkah just isn't on the cards right now, and I think we all have needs that need fulfilling. Divorced father of 3 so I've got enough on my plate.

I'm looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks.

The reviews: "big strong hands", “dad bod”, "throws me around easily", "skilled tongue", “thick banana" 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool. Clean and test regularly.

Here’s a non-exhaustive summary of my kinks:

  • Roleplay (includes taboo)
  • Risky, Public but hidden
  • Breeding / Creampie
  • Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing (Abaya, Jilbaab, skirts, dresses, crotchless panties)
  • Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
  • CNC (Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
  • Race play (includes taboo)
  • Religion Play (includes taboo)
  • Light BDSM (dom leaning switch)

Hard Limits: Scat, watersports, pain, blood, excessive spit, and don’t touch my nipples (it’s a secret I’ll tell you about later) 😂

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏 Also, I'm open to foreplay, outercourse & oral if you're trying to keep your virginity for nikkah.

If you’re looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message. Desi, Maghrebi & Mixed women will skip to the front of the queue 😉

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u/49demha — 18 days ago
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32 year old, 5’11, West African, Muslim, BBC, DILF, South East Londoner. I'm trying to be on deen, but Nikkah just isn't on the cards right now, and I think we all have needs that need fulfilling. Divorced father of 3 so I've got enough on my plate.

I'm looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks.

The reviews: "big strong hands", “dad bod”, "throws me around easily", "skilled tongue", “thick banana" 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something fun like 8 ball pool. Clean and test regularly.

Here’s a non-exhaustive summary of my kinks:

  • Roleplay (includes taboo)
  • Risky, Public but hidden
  • Breeding / Creampie
  • Transparent &/or Easy Access Clothing (Abaya, Jilbaab, skirts, dresses, crotchless panties)
  • Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’
  • CNC (Somnophilia & Play Fighting)
  • Race play (includes taboo)
  • Religion Play (includes taboo)
  • Light BDSM (dom leaning switch)

Hard Limits: Scat, watersports, pain, blood, excessive spit, and don’t touch my nipples (it’s a secret I’ll tell you about later) 😂

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏 Also, I'm open to foreplay, outercourse & oral if you're trying to keep your virginity for nikkah.

If you’re looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message. Desi, Maghrebi & Mixed women will skip to the front of the queue 😉

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u/49demha — 18 days ago

So before I had an understanding of why people ghosted in general, I always used to imagine “they probably dropped their phone down the drain. When I was even younger, I imagined the person themselves dropped down the drain and couldn’t get out, and that’s why they couldn’t contact me. I couldn’t fathom that if someone chose to speak to me, they would somehow decide they no longer wanted to speak to me AND not say why…

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u/49demha — 26 days ago

32 year old, 5’11, West African, BBC, South East Londoner. Open-minded and respectful, whether you’re experienced or just curious. Looking for something casual, discreet & regular enough to get comfortable with some taboo kinks

The big strong hands on this stocky “dad bod” will pick you up and throw you around. I have a skilled tongue & I’m “thick & curvy” where it matters 😈

I prefer meeting fairly early, quick video call or something simple like pool, coffee, or drinks. Don’t want a penpal, as I’m better in person than over text. Also, I’ve been online for long enough to spot fakes & time wasters pretty quickly.

Clean and test regularly.

Here’s a non-exhaustive summary of my kinks:

- Roleplay (includes taboo)

- Public (but hidden)

- Breeding / Creampie

- Easy Access Clothing (Abaya, Jilbaab, oversized shirts, hoodies, loose shorts, skirts, dresses, crotchless panties, etc)

- Transparent Clothing

- Freeuse & ‘Bored & Ignored’

- CNC (inc Sleeping & Play Fighting)

- Race play (includes taboo)

- Religion Play (includes taboo)

- “Couple” styled Affection

- Light BDSM (dom leaning switch)

Hard Limits: Scat, watersports, pain, blood, excessive spit, and don’t touch my nipples (it’s a secret I’ll tell you about later) 😂.

I don’t expect you to be into all of my kinks, but let me know which of my kinks you share or wanna explore. If you’re lucky I’ll let you in on the more taboo ones later on 😏 Also, I'm open to foreplay, outercourse & oral if you don’t want any penetration.

If you’re looking for something low-pressure, consistent, and a bit exciting on the side, feel free to message. Desi, Maghreb, Latina & Mixed women will skip to the front of the queue 😉

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u/49demha — 27 days ago