u/Burgeoning_Waif

Let's chat, especially if you like older guys!

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Yeah. I need a young dominant. It's a hot fantasy!

I’m a Canadian guy who can talk about retro computing, old films, sci-fi, obscure tech projects, travel plans, and why some arcade games from 1985 still have better design than modern AAA titles. I like women who are curious, sharp, playful, emotionally aware, and a little dangerous in the best way.

Physically, I’m very attracted to younger women (18+ only), especially those with confidence, wit, and a strong personality. I’m very kink friendly, open-minded, and especially drawn to women who are dominant, switchy, adventurous, or simply know what they want and aren’t shy about it.

What I’m actually looking for:

- Long-term connection, not disposable chatting

- Someone exciting and mentally engaging

- Strong chemistry, flirtation, tension, banter

- Emotional intelligence mixed with passion

- Someone who can surprise me

About me:

- Nerdy but socially functional

- Tech-minded and creative

- Into movies, games, systems, travel, weird projects, deep conversations

- Affectionate, attentive, and highly curious

- Kink friendly, communicative, and respectful

I like women who can challenge me a bit. If you’re dominant, teasing, confident, intellectually curious, or just gloriously unconventional, you’ll probably get my attention fast.

Tell me something unusual about yourself when you message me. Low-effort “hey” messages disappear into the void.

What is a non-negotiable item that you would want from your partner?

I would like to get to know you. I'm not interested in a ddlg or dom-daddy type of relationship. I know! Shocking! I'm also not going to send you nudes or anything like that.

SFW pics, for sure!

What I'm looking for:

* Someone into older men like myself

* Your age doesn't matter (but that means 18+)

* This isn't strictly limited to Victoria, but I need to know that we can meet in person one day

* Someone who needs a mentor, a friend, a close someone who has your back and wants the best for you

* Someone who needs a supporter, encourager!

What I can do:

* Care about you

* Slightly obsess over you (I will try to keep that in check!)

* Give you feedback (on anything really... Clothes, shoes, hair, etc)

What I'm not:

* I'm not a lonely old guy to be preyed upon (my BS detectors are finely crafted and fully functional!)

* I'm not a jealous person

* I'm not a prude ;)

* I'm not judgmental

So.... Who are you? Where are you? What's one attribute you wish you could change about yourself, and why?

Let's chat, and see if we can build something long-lasting.

Hey there!

I’m a tall, easygoing, and polite 59-year-old guy who’s been quietly hoping to finally experience a real adult nursing relationship. I’ve never had the chance to meet a lactating lady, and I’d love to change that with the right person.

I’m a non-smoker, respectful, and drama-free. More than anything, I’m interested in getting to know you as a whole person — not just as a “kink dispenser.” I genuinely enjoy good conversation (I can talk about everything from books and travel to silly everyday stuff), laughter, and building a comfortable, trusting connection. Whether that leads to sweet, intimate nursing sessions or just spending relaxed time together, I’m in it for the full experience.

A few important things:

* I’m only looking for someone who is already lactating (I don’t have the schedule right now to support induction).

* I’m open to your age — 20s, 30s, 40s, or beyond — as long as you’re mature, kind, and looking for something real.

If you’re a lactating woman who wants to be appreciated, listened to, and cared for by a patient, attentive man who knows how to treat you with respect, I’d love to hear from you. Drop me a message and tell me a little about yourself. I reply quickly and always with respect.

Thanks for reading

It's friday night! I'm gaming with my friends online with a RPG. How about you? Are you 18+? Lets get to know each other. We could chat about gargantuan age gap relationships!

Telegram: montery66

Some people spend years figuring out who they are. I already know.

At 59, I come to you without pretense, without games, and without apology. I have been submissive my entire life, not as a phase or an experiment, but as a fundamental part of who I am. It is woven into the way I move through the world, the way I connect with people, and the way I experience intimacy. That kind of self-knowledge is rare, and I think the right person will recognize it immediately.

I want to be clear about what I am looking for, because I think clarity is one of the most attractive qualities a person can offer. I am looking for someone who holds both warmth and authority with equal grace. I want the version of you that checks in on me, that notices when I am off, that wraps care around me like something I can actually feel. AND I want the version of you that sets expectations and means every single word of them. I find the tension between those two things absolutely magnetic. Always have.

