u/Chubbyblkpapa89

36 [M4F] #MD - Just looking for a stud homie that like sucking dick

Looking for a stud homie that likes to top men off. Penetration is up to you but I’m just fine with getting head and giving it back.

36, black, bearded, chubby, over 6ft and local to MD, close to DC and NOVA. Disease free and if good hygiene.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 5 days ago

36 [M4F] 20772 - Black male looking to get head from a black woman and return the favor.

I’m just looking to find a woman local to MD or NOVA that is looking to give head and receive it. I’m not looking for genital to genital unless it’s something agreed upon and I’m just looking to do this one time just for the hell of it. I’m not disease free and discreet. I love giving oral to women and I love sucking on titties. I don’t care about how you look just be disease free like me and respectful in time. Be local and have good hygiene

I’m 36, 6 feet+, chubby (if you’re not down with it, it’s ok), black, full lips and a set of skills that would make ya melt once I start licking.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 6 days ago

36 [M4F] #Maryland - Looking for a good chat and possible meet up.

My marriage ain’t bad but it’s lacking and I’m here to find a woman that can help in the area where it isn’t thriving. Just keeping this short, I am looking for someone to chat and eventually meet with who is possibly on the EST or closer to the DMV area (if you don’t know where that is…don’t worry). Looking for a woman to send morning & good night texts and everything in between the hours of the day. Not looking to talk your head off but I’d like to have a woman who can give me a better perspective on things that I may not understand.

Not looking for outright situationship but some type of way to work up to it. Not trying to chat 24/7 but at least during a time that works for us both as being married & employed adults, we can’t be chatting all the time. Me…I’m 36, 6’3, AA Male, teddy bear frame, salt and pepper beard, still have my hair, lite skinned, disease free and knows the meaning of discretion. I’m educated and employed. Im a parent as well but so I need someone who can relate on that front. I’m a nerd (blerd if you will). I’m easygoing, a goof ball and has a dark sense of humor, eclectic tastes in music with a dash of sarcasm and a sprinkle of kink (lol)! I’m looking for a woman who has time to chat, lives along the east coast or willing to chat first to help get me through the day. Just would like a conversation with someone who can relate.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 12 days ago

Let’s keep it simple and straightforward: I am a Married black male looking for an attached woman who wants to chat to pass the time. Possibly meet up for drinks or whatever works for us. I don’t want to change your martial situation but I do want to add to what you’re not getting at home and for you to do the same. More of a pocket boyfriend for the time being!

I’m a 6’3, straight male. I am chubby, still have my hair, salt & pepper beard, educated (I have my bachelors & masters…big flex…WHOOOO 😒😂), professional and \*\*disease free as of 3/13/2026.\*\* I lean more left politically but I also do listen to people and course correct those willing to listen. I am a Blerd that enjoys animated shows, comics/manga and the occasional bad take on superheroes/villains. I’d like to believe I’m handsome, but people have their preferences and I’m not moody or temperamental but I do respect people’s emotions.

I am just looking for some things in a friend or AP such as: • Between 30-50 • Being married or attached
• Be a parent or respectful people who are parents
• Discreet • Disease free and know status
• Don’t be bland
• Have sense of humor as I love to laugh
• Have some interests that you’re willing to share.
• Local to the DMV (no further than NoVA going south)

Don’t come in here with some dry ass “Hey”, “Hi” or “Sup”! Come in here ready to chat and try to get to know someone. Tell me something about you physically and personally! If it doesn’t work out and I’m not your type, don’t ghost, keep it a buck because I will. We’re too old for uncertainty. Don’t ask for pics off rip because I won’t give them unless you have yours out first.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 23 days ago

I am gonna say this…I enjoy women who are sluts, embrace their inner slut or indulge in slutty behavior. I love women that love to fuck for the sport of it, who don’t mind sucking one or more dicks in a setting, that get off on making a man cum. I just want my own personal friend who embodies one of those traits.

I’m a 36 year old black male, I am a practically a cuddly teddy bear until the sex starts and then I just like to take control. I’m tall and I am currently disease free. I am pretty discreet and respectful. I am attached which is a deal breaker for most but for the ones who don’t mind…I’m here for the fun. I love sex at any time, random head giving and just good vibes. Doesn’t have to be sex when we meet up but if it is I’m not mad. I don’t mind sharing with others as long as we keep the boundaries we set for others in place.

Not picky on the woman. Could be any race, between 28-50, disease free, in the DMV area but within like 30-35 miles away and have a high sex drive. Pic for pic of you’re asking and please don’t be a stick on the mud!

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 24 days ago

Greetings! I’m a married black man in Maryland looking for a long term partner for fun. My relationship or bedroom isn’t as hot as it used to be and I wouldn’t mind a partner who knows how to reignite some my passion as I have grown accustomed to handling my own problems. Sometimes I just focus on other stuff to keep me busy but I’m just not feeling how I should in my marriage and I hate it.

I’m over 6 feet, educated, dad bod, salt & pepper beard, short hair, disease free, good hygiene, good oral hygiene and nice lips. I’m not looking for anything crazy, just something consistent with an understanding and interesting woman.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 25 days ago

Tall & Chubby black male looking for some extramarital fun. I’m disease free and discreet. Go more than one round. Can’t host. I’d be coming to you!

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 26 days ago

36 year old, straight, black teddy bear looking for a woman in the area to hook up with after work. I’m over six-feet tall and lite skinned with a salt and pepper beard. Good energy and stays horny.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 26 days ago
▲ 3 r/Affairs_DMV+1 crossposts

Let’s keep it simple and straightforward

Married black male looking for an attached woman who wants to meet up and hook up on a scheduled and consistent basis. I don’t want to change your martial situation but I do want to add to what you’re not getting at home and for you to do the same.

I’m a 6’3, straight male. I am chubby, still have my hair, salt & pepper beard, educated (I have my bachelors & masters…big flex…WHOOOO 😒😂), professional and **disease free as of 3/13/2026.** I lean left politically so no Trumpers. I am a lover of some kink (fetlife link in my profile). I am a Blerd that enjoys animated shows, comics/manga and the occasional bad take on superheroes/villains. I’d like to believe I’m handsome, but people have their preferences and I’m not moody or temperamental but I do respect people’s emotions.

I am just looking for some things in a friend or AP such as:

• Between 30-50

• Being married or attached

• Be a parent or respectful people who are parents

• Discreet

• Disease free and know status

• Don’t be bland

• Have sense of humor as I love to laugh

• Have some interests that you’re willing to share.

• High sex drive

• Local to the DMV (no further than NoVA going south)

Don’t come in here with some dry ass “Hey”, “Hi” or “Sup”! Come in here ready to chat and try to get to know someone. Tell me something about you physically and personally! If it doesn’t work out and I’m not your type, don’t ghost, keep it a buck because I will. We’re too old for uncertainty. Don’t ask for pics off rip because I won’t give them unless you have yours out first.

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u/Chubbyblkpapa89 — 28 days ago