41 [M4F] #Gardengrove - A fresh start and seeking FWB in Southern California
I am 41 years old (no kids) and am starting a new chapter in my life. About 3 years ago my marriage of 9 years came to an end. There were circumstances that kept us living together longer than I would have liked but at the beginning of the year, I finally was able to secure my own place.
I am looking for something casual and fun to blow off some steam every now and then. I had a really intense work schedule over the last few months and am slowing down some and want to enjoy myself a little. Hopefully you can be apart of that. While I do enjoy being in relationships, it's not really a priority for me right now. I would love to find an ongoing situation and would be willing to entertain something longer term if we fit well together.
When it comes to relationship dynamics, I am the confident leader who leads the relationship. I would love to find a woman who is naturally submissive and wants to follow a man's lead. I am very aware that things like submission is earned over time and is not just handed out freely. The way we get there is through mutual respect of one another. There is no love if there is no respect. With that, I will always treat you with kindness. I don't believe in big blowout arguments, screaming matches, name calling, or belittling of each other. I won't yell at you and will always come at you with a calm demeanor. I understand the physical power imbalance between the sexes and it is my duty to make sure you always feel safe in my presence. I expect the same in return and will walk away if I feel you are not holding up this end of the arrangement.
When it comes to the bedroom, I am very dominant and love being in control. I will put you in a position to where you will never have to think about what comes next. It will just happen. I very much care about the pleasure of my partner and will always make sure you feel good and feel taken care of.
I have a lot of lived experience, have led an interesting life, and can have conversations about most subjects especially those that involve the inner workings of how the world works and life in general.
I am white with brown hair, 5'10 and weigh around 162 lbs. I have a fit body type and work out a couple times per week. I am told I am handsome/attractive whenever I have exchanged pictures on here.
STD free. Please be the same.