u/BluebirdNo84

As we all are here looking almost for the same thing. Those nice talks or shared interests that we just don’t get with the person we are with.
That’s me, filling the holes with what other people can offer me.
Married with kids. Full time job from home. Lonely as it can be.
6’3”Latino who can’t dance salsa. (Sorry)
Enjoys music and car racing and will listen to you talk about anything. Very open minded. No subject is off the table.

DMs open.

Understanding the Impact of Ghosting in the Dominant/Submissive Dynamic.

Ghosting can have profound psychological effects, often leaving the person cut off feeling confused and devalued, while also preventing the one who ghosts from facing their own fears and anxieties. To protect yourself, watch out for red flags like newly created accounts or individuals rushing into a dynamic and then pulling out abruptly. Healthy dynamics are built on clear communication from both partners about their expectations and comfort levels before things even start. And if a change is needed, aim for an honest conversation rather than disappearing; offering closure, even briefly, respects both parties and fosters a better community. Ask yourself this: how are you coping with ghosting, and are there signs you've learned to watch out for?

Disclaimer: this was dictated to Gemini and converted to text to fix grammar. The thoughts are still mine. Just used AI to polish it.

What is a task you love doing and what is a task you hate or have even put a limit on.
I hear a lot about coloring. Time outs. Self care. Affirmations.
But almost never tasks that just aren’t interesting or even take you refuse to do.

Comment please!!

When you get a message from your dom station “I have a small task for you…”

What goes through your head?
Panic?
Please?
Fear?
Scared?
Excitement?

I’ve come across this online a lot. While some groups allow it. Fet bans it.
However, I just came across my first IRL (driving distance) and she mentioned “incentives”
She is a switch and wanted to experiment with a Dom. I’m like “ we can do dinners. Ans obviously I’ll pay for hotel if you don’t want to host”
However, she was more like “no, I like gifts. And to be spoiled”

I wonder is this is customary in the community as a whole or are they exploring BDSM to make money?

Thanks!!

More of a rant.
Many “subs” DMing.
Exchange selfies. Have a good convo and then either delete their account or vanish and never respond.

Anyone else going thru this?
Kinda makes me give up on the whole Reddit thing.
Also, subs who want to start dynamics right away. Like why? Slow down. Get to know me. Make sure I am a good match for you.

I don’t mind the newbies and answering questions. I’ve made some cool connections that way. May not lead to dynamics but become good friends.

All in all, if you are serious and have the time, engage.

If you are bored and think we are here for cybersex. Move on. That’s not what the majority of us are looking for.

Looking for a friend
Ages 19-35

Not looking for 24/7. Just something slightly casual and fun.

Would love to meet someone who can be FWB with. No strings attached. Not looking for a relationship.

DM me.

43/M4F Looking for #Online #florida. I want to be your daddy.

43/M4F Florida USA SoftDom/Daddy looking for clingy girl.

43-M Daddy Dom Florida USA looking for young female for DDLg / ABDL /CLG only. Preferably east coast.

Looking for a nice girl. Who has been thru a lot and wants someone to help her get grounded and supported.

I’m a SoftDom and I love clingy subs.

The kind that constantly text.

DM open. Reach out. :)

Looking for a friendly 25-35 woman who wants to have some fun on the side. Nothing complicated. Nothing intense. Very casual and discreet.

No OF/Escorts please. Real women only.

42/M Miami looking for ABDL. I’ll be daddy.

Interested in meeting girl ABDLs in real life. I’m easy to talk to and have experience with ABDL.

Just want to meet someone in real life for once. Willing to drive a few miles off.

Reach out.

Looking for someone 35 and younger who wants to have aFWB relationship. No strings attached. Just fun and games. Chill. Easy going.

DM me.

Interested in meeting ABDLs in real life. I’m easy to talk to and have experience with ABDL.

Just want to meet someone in real life for once. Willing to drive a few miles off.

Reach out.

Seeking little

Seeking local little. DDLg/ABDL

Prefer shy little a who enjoy their little space, cartoons etc.

I’m an experience Daddy that will take care of you. Spoil you with all the love and attention you deserve.

I enjoy providing tasks as well as corrective actions. Praise and reward. Reading stories and hearing about all your stuffed animals. Counting numbers, drawing. Specially love little brats who love corrections.

Also inexperienced and newbies welcomed.

Please DM with your location and littles age and name(if you’d like to share)

I curate your little space and make a safe haven for you.