The mommy dom dynamic, at its best, is not about control for control's sake. It is about a relationship where someone steps into a role of genuine leadership, not because they want power over another person, but because they find meaning and joy in guiding, nurturing, and yes, occasionally correcting. That is what I respond to. That is what has always called to me. When the structure comes from a place of love, when the strictness is an expression of investment rather than indifference, it does something to me that nothing else really replicates.

I am not new to BDSM. I am not here to be introduced to it or eased into it slowly over months of cautious conversation. I know what I like, I know what I need, and I know how to talk about both clearly and without embarrassment. I have done the personal work. I understand consent, communication, and the importance of getting things right before anything else happens. What I am ready for is someone who matches that energy and is equally prepared to build something real.

About me beyond the dynamic: I am thoughtful and a little bookish. I have strong opinions about coffee and very few opinions about what we watch on television. I am the kind of person who remembers small details about the people I care about, and I show up fully when I am in something. I am loyal, patient, and genuinely affectionate. I am also, when the situation calls for it, delightfully stubborn, which may or may not be a feature depending on who you are.

As for you? Age is just a number. Whether you are 18 or 80, what matters far more to me is emotional intelligence, a genuine nurturing instinct, and the confidence to lead when the moment calls for it. I am not filtering by decade. I am filtering by character.

If any part of this resonates with you, please reach out. Tell me a little about yourself and what your ideal dynamic looks like in practice. What does a good day look like in your version of this relationship? What do you bring to it? I am genuinely curious about you, and I read every single message I receive.

Let's talk.

Are there any young ladies (18+) who are interested in chatting and getting to know each other?

I have a keen interest in learning about you, where you're from, what your interests are, and what things concern you.

I want to be a "daddy" figure... Someone you can feel free opening up with whatever concerns you (when we are ready to go deep!). Of course we can sext... But it's not the main reason for us getting to know each other.

I'm looking for you!

Yes, you! You're someone who knows what they like. A guy who has done a lot, is very comfortable in his own skin, and may just be a little too uncomfortable for the very much younger (19-25, I would say). Which means I'm probably best suited for someone 25+, but feel free to reach out.

Here is the deal: I hold controversial opinions (eg, tipping is out of control; learning how to use money is capitalism, yes, but if you don't know how, you're knee-capping yourself!). So, yeah, I recognize that.

But if you're ok to learn from someone older, I could teach you things. And I will provide emotional support. I'll never tear you down, I will never hold you down. I'm a supporter, you'll be number one in my books. Assuming that's what you want.

And let's be clear, I'm not daddy, or a Dom daddy.... I'm just a married guy who wants to chat and possibly meet a nice younger lady. The chat is up to you, I won't send you NSFW stuff unless you ask. And I won't ask for NSFW pics unless we are hitting it off.

What do I get out of it? Pleasure in seeing you mature into a self confident woman, not afraid of the world, able to stand on her own two feet.

And never say never, maybe more! ;)

Looking for someone younger to chat with. Into all sorts of things!

Telegram: montery66

I'm interested in a little discussion, and then exploration of what it would be like if you were to play the part of a sadist. It doesn't have to be sexual, or even physical... It could be emotional or psychological sadism.

And if you are a sadist IRL...I most certainly would really enjoy hearing from you!

Telegram: montery66

I'm someone who believes life's too short to take too seriously – which is why you'll often find me laughing at my own jokes (and occasional mishaps). At heart, I'm a sci-fi enthusiast and tech geek who can discuss everything from the latest AI developments to why *The Expanse* deserved more seasons.

I value genuine connection, good humor, and open-mindedness. Whether we're debating the physics of warp drives, exploring shared interests in kink, or just trading memes, I'm all about authentic conversation and seeing where things naturally lead.

**What I bring to the table:**

* Height (because apparently that matters on the internet)

* A mature perspective with zero pretension

* Curiosity about people and what makes them tick

* The ability to make you groan at dad jokes while secretly enjoying them

Looking to connect with someone 20+ who appreciates wit, depth, and isn't afraid to be themselves. If you're intrigued, drop me a message – worst case scenario, we have an interesting conversation.