u/CurrentLevel8483

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I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut. Finding someone irl is so hard, I'm trying my luck here.

58 M. 5'9". Black/gray hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and from India. I've a 15yo son. I live in Redding, CT.

Married. Bedroom died in 2011. Still together only for tax reasons and few minor issues. Trying to get my life back together. And divorce, too. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes, but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I spent my whole life providing. Started working at the age of 14. First it was the family. Someone or the other. Always something. Then it was the wife. Then came the son. It was minimum 12hrs a day. 7 days a week. Always working. Always providing. Never got a chance to be myself. Never got an opportunity to develop a hobby. 'Coz all the money went into providing to the family. I rarely bought anything for myself. Bought them clothes every year. Meanwhile, the last time I bought a pair of jeans or a shirt for myself was in 2018.

Now the wife wants a divorce. Trying dating and I'm asked what're my hobbies? I've been a provider all my life. Never got the time to develop a real one. Maybe, you can share yours with me? Do things together? Go to movies? Music concerts? Comedy clubs? Musuems? Astrology?

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. I hope that you can accept this, and not be overly sensitive or easily offended :)

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to chat and sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thumping, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. We'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere in or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe. Or fly you out, if you're looking for a break :).

Let's be online partners first or even have a coffee date the very next day if we're nearby & if we vibe, see if we're interested in carrying this further :)

\*notabot

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut. Finding someone irl is so hard, that I'm trying my luck here.

58 M. 5'9". Black/gray hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and from India. I've a 15yo son. I live in Redding, CT.

Married. Bedroom died in 2011. Still together only for tax reasons and few minor issues. Trying to get my life back together. And divorce, too. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes, but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I spent my whole life providing. Started working at the age of 14. First it was the family. Someone or the other. Always something. Then it was the wife. Then came the son. It was minimum 12hrs a day. 7 days a week. Always working. Always providing. Never got a chance to be myself. Never got an opportunity to develop a hobby. 'Coz all the money went into providing to the family. I rarely bought anything for myself. Bought them clothes every year. Meanwhile, the last time I bought a pair of jeans or a shirt for myself was in 2018.

Now the wife wants a divorce. Trying dating and I'm asked what're my hobbies? I've been a provider all my life. Never got the time to develop a real one. Maybe, you can share yours with me? Do things together? Go to movies? Music concerts? Comedy clubs? Musuems? Astrology?

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. I hope that you can accept this, and not be overly sensitive or easily offended :)

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to chat and sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thumping, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. We'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere in or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe. Or fly you out, if you're looking for a break :).

Let's be online partners first or even have a coffee date the very next day if we're nearby & if we vibe, see if we're interested in carrying this further :)

*notabot

Motel. Discretion guaranteed.

Motel & privacy guaranteed.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut. Finding someone irl is so hard, that I'm trying my luck here.

58 M. 5'9". Black/gray hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated for 4 years. Still together only for tax reasons and few minor issues. Trying to get my life back together. And divorce, too. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be overly sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other. I can soothe you and calm your ruffled feathers, but please do not make this a habit.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to chat and sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thumping, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere in or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a coffee date the very next day if we're nearby & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

\*notabot

Married & looking for a discrete connection

Married and looking for a discrete connection

Married & looking for discrete.

Please read.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to chat and sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thumping, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere in or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a coffee date the very next day if we're nearby & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

*notabot

Please read.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married to a Caucasian and separated. I love alone. Together only to save on taxes and a few minor issues. Other than that, nothing holding me back. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere in or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a choice date the very next day & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

\\\*notabot

Please read.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married to a Caucasian and separated. I love alone. Together only to save on taxes and a few minor issues. Other than that, nothing holding me back. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere in or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a choice date the very next day & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

*notabot

Please read.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere on or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a choice date the very next day & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

*notabot

Please read.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I physically can be. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from anywhere on or outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a choice date the very next day & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

\*notabot

Please read.

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and prefer to drink either hand ground, French press delicious coffee or awesome artisinal beer. Maybe some red wine.

I'm a text book Scorpio. With all the good & the bad traits. Possessive, loving, protective, honest, loyal, intelligent, dependable, goofy, passionate etc. Strong headed and think unconventionally. Always smiling & cracking jokes (in public), but can get serious fast too. I'm a news junkie. Politically, left of center and not religious.

I'll be sensitive to your needs, desires and wants. I'll be there for you, if I can physically can. But, understand this - I'm passionate. I've a weird sense of humor. I'll tease. My mild sarcasm will be laced in humor. If you cannot accept this, if you are going to be sensitive, going to be easily offended and not talk it out or going to ghost, not be able to chat intelligently, then we're not for each other.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe be an online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable. But, we'll eventually meet. Else, what's the point?

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first or even have a choice date the very next day & if we vibe, have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

*notabot

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and drink (beer) a bit - as I'm lonely and with nothing to do.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe nn online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable.

I have a few rules & red flags -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

Red flags - I fall hard and fast, I can be clingy, and I may double and triple text.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first & then have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

\*notabot

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and drink (beer) a bit - as I'm lonely and with nothing to do.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. Maybe nn online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her. I'm not looking for straightaway sex as I find sex without emotions to be boring. I prefer taking it slow. I hope that's acceptable.

I have a few rules -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first & then have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

*notabot

Trying again. Got the views but not the response - so clearly I wrote something wrong. Hopefully, this post works this time :)

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and drink a bit - as I'm lonely and with nothing to do.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. An online partner/gf to initially chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her.

I have a few rules -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first & then have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

\*notabot

Trying again. Got the views but not the response - so clearly I wrote something wrong. Hopefully, this post works this time :)

I'm from Fairfield county, Connecticut.

58 M. 5'9". Silver hair and brown eyes. Slim. A sailor and an Indian. Married and separated. Trying to get my life back together. I do smoke (trying to quit) and drink a bit - as I'm lonely and with nothing to do.

Looking for a slim to fit lady. Initially just to romance and chat. Get to know. Share a laugh and flirt, looking into your eyes. An online partner/gf to chat and maybe sext with. Whose texts makes me smile and my heart starts thudding, who makes me go all out to satisfy her.

I have a few rules -

1. We talk openly with each other - for the better part or worse. It’s important to keep things level and on the same page.
2. We are prioritizing our need for pleasing and pleasure. There is no other point of this arrangement.
3. Closure: This is especially important! It sucks to have to wonder what happened to the other person. Did they ghost me? Did they just change their mind? We’re both adults and yes, it hurts.

I'm safe. I've a car. I dot my i's and cross my t's. Always polite and respectful. Your discretion is guaranteed. And, if you want to vent - you've an unconditional, guaranteed ear :)

To those from outside USA, I can travel if we vibe.

Been out of the game too long and trying to find a companion. Sex happens if it happens and we vibe. Let's be online partners first & then have sex for the pleasure of it, instead of chasing the orgasm.

*notabot